olanajim:

Adeboo,
read his original post again. That is what had happened.

OK MA BINU - I WAS JUMPING LIKE OYA.

Please answer me this - the guy i really like has been just the best since we met.
But he was supposed to meet with me yesterday, but i have had no word from him. He was supposed to come on the plane but i waited and waited but he didnt show.
Have rung his fone but it rings out, am outta ma mind with worry.

What do u think is going on - purely from a man's point of view.

morenike09:

LMSBO. . . so a man won't do anything for his Girl, like a rob a bank just to show he loves her? then that's not love jo

4Him:

a woman who loves you wont ask you to get her something she knows you can't afford.

He could get a loan though!
Just kidding, i understand what u mean sha.

I dont know what i'll do - definitely pray for divine intervention and then go straight to Doctor Abdullah.

Its really really hard o.
But seeing the way that i act around someone that i really like, i never say never.

Ok. This is quite an interesting thread.

How do u guys know who the one is?
Are there certain attributes u look for in a girl?

marzipan73:

LONELY CARIBBEAN WOMAN, 34 YEARS OLD LIVING IN ENGLAND SEEKING A LOVELY NIGERIAN MAN, PREFERRED PROFESSIONAL, DOCTOR ETC

Girl why are u here?
U know u wont find them here.
Try afrointroduction. com or something like that.

She only has certain parts that she could act - maybe the evil step mother, the mother that wants to sell her daughters for money etc.
She only has certain parts that she does well.

Hank Azuku or whatever his name is.

Every one of those girls except maybe Rita Dominic and Bimbo Akintola.

Why do guys sleep around?
Is one girl's 'gravel pit' 'sweeter' than the other? Thats what guys usually say.

tommyex:

yea u stuck
But frm what i get,some dude may do that when he is deperate 2 have a fling with his ex,u know its easy 2 get with your ex.Except d guy get bad memory

He better get bad memory - EWU.

tommyex:

Whats left of it ke?no talk that way oo,thats -ve,except i don't get u sha.
anyhow i realised its a very good thing to do sha,and lik you said don't stay far off fun/trips

What i mean is that when u have had someone in ur life for so long, they more of less take over ur life and u take over theirs too. Thats what i mean by 'what is left of it'.

tommyex:

what exactly do they forget?
that dey broke things up?or that there is no more dating?

lol

It happens - has happened.

O ma goodness, this is ma time to ask questions and now am stuck.

shakhan:

hey where r u now?

Is u talking to me?

Oga o - is this what will happen to the poster in the future?

Why do men break up with u and then pretend to forget when they call u up like four months down the line?

Noted.
Thanks.

morenike09:

you're so right about that


QUESTION:
What do men start considering as flirting. . . when you joke with a friend or when you when hugging him? because am confused o. . . can't joking with a man just mean you're befriending him?

i want tommysexy to answer this

Well, its just that men know when u are flirting sha.

tommyex:

Yep! d temptation is d word,and its even harder for guys believe me,but God dey sha

For sure o God dey.
But being single is hard sha but i suppose its good so that u can really have a birdseye view of ur life aqnd whats left of it.

tommyex:

Hey ADEBO
You have nice shining white teeth
cool^{off topic i guess}

Thanks - thats my Maclean smile.

Thanks for answering.

Arielle:

His sexy legs, long and shapely but masculine and very slightly bow Our kids have his legs, thank God!
He is extremely generous, not just to me but to everyone. I like the way he treats his friends - he is loyal and caring.
He makes love to me, so tender and gentle sometimes, it brings tears to my eyes. Other times he just holds me down and gives it to me hard!! LOL!!
He respects and adores me and sings my praises to anyone who cares to listen.
We started out together with very little and together we've made a lovely home. That makes us so much closer.
He is extremely handsome with a sexy walk and looks so hot in jeans.
I'd do anything for him and I know he'll always be there for me.
I married late (35) but I'm glad I waited because I got the best guy in the world.

At least there is hope out there that being on the waiting list will definitely result to something.
Thanks for sharing ur stories girls - i have just reminded God that i am due for some 'TLC'.

When should u start talking about marriage with a guy u really like and see urself being with?
Cause u know how u guys start being funny when the 'm' word is mentioned.

This is anew one o.
Why do u wanna mail people invites via the computer.

Maybe u could text them the invites via their fones.

Why dont u just get some fancy paper and print it from ur own printer?

You are so correct on that Tommy - when u dont think about it, it has a way of creeping up on you sha.
Avoiding the temptation is the biggie there.

Why dont men call when they are supposed to?
Just curious.

Hack into her phone?

Why dont u just sit down and ask urself why ur wife 'exchanges texts with other men'.

I just wanted to say, when it involves guys, best friends, family members etc - Nigerian men would usually run a mile or maybe sleep with u first and the run away.

I dont think the guy that wants to marry u is being genuine - thats just my thought though.

tommyex:

Ade
2 confess I am in that state now myself,
I think stayin close will make it difficult to beat the temptation if u know what i mean,My funny self actually put a date 2 how long i wana be single,but i guess i ll adjust d date soon,lol

Omo tell me about it, i know that story only too well.
The bad thing now is that i have trust issues.
I dont know sha, myself i just put maself out there cause u cant just stay single forever, well i suppose when u dont expect, love comes but the question is when will it?

No i dont think so.
There is a show here called 'Wife Swap' where they usually have the mothers of the household go to another household - they swap their lives, families etc.
The results are usually bad, nobody has wanted to remain in the families they go to.

So maybe the saying 'better the devil u know than the angle u dont' comes to play.

The thing is that am sure he said that cause he is just being truthful.
Alot of us neglect ourselves but cause of the stress of life we have started ageing prematurely.

Dont look at it from the angle that he doesnt care, he cares but has issues of how to put things.

Just do ur best to look good, exercise, sleep and eat well and drinl lots of water and eat loads of fruit - go for facials when u can.
Make sure u do cause when u look good, u feel good and ur whole outlook on life will change.