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Romance / Re: She Is Threatening To Make Life Miserable For Me by adeboo(f): 2:45pm On Mar 01, 2008
funkybaby:

How can you be in a serious relationship for close to one year and you never knew your man was cheating on you steady with another girl??

My dear, its means you are either too cool (you need to smarten up girl) or your man has serious polygamous tendencies.

Put yourself in the other girl's shoes, how would you feel? That your Nelson should be dealt with honestly. Its really wrong to play with and mess up people's emotions.

Anyway, i will advice you to think it through thoroughly before you say 'I do' to this man. A man like him after marriage can have another wife with kids at Zamfara state which you might not know of until you are over 50years old.


These points are real correct.
But just asit has been said, u know him better than anyone else and u need to realise that this is really his battle that should be sorted out.
Think about it, if u were the girl, what would u do?
She is just a woman scorned and she is just acting up - but pray hard that this doesnt end up in tragedy but seriously, ur man has done her wrong. Why waste her time for all those years and then come out and dump her.

But if i was in ur position, i would really question the reason why he wanted me (if he knows that he could get away with murder with me and couldnt do so with the other girl).

Good luck girl.
Food / Re: Do You Eat Your Vegetables? by adeboo(f): 2:32pm On Mar 01, 2008
I make a big effort to eat all ma veggies - especially lettuce, cucumber, carrots etc.
And ma fruits as well- in fact am eating a pear right now. grin
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And Romantic Tattoos! by adeboo(f): 7:17pm On Feb 29, 2008
I like tatoos but i hate needles.

I want the henna ones that last for like 5 years, i want one on ma ankle though like a flower or butterfly.
I like tatoos on men though i i dont like it too bogus.

I like the one Nicole Ritchie has on her ankle its a rosary.
Romance / Re: Which is better? by adeboo(f): 6:36pm On Feb 29, 2008
tunji4u:

Whiich is Better? To be lenient with Girls or be strict with them.

In what context are u referring to?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Just Moved In.need A Female Friend by adeboo(f): 10:41pm On Feb 28, 2008
ok.
Romance / Re: Condom Horror Stories by adeboo(f): 10:39pm On Feb 28, 2008
morenike09:

@adeboo
lol. . .eya. sorry o. . .but you're kind of funny cheesy cheesy

Omo e no funny o.
I nearly died o - i thought over and over again what would have happened. If i had an infection, if i would be able to piss omo e no funny o.

Even the guy kept calling me every minute because he was so worried.
Family / Re: Mothering Week Is Here Again: What Do You Have To Give Mama by adeboo(f): 10:25pm On Feb 28, 2008
Yes o.
Big ups to all the mothers worldwide.

I have asked ma daughter what am getting, even though she is only nine. grin
Family / Re: I Am A Single Parent And: by adeboo(f): 10:21pm On Feb 28, 2008
Girl, dont worry.
It may seem like the end of the world now, but trust me, it will get better.

I got pregnant at 18 - was still in school and working part time. My whole life was shattered (or so i thought). Girl, it was hard, ma baby was loved by me and ma family helped me out. Girl, it was hard dont let me fool you. We struggled together, i payed through ma nose or childcare, i went back to school and graduated with a degree in Accounting and HRM.

My daughter is now 9, 10 later this year, she is such a joy to ma world, i dont know what i would have done without her. She is such a lovely child, God has really used her to calm me down and am so greatful for her.

It was hard o but now by God's grace we are doing ok now - we have stuck in it and we are settling now.

Her father is really irresponsible and turns up when he wants - girl, u are gonna be ok. Make sure u keep God first, and do your best cause your daughter will ask u when she is older.

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Family / Re: Our New Baby Girl! by adeboo(f): 10:10pm On Feb 28, 2008
Congratulations girlie.
She is so lovely.

Maybe u'll let us on the site give her a name as well.

I hereby name her Atinuke - means she has been cared for in the stomach. grin
Romance / Re: Condom Horror Stories by adeboo(f): 9:59pm On Feb 28, 2008
Oh ma goodness.

It was so creepy.

Once during ma seasons of stupidity when i was easily enticed by the things of the world and nice looking guys. grin grin grin grin
This was like eight years ago.

I was having a nite of passion or was it a day? I cannot remember (was much younger then and foolisher then). Anyways, we were doing our thing and then when the deed was done, i said alright then and waited for him to dismount and remove his thingy.

When he pulled it out, the condom actually came and got stuck in ma vagina. embarassed embarassed cry cry
It was the scariest thing i have experienced (since labour sha). We tried to seriously pull out the condom , it didnt work.
I was so scared, i was scared of infections, scared of all sorts and the condom was actually in there for a while (two days). I was so scared, ma goodness. embarassed embarassed embarassed

Well, it eventually came out after a two days when i was doing a whizz in the toilet.

Scary stuff i say. shocked shocked
Romance / Re: He Needs To Grow Up by adeboo(f): 9:27pm On Feb 28, 2008
Well girl,
You should try and read this text yourself.
Girl, u sound like someone that likes and knows what she wants in life with regards to school, work etc.

He isnt really your type because like u have said, he soent feel he needs t work (Mummy and daddy are doin that for him). And if u happen to get married to him, u will be the only voice of reason in that hose - he will never be a serious person and he will drag u back as well.
He is a big baby and dont think about changing him - his ways are set in stone already.
Jokes Etc / Re: My Ex-Girl Friend (Picture) by adeboo(f): 9:15pm On Feb 28, 2008
Is u sure that she is a woman?
Religion / Re: Why Condoms Should Be Distributed In The Church by adeboo(f): 9:14pm On Feb 28, 2008
What i mean is that they would be preaching for the young ones or everyone to abstain and on the other hand, handing out condoms - thats what i mean.
Romance / Re: What Turns Men On? by adeboo(f): 8:43pm On Feb 28, 2008
tommyex:

Apart frm d sexy Glory and all

Mayb a cool sense of humour,You never get tired of that.
Cant marry a sexy stick wink

LOL. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin grin

Oga o.
Romance / Re: Do Men Hurt As Much As Women? by adeboo(f): 8:40pm On Feb 28, 2008
4Him:

I don't think thats a possibility where i'm concerned . . . if i lose the one i'm supposed to be with its probably because i never met her in the first place. When i see the one i know.
You don't need to show your emotions to keep a woman, infact its probably a red flag that you are emotionally weak and i doubt there are many women who want to be with a man who cries at the drop of a hat.

Well maybe not at the drop of a hat but when a man weeps (not a cry baby o), it really makes me see a different side to them. I dont mind ma man weeping in ma presence, that will just that it shows me he is emotional.
Romance / Re: I Am The Luckiest Man On Earth! by adeboo(f): 8:36pm On Feb 28, 2008
Oga o. shocked
Romance / Re: What Turns Men On? by adeboo(f): 8:33pm On Feb 28, 2008
4Him:

A girl who can carry a conversation . . . one with a good sense of humor who can enjoy a joke. Optimistic individual comfortable around people and who enjoys travelling as much as i do.

there's a lot more . . .



Yes thats me. grin grin

Oh no whats up with the stretch mark issue again?
Romance / Re: A Beg: Make U Xplain Am! by adeboo(f): 8:30pm On Feb 28, 2008
Maybe she means he should learn to love and let go.

I think.
Romance / Re: He Thinks Every Girl Wants Him For His Money by adeboo(f): 8:29pm On Feb 28, 2008
Well if u are gonna go into a man that is obviously self centered and arrogant then u are already on a loosing streak.

You are even lucky that u know he is an arrogant person now before u even enter the relationship - girl, i know say it dey sweet u o but take care sha.
Romance / Re: What Would U Do If Your Girlfriend Wants To Marry Your Father by adeboo(f): 8:24pm On Feb 28, 2008
What could u do?

If both of them are seeing themselves behind ur pal's back, then i dont think they can do anything about it.

Oga for those old men sha - they cant use the money to look after their own flesh and blood, they can spend it on girl.

If i was ur pal, i would conspire with ma pal (the young iyawo) and get money out of ma dad like that.
Religion / Re: Why Condoms Should Be Distributed In The Church by adeboo(f): 8:19pm On Feb 28, 2008
I dont think the Church would agree to that because its like they would be encouraging people young people to sleep around.

I dont think it would work because its like they would be preaching a double message. Even though its obvious that abstinence doesnt work, i dont think the Church would openly admit that.
Romance / Re: Help, I'm Suffering From Emotional Breakdown by adeboo(f): 8:13pm On Feb 28, 2008
Thats just part of life.
We love and we hurt.

You have no choice other than to get back on ur feet.
When we are heart broken, we always try to get replacements quickly (rebound) but that doesnt work because we arent emotionally ready. Someone said at least wait like 6 months after u have ended a relationship before going into another.

If she has gone away from u for a whole month, then maybe she is serious. Keep ur heard up, u wont die - u will just become stronger.
Family / Re: Why Do Husbands Cheat On Their Wives by adeboo(f): 9:09pm On Feb 27, 2008
uspry1:

some marriage is arranged, make unhappy couple.

some wife are frigid, lack of sex, or sex dysfunctional.

some wife nags caused hubby stressfully to cheat someone else
ifyalways:

@topic :
some of them were born as cheats.
some grew up in an enviroment where cheating is a norm.
some married the wrong person for the wrong reason.
some cheat because their wives cheat .
some cheat because the thing between their legs is a vector quantity ie no definite direction, grin
need i say more ? cheesy

These are so true.

Also because their wives have lost all interest and they stop looking after themselves, stop satisfying them in bed etc.
Family / Re: Marrying a Picture? by adeboo(f): 8:52pm On Feb 27, 2008
Like its been said, the one main reason could be that there are people who dont have their travel documents in place yet.
Nowadays, the countries where the couples are based sometimes require them to be married in their home countries.
Then there is a case of security - i know a few people that have opted out of getting married in Nigeria because of security and safety reasons.

Those are the reasons i know of.
Romance / Re: Best Toasting Lyrics That Would Melt A Girl's Heart by adeboo(f): 8:31pm On Feb 27, 2008
VICTOFX:

adeboo, girl you know wetin, me i no blame you because one man's food is another man's poison cool cool : but if i may say, i am very shocked

What?
Romance / Re: Pls Help It Is Urgent by adeboo(f): 8:26pm On Feb 27, 2008
tRoOE:

[size=12pt][font=Garamond]Can you imagine going to a restaurant with a stingy man, you can't even order from the menu especially when it's something you like to eat and he will tell the waitress to bring water since it's free rather than juice or soda. ahahah who wants a cheap man.

If am dating a guy, he should be able to take care of me, am not asking him to pay my bills or give me monthly allowance, all am asking he for him to treat me like his woman, or is that too much to ask.

Stingy guy can go, we don't want him cheesy cheesy cheesy

Girl, are we sisters?

You think just like moi.
We can take can of ourselves, we can treat him too when we want to etc.
Its just the comfort of being spoilt that matters.
Romance / Re: Am In Love With Two Ladies by adeboo(f): 8:18pm On Feb 27, 2008
Since u have agreed to marry the first girl that u know well.
Then the other girl is just a distraction, u just think u love her cause u see her at work all the time.
Travel / Re: Need A Place For Honeymoon by adeboo(f): 7:39pm On Feb 27, 2008
See if u were near me -i would have vacated ma house for una.

But if not maybe u should try maybe Aruba. grin
Romance / Re: Best Toasting Lyrics That Would Melt A Girl's Heart by adeboo(f): 7:37pm On Feb 27, 2008
How u doing? I really like u, i just wandered whether u could go out with me?

Nice and simple. grin

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