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pahtahkee:
It depends on the context in which such she said it. If she is a serious minded lady with good reasons sure, that aint fronting.

But a lady drinking fanta with you at the bar which you bought for her, and telling you she is not ready for a relationship with smiles is nothing but fronting.

But wat about all the indomines of another female that u have eaten - its the same thing na.

Egbami Aloib - whats the dealio?

Girl like i said, that pic is so last year, i have new hook ups o.

Halla me on Fcebook and see the koko of the matter.

Lol.

pahtahkee:
You are right. But often times, some women think a mans emotion can last that long. We are not created to dress emotions for long.

We let out our feelings for love. Women would want to ponder and think and front with it, until another woman capitalizes on it.

I understand what u mean - but what am saying is that why did he have to go for her best friend?
That just get as e be sha.

Why must u inconvenient urself because the girl is in her late 30s.

Nobody is forcing u to do jack - its ur choice.
Why must u have to make such a life changing decision cause she is getting older. Dont be fooled, u'll be surprised that the next time u see her, she'll be with someone else and maybe even pregnant.

Cause u aint with her dont mean that no one else will want her.

pahtahkee:
Who are the assholes

All a guy wants is a lady who is simply herself and understands the mood per time. Not one who fronts when she is nothing, and one who is arrogant for very stupid and flimsy reasons.

Thats true but as someone just said - why must u have to date her best friend.
Women have this unspoken rule between themselves - u just dont mess with ex's or people we like.

If i was a guy, it would be really hard for me to take on board.
I dont know if i would support an abortion but if we did decide to keep the baby, then its gonna be real hard cause that child would remind u of the wrong constantly.

But then what happens when the child is old enough and finds out he was a product of rape, then thats just another saga.

Oga o - i just dont know.

beamz:
Close to one year now after my last relationship wrecked I have come across several ladies that I cherished so very well but the problem is when I pour my heart feelings to them, they seem not to take me serious. Its such a piss-off to me and I am so lonely.
Please sisters what is the best way to make you folks understand and believe in a guy that fallls so deep in love.

Maybe its just that u are getting too boring and way too serious in ur approach.

But wait, which hear feeling are u pouring into them?
Ur past relationship or what u feel about them?

I dont get it.

tollu:
@ Ade Now when i say 'date' i don't mean the 'let's go somewhere kind of date'. I'm talking about the 'you're my man i'm your girl' kind, you guys have been on for quite sometime.
Don't you think not havin sex would be kind of tough?

@Gamine-Don't be embarrased for me and open those lips and support promiscuity, YAY!

Girl, i understand.
The fact is tat once am dating a guy and i sleep with him, i truly loose interest in him and i dont like that. Thats just how i am - so when i am dating, i usually keep intercourse at bay.

The thing that really hurts me is that there are people who have just taken this Christianity to another level.

I absolutely cannot stand the fact that a man would know that he couldnt get his 'dingaling' up and he would wanna marry someone. If it was a woman that couldnt give birth, he would leave her at the drop of a hat.

She cannot stay like that - she is already sinning in her heart cause am sure she longs after a man that could satisfy her. The bible says God doesnt like divorces but he loves divorcees.
We always say as Christians this and that but wouldnt u rather leave him, and marry someone that can actually satisfy you because when u are lusting, u have already sinned.

Am a Christian by the grace of God, however, there are issues that God allows for Paul that He wouldnt for Peter.
You are a child of God, He isnt that wicked to see u in distress and does nothing.
Address this issue with Him and i am certain that He would come through for u.

People can be so wicked - I am a Christian by His grace and i have suffered a divorce but how could i stay with a guy that married me after he was married to another in Nigeria?

No way and take note when u invite ur pastor into this; he will tell u that 'divorce isnt part of God's plan.

You know whats best for u so talk to God.

If God could allow Solomon who was born from controversy to be king of Isreal - his mother had an affair with the king - and he ended up on the throne - then He is a merciful God, let him have all ur worries and the solution will surface.

What?

Then if ur child is wowo - then, its a combination of the father and mother - then they definitely are ugly too.

But i have seen some not so cute babies actually grow to be very beautiful kids.

When ma daughter was born, she had dry skin, her hair fell out etc - but i didnt let her go, i stayed on top of that hair situation, got prescribed a cream that worked wonders for her skin - now she is just a little version of moi.

tollu:
Then what is the whole point of dating different guys if you wouldnt be screwing and getting screwed?

Why should u have to have to screw different guys though cause you are dating them?
Thats just me, maybe am old fashioned but thats how i see things.
When u are prone to date different guys, maybe even a couple in say a month - why would u wanna sleep with them all?

Like i said, am old fashioned thats how i see things.

Lol.

I dont know about the guy personally, but the whole concept is good - someone who helps me around the home is very much appreciated.

After reading the whole saga - u remind me of me, i always have somewhat a bit of drama happening in ma life.

After reading all these sha, all i know is that u have a soft spot for Tammy. he is the only one u spoke about real passionately.
But girl, u know what u want. U know them individually and u should just assess them one after the other, u needs to pray girl and whichever one u have peace with, then u need to be with.

I feel when u are dating different guys, u shouldnt really involve any kinda intercourse (sexual) cause ur judgement will get clouded.

You really needs to sit down and think about what u really hold precious.

Its gonna be hard - u both had been 'sin partners' its not that easy to just switch like that - its only by God's grace.

Just talk about this issue with God - u dont have to shout and pray, just talk to Him like u would talk to ur Father at home and u will be surprised the way she would leave u alone.

And make sure u are consistent, dont give in to her advances otherwise she wouldnt take u serious at all.

Omo dont give in o - cause now that u know the truth, there is no going back. Flee like ur life depends on it.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=106691.msg1968272#msg1968272 date=1203340290]I don't understand why ladies seem to loose some of their self esteem when they go into relationship. Look let the guy alone remember he is the one chasing u. You can call him once awhile to see how he is doing so that he knows u still care but don't go calling him n whining on the phone like a lost puppy dog! You can also inform his family wats goin on since he has informed them so that if anytin happens they don't blame u.

Girl u got to be strong. A man who really loves u can't bare to b apart from u too long he will seek u out but u need to create that a air of mystery a little.[/quote]My guy God bless u.
Thats just it - we say stuff like 'he is my existence' only GOD should take that place.
Why must we loose our identity - we do that a lot.
I absolutely am desperately loving ma man, but come on now - lets leave a bit of space for the human element.

Well, if he says he isnt ready - then maybe he isnt otherwise he wont say so.
Maybe he isnt ready to give up his single life.

Girl, its hard but what can u do?
Do u want ur life to be at a stand still while he continues with his?

Let him be, u invested two years into this - gave him ur body and cooked his food - gave him emotional support etc.

Leave him, when he realises his mistake, (because he could) he would come back but at least then u have had the time to think about what u wanted to do and if he was actually the rite person for u.

Girl, how do u even know that its even a good thing ordained by the Almighty that u should give each other some space.

Abeg leave him be jare - its gonna be hard but omo, this is ur life too.

Thats why i say, when u are dating a guy, aqt least withhold something - dont give up everything so u give him something to look forward to.

Its possible she could have white hair 'down under'.

There are people who have grey hair from an early age.

Busta:
lol

u better don't under estimate Nairaland oh

[quote author=®~^Sly^~® link=topic=114690.msg1986473#msg1986473 date=1203710470]

una don turn the thread to hook up. . . . . . na wah oo

agbaya plenty for here ooo. . .make una no go read una book

na hook up una dey hook up. . . .hook up ko hook down ni. . . . .long hiss. . . .

[/quote]No worry na - if u wan hook up, na wetin u go say be that.
There is plenty of moi to go round - no worry na.

holythug:
tinkin of goin for IVF , will make u pregnant
don't bother come directly to me @
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V/I
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Oma goodness!

doyin13:
all these claims and counter claims. . . . .

jus show yaself make we judge. e no pass that one

Lol.

@Doyin, u look like a pally of mine called Kayode (thats if thats ur foto sha).
sent the mail though.

Pervet - u crack me up!

tollu:
His email address is on his profile, make una hook up for there.

Real hot but i'm still keeping my clothes on.

Thank u.

@Doyin.
u aint even seen nothing yet - that picture is so last year - hook me up, i go forward u ma recent ones - omo na real beauties.

Tiger
Chastity
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4 Play:
E be like say this Adeboo na one of Nairaland's asylum inmates.

Welcome my sister,we never see your "work" for Nairaland,na why I think say you dey compos mentis.

I just dey mele small cause i never see reason to let out the dragon - no worry, u go soon here.

Egba mi !
Which one be this?

The guy doent even have a waist.

And where exactly is the 6 pack?
All i see is one pack at the most.

But the issue is that we dont know what happened between Tinuke and ur friend.

debosky:
hehehe

doyin don dey attract brown skinned men now oh

adeboo abeg leave these mad people and their wahala unless you wan kolo like them

Kolo khe?
I rebuke it in Jesus name. Am hyper enough as it is i dont need any more koloness.

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4 Play:
You see any sane person for here? You dey craze? Why una 2 sane folks,Debosky and Adeboo, want come join us for our asylum?abeg,comot here!

You have definitely lost me now.

His name.

doyin13:
Debosky and Adeboo(I smell a connection)

Anywayyyyyy- - - - - - - -una be spoilsport ooo

You are trying to bring sanity to an asylum. . . . What is the sense in that

Connection in what way? I dont follow.