Him - you know you are my 'ele' - there is never a dull moment with u.

Ferrari
Porsche
Tigerlily
Jack Daniel
Willow
Confidence
Constance
Jacinta


There are so much more, i will post more/

If not a baby then she can give him a stable and peaceful home to come to.

She can put him on a pedalstool and make him feel like a prince whenever they are together - or maybe even peace of mind.

tkb417:

Wetin

I think there are some people that are light skinned that are pretty but not all of them. Say someone like Mona Lisa Chinda (the nollywood actress) isnt pretty but she is light skinned.

The reason men like light skinned women is that they are very attractive initially when u see them - they stand out from the crowd.

The first time, i think its just instincts and then after that, its basically experience and the fact that when we are with someone more experienced, they just kinda show me.

Bit if u think she is pregnant- what will u do?
If she is, she is and then u both decide on what u needs to do.

But why is she calling u with a withheld number?

And which Valentine's day?
And she is getting some pregnancy symptoms already?

Why are u even sleeping with her with no protection? See ur four corner head?

Thats what u think.
Some people are ugly on the outside and on the inside.

Sack her?
Oga o i didnt know dating someone was a job now o.

Well kissing does come naturally,
but when it comes to the extras like tongue kissing etc - well, u need some training and skills for that cause u gotta do it well otherwise its just nasty.

Maybe u should just strike up a conversation with her - say something that will make her take notice - compliment her or something. nothing too cheesy though.

I think what she is doing is that she is leaving her options open.
She wants to find out if 'the grass is greener on the other side'.
Dont loose hope though, u just keep doing what u are doing (just be urself) when she is done 'investigating' she will come back home with her tail between her legs.

But just make sure that u are treating her well.

Well, its the mentality that most girls have that when their man isnt able to provide for their needs when they want, then that shows he doesnt love them.
But thats just a wrong idea to have.

@Poster, u even did ur best to get her what u did, so there is no need beating urself up about anything. But this is just the one case that u are talking about - u know her the best, if u sit down u could decide whether its a reaction that could have come from external pressures e.g her other friends talking about what their 'men' do for them.

Nope i dont think i would.
The reason being that most of the nija guys we have are really funny about that - say for instance after u had 'toasted' the guy and u start dating, and something goes wrong - the guy could say 'and its not me that wanted to date u o, it ws u that begged me'.

I think its all depending on the age of the woman.
When i was younger, i was very interested in the excitement and i wasnt looking to settle down so i didnt really care.

But now that i am older and i wanna settle down, i do really mind who i date.
I wanna leave all that madness behind and settle for the good one.

Oga ju.
Why dont u try dating sites?

@Poster, how much is ur budget?

tkb417:

why not pick one of them and chase the others away. . .

u berra choose one before the wrinkles start showing.

True. Especially when u find the rite one, make sure u hold on to him and not let ur pretty self get in the way.

ifyalways:

lol
@]adeboo,you too much girl

If u dont celebrate urself Ifyalways, who will?

sylvao2000:

@adeboo and @waleab

l must say thanks alot guys you got the day done am so happy and laughing here like a 2yrs old baby,

once again thanks and God bless

You so welcome darl, thats what we are here for.

Fathers are the most important people in the world.
They are the role models, the priests and kings of the home.

They are the mirrors that the children are looking at - girls especially need their fathers to teach them that they are the best people in the world, that they dont have to be mistreated by any man.
They should assert themselves.

They are also figures of authority that the child just learns to follow - dont know what else to say but i feel bad for kids that dont have a father figure.

opokonwa:

Or perhaps you are still raw gold they are yet to explore

But seriously, ladies who stand their ground on an issue as sensitive as sex are usually well repected by guys

Thats so true - stand ur ground without wavering.

But if they go cause u wont give them sex, then let them keep stepping - on the other hand, they have obviously seen that they cant live without you and want u back.

But if u wanna give her a ring then do so - but if not, then dont.

You arent being forced to do anything, its by ur free will now.

opuro:

give her what?
you don't need to give her nothing
by the time she collect from her
friend,
just friend,
neighbour,
cousin brother,
fathers friend, etc
she will have more than enough

Egbami o - Opuro don kill my enemy o.

Oga o thats what Valentine is about o, collecting!

sylvao2000:

@adeboo

I digg your style, you sound like a happy woman jst like my happy sisters and mama keep it up and more blessing to your generation,

infact let me pray for you

You will find a fine husband like me AMEN.

You are so crazy.
Well half amen to that sha - of course i will find fine husband (amen to that) but as for a husband like you? Tufiaka! No be me and u.

Make sure u are where u wanna be.
Make sure u are sound mentally, have the self esteem and u are cool with urself.

Go out, make friends etc - have hobbies.

Make sure u are clean, take care of urself, look good, smell good etc

The before all that u need to seriously commit it into the hand of the One that can direct everything

Give her ur love - or better still gift vouchers at a good store.

opuro:

bros plz what do you read in the university?
this your oyinbo
you pass through university abi university pass through you?

Haba his english no bad like that now.

Anyways @ Poster, do not go cause she only has one thing on her mind and she will get u in trouble o for another man's state.
She may wanna use this for closure but i dont feel u should go and u need to tell her to stop calling u.

@adeboo

Am so sorry ok, wasnt with my medicated glasses then but have it on now , oh girl you too much see beauty, were you see am buy abi na saturday them born you? Grin Grin

No now na Bank Holiday Sunday, after God finish me hen, he just rest for the whole Bnak Holiday Monday because he was just tired - na master piece him make now.

opuro:

the beautiful ones are not yet born

won pe ni sisi sisi
won npe e ni sisi inu e ndun
o mo omo ibadan
won a so e di apere ajase

Egabmi!

@Poster, the thing is that u needs to be careful cause these guys will call u all sorts so that u can let ur guard down - just know what u want in a man, maybe even write it down.
Then maybe just eliminate the ones that don't fit and then make ur choice - make sure u dont sleep with any of them cause that will cloud ur judgment.

And dont forget to pray sha.