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tRoOE:

Oh shut your trap, and I see you are trying to sound intelligent even though all the vocabularies you used are not necessary neither does it goes with sentence structure.
And quit generalizing


@posters
Abeg dump him jare, gosh I can't stand stingy people in general, people like him are those that can't eat healthy because they don't want to spend

Very very true.
Nobody isnt saying that we dont spend on our men.
But as Nija women, i have been brought up to expect certain things from ma man am not by any chance saying that i dont spend on him o but i have been spoilt by my Nija men and thats just how it is.

Stingy men - are a no go area o.

When i plan ma wedding - its a celebration for us and no one else.

If i dont wanna change ma clothes etc - i will make sure its a day we enjoy and thats all that matters.

Maybe its because the are proud of their bodies.

Girl, i don't know how to say this but all i know is that a stingy man is very hard o.

I have dated one and its never a pretty picture - just know what you are going into.

Just imagine moi, when i came to Nija, i asked him for some feeding money and he gave me 200 naira!
Egami - what is that for?

Oga o.
All i can say is that thats what happened when Ross and Rachel from 'Friends' 'were taking a break'. There was too much stress around it - if she aint saying she is breaking up. Then u need to know what exactly she wants.

For ur sake and hers - cause u need to know about boundaries etc - like what u could do when u are on the break, if u are still able to see other people etc.

Am sorry about that cause am sure its not the easiest thing in the world to deal with.

I think what he is trying to do is push u away so that u will probably leave him and go with someone else.
All u can do now is just be there for him - make him know that u are there for him and just pray for him too. He also needs to realise that u didnt make those kids on ur own, and he just needs to suck up what he is going through now for them.

I think both of u should sit down, view ur budget reasonably, and then see how much u are willing to spend.

Weddings are getting more and more expensive these days. Now that i have been told that the bride's family is responsible to pay for the ceremony - i have kinda spoken to maself regarding the wedding issue and how much am willing to spend.

When he is ready and he knows he is ready.

Its true sha how she even got her bill settled.

My guy has done something like this before but he didnt pay for their food- they had to pay the restaurant.

babygirlfl:
He cheated but is too proud to apologize. He accepts he is wrong and just said its a mistake. Left for good despite the love i had for him. Think is a good idea or not?

Yes its a good idea that he left - it doesnt matter if he apologizes, he has done u wrong and he isnt even remorseful.
Then why would u wanna be with him. Its gonna be hard but girl, hang in there.

It basically means that she has something to hide.

You NEVER refer to ur mother in law by her first name call her mama or mummy.

Make sure u greet her in the mornings on ur knees - cause thats how we do it.

When she is doing any kinda house work etc - offer to do it.

Its gonna be real hot but try as much as possible not to expose ur skin by wearing skimpy clothes (save that for the bedroom).

Be respectful - make sure u try and cook for ur husband, clear and wash his plates etc.


Its gonna be hard cause u may think its slave labour but girl bear with it - its only till after the trip sha.

eyebeekay:
Chineke!!!, dese people have turned me to story-teller

Dont worry girl, u arent a story teller - u are just a story giver.

Just make sure u keep us updated even if its two pages long.

Ehn but what has this post got to do with anything.

Oga o.

ok.

oyb:
all these gals talking,

if a nigerian man places them on a pedestal, they will take the opportunity to piss on him.

nigerian women are just as guilty as nigerian men. so many of them associate being romantic with being 'ode' , 'not being sharp'

abegi. . .make we hear word.

i know of virtually no nigerian chick who will appreciate flowers - na that one i go chop? is what they will say - then turn round and accuse nigerian men of not being romantic. what the hell, the nigerian gals idea of romance is shopping sprees and outing to mr biggs( no be so them dey show 4 africa magic?

Thats not true - of a Nigerian man i s being considerate and helps out with stuff, then why should i take the piss.
I would appreciate everything he does for me.

With regards to flowers - i am not a flower person so am sure there are other ways of being romantic.

If u live a well fulfilled young life - then getting old will not be an issue.

NaJa HaJe:
and will receive a very goooood reward after wards

TESTIFY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

pahtahkee:
Tell me which guy wey hin own no dey hin body?

I don retire. Make I go prepare my stew for the week jare.

Its ok sha God will deliver u from the 'baba ndagbe' spirit.

pahtahkee:
Me I no understand wetin you dey talk oh.

While indomines maybe the same, however each has it own taste. There are onion idomines, chicken indomines and all sorts.

Your own dey your body.

But if u know this and u are asking what to do baffles me.

U should just leave her asap before she succeeds in maybe even killin u gan.

The issue here is that u really need to lower ur intelligence standard otherwise u are gonna be single for a long time.

The kinda women u are looking for are women that are like real high flyers and very successful which they will never listen to any man.
Thats why u are gonna keep searching - there are intelligent level headed girls out there but u wont see them cause u are blinded by too much intelligence.

tRoOE:
This is what happens when women wait still their late twenties and early thirty before thinking about settling down or planning to have a baby.

But sometimes its not her fault now that she is still single at that age - different issues affect us in life now.

Abi o.
Thank u ma sister God will bless u.

Thats so true - seen a man that just walked on ahead as his wife carried the baby, car seat and baby bag.

He just cruised on ahead.
But if it was oyinbo that they married - dem no born am well - he must carry everything, even her gan if its possible.