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Anonimi, God will bless you beyond your wildest imagination.
The fact of the matter is that we should be careful.
We (born again Christians) especially like to take things outta context - in the passage where the 'touch not my anointed' was quoted, some preachers have seriously taken things outta place.

God was speaking about the whole nation of Israel and not just the priests, He meant all His chosen children.
There are some Ministers that just blindly act bad but however use the 'touch not my anointed' to cover all their badness.

Like its been rightly said, we need to read the Bible and not just take out passages when it suits us.

The fact of the matter is that we need to be watchful spiritually, we also need to use our common sense in this issue - you have every right as a child of God to question (not rudely) but question the things that appear blurry to you. The fact is that if we act ignorant and when we stand for judgment, God will not accept ignorance because He has given us the ability to question.

Whether Pastor Chris did whet he did or not - like its been said, thats for Jehovah alone to uncover them but He is doint is clearly however so that you wont have become a casualty of foolishness. All am saying is that we needs to shine we eyes thats all.

The fact is that the problem with Christians and the fact tat there are so much divorces in the Christiandom is high.
We like to fool ourselves - the fact of the matter is that if we are married - our bodies are each others. That means is ur partner (husband / wife) wants MouthAction then they should get it.

Personally, when am dating, thats one the things i usually ask, if they say they dont give but they love to receive, then they are really wasting their times.

I definitely would.
When i married the first time - i went in their with all ma heart and soul until i discovered that the guy already had a wife in Nija. The family actually told me that and when he moved to Nija, i know that he moved back there with her.

I am still a young lady nearly 30 and i have a child, i would love to have more kids and would love to be loved again.

I was real broken up and shook up by the experience cause it shook me to the core and i needed to really think hard.
The fact is that i now believe that there are relationships and marriages that God actually didn't join together and we try to keep it together.

I am definitely gonna remarry and have more kids by the Grace of God.

Oga o Cuteass - where is that ur man from?
Is he Nija? Cuase all this is kinda alot o.
Its all good sha when u have someone like that u truly love.

The fact is that like its said we are more selfish - and am so sorry God for saying this, the church itself adds to the wahala at hand. Lots of people are confused, they dont know what they are getting themselves into - its just heartbreaking.

People have their minds set - omo its just bad and people just dont get it

almondjoy:
Like I have stated in the past. . . marriage is not for every body. If I happened to be single. . . and happy. . .I would consider it a blessing than to be married and unhappy.

Many people have no business getting married because they do not even love and respect themselves not to talk of getting involved with another for a life time.

I would rather be a Goldie Hawn with a darling Kurt Russel (25 years) or a Susan Sarandon with an adorable Tim Robbins for (20 years) and counting. . . .than be a Whitney Houston living in bondage with Bobby Brown!

Both Goldie Hawn and Susan Sarandon were married before and never would contemplate such a madness. . .Like them I believe it is a journey you only take once in a life time. I believe in solid companionship marked with mutual love, respect, honor and consideration. Not a bloody paper sham!

Very true

What she needs to do is really weigh her option.
Go back to the man she has a child for or staying with the new guy -that has brought nothing but joy and peace to her.

If anybody deceives her by saying 'the devil u know is better than the saint u dont', thats just pure rubbish.
what she needs to do is really prayerfully weigh her options but the one fact is that God will never want u to enter a relationship where u will be battered - so she really needs to sit down and try and sort a way where she can get her kids back.

Love is something we have to experience once in our lives at least.
I am not one to love easily - cause when i date, withing three months - am truly bored with the relationship.

But i discovered that as i got more mature, like someone rightly said in the post, there are factors that contribute to the falling in love process. Factors like understanding each other.

I can truly say am in a loving relationship and its been over three months and i love him to bits.

Am sure there will be good parts and bad parts too.

The thing is that if he has a habit now that u dont like, think twice before u wanna commit anything to him.
Before the love even starts creeping in - decide if the smoking is what u can live with, otherwise girl think hard.
When u are in love and have to compete with a habit, omo u will loose every time o.

If its truly what u want, ask God to interceed.

I know that in ma hay days, i used to ask credit from people that i wasnt really serious with - just to get rid of them and because i got away with it.

Well is there no way of contacting him and finding out what the problem was.
If for nothing else to give u closure and to help u have a better relationship with the next guy u meet (thats if there was a problem with u).

A romantic person is one that takes the matters of the heart to another level.
They always look for ways to make their affection and heart known to their loved one.

Oga ju.
The God who did urs will do ours too o.

Who is the person gan - we want names.
Better still keep it to urself cause there are some haters in this place o that hate when u are happy.

All i can say is that true love always finds a way to reconnect.

I truly have to be in love with that person and we have to have some serious level of commitment.

Dream girl for sure now.

My first was quite good.
He was very young and very very good.

Thank God he was cause the next guy was so crappy - he had so much teeth in his mouth that he gave me bruises.

Kudus to that first boy o - what was that his name again? I don forget sha.

opokonwa:
Because every lady wants to hook up with a successful man.
The same way that most guys would prefer a pretty lady.

Thats true.
But if ma guy started being successful then why am i being possessive?
I am happy for him.

I would have said - 'I finally decided to accept ur backside into ma life too'. end of.
After being with him four years, what more do u want?

At least he asked - some men just assume that u are married. lol

funkybaby:
Ignore what someone said that he will turn you into his sex machine.

How many ladies actually lost their virginity to the man who gave them the spare keys to his apartment? Huh?

True talk.
At least u know that he has some level of trust in u - and u can only be a house girl if u want to.

What do u do when the oil of romance runs out in the bedroom?

No one - i'll be going with him.

My mother i just hilarious - she is just so funny.
She comes up with all this english i have never heard before.

Ma sisters are just hilarious too.

I dont think splitting it 50 - 50 is the tight thing to do.
I think if the wife can, then she can support her man with regards to bills etc.

Lol.

But at least she is married now abi?

If u love her, u better do.

Cause she has brains doesnt mean she wont make a good wife.

Well there are some i know from ma waka about online.

There is one that i see nearly all the time - she cracks me up.

And there is that special one that just blows me away every time i speak with him.

Well maybe he should just do what he feels is rite.
Seeing that he knows her and knows what she could do.

Rite after coming back from Egypt, maybe she has seen that life with this other dude isnt all that and she wants to come back.

Obviously, Fred should just take her back if he wants, but make sure she has done some tests .g pregnancy, and other diseases etc.

Its totally up to Fred sha.