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[quote author=Toktee post=120411281]Born and raised by parents that sees education as total waste of time.
From primary to secondary school no one was there for me but God.
I dropped out of secondary school six times because of money.
I also dropped out of college of education once, but later graduate.

If an orphan like me can do it, you can do it.
Never give up on your dreams. Congrats]

[quote author=ahnie post=118309054]Yesterday I visited the mall to get toiletries, snacks and beverages for my gangs
It was an impromptu buying. I was actually dodging from buying it, but my gangs just wouldn't let me.

We got all we wanted, ate and arrived home with our loots.

I was trying to fit all we bought inside the kitchen, when I heard the voice of a neighbor, like she stays 2 compound away from mine.

She's a widow who recently lost her husband to the cold hands of death this year (June) precisely and saddled with the lone responsibility of taking care of her 3 lil boys
She came to buy fufu (akpu) for her sons to eat.

I don't know what prompted me, I invited her inside my pavement, then slashed my loots into 3 places then gave her 1 part including a crate of egg idling away.

She started crying ,father lawd I was confused the more, you needed to see the joys in her face.

I knew my kids needed those things badly, but here was a woman who needed it more than us.

I have planned gifting her 2 paints of rice during Xmas period to put smiles on her face. May God make things easier for every one of us.

The economy is hard at the moment, but let's try and help one another. People are going thru alot, it takes the grace of God for some people to even afford 1 square meal.

Hers was pics 1.
Pics 3&4 for my gangs


Pics 2.....my boy refused sharing his and he held on to his loot
[God bless you bro]

Centurion101:
I write this story to encourage people to always help if they are in a position to do so, especially is the situation is dire. What goes around comes around and you might just find yourself in a situation where you Will need help from strangers and hope they help you too.

Days ago I was in my neighborhood in South West running some errands at around 9pm on Sunday when I found myself in a very busy road packed to the brim end to end with cars stuck in a hold up trying to beat the jam to get to Thier respective destinations.

I turned the ignition off since I've already spent like 20minutes without moving an inch, a few seconds later I heard a loud bang it was a speeding bike who wanted to use it's small size to it's advantage to beat the traffic, upon close inspection I realized the bike has Just hit a guy with full force and ran away.

Consequently people came out to check on the guy that was hit,he was unconscious bleeding from the back of his head and face, unfortunately the bike's force banged him right into a very big cement structure that would probably weigh a couple of tons.

Nigerians being Nigerians started praying and speaking in tongues instead of administering aid to the guy, nobody was willing to touch him,there were just shouting and saying he is probably dead and they don't want police to charge them with his death.

At this point I tried to control the crowd to disperse and at least give this guy room to breathe and get some fresh air hoping that might resuscitate him,but there were like 50people gathering there and there is only so much a single person can do.

So realizing no one was willing to help this guy I fought my way through them ruggedly to get to the guy I realized he has a broken leg and arm and he was bleeding heavily but he has a pulse and he is not dead,
I don't know what I was thinking or what power came over me but the fact that he is alive made a difference to me and I said to myself I will take him to the hospital even if I have to carry him on my back and trek there.
I asked a man to help me Carry him, he asked do I know the victim and I answered yes,he is my junior brother.

so they helped me lift him up and I carried him on my back and began to speed, now the next thing was how to get transportation,we are in a hold up and no car is moving, by this point the crowds has dispersed and left me alone to tend to my PROBLEM.

I locked my car , sat the guy close to the side of the road ,I tried to find something that could apply pressure to reduce the bleeding,then it dawned on me that a cloth will do just fine,so I removed my shirt and tied it around his leg where he was bleeding the most.

Like I said earlier the task at hand was how to get transportation to the closest hospital, I began flagging down bikes but none of them stopped out of fear until I literarily ran in front of one forcing him to stop and told him to take me to the next hospital,I was about to start begging him to not let this guy die because of fear when this guy got down from his bike offering to help lift him so we can take him to the hospital,I don't know if it's God that sent him or it was just pure luck but he helped and we put the victim in the middle and started our journey to the hospital.

On the way I checked the guy's pulse and breathing like every second, telling him he's going to live one way or the other because my work will not be in vain. As God will have it he opened his eyes but he was still incoherent and totally out of it ,but at least now his eyes is opened and he is not laying down like a dead man,that kind of gave me an atom of hope.

Moments later we arrived at a private hospital and they were just about to close, apparently they had some issues with the workers that were supposed to cover a night shift, infact there was only one doctor on call and a few nurses around so it was all hands on deck, the victim was stretched in and as per private hospital wahala they demanded card and treatment fee up front, I even begged them to at least priorities the guy's life first but they said no money no treatment,so I paid for card, admission fee and treatment, it was 33,000 naira

After payment the doctor came in with the nurses and started working Thier magic, giving him some injections , cleaning his wounds,they even plugged him up with something that aided his breathing (I don't know what the thing is called).

After a couple of hours around 11:30pm the doctors came out and told me he was stable,that he had some internal bleedings that has Been stopped and he is responding fine to the treatment,they said I can go and see him if I wanted.

I went into the ward and checked up on him,he was heavily medicated and he couldn't really say anything that makes sense,he was just fixated on my face, strolling in and out of consciousness.

I slept in the hospital and the following morning around 8am he was awake and fine ,so I went to see him and when he saw me,he just started crying uncontrollably saying THANK YOU like a hundred times without stopping, this kind of made me a bit emotional because I've not really seen a lot of grown men cry.
He gave me his phone and I contacted his family members and told them what Happened, his mother almost passed out on the call, some minutes later they all rushed into the hospital. I peeked at them through the glass window when they went to his ward,the relief and joy in Thier faces is one of the most beautiful things I've seen in my life.

I left my number with the nurses there and told them to give to the guy when he is discharged and I made my way down to fetch my car, hoping and praying fervently that the car is still there and that was it.

That 33k was the best thing I've paid for in all my life and what happened just gave me joy and relief anytime I think about it.

The guy and his parents calls me like a billion times a day,they even offered to pay me back but I refused, collecting the money back is not worth the joy I got from doing what I did.

God bless you bro

[quote author=doggedfighter post=117855128]There are ways around it now.


Someone suggested I VF already.

I think you can check the foetus and abort if it's SS too. That's another option too.

Meet a doctor specialised in this. He will give you options.

Don't dump each other yet.


Explore all and every available options .

There are solutions to these things now.


Remember not to reply little brats here that knows nothing about life (Quote)






The solution from the IVF is not as simple and straight forward as you might have imagined.
Success rate of IVF is slightly above 30%, talk less of spermatozoa gene selection for sickle cell trait.
My bro the simple general rule is if you're not AA, try and marry someone that's AA to avoid bad stories in future.
The crises those children goes through during their life time is better imagine

[quote author=Fira09 post=117260662]Watch the video below:
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SOURCEMay Allah Grant Him and the others Aljanah Firdausi

Karen2024:
She should be allowed to rape him back

this not a jocking matter my bro.

[quote author=wwwkaycom post=116893838]Your decision is not only bad but wicked. Where were you when such a ferociously poor guy was shacking your daughter?
I can imagine what your daughter is going through in the hand of a family that lacks the financial wherewithal to take care of basic medicare. I can conveniently refer to you as wicked for releasing your daughter to that kind of family. Are you sure she is feeding well? She made a mistake right, but you made an even greater one by throwing her out to be devoured by that verocious thing you called her boyfriend. Someone who can't afford basic medicare! E wicked Sir. Go and get the girl and her little daughter out of that dungeon before that poor boyfriend impregnate her again. I don't think you understand the psychology of such ferociously poor guys, they live and swim in poverty, do nothing about their live and hope a miracle will happen one day and they'll eventually get out of their miseries. Deliver your daughter and her little girl now. The truth has been told.
God bless you.

Informative.
Thanks

ArchiLimited:
Just hope she doesn't play Cameroon national team. After those their male looking defenders handle her, all the beautiful and sexiest will be gone then she can relax

you're funny, go dey act skit with bro shaggy.
On a more serious note you're absolutely right

May Allah Grant him Aljanah firdausi (Ameen)

I admired your courage.
Proud of you
Congrats

The5DME:
Wherever islam goes, trouble follows. Well I'm not surprised; they take after their pedophile leader mahomet.

Islam=violence
I just pity the innocent Afghan women who'll be at the forefront of this whole tragedy.

if this is the only logical thing you can come up with at your age dont you think you're also a tragedy and disaster to your family

Fahdiga:
All thanks to Islam. Pls who can lecture me on any usefulness of this religion

Please how many times have you or your family been physically attacked by any Muslim in South western Nigeria here ?.
Just asking.

KingOdart:
www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/nigerian-student-emerges-world-brightest-student

Congrats Fareedah

LikeAking:
4000 Nigerian to a doc is a good figure, no be every day people dey sick.

Most of the people going ti the hospitals daily are mostly old. The number of people going to the hospitals daily and the number of doctors in the country are the figures we need first. All these baseless claims are totally unwelcomed in this era.

Nigeria hsa excess of every thing the problem his utilization.

you're too ignorant to understand what's really on ground.

Yobabad:
As far as local Yoruba Muslims Miscreants are concern this is not a problem in Nigeria, their only problem is the good people of ipob,

and this the only sensible comment you can make on this issue on ground ?.

HeWrites:
Ziggima singer Bright Chimezie on Wednesday took to social media to announce his son Chukwudi Chimezie had been called to the Nigerian bar, Igbere TV reports.

The ‘Because of English’ singer’s son will be inducted on July 29 at Eagles Square, Abuja, according to Bright.

The excited father wrote in a Facebook post,

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=401566414662942&id=100044287606605

Bright’s album Respect Africa brought him to limelight as he used his songs to beam the light on societal problems.

Many of his fans fell in love with the 60-year-old’s dance steps.

Congrats barrister

envoymedia:
Esther Chukwuemeka, a young girl who completed her secondary education at the age of 13, got denied of her university admission by ABSU because she was underaged, has now been called to the Nigerian Bar, IgbereTV has learnt.

After she was denied university admission into ABSU, her father picked up the challenge and sent her to India to study law, she graduated in flying colours,then came back to Nigeria and studied everything about Nigerian law under one year, took her law school exams and came out successful.

IgbereTV learnt that she is currently 19 years old.

Emmanuel Almand Paragon Mbong wrote on Facebook;


https://www.facebook.com/100009354450387/posts/3010534445935008/?app=fbl

Congrats dear

sarrki:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4146121492161941&id=612237468883712

congrats for the narrow escape

Nonexisting1:
Did he tell you he was a Christian? You said if she is not committed to the marriage, he should work things out. How? Does that statement make sense to you? You expect him to remain married to a vile woman and when he dies in it, you will turn around and call him a fool. You people should stop asslicking the women folks here, the highest thing they can give una is puna which one can easily order online nowadays.

abeg no kill us with Lafta

aboyaji:
Hello Nairalanders!

I'd like to write on the surprise birthday I got from the people (my girlfriend and her sister) that love me dearly.


On the 2nd of July, I got a call from my engineer friend who lives in my former place of residence. He had informed me in the morning of a real estate deal ( I am into real estate too). He stressed that he visited my new place the penultimate day which was on the first of July and he'd like me to come over to his place in the evening for more information. I replied in the affirmative and dropped the call.

Fast forward to the evening, I came back then dropped off at a friend's shop who sells footwears by 4 through 6pm. Shortly after, my girlfriend and her sister strolled passed the vicinity where I was. They told me they were on their way home to prepare rice and that this time there's little funds and high cost of food stuffs in the market that the rice would be a red oil rice and they were inviting me over for a RED OIL RICE BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION in their home. I smiled and bade them bye.

That was when I remembered my business meeting with my engineer friend. I strolled to his place in a long sleeve shirt and shorts with bathroom flipflops.

Arrive this friend's apartment, we talked over the deal with inclusion of another friend of his before he asked me to follow him to SOMEWHERE.

I told them that my birthday was that same day and I wasn't celebrating anything. He laughed at me and his girlfriend chased me down with pure water.

I came back and wore my flipflops and offer we left for the SOMEWHERE. We strolled through some streets and gardens and towards Dunamis Church. I thought we were going to pray since he wasn't precise about the place we were headed. Suddenly, we passed the church. In all the walkabouts, we were engaged in serious unending gists. From Nigeria problems to Donald Trump wahala and all before we found ourselves inside a hotel.

He asked me to wait for him that he was looking for someone and in my mind, that should be the client for the real estate business. He checked and came back and suggested we had a seat for a while and wait.

We patiently waited and had our phones charged. I wrote some stories while we waited and he read it and shared his insights too. Then I saw my girlfriend walk past us and into somewhere I didn't know. I became uneasy. Shortly, I rose and confirmed what my eyes saw but met her sister there too. A little while, his own fiancé came and met us and sat patiently too.

Then I told my friend that I saw my girlfriend in this hotel and said maybe they came to see a family friend. But on a normal, she would tell where and who was taking them out beforehand. But this time, NOTHING OF SUCH.

My friend said maybe she has explanation to make later. Maybe, it came as emergency and no airtime. I said Yes, it could be the fact.

8:00pm my friend received a call and asked for us to go home that the person wasn't coming anymore. I unplugged my phone and off we made out. Then, he said he'd like to check something around the pool side in the hotel. I followed him....


Immediately I advanced into the arena... There was a chorused scream and shout of HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!

Guys, my head literally BURST into bits. All the friends I have were in attendance. All... Men and female alike.

So, he knew all along... Something I never envisaged... Something I hadn't experienced... Something I least expected from my girlfriend and her sister because they are barely managing their low income.

HBD

Easyincome24:
Meet Unilag overall best graduating student for 2018/2019 academic session.

Alimi Ibrahim Adedeji emerged as the overall best graduating student in Unilag for the academic calendar 2018/2019.

He achieved this with a CGPA of 4.98 out of 5.0.

Alimi Ibrahim Adedeji, now a graduate of mechanical engineering, is also a two time delegate at the Annual Shell Nigeria Exploration and Productioj Company (SNEPCo) Annual Scholars Connect Programme.

The University of Lagos, Akoko, has taken to their social media to celebrate their proud product on this great feat.

Congratulations

ugandanstudent:
Today is a great day for me as I graduated with first class in bachelors of arts in international relations and diplomacy and I also hold a certificate in computer science from Kampala International University uganda so I am so excited and I was the Public relations officer for Nigerian students in Uganda and I was the Public relations officer for Nigerian students in Cavendish University Uganda,my name is Nonso and I am very popular in school and loved by almost everyone.

Benefits of studying here in uganda

No academic delays
Friendly environment
Nice lecturers
24/7 electricity
Awesome student life and so on

Don't let Nigeria hold you down,Warm environment with great hospitality towards foreigners.

Congrats

God bless your new age.
HBD Sir.
Always controversial free.
A devoted cleric to the core

Younghacka:
Glory Be To God Almighty.
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After 6+ Years Studying A 5 Year Course. . . I Just Did My Project Defence Today. . . It Ended In Praise.
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The Journey Was Tough & Rough. . . But In The End God Saw Us Through.
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My Nairaland Family Join And Celebrate The Latest Petroleum Engineer In Town.

congrats
more blessings

Samunique:
Is your Allah an enemy of good things ?

sometimes just being silent is golden. borrow brain even if u don't have one

Nbotee:
Dis is so heartbreaking... I read his story sometime ago and I felt really sad for him.. Y is the wife yet to sue dat Godforsaken hospital... Imagine going into coma for a KNEE OPERATION ooo due to a very obviou error of the hospital

And you think things cannot occasionally go wrong even by follow the standard procedures because the Doctors are God abi ?.
He signed pre op consent and the risk of the surgery would have been well explained to him.
Wish him soonest recovery by God's grace

alBHAGDADI:
Do you all remember the story of King Solomon and the two women?

Let me bring you up to speed.

Both women were mothers with suckling babies. One night, one of the women discovered that her baby was dead. She immediately kept the dead baby by the other woman who was fast asleep and took her living baby. When the second woman woke up, she discovered the dead baby by her side and also discovered that it is not hers.

The case was dragged before King Solomon who passed judgment. The wicked women said the living baby is hers, while the original mother also said the baby is hers.

To know who the true mother is, King Solomon ordered that the baby be split into two with a sword with each woman getting a half.

The original mother cried her eyes out knowing fulling well that such would mean that the baby will die. The wicked woman welcomed the judgment and said it should be executed, knowing fully well that the baby will die, thereby ending up like her own dead baby.

That is the situation in Ilorin today. The Muslims don't mind seeing the school owned by Christians burnt to the ground over a piece of sweaty rag call hijab. That is what gave them the effrontery to throw stones into the house of the Living God, a thing that has heaped generational curses on them. Their own god is dead and buried in Saudi, so they don't mind seeing another person's God die. Sadly for them, they are fighting a lost battle because our God is risen and ever Living. He's the beginning and the end.

Glory be onto Jesus. With him, we are more than conquerors.

let's be rational when addressing issues, you're not different from those causing this havoc by talking negatively about other people's belief And God.
may God let us be able to live together in peace and love each other no matter our religion differences .

advanceDNA:
sometimes...Reno is not alright..

Give us scriptural reference why is not right, not this your judgemental bashing.

vizzyswagh:
As I sign your shirt.
One day people go sign for my shirt.
And your children no go sell pure water.
- pure water boy.

Godswill Eze

Ameen.
Allah will make it a reality

dre11:
https://www.newtelegraphng.com/fuel-pump-price-may-drop-to-n100-presidential-aide/

Yes, just as 1dollar is now 1naira..
Lori iro, Association of Perfect Congress liers

agulion:
Muric will never say anything about this, is all about local Yoruba Muslims Miscreants

what has your nepotistic leader done with all what other people has been saying since all this year's?. As if muric statement will change anything.
let's be Focus and leave sentiment apart