Family › Re: My Wife Betrayed & Left Me And Got Pregnant For Another Man While I Was In Jail by adisabarber(m): 7:40pm On Nov 10, 2019 |
No sha do wetin go send you back to where you comot from. You have lost this battle, don't lose the war. Just pick the broken pieces of your life and move on sp749513: Good moring nairalanders.
I want justice pls.
I was jailed 4 years ago when i was arrested,tried and sentenced for fraud.
I was not a criminally minded person but do to the economic hardship and how to provide for my wife and daughter I went into fraud.
My wife was supporting our union with her trade which the income was very low and to feed was war.
To cut the long story short when i was in prison she do visit occasionally but during 3 years spent already she stop visiting.
When i was freed last 2 months and to know what ups I went to where we live and learnt from a neighbour that my wife has parked out from our 2 rooms apartment and is now living with a man.
I got the address,went their and lo and behold she was heavily pregnant for the man.
I felt like fainting that moment and to make matter worse she said it to my face that she can't live with an ex convict.
My 5 years old daughter wants me back but my wife and her family are fighting against that.
I still love my wife despite her betrayal but the pregnancy and her refusal to give me back my daughter is giving me problem.
I want justice against the wife snatcher and i want back my wife and daughter.
Please what is the best ways to go about it so as not to go against the law.
Mods,I want justice. |
Properties › Re: Land Grabbers (Omo Onile) Storm Idimu, Lagos (Pictures) by adisabarber(m): 11:37am On Nov 04, 2019 |
Unfortunately, you will have to reach an agreement with the rightful owners. Some people just sell other people's land in Lagos and after years of legal battle, if the rightful owner wins it becomes a problem for those that bought it. |
Education › Re: Abia State University Uturu Male Hostel On Fire by adisabarber(m): 11:12am On Oct 30, 2019 |
veeceesynergy: ABSU old structures, including Hostels A, B and C were built by d Israelis and they re fire proof. True |
Politics › Re: Nigeria To Buy 12 Attack Helicopters From Russia by adisabarber(m): 2:45pm On Oct 24, 2019 |
Good move |
Crime › Re: Man Arrested For Stealing Tithes And Offerings In A Church In Lagos (Photo) by adisabarber(m): 8:24pm On Oct 20, 2019 |
Do they leave so much money in the boxes? |
Nairaland General › Re: Python Killed And Sold In Ekiti (Photo, Video) by adisabarber(m): 10:10pm On Oct 12, 2019 |
Is this really a python? |
Crime › Re: Gunmen Kill Nine Soldiers In Sunke, Zamfara Village by adisabarber(m): 9:14pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Nigeria is one big useless country |
Romance › Re: The New Nairaland: Come And Talk Your Own by adisabarber(m): 1:02pm On Sep 24, 2019 |
The change never reach my side. When it does I will comment on it |
Celebrities › Re: Burial Photos Of Pelepele Olanrewaju by adisabarber(m): 12:36pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
He's finally popular for the wrong reasons |
Crime › Re: Trial Of Major General Hakeem Otiki Over N400M, 5 Runaway Soldiers In Pictures by adisabarber(m): 9:56am On Sep 20, 2019 |
The owner of the money should be arrested |
Politics › Re: Kwara Schools Reject Bukola Saraki's School Materials Donated For Students by adisabarber(m): 11:16am On Sep 17, 2019 |
He can distribute to the students in front of their schools  |
Politics › Re: NFIU Asks For Account Details Of Nigerian Judges, Federal Legislators by adisabarber(m): 5:36am On Sep 14, 2019 |
Unfortunately their Belize account details will remain hidden |
Pets › Re: Horses For Sale by adisabarber(m): 9:32pm On Sep 11, 2019 |
Ziggyblaze: Young, healthy & active horses for sale, less than 3 yes. Location: Zaria Price: 150k negotiable Contact: 08037051979 call or watsapp What breed? |
Crime › Re: Armed Robbers Storm Bayelsa Local Content Office, One Shot (Graphic Photos) by adisabarber(m): 9:44pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
He no wear shoe come? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Matthew Ashimolowo Visits Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo’s COZA by adisabarber(m): 2:00pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
It's their business |
Politics › Re: FG Hands Over Lagos-ota-abeokuta And Other Roads To Lagos State And Ogun State. by adisabarber(m): 1:58pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
They should put pressure on federal government to fix those roads or fix them and collect the money back from FG. |
Pets › Re: Why Are Puppies So Expensive by adisabarber(m): 1:50pm On Sep 09, 2019 |
chigoziri2403: so what can the foreign dog do that so called 'local dog' can't do Are you asking questions to learn or you just want to prove that dogs are not worth the huge amount spent on them? Have you ever stopped someone putting on expensive lace to ask what his clothes can do that linen cannot do? It's a matter of choice. Some people even buy expensive dogs just because they love the dog. Not for security, not for breeding. They just see it and buy it. |
Crime › Re: Lady Murdered By Her Lover In Diver Hotel In Port-Harcourt (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 10:59pm On Sep 04, 2019 |
Mophasa: In a situation that looks like a serial killer is on a rampage in the city of Port-Harcourt ,another unidentified Lady has again been allegedly murdered by her Male lover in a hotel in Port Harcourt.
According to the report, the lady was killed on Wednesday the 4th of September at a popular hotel called Diver Hotel in the GRA axis of Port Harcourt, Rivers State.
This is the third time in the past three months that such incident is recorded in the State.
The State Police Command is yet to make a statement on the incident.
https://www.viewsnaija.com/2019/09/another-lady-murdered-by-her-lover-in.html?m=1 The body don even stiff. In Lagos if 2 people enter room na 2 of una must comot  |
Celebrities › Re: Why We Sealed Bobrisky's 28th Birthday Party Venue - Police (Photos) by adisabarber(m): 8:56pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
This is ridiculous. I do not like Bobrisky but you cannot do things like this without any reason. |
Sports › Re: 2019 African Games: Nigeria Now Second On Medals Table by adisabarber(m): 8:41pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Aquatic sports and gymnastics are areas we need to work on |
Crime › Re: Tenant Who Raped & Killed Landlady In Ekiti, Arrested. Denies Raping Her (Photo) by adisabarber(m): 8:49am On Aug 28, 2019 |
How do we hear her own version since you already killed her? |
Car Talk › Re: 25 Cool Bikers Pictures Taken In Nigeria By 09bikersmc by adisabarber(m): 9:38pm On Aug 27, 2019 |
Too much effects |
Pets › Re: Neopolitan Mastiff!! by adisabarber(m): 8:06am On Aug 27, 2019 |
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Education › Re: Edo Primary School Teachers Reject Resumption Date by adisabarber(m): 9:05am On Aug 26, 2019 |
olalat: Oga, teachers no dey go on holiday. It's only the pupils that government give break. They suppose to be on their duty post only that there wont be pupils to teach. Their claim is out of point sir. Are they not paid for the period they sit at home? What can u say about ministry staffers. Or teachers are not civil servants again. Laziness is worrying them. Most Nigerians are completely ignorant of how things work. They just jump into discussions and expose their ignorance. It is ridiculous if not stupid for someone to think teachers sit at home throughout the holidays |
Education › Re: Edo Primary School Teachers Reject Resumption Date by adisabarber(m): 5:00am On Aug 26, 2019 |
Is it not normal for teachers to resume before students? Teachers are even supposed to go to work during holidays except public holidays and when they are on leave. |
Pets › Re: Pedigree Bullmastiff Pups Available by adisabarber(m): 8:48pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Feed your puppies well |
Pets › Re: Need A 20k Dog by adisabarber(m): 8:36pm On Aug 24, 2019 |
Seunfunmi21: Goodevening guys!..pls what breed of dog can I get for 20k? And I don't want bingo o lol You can get a good GSD from direct owner. You can even get it free. The problem is taking care of the dog |
Properties › Re: Best Way To Prevent Water From Sipping Into Your Building Through The Floors by adisabarber(m): 8:26pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
DPC. Damp proof course |
Culture › Re: Eluku Festival: Notice Of Movement Restrictions In Ikorodu by adisabarber(m): 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2019 |
Acidosis: The Nigerian constitution does not permit this kind of nonsense.
Towns where fetish rituals are still prevalent are some of the most backward places in Africa. And to think the high priest is a Muslim (Abdul-Kabir) just makes the whole thing senseless. You appease the dirty gods of your land on Tuesday and run to worship another god that claims to be the only one Messiah on Friday.
What a senseless generation Don't go out |
Family › Re: I'm Worried About My Son's Behaviour. Is He Normal? by adisabarber(m): 11:35pm On Aug 20, 2019 |
jess2019: My son will be 9 in October but his behaviour bothers me so much. He acts like a day dreamer. He has turned me into a shouting and miserable mum as I had to beat him after I've exhausted other punishment options. To make this short, I'm going to summarise his behaviour.
He still cannot get himself ready for school in the morning. Either he doesnt cream his body or forgets to comb his hair or doesnt brush his teeth. He forgets to brush his teeth almost everyday. This made me to make a list of step by step sticker. I sticked this on their bathroom mirror and on his bedroom wall. Yet I have to keep reminding him everyday. For example, last week on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday he forgot to brush his teeth and hair. I have to constantly be reminding him every morning. He is the only one that brushes teeth after getting ready. I trained them to brush teeth first before shower but he keeps forgetting.
I have to remind him to do his homework, and put it back in his school bag to return to school on Mondays. The book will still not make it to the school even after constant reminder. We've lost countless of lunch bags. One ended up on school roof. If you give him any form to submit back to his teacher. He will forget in his bag so I now give it to his sister to give to his teacher.
He removes his clothes, shoes, pants, belts etc and leave them on the floor, I bought two laundry baskets for him. One in his room, another in their bathroom, yet all his belongings end up on the floor that you can hardly find a space to put a foot. I dont expect him to be perfect but atleast to try so that his 70% clothes make it to the basket or shoes to their racks. He also has a book shelf and desk yet they also end up on the floor.
He plays so much that sometimes he leaves shops with items in his hands. So I have to always watch out for him. Living in a western country where black boys are stereotyped I fear for him. He can stare at the ceiling for hrs when getting ready for school or spend long time in the shower yet not using soap on his body. This usually makes us late unless I step in to help or keep shouting.
If you ask him to do any house chores, he will not do it instead waiting for us to forget so he can get away with it. When grounded not to watch TV, he will still do it once he knows am inside my room or busy with a baby.
Yesterday we revised all his lesson assignments (5 work books). I specifically asked him to put them in his lesson bag. I pointed at the bag. Now I drop him at the lesson only for him to say oh I think I came with old lesson books. I dont know how he ended up with old books in his bag. It could be he planned it as a way to avoid the lesson. If not I wonder how he will remember it himself as soon as I drop him and his sister as this is unlike him.
I've taken him to a doctor incase there is any diagnosis so I can give him all the help he needs but they said it's just his behaviour because according to the doctor he is smart academically. He is 18months ahead of his year level. So they ruled ADHD out. 8 year old boy is still a kid. Let him enjoy his childhood. |
Celebrities › Re: Blackface Sues 2baba, Ruggedman And Faze Over Image Damage Of ‘plantashun Boiz’ by adisabarber(m): 8:48am On Aug 20, 2019 |
Rosay15: ... They’re the one killing artist especially naijaloaded. I remember waconzy said something about the stuff but people crucified him just because he didn’t have fame but he is saying the plain truth. Those websites make tons of money sharing people's works free without giving back to the artistes but some of them still pay to have them share their songs. It's really crazy |
Celebrities › Re: Blackface Sues 2baba, Ruggedman And Faze Over Image Damage Of ‘plantashun Boiz’ by adisabarber(m): 8:10am On Aug 20, 2019 |
wabbyland: people are just commenting without reading what's in the letter. they are not to perform any song that was co-written by the band. please read and don't be to hasty to comment Which is not too much to ask. |