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Balogun106:
Good morning nairalanders, i saw a thread this morning about a guy complaining about a little scar he has on his hand, this gives me the courage to spill out what am currently battling right now, here is my story. Please pardon my English.

My problem started about 3 week's ago, I noticed a discolorations on both sides of my chest on my brest area pricisely, it was slightly lighter than the rest of my body, i showed my friend and he said he couldn't see anything that am just over reacting, i am a very shy guy by nature. I was restless because i couldn't take off my shirt because of it.

I started doing some Google search on how to make the area slight darker to match my surrounding skin, during my Google search i found a product used mainly for vitiligo condition, but couldn't find it in any big pharmacy so i ordered it online and it arrived in 3 day's.

The instruction on the label that came with it was to apply it on affected area and expose the skin to sunlight for 1 minute, then to wait until 2 - 3 week's before repeating, but i was so desperate for results that i couldn't have such patient because i really wanted to get instant result, so i applied the liquid on my chest area which is a very small scar like a dot, and unfortunately it rolled to other areas on my chest which wasn't affected. I still foolishly went ahead and exposed the areas to the sun, i exposed it thought the sun coming through my window, i laid on my bed because it is around the window area.

I exposed my chest area from 1:13 pm - 4:00pm, the next morning i found out that the area was darker than my surrounding skin, the next day i applied bleaching cream to make it lighter, on the third day i found out it was now very reddish than my surrounding skin. I bought razor to scrape the area in other for it to peel off and for a new inner brighter skin to appear, but unfortunately it became worse because i had some slight injury from the scrape.

I was confused so i did some research on Google and found out about chemical peels, i ordered the 30% strength for 13k.... The seller warned me to text patch it on surrounding skin that isn't visible and wait for 24 hour's after seeing that it gave me no negative reaction before using it on where i intends applying it, he also warned me to dilute it in water to reduce the strength, but i was so desperate that i couldn't wait for 24 hour's to text patch it before applying it on my chest. The day i bought it i applied it same day, it also rolled over to other surrounding skin that din't got darker from the effect of the first product i applied.

The image's below are the stage by stage description of what i went through :

Please i need help and advise on what to apply and how to get my skin color back before this damage, i have been so depressed and unable to sleep this past few day's, because of this damages that i caused to myself.

Image 4, how it was before applying the first product product i bought :

Image 1, The dark skin i got a day's after applying it :

Image 2, The reddish skin and injury i got 2 day's later, after applying the bleaching cream and after using razor blade to scrape it and make the area lighter

Image 3, The instant burn i got after applying the chemical peel i bought :

With time it will heal and go back to normal

Which movie did he feature in?

immanuel86:
About 20 of us in my investment pool invested almost 8millikn in Goatti after I saw there platform. We visited them at there office and there two marketplace in lagos. We have it a shot, we were expecting payment since February 23rd, I almost thought it was a foul play but finally the paid is March 2nd.

Dear Goatti, it will be better to improve your communication with client so you won’t spoil the great work you are doing. business without communication is zero trust not even in this time where there are scammers everywhere. Last 3 month I saw one investment of 2months at 40% and am yet to get my 100k.

Anyway thanks Goatti...

They will sell o.

star4ever:
I have a 42 year old brother who for over 18 years has been on hard drugs. He started this habit while in secondary school and couldn't finish tertiary education for same reason. Efforts made by the family to stop him from substance abuse and rehabilitate him at several occasions failed. Each time such effort is made, he recovers after a while but returns to the habit. Currently, he has become mentally deranged and there seems to be no solution at sight.

He has been admitted to different psychiatric hospitals on two occasions. At both times, he was treated and confirmed fit and sound to return to the society. The moment he was discharged, he quickly went back to his old ways and all the resources spent went into the drain. In one of the occasions, we were strongly advised to engage him as joblessness was one of the greatest problem causing the abuse. We got him engaged by securing a fantastic job which he also left after a week of working there. Other meaningful efforts geared towards engaging him to enable him to become occupied and start earning a living as a man also didn’t work out.

We have organised prayer sessions by powerful men of God, nothing has happened yet. I do want to sound like someone without faith. I strongly believe that our able God will make things beautiful at His time. However, the situation has gone out of control and we need to act fast.

These, amongst many, are some of the interventions already done by the family and we cannot fold our arms and watch people mock us in shame every day due to his abnormal activities in the community.

Now what he does is forcefully, take money from our aged mum, sell any family property at sight in exchange for money to buy his drugs. Beat my mum up at any slightest refusal to give him money. He has been jailed many times for committing several offences related to this habit, yet the problem persists. Maybe we have not applied the best approach?

I am calling on fellow Nairalanders to assist with solutions. I believe there are some of us here who may have experienced this problem in one way or the other, or have an advise to give to solve this lingering painful situation. Your personal or professional experience (s) may go a long way in salvaging this situation for us.

I believe a problem shared is a problem solved.

Don't keep money and valuables he can easily sell in the house. Let him steal outside and get caught. When he's jailed, don't go and visit him. 6 months in a correctional facility without seeing close relatives and access to drugs should do the trick. Most addicts misunderstand family love. They think they are "doing" you. They don't know it's love that is making one run up and down for them. Let him face the consequences of his actions once.

GreatChizzy:
Like seriously you "scolded" your MOTHER?
You scolded your mother for a "girl friend" whom you had already knew had anger management issues? I hope your mother has other sons besides you; because you are a shame and a reproach to that woman you call your mother.

May God not give us Sons that would scold their mothers because of girl friends.

He scolded his mother that did not do anything wrong. One day he will beat his mother because of the girl

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

God never show you your wife.

setobaba:
I’m fr on this pls
Couldn’t it be that she has to grow a little bit before she begin to slant ??

Were you there when this picture was taken or the seller used it to convince you?

Spanishmilf:
you called a stretching dog slant back

OP said that picture is the 1st day he bought the dog which means he was right there when the picture was taken. If he now saw a stretching dog as slant back then opari niyen

setobaba:
I got her few weeks ago for 65K the seller claim she’s GSD see slant back
First picture is the first day purchased
Second picture is recent.
Though I saw the mother she’s slant back but couldn’t see the father

If the dog in the 1st picture is what you purchased then it's a slant back GSD.

bolaayenimo:
120 mph is damn too high. Where are you rushing to Thank God for safety sha

He doesn't know the difference between miles per hour and kilometres per hour

Sulia

How can they be sure only Lagosians will vote?

edunwosu:
https://www.nairaland.com/5856841/pet-snake

Read about this thread above, lol and behold saw the snake when I am about to drop my kids in their bed last night.....

Because of the robberies going in some parts of Lagos State, I decided for now all of us will be sleeping in the palour so I can keep my eyes on everybody...

Fortunately, following my instinct I decided to check the mattress lol and behold this creature was hidden under the mattress.

Looks like a non venomous house snake

You are doing well. How do you intend to regulate it's temperature?

EzeNdiAra:
HEAD-BRIDGE OR BRIDGE-HEAD?

Huppi'weka or Upper Iweka?

Weedsmoker:
The bitter truth is that catfish biz is not as easy as most information marketers make it seem,in my years into catfish biz am yet to see anyone who built a house,bought a car or got married from the profits of catfish biz but all I keep seeing is losses upon losses,farms going bankrupt, catfish farmers going into huge debts that has brought pains and sorrows to families.

For you to be able to make headway in catfish biz it requires adequate training and experience about the biz or else you might get burnt.And note that if you haven't started hatching your own fingerlings yourself then you haven't started the business,ensure you get a place where their is stable electricity,try as much as possible to prepare your own feeds yourself to save cost,do proper monitoring of your fishes and always sort your fishes at least weekly to reduce cannibalism,you can also try out using maggots or dead chickens to boost their weight.

As for marketing, catfish is high in demand and selling them off shouldn't be a problem no matter the economic state of the country.

Am talking from experience as former catfish dealer and farmer.

Nothing but the truth

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Pidginwhisper:
Why not just tell him to buy eggs and boil then drop in the cage. The rest na needless ceremony.

The boiled eggs will digest if the snake gets away but wax will never digest. You no think am laidat?

Melt wax. Candles will also work. Mould it into egg shapes then use super glue to attack real egg shells to it. Make sure the shells cover all the wax. Make like 10. Break fresh eggs and dip the fake eggs in them then rinse them. Replace some of your chicken eggs with the replica eggs and also place some in clusters in other spots. Wait for a few days.

People just like to talk

awoo47:
i was expecting u to display ignorance lnd argue lyk d typical nairalander

no vex

Only foolish people do that. It's just funny that I never ever thought about it.

awoo47:
re u being sarcastic??
u can browse it if u doubt... although scientifically, most ppl already confuse all togeda

You told me something I did not know, I said thanks. Were you expecting me to insult you for correcting me?

awoo47:
all tortoise are turtle but nt all turtle are tortoise

Thanks

pezeji:
As a result of this lockdown, boredom became too much and I went fishing in a nearby water behind my building here in ago, Lagos State.

Fortunately I caught this little, innocent and shy animal.

It's my new pet

Check the feet. Most turtles have webbed feet. Tortoises have feet like chicken, most turtles like duck.

Bluealamajiri:
Are you an Engineer?

Has he gone there to inspect the collapsed building?

Nefort:
Building collapses are not always as a result of negligence by the engineers. Something hidden underground like a sinkhole can bring down a building.

Thank you

AtikuNetwork:
The contractor probably cut corners while doing the foundation of the building. The foundation just couldn't bear to carry the weights of the floor decks and pillars much longer hence the collapse.

You started with probably then you went to the foundation just couldn't bear to carry the weight. Have you visited the site?

Sammy07:
On the Eligibility Criteria (EC), the minister said that States had to meet in order to be eligible to receive any grants included: the online publication of the approved annual budget and audited financial statement for the previous year.

The 24 states were said to have achieved: improved financial reporting and budget reliability; increased openness and citizens’ engagement in the budget process; improved cash management and reduced revenue leakages through the implementation of State Treasury Single Account (TSA); strengthened Internally Generated Revenue (IGR) collection; biometric registration and Bank Verification Number (BVN) used to reduce payroll fraud.

The 24 beneficiary states who were: Abia, Adamawa, Bauchi, Benue, Delta, Edo, Ekiti, Enugu, Gombe, Jigawa, Kaduna, Kano, Katsina, Kebbi, Kogi, Kwara, Niger, Ondo, Ogun, Oyo, Osun, Sokoto, Taraba and Yobe states.


What's happening to SE and SS now...
They didn't met the criteria

Even Lagos isn't there.





I don't know why you guys don't read.
Are you an illiterate??

At least the post isn't lengthy, just 5mins of your time you'll understand what is written up there.

Lagos state finances is not transparent at all. If you ask for details of how 2m Naira was spent LASG will gladly spend 5m on lawyers to prevent you from getting the details.

ignis:
How comes some eggs are intact ?

Does snake swallow what it cannot eat?

Snakes swallow, they don't chew.

DanseMacabre:
To be honest this is a rather counterproductive measure.

Why not just ban the individual journalist/s who infringed on whatever anti-free speech laws existing in your state, than banning the whole publication?

He banned the reporters only

They are doing well

Why dem sef dey shit for bush?