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He killed himself. No pity.

Judas among his boyz. Someone betrayed him.

Well it depends on your brother.
Two options:

Visiting by his invitation
It can be to your favor or against you.
His financial strength and how he became a citizen is a factor too.

Filing for your green card and that might take years and also DNA testing, evidence you are related by blood.
Like i said might take 1-10 years.
But its better you make it on your own.

My advice may be bad to some

.... If you are a Muslim get a powerful "Ogun isanye". If Christian......Pray and fast till you start that year again and finish ....you can break 3pm.... I have been in your shoes before..... God forgive me.... I used ogun isanye..... Read like mad..... Saw the result.....your problem might have spiritual undertone ....

Sometimes accenstral issue cant be underestimated.....

Some people that call themselves husband this days make me laugh. Immature couples lead to broken home.
Above all the fear of God is paramount. I am sure the OP has been cheating before he suspects his wife.
3 kids are the subject matter not the lust of both parents.

My one penny.

Your Dad is frustrating him with his words and action. Glad he can speak for himself. Its better than him committing suicide.

buragidi:
Gbenusohun. That her hubby cheated gave her no right to do same, either he confessed or not. She had a right to walk away if she could not cope. The husband can even to marry another wife join her in that same house and heavens will not fall, the worst she can do is to park-out. When a lady cheats, she does with her emotion and she becomes detached from her man (Research has confirmed that), but a man can cheat for fun. No emotional attachment. As a matter of fact, many men who cheat, do without emotion. You see them giving the best to their family, taking care of the wife, yet they fck outside. Some of you claiming my hubby loves me die, you will be surprised what they do outside, yet at home, they appear like Angel. But once a woman starts to cheat, a sensitive hubby will know almost immediately and that is one thing I noticed about op. He appears to be a very sensitive person. We are not justifying men cheating on their wives, but when a man cheats, it is understandable and pardonable, but when a woman cheats, my dear, it is an aberration. I cannot stay under the same roof with such a woman.

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It shows you are in the same category with the OP keep dreaming. There is nothing understandable and pardon able in cheating. I could understand if he was a saint in the marriage. Do to your partner in marriage what you want them to do unto you. The husband can marry another wife it's accepted both in some religion and traditionally, but fornication No. What is bad is bad. Help him repair his home.

She should use 6th and 7th book of Moses for prayer (Page 92--prayer for the barren)
I know someone God answered her prayer through it.
In all, only God through prayer can turn impossibility to possibility.

This OP must be a clown, you had sex with someone while married, Am not sure she did, you lied and Cover up your mess to her. She admitted her mistake and apologies. Yet you want to die....go ahead.
All I see is you have problem. She is miles apart from this guy. Marriage has its up and down. Accept it she is not perfect so are you.
If you like forgive her. If you don't divorce her. Its your business.
You are talking like a saint here. What is applicable to A is applicable to B.
I know someone too who cheat wi married women and countless prostitutes (within and outside the country) one day he will say his wife is cheating too.
Open up to your wife you have cheated on her before and both of you apologies and get back with your life.
You both should learn from past mistakes

The question is has she said sorry to him countless times before their marriage. 11years marriage should not break because of sorry. Maybe he is just looking for a way to end the marriage.... They have been managing it like that from the 1st to 8th year of the marriage. Your brother just got too serious about sorry in the 11th year.

Truth be told.... The population of Japan is declining every year. Few people can not do the jobs left and they results to robots than creating a scheme for immigrants to come in and do those jobs.
I love the electricity aspect..... If my country don't have oil can't I run device that can do without petrol. even India is looking into that cars without oil.... When oil is useless maybe we will shift to garri export..... Yimu for our leaders... That can't make Nigeria great with all the resources we have.
all they want is their share of national cake......

@OP, you want to hear the truth.. You have cheated on your wife in your marriage with women you believe are not married. You gave your wife reasons for her Ex to come-back.
You cheat on her, and give her reasons to believe you are cheating on her.... So the only person she confide in is him... Because she believe if she had married him.. He won't do what you are doing.
Act responsibly.... Like a married man and she will reciprocate. I assure you if they see each other, they will have sex and they both won't regret it.
Looking at a lady backside(waste disposal) when your wife is with you.... Many things you would have done when she isn't and you think she don't know.

Pls my ogas in the house, i am experiencing a big issue on my BB Z30 with OS 10.3. It keep saying the google play service is not supported. When i installed Google allo. Please kindly help. Thanks

I don't expect you to take up such job.

france67:
please i tried to register for my remita code with my firstname but its telling me user name already exist.please help on how i can resolve this will be appreciated

You can put any figure/digit after your name.

OP,
I have £1,000,000 for you which is.

Pick her calls oooo. Act like nothing happened!!!!

Please any time you want to visit them don't eat in their house oooo.
Why? You may ask.....
The day a member of my mum church told my mum that her in laws before they married her children, she make sure they eat in house for a minimum of 3 times to complete a formality (all is inside the food Un knowingly to the would be husband or wife) of which pupu and some juju is in the food eaten by them. The charm work ooo and it's still working, except God liberate them.
My mum stopped eaten in anybody house, including parties..

The truth is you gf will fear any man that marry her can do what her Dad did. So your own case will be settled earlier by giving you the necessary charm to prevent you repeat what her Dad did.

Why? Because your gf is in support of her mum.

There is no point hearing the side of the Father, because he is already charmed. His conversation with you will be influenced by the charm.

I don't know your religion, but go into some days of fasting and prayer...you already know your prayer points!!!!!!


Also, do not sleep with her again since you are not married, She can finish you because you already have a sexual relation even though you are not married.

I fear diabolical people!!!!

Don't marry her ooooo. Except you hear go ahead from God, and you can pray very well.
But I can tell you God is not an author of confusion.
Marry her if you can pray very well...I mean very well... because that home is a battle ground.

When you marry her be rest assured you just kissed your own family good bye....cos they did that to her father family...who ought to liberate him...

OP,
What if the man she see in two years time is not the best?

If she is suspended from the church, will it mean she is suspended from heaven?

If the man is okay for her, let her tell the pastor she want to go ahead with the marriage.
Let her pray, hear from God, and tell the pastor that God has given her a go ahead.
Mind you he is a pastor not God...
Also, if he still insist, tell your sister to ask him to show her in the Bible where it states she should wait for two years more.

You never can tell, he may have someone that he wants her to marry. She shouldn't dance to him


"If men were God........"

OP,
I believe you have offended your wife or your wife have a grudge on you that you don't know about!!!!
If she suddenly change now, something is responsible or she is suspecting my you Un necessarily!!!


Divorce is not an option. Confront her in the midnight or early in the morning with evidence....

Devil is out there to destroy marriages!!!! Her sisters are the devil tools!!!!

Are her sister happily married? If they are not they may want her to fall to the same category!!!!

Don't divorce her if you still love her?

That's human being! My suggestion to you... Visit he in Osun, don't let her be aware you are coming. May be weekend, but make sure you have money for hotel ooo.
Ask her one on one what you have done to deserve this?
Don't be violent and don't sound desperate. You have been with her for 5 years, you should read the answers in her eyes...
But don't expect anything positive from her.
She already have a replacement for you!!!


Do you use to pay her surprise visit in school before?
Do you have the key to her apartment?

OP,
One thing you should know is that the reason she called you and still give you audience is that she still have feelings for you.

Give her time, be her friend and a brother.
She is just scared you might hurt her again.
She just want to be sure you are now a good person and have changed...

egojiokwu:
That's the consequences of having se* with men before marriage. One of us once said that the easiest married woman to sleep with is the one you have been sleeping with before she got married.

Well said, currently I know a married woman sleeping with a married man, her ex. I just pity the spouse of both homes.

OP,
Try and make peace reign in your home since you are involved. Also, Ask your Dad if he has wrong your mum one way or the other? He may not give you an answer to that but his conscience will tell him!!!

Are you sure your Dad is close to your mum?
Also, is he giving her attention?

Extra marital affairs can be very dangerous, let your mum know this!!!!?

It can lead to death of members of the family most especially if the spouse of her lover knows.

Also, if your Dad divorce her you may think it won't affect you cos you older, think of your younger once. Most especially if he decides to re marry it will affect your younger ones and you I can guarantee you.

You can talk to your mum, get mad at her, fight with her but you or your younger ones can't do that with your step mum. It means doom!!!!!!

You are not that close to your Dad now that he married your mum. Don't you know your mum is the only one making communication easy between you and your Dad.

What will your communication be like when she is away....




The long term effect of their separation is negative result for you and your younger ones!!!!

Unite them...Since you are involved.

It's simple Op,
Change his school as soon as possible

Secondly, he might play and sing at home because h is used to his family.

If you don't mind find a daycare in your neighbourhood, where he will go to after school for some months, so that he will get to familiarise himself with his peer group aside his family.

When he gets used to and comfortable with been around his mate or people older and younger than him, he will cope.

Different children have different character. There is nothing wrong wit your child.

OP,
I have few questions for you before you totally condemn her, neither am I supporting her!!!

You said she is in her final year? Don't you think it's not easy for her to take care of the baby, because of academic stress?

She will have to bath the baby early, what if she have class very early and read over night? Eventually, she is getting late and quickly take the baby to day care before bathing th child?

Is there any body assisting her?

Are you sure your mum is assisting her? Mind you, you are not there!!!

She has her project too?

I think you should give her time, the stress might be too much for her!!!! Let her graduate and observe her, when she is not having to meet up with early morning lectures!!!!!

Mind you for a person that is not with a baby in school it's not easy... talk less of a nursing mother?

Do you think when you were in school and have a baby to take care of, an infant for that matter, do you think you can cope then?

If you answer all these questions within you, you will know if you are fair with her.

The only thing constant in life is change. With love and patience, she can change...

I have seen people that have died of HIV. Be aware of the fact lecturers are no exception because they sleep with different ladies including your gf.
Since you claim you love her, if you still want to date her avoid sex till you are ready to marry her and get her to do XYZ test.
If not use condom. Love and stupidity when you know a lady has many sexually partner can be costly.
Mind you she is having sexual relation with people that can stop your graduation.

I will call her Emilohi (God is great)

Even from the video before the man slapped him. It appeared the boy was scared as he envisaged it. As for the student pushing him out, there are students that like eye service.
The man must have anger problem. It's not new for lecturers to think they are God. But nemesis always catch up with them in the end.
It's evident that despite all that slap, the man won't let him pass his course.