Travel › Re: Funds To Japa by Advancedman(m): 8:56pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
Ablemax: hello my fellow Nlanders, yo those who have successfully japa we also need your contribution to this,
as we know getting or raising money for japa is not easy, I've been thinking cracking my head to see on how to raise funds for japa but non ideal is coming forth except beting hoping some day I'll hit jackpot..
s to my good people please kindly share how you were able to raise the money for japa so that us here can follow too. (legal way) 95% of those that japa are not in your class infact they are very well to do either directly or by proxy while other are those that cash out on previous investment such as friend link, or postponed traveling opportunity that is very much viable. Truth be told. |
Properties › Re: Lady Damages Her Apartment After Landlord Refused To Refund Her Caution Fee by Advancedman(m): 5:39pm On Nov 27, 2023 |
dominique: She deserves to be arrested, is the caution fee worth the amount of damages she caused? How many months did she live there rent free? Tenants believe if they're given six months quit notice, they're free to live in the apartment rentfree till the duration elapses. How much did she stay without paying rent before finally moving out? The landlord must make sure she pays for every single damage caused, pay for the extra months she stayed then give her the caution fee. Insufferable people like these is why some of us are weary about building apartments for rent. Why should the fool held on to the caution fee in the first place. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Apostle Suleman Feeds Migrants At Mexico-US Border, Donates 100,000 Pesos by Advancedman(m): 8:16am On Nov 27, 2023 |
judedwriter: He's already done and is doing that.
He has a free kitchen for the masses everyweek in his church. Has he finished feeding his people? Most of you are suffering from 'I talk you talk back' syndrome. |
Politics › Re: FHA Demolition: Tears, Grief As Abule Ado Landlords Count Losses by Advancedman(m): 8:12am On Nov 27, 2023 |
ojobek: This is wickedness of highest order. Wickedness from who? |
Politics › Re: Gov Aliyu Directs Immediate Renovation Of Ex-President Shagari's Burnt House by Advancedman(m): 8:00am On Nov 27, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Sylvester Madu Escapes Death In Cameroon (Photos) by Advancedman(m): 4:53pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
[quote author= post=127168964]They killed 3 people cos Of Sylvester Madu ?!
That means they gonna kill a whole village assuming it was Jim Iyke or Nkem Owoh!
They are nothing but terrorists. Life has no meaning to them. Animals. May the soul of the departed Rest in Perfect peace[/quote]Sam Larry boys in Cameroon. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Using "I Love You" To Deceive Ladies For Sex by Advancedman(m): 4:50pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
Interesting15: By Sunday Akanni
This is a continuation of this previous conversation https://www.nairaland.com/7908376/some-tricks-guys-use-luring
These randy guys are smart. They know how to exploit the emotional nature of women to the fullest. They know the average woman craves love and care and affection. So, either verbally or with their actions, they keep convincing you that they care about you. Once they successfully make the lady believe he's in love with her, they know she will become vulnerable towards and around him - she will want to reciprocate and do all it takes to keep him. He then exploits this mercilessly, making her crawl into his bed at his pleasure before ditching her.
My Counsel: I will counsel from two perspectives. The first one will be to encourage you to have an intimate relationship with the LORD and let Him teach you by experience what true love is - this will help you not to be a "love slave" (someone who is always thrown off her feet whenever any guy says he loves her). The second perspective will revolve around the fact that an average guy cannot love you truly if he hasn't first encountered God (Who is the True Love) and fallen in love with the Holy Ghost.
Firstly, you see, God is Love, and since we were created in His image and likeness, it follows that we are also creatures of love, created to love and receive love. We all have the innate desire to love (to give and show love to others), as well as to crave to receive love from others (to be shown love in return). This is a characteristic of a normal person created in God's image and likeness.
However, the error of many women lies with where they go to seek love, and what they fall in love with. Hence, many are in problem today because they fall in love with dangerous persons and things that were designed by the evil devil to carry out his evil mission - to steal, to kill and destroy (John 10:10). We can talk about alcohol and drugs; masturbation and pornography; immoral boyfriends and girlfriends relationships; materialism and mammon; etc. They thought these things were good lovers that would give them genuine pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, these things only lead them to destruction, ruin, and regret.
Problem arises when you fail to channel your love to the right One - the True Lover. You are configured to love God your Creator first and above any other, and to receive love from Him above anything else. When you are saturated with God's Love and you find pure fulfillment inside of Him alone, it guides how you give love to those around you, and you are directed to like only the things He permits (which won't be harmful to you).
You can explore love inside of God (which is what you are destined to do) through faith in Jesus Christ. As you embrace Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, He sends a tangible Lover to your life - the Holy Spirit. As you grow in love with Him, He empowers you to keep attending to the business of love in the right way. I'm encouraging you to stop seeking pleasure from sinful and harmful persons and places and things. They are polluted counterfeits of the original thing - that you enjoy pure pleasure in your relationship with the Lord Jesus.
Also, if a guy is claiming to love you without having a loving relationship with the Lord, he is simply confusing lust and infatuation for love. God is Love, and only He can tutor a man on what true love is. So, if a guy does not know the LORD, and he is claiming to love you, what did he know about love, when it is even obvious he doesn't love himself (since he is living a defeated life by staying outside God)?
Now, let me tell you this about males, and it's easy to tell you this because I'm one too. Due to the configurations of the male body, if he refused to submit to the Holy Spirit, he will be driven by an intense urge for pleasure and fun, and he is ready to go to any extent to please himself (including adopting criminal actions like rape, drugging his victims, etc). Trusting a guy who isn't submitted to the Lord is foolish because even the guy can't help himself.
https://www.instagram.com/p/C0EAepNI9nK/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== It's ladies that wants to hear 'i love you' simple |
Crime › Re: How Police Slapped Me & Withdrew ₦390k From My Account In Lagos - Man by Advancedman(m): 4:43pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
nlfpmod: As shared by Oseni Qasim Olusegun (JQ):
JQ
Police React
Lagos Public Relations Officer, SP Benjamin Hundeyin reacted: "Send your phone number via DM." This will only stop if Police will do bring these bad eggs with their accomplices to the bar beach at execute a firing squad upon them without going through any unnecessary investigation once they are identity. |
Crime › Re: NDLEA Raids Osun Illicit Drug Party Tagged Unholy Alliance, Arrests Organisers by Advancedman(m): 4:37pm On Nov 26, 2023 |
[Unholy alliance organisers get mind o. See poster Rule. |
Politics › Re: List Of Governors Who Defied Godfatherism by Advancedman(m): 6:15pm On Nov 25, 2023 |
igwebuike01: In summary, only Yoruba cowards could not fight off Godfatherism You missed it, it's only southwest that know and understand what god-fatheriism is and how it is applied. Check the history of SW godfathers. For instance Tinubu, Saraki Snr, Adelabu etc |
Celebrities › Re: Toxicology On Mohbads Body Ongoing In The U.S - CORONER by Advancedman(m): 7:39pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
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Family › Re: Any Time I Turn Him Down He Goes To Bed , Is Everything Alright? - Lady Seek Adv by Advancedman(m): 6:32pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
AyoNews: Do advice her. Either from experience or witness She no well. She trained him finish come dey complain say he too good, if she no wan give am 💯 she should manage 99% and rest. She neva see anything. |
Phones › Re: Help: A Thin Black Line Suddenly Appeared On My Iphone XR Screen by Advancedman(m): 2:39pm On Nov 22, 2023 |
Maks27: a few days ago, I noticed a thin black line on right side of my iPhone XR's screen, and I also saw recently that the line is longer than before. I tried to take a screenshot, but it does not appear in the photo. I tried to restart the phone and had my software update, but it's still there. What seems to be the problem? This problem started when I changed the charger could that be the issue I no be apple ooooo |
Romance › Re: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by Advancedman(m): 10:10pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
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Family › Re: The Year Is Gradually Coming To An End. What Is Your Achievement? by Advancedman(m): 10:07pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
Zonefree: At least you're alive. Na person wey dey alive dey pay debts. Help am with the debt at least. |
Politics › Re: We Can Make Mistakes - Sanwo-Olu Reacts To Lagos Spending by Advancedman(m): 10:00pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mohbad's Dad Seized His Corpse After Autopsy, Refuses To Bury Him - Mohbad's Mum by Advancedman(m): 6:24pm On Nov 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: I Didn’t Know Of Any Cabal In My Government – Buhari by Advancedman(m): 9:51am On Nov 21, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: How We Lost Election For Not Bribing INEC, Police – Obasanjo by Advancedman(m): 9:45am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Ikaeniyan0: Obasanjo should not be the man that will be complaining about election rigging Do you people have brain at all? I doubt you still read at all. |
Politics › Re: Sanwo-olu Approved N73.1m For Tinubu’s Portrait, N44m For Vegetables by Advancedman(m): 9:01pm On Nov 20, 2023 |
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Crime › Re: Navy Destroys 15,775 Litres Of Stolen Crude Oil In Ondo by Advancedman(m): 11:22am On Nov 20, 2023 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Bible Scholars Should Explain Psalms 23:5 For Me by Advancedman(m): 9:55am On Nov 19, 2023 |
bamvik: I need an illustration or an example of these passage from bible scholars.
"Psalms 23:5: "Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies" Very simple, if you have ever triumph in the midst of enemies in many ways and life endeavors you will understand. Listen to KSA 'The merciful God" album. Mo n yan fanda fanda loju apegan bi opolo se n yan loju elegusi telegusi o gbodo yilata. |
Family › Re: Help Me, My Younger Brother Is Becoming Extremely Stubborn, & Steals by Advancedman(m): 10:48pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
Adasun: I will try and make this story short and I need your advice please...
I lost my dad March this year... His death was not natural but I won't bore you with details.
We did the burial rights and I move back to school.before I left, I noticed my brother who is 14yrs have this spiritual paranoia...he suspect many who came for condolences as if they were coming to attack...
I calm him down during those period and let him know that nothing is after him or us.
I left, only for my mum to call me that something is not right with my bro... He talks to himself, seems lost sometimes and have little to no regards for anyone.
They have taken him to many spiritual house and they still point to the person responsible for my dad's death- a neighbor.
This boy hates mum for no reason and often said she is not her mother.he sometimes threatened to kidnapped his immediate Younger brother or slap his elder sister.
He becomes aggressive and most painful part of it all right now is that he steal.
Meat, money.he just develop the habit of stealing. I have not visited home since I left but I need your advice. As the first born, I need to take some drastic step.
How do I handle thia?spiritual, psychological and any way possible to retrieve my Lovely lad, such advice is most welcome.
Thanks... Name and pictures please? Infact send me his full credentials |
Celebrities › Re: "Be Careful Who You Fall In Love With" – DJ Cuppy Warns Singles by Advancedman(m): 8:36pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
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Travel › Re: The Only Type Of Nigerian Who Will Enjoy The Japa Lifestyle Of The West by Advancedman(m): 8:35pm On Nov 18, 2023 |
sukkot: Truth of the matter is that if you are a social animal and you hate working hard and you like awoof you will absolutely hate living in the west.
Those 3 things I described is the typical naija person right ? Love to parrryyyyy and if you employ them they will spend half the time gisting or playing on the job and they like awoof like this is why naijas love 419 or olosho, it’s like awoof easy money.
Ehn so this is why many get miserable in the west. The west there is no socializing, nobody has your time, the west there is no free money and finally if white man employs you to do 10 hours walahi you will do all 10 hours no slacking.
And so this is why Nigerians get miserable in the west but if you are a rare type of Nigerian who is a hermit and you are a loner who hates socializing and you hate awoof money and you just loveee working extremely hard, you will love oyinbo country. You didn't add the tuale baba o join the lady awoof entitlement miscreants. |
Politics › Re: Bayelsa Poll: I Would Have Relocated My Mother To Abuja If Diri Had Lost – GEJ by Advancedman(m): 10:50pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Penguin2: When Obasanjo called Jonathan “clueless”, I thought he was being harsh on him.
But over the years, Jonathan has proven that he’s not just clueless, he’s a daft.
That Nigeria is where she is today is because of the man’s stupidity.
A sitting president allowed himself to be bullied out of power and became a confusionist since then.
Never blows hot.
Never blows cold.
Just there.
That’s why as an ex president he doesn’t have the loyalty of anyone.
Foolish man!
Don’t be like Jonathan. Thank God you are now understanding leadership and power. When I specifically say the reason I detest him then everybody wants to hang me. Power is not for the lukewarm even if you are dashed you use it or abuse it but don't make a mess of it. |
Politics › Re: Army Detonates 642 Unexploded Bombs From Ikeja Cantonment by Advancedman(m): 7:03am On Nov 17, 2023 |
Bliss62:

Who remembered Ikeja bomblast
The running into canal, the death , shock wave
How time flies
. Since 2002 imagine? So Ikeja, Oshodi, mende Ajao has been living on death trap. |
Crime › Re: Saheed Azeez Granted Asylum For Being Gay Masterminded £220k Fraud by Advancedman(m): 6:21pm On Nov 16, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Ribadu To Labour: Please Call Off The Strike, We've Arrested Ajaero's Attackers by Advancedman(m): 4:31pm On Nov 15, 2023 |
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Career › Re: Should Children Be Their Parents' Retirement Plan? by Advancedman(m): 4:30pm On Nov 15, 2023 |
Darevofpeace: I am so sick to my stomach!
*A 73-year old woman's statistics:*
She was a UNTH nurse and retired since 2007.
1. Widowed in 1999. 2. Gave birth to 6 children with 5 surviving *_(4 boys and a girl)_* 3. Her husband was a retired Principal 4. Her only daughter lives in Lagos *_( in a bad marriage since her husband doesn't allow her to bring her mum over)_* 5. Her three sons live abroad. The only son in Nigeria lives in Enugu and his wife pays her a visit on Sundays but stopped for reasons not revealed. 6. Her only sister, who is older than her but still strong in health, visited and found her in a bad state and decided to take her with her to her Umuahia home.
She had signs of dementia. She also suffers from diabetes and weak bladder. So, the urine smell complained by people is well understood.
Her only elder sister took care of her since her arrival till her sister's son had accident in Abuja and was left for neighbours to attend to her. The sister's neighbour left her and travelled.
*_Mama was found dead close to an open fridge. Her corpse has been deposited in a morgue this morning._*
Her first son is a medical doctor in America, married to a Brazilian and only called once in a while after her mum was moved to Umuahia by her sister and kids. ___________ ANALYSIS::
Mama is not childless.
She raised all her kids and they're all professionals.
Money was not an issue. Her husband, though a principal, built a bungalow where Mama and her kids lived till her death.
Mama's sister said her only daughter has only called twice since she came to Enugu and picked her younger sister with her.
Mama's senior sister wants to bury her Junior sister on her own and mourn her quietly !!
*_Her kids are now back crying and saying they will give their mother a befitting burial._*
I wanted to call them out & curse them.
I am in pains. ___________
My heart is heavy.
*_A woman that raised five children should not have suffered like this._*
While you're popping kids, remember that one day......
- The bones and muscles will be WEAK.. - The eyes might lose their functions - The bladder might be weak and you cannot control your urine. - Cash flow will cease. - Your legs won't be able to carry your weight. - Your hands might not hold things due to parkinson or rheumatism or any of the other numerous infirmities - Your mouth may be smelling because you cannot brush it well. - Your brain might stop functioning. - Dementia and loss of memory can set in. - *_You may not even be able to take care of your personal hygiene..._*
It is called OLD AGE characteristics.
*_Life can be harsh and your children may be too busy with their lives that your care will be relegated to STRANGERS._*
*Children are NOT retirement benefits.*
*_Old age is a reality !_* *Prepare for that time.* *Take care of your health.*
*Be armed !*
*_Learn this big lesson Today !_*
Thank you.
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Business › Re: Old Naira Notes Remain Legal Tender Indefinitely – CBN by Advancedman(m): 10:19am On Nov 15, 2023 |
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Politics › Re: Alleged Flouting Of Court Order: We Are Copying The FG - TUC President, Osifo by Advancedman(m): 10:06am On Nov 15, 2023 |
Nairalandnigga: Buhari started this nonsense when a court ordered him to release Nnamdi Kanu but he refused.
We the good people of Nigeria are following the footsteps of Tinubu and Buhari. Must you you bring buhari into what is all FG Agbada irrespective of who is there infact all Naija Authorities. police, efcc, governors |