₦airaland Forum

lawani:
You are very correct. It is an academic response but the seal on the argument is a song by Yoruba mothers that says the mother is the true owner of the child, the mother is undoubtedly the owner of the child, it is only when we are pranking ourselves that we say the father owns the child. The logic in the song is that the true father is known only to the mother. All women know who impregnated them but also know who have the right over the child.

Of course ...the woman almost always knows who get the belle.

...except of course in a weird case she fvcked the men on the same day or perhaps in a twó or threesóme parole....

Baba. .... It's is key to date or marry a person who has a disciplined sexual life style...

yemmit90:
Lolz.

Though the fault is entirely on the person who hanged another man's pregnant on her husband but in a situation whereby the sperms donor knows the woman is married, and still go ahead to pour his sperms in her, he should be punish too with fine.

If he carry the woman as olosho or one night stand, then there should no punish on him.

He doesn't have to carry her as an olosho on the street before she is an olosho ....

...once a woman has a husband and she still spreading legs everywhere....then she is automatically an olosho....

A married woman has no business with another man's penîs ...

gfelo:
I have been asking this question why is that there is no provision for punishment against paternity fraudsters, I don't really know why?

while they rush to promulgate penalties for raping they forget to make punishment for this very act, the consequences/effect of paternity fraud is even greater than rape.

The reason is because in court..., motive or intent is usually proven as well in order to establish the condition of "beyond reasonable doubt" which is needed to determine the sentence a guilty person ......

For example..if a person kills and it's true they killed ...the court still needs to prove motive to determine the judgement....

Is it planned or premeditated murder?? maybe borne out of anger, malice, greed: that's first degree murder and could attract capital punishment

Is it an impulsive murder. Like murder that happen when u are suddenly provoked : e g crime of passion, like u walked in on ur best friend banging ur wife ... The sentence will be different....

it could also be self defence which means u could walk away free even though u killed the person......


The problem with paternity fraud is that women always have a roof to hide under...and that roof is deniability of the existence of the pregnancy.....while they can spread their legs for as many men as possible in one day....It's all too easy for them to claim ignorant of the time or existence of the pregnancy..... So proving beyond doubt that a woman knows she was pregnant before sleeping with who she pinned the baby in becomes difficult


So just like self defence ...the vagina pple can easily walk away by claiming the fraud wasn't intentional.... I mean a woman can even lie she was raped....so what are we even saying ... ..Unless an infallible proof exist ...they will always walk away

Olumeme:
What of cases where babies are exchanged at the Hospital, who get purnished?

Is that paternity fraud??

That's no longer paternity fraud...u pple should get the meaning of paternity fraud

elonmuskbaby:
I only asked a question OGA,I didn't tell you I had any problem.it will have been ok to Waka pass.nobody forced you to comment.thank you young man

Lol ....u dey disguise....see who said she does everything to avoid comments, shades or insults... ...
U wey dey serve as e dey hot ...u na "every must collect" kinda of person..

There's a thin line btw being strict and being wicked....

There's is a thin line having boundaries and and being proud, full of yourself and disrespectful.....

There's also a thin line btw being formal and rude ..

.. No dey cross lines come dey say pple dey assume........Forget what anyone is saying or assuming about u...just be urself good or bad, werey or nice... ..don't confuse the thunder that may want to fire you.

Matix222:
I hope so I’m buying now

No need to hope....

It's a certainty with a clueless and wicked government in power.....

It will even enter 2000naira before end of first quarter 2024

Matix222:
Please I need advice on this is there a chance that dollar rate will still go up?

Buy dollar oooooo

Buy dollar ..... U can never go wrong buying...

HeatSeeker:
You guys on this thread are just hilarious! maybe it's because you have all taken overdose of the redpill. You have all completely failed to understand my point.

Paternity fraud is in most cases an outcome of adultery. The man that got the wife pregnant is just as responsible as the wife that pins the pregnancy on the unsuspecting husband. If there is any punishment, both should be penalised.

Shiorr.....

Jewessgratitud3:
Ok na

Don't forget to update us when his dick starts entering you.... I know u will soon change moniker ask for advice :advantage and disadvantages of marrying younger men".

Jewessgratitud3:
LoL.. Why e come pain you extra like this.? Abeg shift.

Which one is pain...??

.u roast me ..I roast u.... That's normal nairaland way naaa

Jewessgratitud3:
Well .. your guess is as good as mine. Now I'm beginning to see why he's been dishing out tasks to me.


That's not what I'm saying. You know well what I'm talking about. You said he wants to sleep with me and I'm trying to erase that notion by making you understand he's a born again therefore cannot do such. Stop beating about.


Yes I'm 42 but I no spoil like you wen start to dey know bad things from the age of 12. .
I was exposed to Godly lifestyle and good moral values from birth till now. So I may not understand the language of the world. Na una come dey spoil me for nairaland.



Excited? About what please? Huh! The way you men massage your ego whenever a woman shares her experience with a man here by thinking we are excited when chyked by a younger man or any man for that matter baffles me. Like... Did he buy me a car or a house that is making me excited? Cut that crap abeg.

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I'm not belittling him. I just said I don't fancy younger guys.

Yawn!!!... U are no different from him.... U are just Pretending ..... Small time u'll start speaking in tongue while sitting on his dîck

Abeg shift with your Holy than thou attitude.. exposed to Godly lifestyle indeed...Godly lifestyle now means u don't understand basic human behaviour

Jewessgratitud3:
Ok, so that's what "hear your voice" means to you men?" But this one na born again now🤔🤔 besides we never ever had that kind of discussion before.

I'm not forming vandam.

U never had that discussion?? So is not one day he will make the move...besides he has been making the move u just didn't notice, he only increased the volume

He is born again?? So being born again means his he can't be attracted to opposite sex??

Wait ...Are u sure u are 42?? U are sounding very inexperienced about basic human behaviour...or is it that u are just kinda excited a younger guy may find u attractive .....besides Dem no dey write age for face.... He doesn't know ur age and u women just like belittling pple...u probably don't know his age yet u calling him small boy

success9:
In many cases, it will only be known to the woman that the child belongs to A and not B. Mr A will be ignorant of it.

I wonder how someone could say it takes two to tangle

The guy knows... He's just trying to impress someone here

Jewessgratitud3:
Everything is not about sex ogar!!! Ksi!

Okay ...nor vex ....


I didn't say everything is about sex..... I just told u the possibility of of what hearing ur voice can lead to.... Na u ask for opinion... Na u dey form vandame

Jewessgratitud3:
At 42 someone will deceive me with sex? Haba... E get wetin person dey pass.

Of course he can't deceive u....if u spread it, u can't claim u were deceived.....ur flesh want it

At 42...what is it that u don't get here ... A man with penîs said he wants to hear your voice....
It's pretty straight forward..
..if the idea of fvcking him is cool with u...go and pray with him... If not.....tell him u are not interested in prayers and he should not ask again....

All this ur comment of calling him a small boy no follow.... If he nack u once..u will know he's no a small boy

emmaodet:

This is a smackdown bro

Baba no vex ...
When a man that a woman control opens his mouth to give an opinion....... u will easily know.....

MasterJayJay:
Adultery is different from paternity fraud.

If you knew the definition of paternity fraud, you would not have made the 'two to tango' bla bla bla.

The man married the woman, he didn't marry the dog that slept with the wh0re.

I can bet my last card his babe is on nairaland.....his girlfriend will beat him if he doesn't support women .....can u imagine a man blaming men for paternity fraud.....

HeatSeeker:
It takes two to tango. If your wife gets pregnant outside marriage, then there must be another man involved. You cannot punish the wife and let the man go. The same goes for adultery.

There is no two tango here.......how are u reasoning sir?

Fvcking around is one thing....both the man and woman decided to do that..

... Paternity fraud is a different thing...a wicked level of witchcraft....it is the decision of a woman only to pin Mr A's baby on Mr B......no other person's decision....

. Oya ..I know ur girlfriend will beat u if u don't support women...so be careful how u answer......please explain how u will punish the man that ur wife slept with if u catch ur wife fvcking another man since u can't punish her and leave the man ...?? Mr two tango....

..or u will rub her in the back that's it's not totally her fault for fvcjing another penîs when urs is available, abi why will the owner of the penis allow her fvck it??

HeatSeeker:
Who exactly should be penalised here? The errant wife or the sperm donor?

Sigh!!

Is it that u don't know what paternity fraud is or ur girlfriend dey monitor ur comment on nairaland??

Abubanty:
just to supervise/accompany the kid on the journey to UK as kid cant travelled unaccompanied.

I dont know why they cant even come and pick their kid

Wetin dey even vex me na my wife. i have told her not to bring the matter to me again but she keeps bring it up.

12 year old dey fly alone naaaa ..make Dem call airline.......

Are u buying ticket together??

Abubanty:
Pls house, advise needed. I am to travel next month to join my wife and it happens that a colleague of my wife is pleading with her to convince me to accompany their child of 12 yrs to UK(visa and consent letter to be provided). I have told my wife I can't as a first time traveler, I don't want any POE issue. The matter is now starting to cause problems btw me and my wife. As of this morning she has raised it again. Please is it advisable I help or maintain my stance?

I nor understand this parole well ...cos nothing Nigerians nor dey package??

Are they asking u to claim false relationship with the kid or just to supervise the kid in transit??

malware:
We are animals, sir, that's why we kill each other in large scale. Our innovative skills cannot mask our beastly nature.

Robots can kill..... doesn't make them animals

...

U are denying evidence because of ordinary sex...Our cognitive function is too advance for u to refer to us as mere animals .... Yes our genetic codes are similar making us behave similar in some primal level ...still doesn't make us exactly same..... If we are mere animals why is rape a crime...?? Why is murder a crime....

malware:
Don't get me wrong ooo, I'm not advocating for non-consensual coitus but discrimination against people over consensual sex is not fair. In this case for instance, the woman enjoyed her sexcapade on two occasions, only for her to report him later, for her own reasons. So people condemning him for having such a consented sex are not fair to him, because he's just obeying nature.

But at the end of the day we are not mere animals.. I mean we are the specie that can make planes, mobile phones, etc.... and that's why we operate by rules which are in place for reasons..yeah...they might not be fair sometimes ..I agree....But the rules sometimes help.....

malware:
God gave men higher sexual urge so that they can chase women for pro-creation. If both men amd women were given the same sexual urge, none will make the first move. Any claim of self-control is nothing but extreme self-denial and pretense. We are nothing but animals, who claim to be social. Remove the public pretense and see how randy many people are.

Just for u to get home to your own woman...u call that extreme self denial and pretense...

Lol

KillIgbohoN0W:
It wasn't consensual but he went to her house to Bleep her & she still returned to the hospital for more bleeps.

Where is your brain?

Lol

marvellous2222:
My wife threatened to divorce me if I bring my mama to live with us. My mama is 55 years old and she's not strong.

Oga...if there is no other option for ur mum except ur place.... let her divorce you naaaa.. abi no be u get house??

Goodly1:
This is wickedness!🤔 UKVI could've granted your visa since you applied earlier (29th August) before your employer's sponsorship licence was revoked on 16th October.😡

The employer is the evil one here...

Before that 16th the license was finally revoked, the employer's would have been on suspension months before......and hence should not take on any applicant because it's 50/50

Once employer is on suspension....any application that comes on will be delayed by ukvi until suspension is lifted or license terminated

Slaveman343:
Baba rest. If you see woman wey dey spread you no go know? How you think say other men dey chyke them? Una go just dey talk anyhow

Who is this pangolin... U just jump at me with insult...u dey ment abi na kwale weed u smoke??

... Problem with u pple on nairaland is that u don't want counter comment.. must everyone agree with whatever shiit u type...... Abi u want to be unfortunate this night

Ehennnn!!!! Treat her like her company u want to be employed?? Abi no be these same women wey several other men dey chike and fvck anyhow??

.... Una dey try ooooooo

Thatbinigirl:
Please help me... I did biometrics since 29th of August and the refusal letter just came in this morning.
What does this mean?

Pele....

No overthink am.....I know say e go pain

But .. u go dey alright


Pple wey dey enter through all these yeye employer wey no get jobs,. If them no quickly move go better employer, na same thing go still happen.... One of my guy just tell me a week back say home office don revoke the employer licence .....baba say e dey find citiz3n to marry