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Alarmist everywhere....

Both genders kill each other .......it's not a Nigerian thing ..nit a man thing, not a woman thing ........it's a human thing .... But women always know how to make it look like they are the only victim

There have been periods where nairaland front page was filled with women stabbing, pouring hot water, and other crazy way of killing their boyfriends and husband...

None of u opened thread.... Infact some women here said men deserved it as a form of support for their gender...lol...

Whatever anybody like they should say ..... Opinion is free ...at the end of the day, gender wars has always been a norm on nairaland ...so.. Let the war continue

Wujio:
I've earned in dollars for atleast 15 years. Come back to this thread in twelve months tine

So basically ...u just dey cap??

Wujio:
Dollar may plummet. It is in uncertain region now. Go and trade back.to.Naira. Bankers are even scared now where it's going next. I checked and dollar is still around 1,240-1,300 so no loss. You can't hold dollar at 1240 rate. No. It is wrong go and exchange back to Naira. You lost the rally.already

U pple just forecast in a funny way ....

What yardstick or conditions are u using to forecast??

The government has said they are not injecting cash into the market anymore to keep the rate fixed... hence the float ..

Our export is very low..
No one is demanding for our naira in the international market....

Government could have demand for our c naira from our crude oil customer which could drive naira demand.... ..but no .we always want to worship our masters that borrow us money ...Nigeria is a country that does what is injurious to her economy because of loan that will keep Nigeria in bondage...


So how will the naira rise exactly??
Are u just hoping or u are one of those that have faith in tinubu.....??

PoliteActivist:
You are being really ridiculous, my guy. A person makes a statement, "Don't ever forgive a cheating woman" , which begs an obvious question, "how about a cheating man". He could have replied all sorts of ways. He chose to reply with the nonsensical assertion that a man can't cheat! And you're here talking about personal experiences he might have had!

Sigh...we also went through this earlier.... That question (what of a cheating man??) is for a woman to answer.....

Saying a man can't cheat is a different issue entirely...because its a context ....and is likely drawn from a premise...

If u are a woman married to a polygamous man.....such man can't cheat.....
His wives cannot accuse him of cheating because they have agreed to share penîs with other women in the first place... Everytime he flirts with another woman ..it would just be seen as a move to take another wife......same goes for a man that is married to a polygamous women...

But if course, if it's a monogamous relationship or marriage ...faithfulness is expected from both man and woman...

Oya let's not fight again.....

I will answer the question for him...

What of a man that cheats?? He should not be forgiven or taken back.....unless the wife his willing to live in a marriage that lacks trust and full of. hypertension.....

PoliteActivist:
Ok, I see what your problem is.
You were not there at the beginning.
Here's the Genesis of it:

We've been through this earlier.....and i don't have problem

The statement "Don't forgive a cheating woman" came from a premise of being hurt by a woman.......I already mentioned that it means don't forgive a cheating partner.. the person spoke from his personal experience...

but u were expecting the person to say it the way u want just because u feel hurt as a woman by the statement...... u are claiming some pseudo fairness ... It funny

.I wasn't biased because I agreed...a woman can also say " men are scum" because it will be coming from a premise of being hurt by a man ...she didn't have to say it another way to be fair or unbiased

babakb:
Oga there's Top Up degree are recognized everywhere in the world.
Do you know the barriers that HND poses to it's holders??

Then go to a university and get a degree if u feel u have barriers....or u go to where diplomas are accepted into topup degrees programmes.... Not asking the government to turn ur diploma into a degree......

My brother did a top up degree to get his bachelor's biomedical science using his bachelors in medical microbiology ........ Not converting a Diploma(that's isn't a degree to begin with) into a bachelors degree...u pple and ur tinubu style of obtaining degree.. u are funny....

U didn't fulfill the requirements and the course contents of a degree but u want the degree......okay ooooo ...

. Small time u will want to top up to earn MBBS..... Una well done.... Na so LGBT pple start

PoliteActivist:
You are manufacturing things in your head. Here's what I said verbatim:
I'm simply being unbiased - if a woman says men are scum, I'd ask her if that includes her father, brothers, and sons!

That's an unrelated analogy I brought up...

this thread isn't about women calling men scum.... It's about a cheating woman..

..and for some weird reason....u brought a cheating man into saying u are being fair ... Which made me asked the earlier question what's fairness here....

..... Which also made me asked what's paining u when pple open thread about cheating women when in actual fact a woman cheated.........??

damosade:
I have Hnd, and later went to university for my bsc.... so u won't say u are better than me

HD holders are the one making themselves feel inferior... Both certificates are not the same.....

...I don't understand why diploma holders want to be seen degree holders without going to a university ...

PoliteActivist:
You may speak from any perspective or experience you wish. I'd answer you from my own perspective of being unbiased and neutral, and fairness

How is this fairness....??

A woman is hurt by a man ..and she says men are scum..... But u expect her to say men and women are scum just to be fair?? Lol .....u are fvnny

Gensece:
Hello good people of this society.
Pls I came in to UK 3mths ago on a tier 2 visa, so I want to commence process to bring my spouse in as a dependent, and later the children. Kindly advise on the documents required to apply for spouse first
I will also add that I live in a shared apartment with NO bill or contract in my name (all these are in the primary tenant name), will this condition have any effect in the application?

TB test
Ur GWF number
Passport
Police character certificate
Proof of funds if applicable....
Marriage certificate...
What's app chat...
Pictures ....plenty pictures
Tenancy agreement or joint account, or individual accounts carrying the same address as the one u used to apply for u visa...she can also driver's licence if it carries ur home address.....



Home office will not check where two adults live .....if u like live in the road ....but when u are bringing the kids u will need a standard apartment....
But u should worry if ur flatmate or land lord will not get angry u are bringing in more pple.... because for ..more pple is assumed by some pple to be more water, more heat, more gas, more noise and altogether, a violation of contract

PoliteActivist:
You're the one acting like it's paining you and therefore being biased.
I'm simply being unbiased - if a woman says men are scum, I'd ask her if that includes her father, brothers, and sons!

Me?? Biased....U are the one looking for equality where is not needed forgetting that people speaker from existing premise.....

When a woman says men are scum...she is speaking from a premise of being hurt by a man ...I ask u this ...why will she say men and women are scum just to make u the reader happy or so that u dont think she's biased....

U women don't just like hearing ur bad behavior....

PoliteActivist:
If he had just answered "never forgive a cheating man too" that would have been the end of the discussion. Instead he went on a rambling treatise about how there is no such thing as a cheating man!

U are making this a gender issue...and expect pple to speak how u want..... men talk from position of men just as women will talk from position of women......

Have u not heard women say men are scum.. does it mean their fathers and brothers too are scum?? They are speaking from a premise

At the end of the day... Don't forgive a cheating partner is the advice... but individuals opening a topic will speak from their personal experience and position ...I don't get why this is paining u??

omooba969:
What most men fail to realise is that sex (for most women) is transactional - even in marriage. To the streetwise or experienced woman, sex is a form of currency for which they expect a remuneration.

It's different for men, we just want to calm our nerves bcoz of our raging testosterone.

That's when u marry retired olosho....



Not all women behave weaponized sex...

PoliteActivist:
Seems you're the one bothered. Someone said never forgive a cheating woman. I simply asked how about a cheating man!

Thats an question for a woman to answer naaaa

I don't get why u expect a man be worried about another woman's husband behaviour

GenderMix:
I am a man and I get stressed out sometimes. Even if you are a sexy freak, some days are like that.

Remember the lady talked about after giving birth. If you are married you'll agree that their bodies need to heal

What stress makes u not want to have sex for weeks going to months sir..... There are women that tell their husband they are stressed for months ...

It's marriage ...can't just keep tell someone stress is the reason u are pushing them away anytime they want to get intimate with you..

That's why I asked u to define stress... Weda man or woman....it's not fair to hide under undefined stress for many week or months..

There are times I don't feel like having sex ..but when I allow my partner near me because I know pushing some away can make them feel bad...I get in the mood as long as I am not incapacitated or sick

GenderMix:
Sometimes you can be stressed and not be in the mood to have sex. Nothing wrong with that if it's once in a while. Marriage is beyond sex

What exactly is stress?? That word is what u women use to push ur husband away ....

Madam... if u are not incapacitated, or sick...u can't be hiding under stress for many weeks, yet u wake up go to work and do everyother thing ........ It's just witholding sex because u want to do so....

.. We all don't feel like paying bills.. we pay it anyways......and like I said earlier..we all don't have to be starving before we eat

GenderMix:
It's only a man that lacks common sense that would put the wife under such pressure because of sex.

By the way, can people just drop that crap that once you are married your body belongs to your spouse 😒. For Pete's sake, you guys are 2 different entities and will remain so until you die. Lol

Everything in marriage must be mutually agreed eventhough there can be compromises here and there. You shouldn't force your spouse into sex.

May God grant us wisdom.

Weda man or woman.....Any one that sees ordinary sex that both party enjoys as pressure has no business being married....

What most women want is to have sex only when u women want it ....that's wrong..

...many of u don't even want ur husband to come close to you.....yet if he does u will get in the mood...so why not let him get u into the mood instead of pushing him away until ur body naturally into mood once a month or once in 6 months...that's just wickedness and controlling sex just because u can....

.. It's not only when u are starving that u eat.. sometimes, u just make effort to eat and still enjoy the food ....

PoliteActivist:
Nope. All I see is "never marry a non-virgin", "never forgive a cheating wife". Even Okafor's law does not apply to men!

Maybe u just don't want to see it ...they are on nairaland...

Men open topics that matter to them ...women to open topics that matter to them too... why is that paining you?? I don't get why u are bothered about topics of happening in People's lives....

PoliteActivist:
See him. You know full well that's not what I meant.
Simple: all these rantings about cheating women, but totally quiet about cheating men. Hence the original question: HOW ABOUT EL RUFAI??

So u have not seen topics about men cheating here??

PoliteActivist:
Exactly! Cheating is cheating hence the original question to those ranting about cheating women : HOW ABOUT CHEATING MEN??

So ...u point is u don't want a man to feel upset and rant that his wife cheated on him just because other men out there are cheating in their wives??

U know I asked u before how ur brain works??

PoliteActivist:
Well, the thread is about cheating. If a man with wives, WIVES, still find it necessary to cheat, what does that tell you about men?

Some men cheat some women cheat....so what's ur point??

PoliteActivist:
A married man is cheating on his WIVES

Bros...this thread is about a woman chatting on her husband...

And u are talking about a man cheating in his wives..... A man in a polygamous relationship and the women that agreed to be in such marriage all subscribed to cheating.... Abi how do u agree to be in a marriage with a man where u share penîs with other women.... There is no cheating here ..there is an agreement....
There are also polygamous women out there so don't rant

PoliteActivist:
Sooo what do you call this man below?
And does it seem fair to you?
Notice how "our society" where this is practiced is messed up and we are all trying to run away to societies where things are fairer?

......a married woman is cheating on her husband......and u asking for the cheating man and posting elrufai...... how are u reasoning sir, is ur brain in flight mode??

u men that reason with ur woman's pvssy. .how do u even do it

SenatePresdo:
The supreme court is about to affirm Corruption, oppression, Bad Economic Policies, impunity, bigotry, Nepotism and Reckless looting by various APC political Scavengers.

One thing is Certain, and that's what gives me Joy.

It will reach everybody regardless of tribe or religion

Baba ..everybody go collect....

Weda u collect bribe or not..........this new economy go reach u....

PoliteActivist:
How about a cheating man?

Which cheating man??

Yankiss:
Well, she might be correct. Childbirth makes a lot of changes in a woman. It affects her shape and sometimes self-esteem and how she views life. Some are still scared of the labour room and the trauma. Recovery is gradual. Also, men and women react differently to sex. She has to be in the mood way ahead of time. While men are instantaneous, women may take longer to arrive there. He should romance her in the morning, cuddle, smooch, any kind of rough play or sexually-spiked teasing. He shouldnt become the preacher. She still wants to be pampered and cuddled like during courtship. She would be in the mood later. OP should not listen to the advise of wreckers here.

This is not child birth issue ........she has realized she has leverage and deliberately weaponized her body .... How can a woman tell her husband he has to earn the access to her body ??

Women always pretend they don't want sex like men ...so they can have leverage.....
. And it's all lies....if u look well they are either cheating or heavily masturbating

josite:
she has evolved into an emotional expensive woman and she is asking u to pay more emotionally in order to earn the emotional income that already belongs to you.

if solution is really your quest,why not be extra nice and extra caring to her ,sing love songs to her,buy her small small gifts .

It will only get worse if he follows ur solution..
She has started weaponizing her body because she has sensed she has some leverage in the union
. If he starts obeying her now...its human nature that she will enjoy it cos power is sweet which will make her increase the cost of gaining access to her body later........

This is what happens when a man marries a retired prostituté... Their old habits of demanding for something for sex always manifest

Johnny121:
Good evening house VAF requested for additional document evidence of English language I notice my certificate is not having UKvi but I knew I input the right details when I registered kindly confirm for me if this is the new IELTS certificate thanks

I don't think this is UKVI ielts... If u submit it...they will just refuse ur application

Zyzman:
Good day everyone
My iphone 13 pro max suddenly doesn't come on again this morning.
I used it last night and it was at 93% when i left it and go to bed.
This morning now it refuse to on, I have tried charging it for hours and even did the hard reset (vol up then vol down then hold the power button) yet it doesn't come on.
Please guys what do you suggest I do and what could be the problem?

Take it to technician naaa ......it may just be the battery.....or even screen.....or panel

Are u sure it's not on?? I had an iphone 6 plus once...I put the phone on in morning and the thing didn't show ...I didn't know the phone was alive ... I was already thinking of selling for scrap......until something just said take it to the repair guys naaa...
Behold...it was screen ooo....the screen just went dead like it expired...it didn't break or fall
...

b4ball:
Do you know why this logic doesn’t hold water? No one can claim ignorance of existence of pregnancy. Even if you did not know time of conception, within a few weeks or months, it becomes naturally obvious. During pregnancy, you undergo periodic scans which points to duration of pregnancy(a vis time of conception) as well as likely time of delivery.

If your scan says you are 4 months gone and you know 4 months ago, you ate the d^cks of Emeka, Roland and Musa. Why would you pin the pregnancy solely on Roland? It becomes a case of “it may or may not be yours “. The lady is duty bound to tell the man that it’s a probability.

Subscribe to paternity court; judge Lauren lake on YouTube.

Lol..u are funny ....its not a logic I came up it ..it's how cases works in court.....u must prove motive beyond reasonable doubt.....

.So if a woman sleeps with 2 men in a week.... U are saying she cannot deny she didn't know she was already pregnant for Mr A (she fvcked on Monday) at the time she was fvcking Mr B in Saturday?? Are you sure u know how pregnancy works??

U even said it urself it becomes a case of "it may"... that's where denial comes in..

. A woman can even claim she has forgotten she slept with emeka and Rowland..how will u prove she didn't forget because a woman that's fvck so many men with reckless abandon can forget...
.... She can say she assumed it was emeka because emeka slept with her first....and because she's not a medical expert and the period of sex with the men was close.....her assumption will be counted as ignorance...no lawyer can prove it was intentional to pin musa's baby on emeka

Intent of this nature is the most difficult to prove in court ..... And that's vagina pple can easily deny they had a motive to commit paternity fraud .

gfelo:
Sir even in Marriage?

Is she not supposed to update the husband incase of any incident?

Being secretive until the DNA test is perform that alone should be another capital offense Sir.

Thats why I always say any woman is capable of paternity fraud..all of them......because silence is an easier option than confessing they fvcked another man ....