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aderemi166:
I appreciate your response.

Now that the kids’ applications are still pending, what do we do?
Do you advise she sends them mail?

What’s next? She is trying to be strong at the moment with the situation.

englishmart:

Recently one posted a picture of she and her sisters in a gold-plated private Jet 2023 edition, eating chicken wings and kebabs.

Here's the picture below.

concho:
Thought I would, someday

marenx:
This will affect mostly the innocent ones. Israel should suffer the terrorists only and spare the innocent.

purples25:
I'll debate and apply logic, as I please, thank you.

People are responsible for their actions, and the ACCOMPLICES are also responsible too.! Yes.

This way of thinking of yours, where two people are to blame for a turn out, yet you want only one person to shoulder the blame ....

This is what makes parents keep teaching their girls to be chaste, while allowing the boys to be wild. With this, the turnout remains the same.

purples25:
Yes, just like you. I hope this theory will apply to when you guys spend on girls and start crying. You too were not manipulated. Guys too should never cry about being victims. Since that's the way we want to play it.

You are telling me that on judgement day God will just wave you guys aside that you were merely temptations and you had no part in it at all, hence no punishment for seducers. Does that make sense to you? Don't give yourselves false hope

Pooldrowning:


Hating such...what was he thinking all this while never to notice are none commitment?

purples25:
I laugh at the assumption that every woman having sex Is gaining something somehow. That's a great myth. Many women aren't getting a dime from guys that are sleeping with them. Also, women have sex for pleasure too, but they could actually hold themselves if men didn't insist on it as a condition to continue relationships.

Only a woman who wasn't pressurized into sex can be classified as not a victim. A lot of times women have gone through different men because they were trying to keep the man happy/ keep the relationship, and man insisted on sex as a necessity for continuity.

purples25:
Lol so because you scammed me and I fell into the scam, that means I should only blame myself. You don't hold any accountability. You are joking.

Even if women decide not to blame men, it can't erase their part in it, you know. As long as you participated, you share that blame with the women. Even the law works that way.

purples25:
Lol I saw that advice on tv, abstinence stuff. Saw it when I was very young. Something that I also saw in books, men, you can't hide this stuff. Go research, that quote is popular.

You guys can't be lying to women that you love them then you sleep with them, then you say that none of it is your fault. No sir, you walked up to them or chatted them up, charmed them with sweet words and promises and later demand sex or you are leaving. You guys can't wash your hands off this.

purples25:
Lol, really? Okay. How come this bit of advice is popular around the world...'If he loves you, he will wait?' a piece of advice commonly given to young girls? I'm guessing it's not exactly the girls pressurizing guys, 🤔.

Who owns the majority of books on seducing the other party? Tricks to make the other gender like them? Is it women? Nope, it is men.

Yes, women have choices, but they don't go around making men broke, before coming out to say they want a rich man. Men seduce those small girls and sleep with a lot of them, then come out crying for virgins. Let's not add the much higher rate of rape amongst men.

We don't choose to f around o. From even 12 years to 29 years at least, there is mad pressure on women from guys. Guys will convince them that they love them, only to sleep with them and leave them. Over and over again. Yes, you can argue about the will of women, but can you deny these things?

Men are very wild sexually, frolicking about and not caring who they use. It really doesn't make sense to start devaluing women after this. It's the women you guys contribute to creating that you get.

It is better that men change their values by not encouraging wild sexual behavior amongst themselves, to better keep their women. They say Nigeria is full of promiscuous women. Check out the men, do they respect their women?

A country with chaste women, is a country where their women are protected by their men, and respected. Check any country with good women, look at their way of handling their women, sexually or otherwise.

You can choose what you want, but don't plant corn and expect apple trees.

purples25:
It is a personal decision, yes. Unless you are pressured, coerced and deceived.


Staying at home, lol. A guy once told me that he would rather have casual sex with a girl from a good home than bed a prostitute. I asked why? Guy said quelling his urges with a prostitute meant that he was a loser. That is how most guys think. With social media, it is in their houses that most girls get pressured, decieved and drawn out.

I'm not going to be gaslighted here. Girls in the University are considered fair game. Being a stud that has slept with many fine girls is the ambition of many very young guys. Telling stories of who they've done is a favorite past time of guys. You can connect the dots if you wish.

Yes, you guys are fond of creating whores. And then crying wolf.

purples25:
Hi Jerome. I'm curious. If men truly follow your rules, why are there many non virgins roaming about? If men truly follow your dictates, all women should be married to who disvirgined them by now. So what happened? If the men did follow your rules, no unchaste woman should be out there now.

I'm just curious. Is it that the men slept with some virgins and then left them and didn't marry them? Because it looks like that is what happened. Can you explain the non virgins being rejected please? Why are there non virgins? What happened to the men that disvirgined them? Why have those men refused to marry them? Didn't those girls keep themselves as well?

It's doubtful o. It seems as if your guys are the ones creating the so called whores whom you turn around to condemn. Abeg explain. I no understand.

budaatum:
You sound like some angry god in the old testament, whining that your creations don't slave in your garden no more nor bow down and worship you.

You could destroy his marriage, if you please, though that would be like cutting off your own nose to punish your face, or you can go read about the New Testament God and be taught to be more compassionate and understanding and less stupid and ignorant.

MT:
Did you actually have the data to watch over one hour of video?

aderemi166:
Hello Gurus,

Kindly help, a friend of mine(the Main Applicant) applied for a skilled worker visa with her Children and her new Husband(who is not the father of the kids but now married to my Friend).

The visa of the main applicant has been issued, while that of the Children is still pending and the Partner’s visa has been refused, however, he has been given 28days to reapply or seek for AR. My Questions please:

1.) are they likely to grant the Children visas without their Mother’s Partner(step-father), knowing that their Mother who is the Main Applicant has been granted Visa?

2.) What is the probability that the Partner would be granted Visa after submitting more supporting documents and evidences that they are truly married)?

Beremx:
go and ask Regina Daniels reason she married Ned Nwoko. She's in a better position to answer you.

Beremx:
Fine woman, you're 20years older than your husband. How on earth did you expect him to love you? Dude scammed you for real.

Hope you find true love from someone who's your age bracket

Nyascobar1414:
Grade 1 simp,lol

YelloweWest:
That's the problem with your generation, you never accept basic knowledge and wisdom. What exactly do you mean by women who deserve appreciation? Are you married? If yes, why doesn't your partner automatically qualify to be appreciated?

If your partner doesn't deserve your appreciation, why are you together?

..."Not the type that think it's their right just because they have a vagina"... This is the basic description of a prostitute.


..."or they think they are doing us a favour by being in our"... This is the description of a narcissistic.

If you go for these type of people, then why complain? None of these traits can be hidden...

So if you are with a sex worker or a narcissistic and you conclude that such person does not deserve your appreciation, WHY ARE YOU WITH SUCH A PERSON??

louken:
What type of mistake

harqinhola:
Yes , I will . Especially if it was a mistake and my wife is sincerely apologetic.

virginchaser:
I could see your vintage point of addressing the issue. For real, i got so many female friends that i have helped and still helping with and without benefits. My example is a one off thing to encourage brothers to help brothers even more. Many guys need help and support.

YelloweWest:
I'm already humble enough to appreciate my partner who forsaken all others to be with me. A concept you clearly find difficult to accept or comprehend.

Omoawoke2:
I feel it is pure exploitation done by weak men

Men with low self esteem that are ready to sleep with the most vulnerable women.

I am not saying I’m a saint but if you want sex, go and chase your class, not someone in dire need of help. It is no different from rape

Odingo1:
Please in a distant marriage where the husband is the only one that greets the wife in the morning or call to ask about her but the day the husband will not greet in the morning or call the wife there will be no response from the wife the whole day or the wife will not care to ask about the his husband. What does that Suggest ?

McCoy662:
Bad guy 🤣🤣
This really helped me back in the days

DukeNija:
I’m sure you’re not married. No woman will or should make an unforgivable mistake to marry a toxic man-child like you. And please remain single till you understand what marriage entails.

Figger:
Lol. we call it Dutch courage