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whats fvnny is..single mothers dont want single fathers.... single mothers dont even want their son to marry fellow single mothers.


So single mothers should stop complaining and find a way to be happy with their child or children....

Westerhoffe:
Sarcasm if highest order!
Chai!!

Sarcasm bawo?? I plead not guilty

Westerhoffe:
And who has been responsible for the pregnancies?
Caricatures?

Abeg drop that beer… it's too early for alcohol.

Don't mind them jare...all the women out there that are not virgins were all ráped by all the 30 to 40 men body count that slept with them ....they were also forcefully driven to the hospital to force them to do multiple abortion against their wish....

No woman truly want sex... how can a woman willingly spread her legs for any man when she's not yet married.....

men should be blamed...the women dont know what they are doing..

Praktikals:
Visa Alert.
@ advancedna Thank you so much for always helping to normalise my bp. May the good lord be your strength, source and shield.
We are a family of 6. 3 visas are out. Additional documents are requested for accomodation and I ve sent them my the document of my parents house in sheffield

👍

Genea:
lol, the man is contemplating on marrying within 9 months of stay, does that not tell you a lot about it.... lmao, he deserves all he gets... if he has been good, marriage won't be the first thing on his mind

Another femal trying to blame the man for something....

What is the "a lot" u are talking about.?? U have no point cos u are just trying to paint whats not in he story
Wife said she's not coming back after getting to uk.....And somehow this is about blaming the man... for what exactly?? ... even if its one month she said she's not going back...Thats technically divorcing him because of abroad life.... but u want the man to old man to start begging or what....??

How u women process situation is just weird
If he has been good?? How did they live together all this while if he has been bad.

Abifarin16:
After you get the slim one, e go still commot for your head. Just stay where you are or become a chaser forever. Human desire is crazy.

Na discipline be the real problem of human being

Numero123:
@AdvanceDNA, Thank you so much for your Prompt and Apt Response. You’ve really been helpful to everyone following this thread! God Bless You!

The Major Reason for wanting to update the Visa, is lack of Job/SHIFTS from the so-called “sponsored” Employer. 3 Months in the UK and no single Shift. Also no Part time Job forthcoming as a result of lack of “UK experience” in the Care Sector. Time is ticking. Hence, the reason to opt for another Sponsorship.

Please, What are the Odds of securing a Full time IT Jobs/Sponsorship after undergoing Trainings and Certifications. Make person nor go Spend Money wey him nor get for wetin nor go profit am. I know say I don too stress you sha. But na Man you be! A Very Good and Selfless Man! Tuale!

Baba... the odds are like the odds of every other job...the labour market is crazy everyhwere.........but IT sells every where though...so u may have a better chance if u are good at ur skills..


Pele...migration to another country dey sometimes dey tough at first .....but u go dey alright eventually

Romanoff:
Is this the case with this woman? An old woman of that age who didn't leave since, na now wey she done old and no man go send her.

U are the one makimg it a gender war. makimg it look like the man must have been treating her badly so this is an escape...

. was she a slave in her marriage that she could not escape since?? So all the while mother inlaw duties in the uk was the only means of escape available?? She may even have gone for other omugwo in nigeria but ddnt escape?? Who knows...

One thing is clear...the difference here is the UK factor which makes lot of people, men and women alike change their behavior or make new shift in their life..........she saw a new environment and life and all she had became no longer important ......

U women are always quick to say men must have done something bad to u to make u do bad..
....this isnt even a bad thing....its a new environment....she loves it...she wants to stay... there is no need reading too much meaning to it...

Numero123:
Hello, Gurus in the House(Esp. those already in the UK). Please, can someone on a Skilled Worker (Care) Visa in the UK with *NO SHIFTS* be allowed to go for IT Trainings(Programming, Cyber Security, Etc), get Certified and Seek for Jobs in the IT Sector, afterwards. With the aim of switching their Visa?
And,
Are they also allowed to get the SIA Badge? With the Care Visa?


@AdvanceDNA your response to this, will be well appreciated. Thanks.

What u do with with ur free time as a work visa holder is totally up to you...yeah u can decide to study more, u dont need a tier 4 visa to study......and u can also go for IT trainings and certifications as a legal resident..

.. and yes if u have your IT qualification u can get 20hrs for week IT jobs in addition to your full time care job without new COS or updating ur visa...
but if u want to get a full time IT job to replace ur full time care job...the IT firm or wateva company must give u fresh COS for a fulltime IT job...

As per SIA licence....u are a legal resident so there is no law stopping u from applying for SIA.. ....but getting the SIA licence another ball game because of the many requirements involved....one of the requirments is 5 years criminal record check... u never stay long for uk...u gats go back to lagos....and there are still many more....

.....furthermore.....the job u want to to use the licence for is another issue .... u will need sponsorship unless u don convert by marrying a citizen...

Misterone:
Are you married? I doubt if you are! See, go and check this out. 70% of men that got married at age 37 and above, check their wives. They will most likely have this traits: hardworking, respectful, not that beautiful, good character, etc. What am I trying to say? Men that want a peaceful home know the kind of women that can give them a peaceful home. At a younger age, men will overlook these qualities for flimsy things like love, beauty, sexual prowess, etc but as time goes by, when they are more experienced, they tend to ignore those things and go for what will give them peace of mind.

All u have here is fallacy of hasty generalization
There is no evidence for all ur claims...and u are just throwing around unverifiable,baseless statistics to make ur point sound like it has substance...
What do u mean by 70%
What do u mean by go and check it out?? Is there a data base for this??

Why u mentioned me makes no sense...your point has not in anyway invalidated my comments.....u comment may be right or wrong...but it doesnt chnage human natute.........Weda 37 or 25... humans cheat, humans look for what they want when they already have what they need....

dupyshoo:
Are you seriously in support of employers exploiting job seekers? I am struggling to understand your point here. I can't seem to get what is so funny about my statement. Is what they are doing legal?

Why don't they try to tell British citizens to pay whenever they apply for jobs?

Lol.....U can come to wateva conclusion u like that i ddnt say....opinion is free...

But If u open ur eyes very well u wont have to struggle to see why this exploitative loopholes exist in the first place....

Whats my own with the exploiter or the exploitee?? Nigerians are used to paying extra 5k or 2k to get what they want...

In this case... the exploitee wants to go abroad badly and doesnt mind to be exploited by the exploiter, who is trying to avoid charges for filling vacant positions most bristish citizens wont do....doesnt it look like a "win-win-win" situation .....because home office is also part of the win, raking in revenue which is selfishly their only focus because they know right from the start they created this exploitative windows...

Newlymarried:
Good Morning To You All

Please I received this through my tracking today

I was Sent a mail earlier and it was an empty NSF

Please does it means successful or not?

@advanceDNA

It doesnt mean successful or refusal.....
It only means ur visa application will soon be complete.... u may or may not get an email from ukvi stating refusal or successful..... byt u will will soon get an email from TLS to come for ur passport....so u will know the result when u go for collection or if ukvi email comes in first

America001:
In the spirit of giving back.
....

This question of "how much did u pay" is fvnny and almost useless ....Are they expecting someone that actually paid to confess to them?

Home office technically created this loopholes for employees to be exploited...
Funny thing is, they can block it or at least tighten it from the employer end.... but No!! ...They want the revenue to keep flowing in while they look for ways to harass immigrant and send them back....

How much did u pay koor...
How much did u throw away niii

dupyshoo:
Employees should not be made to pay these fees. It is against the law. The employer would likely be slave drivers. So they should beware.

Lol...u are actually quoting home office law??
This is funny......

tell that to the small business owners already overwhelmed with taxes and still has to pay home office ridiculous fees just to employ available staff to run their business....

Xxxxtentacion2:
You go explain tire...

There is evidence now ooo....so e no go explain tire

ubby26:
Lol, my brother you have been scammed. No legit company ask for any payment before employment.
You have been scammed!!!

He was not scammed ooo...i remember when he brought the issue here and we all told him not to pay...but for some reason the guy decided to risk it after making some findings only he could explain...

Apparently, very few exceptions of these cases are not scams...i have seen a few too...... i dont advice pple to pay because u wont know which one is scam and which is not...

....but what i have come to notice now is that some of these small residential care homes that want to hire oversea applicants are codedly avoiding the cost involved by masking it with other names like legal fees, admin fees, or other names....

Someone was also told to pay 1238£ tagged legal fees or something i cant say accurately .....at first he ddnt pay...but he decided to risk it and later found out when he resumed it was the cost of ISC for 3 years and cost of COS the company used in sponsoring him which is 346£ ×3 plus 200£...

Animegirl:
I don't understand men at all. Before you guys get married, you always seem to love women with thick bodies, even ending up with them. But after marriage, you all want slim girls to be your side chics. Why is that?

Its basically human nature with no discipline ...u dont hold in very high regard what u have freely at ur disposal....we desire/want we dont have and sometimes want what we dont need just because others just seem to want that thing


It happens to men with with slim wife too...they start looking for curvy thick women later until they find the one 40 other men are rushing....

It happens to women too...u have fine, honest, guys that dont drink, smoke, or go to club.....u say he's boring..u start looking for trouble outside until u find the one that other women are heavily competing with u...

Shalommy:
Another Rubbish！ Yuckssss！

Yawn!!

Shalommy:
You make no sense. This is total bullshit！

E dey pain u as i no support ur baseless fallacy?

Shalommy:
Gbam！... A Lot of our leaders are gays and lesbians, so what's all these shits？Na who dey deceive who？

Lot of our leaders?? Na u dey fvck these leaders?? Besides ...What has individual behaviour or sexual desires of leaders gotta do with the law of the land?? The leaders are just a few pple....

Politicians steal our money.... does that mean they should legalize robbery and fraud because leaders do it....

This same western countries e.g scotland una jailed homosexuals in the past until they bcame more liberal....

Nigeria is not ready for lgbt legalization, till then, the arrest must continue.......when they are ready it will be reviewed...... this matter is more than men fvcking men.... the whole nine yards has issues of child adoption, gender change, marriage autjorization, and other rights in it.....

Reality3080:
Oga leave story

What is d evidence that this one is from d government?

What annoys me is how many jumped on it on d first page without asking questions

What is d evidence that this particular one is from government?

Shior....its now we should leave story.....just say u want to support ur oppressors..

. every time pallatives are shared .....this is the outcome.... its is not new??

theInfinity:
In my last post, I talked about how many Nigerian women have made relationship to be transactional and I was thinking if legalizing prostitution can separate Nigerians girls who are in relationship for material gains from those who genuinely wants to be in a relationship.

Legalize all u want.....it wont separate anything

U are sounding as if prostituteś are different breeds of women that just want to fvck for only money .....dey play.... olosho seff wan marry naaa.......

markovnikov:
I was asked to pay for one pre- employment something something...

Japaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa..

Once payment is involved..... carry u too legs..


Run

Reality3080:
from d picture what make u believe it’s from d government?
Any evidence?
Don’t u think anyone can put this pic up for propaganda?
No wonder buhari called u all lazy youths

Era of smart phones n dumb youths

This rice is even plenty.....this one is probably per person.......during covid in 2020...i saw first hand how wicked and insensitive these rulers can be......they went for special training to be wicked and mock masses .....

they brought one small size paint plastic of rice....as in...one small-size paint plastic, for a community of than 50 houses to share ...as in.....no be village ooo...na for abeokuta, state capital....

....the community chairman was insulted and removed for accepting it..he pleaded that he could not insult goverment representatives.
...it was then i gave up on nigeria ....

See ehnn....after federal goverment disburse their own witchcraft level of wickedness... state governments/ ministries are baba of all demonic looting and wickedness...

That should be enough to make them line up and vote for APC next 4 years

markovnikov:
Hi Chief..You have been doing a great job here really..

I am in the category you described below, and they even sent the Visa form to fill already...Though I have provisional offer, but no COS ...I hope I am on track..any experience about this

Hope they ddnt ask u to pay??

jurhnsyn:
Please is it color or black and white of documents I should take to tls for biometrics? I did self upload.

Color

adewaleolatunji:
House Pardon me, I need guild for a friend that just got a COS for Care Giver job in the U.K. I mean the Visa Application process. How to apply for the visa and the payment process@AdvanceDNA.

Baba Start the application.....if u get stuck at any point ... screen shot the place, post here and ask for what to do....we will all help you...

But if u want somebody to do the application from start to finish for ur friend....that's a different ball game

Why are they even collecting pension they are not technically entiled by law in the first place...

....they are public servants like other public servants... other public servants will have to serve for atleast 35 years to be pensionable.... but these thieves called politicians will serve for just 4 years yet still be raping this country's purse...... they should only get one time severance package for their corruption-filled service ....

Lol..... unrealistic expectations

If u cant take pple's comment avoid them or the section....there are horrible, good, fantastic, and other kinds of pple all over the world....but u expect to meet only nice comments when u come online.... dey play

Tier4Dependant:
Which is exactly what the ECO is asking.

So ticking maintenance is not only clear as day and night especially when you have dependants.

The ECO wants to be 100% sure the maintenance is also applicable to the dependants.

Hence the reason they asked for either a sponsor note or just simply show your financial evidence (bank statement)

... "clear as day and night"

U are wicked....

Abubanty:
In the case of my wife COS from an NHS. Maintenance was ticked Y and they also added sponsor note stating only main applicant is covered.

your wife's COS is clear naaa....which is the same case i have seen with most pple sponsored by the NHS....
I have plenty friends that works with the NHS...i have not seen anyone NHS sponsored togethered with the entire family.... nigerians wey dey born like say them dey 3 billion for account....

Mayb the OP is special...so NHS decided to sponaor the entire family but did not do so for others