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Jb95:
Thanks alot bro, I'll give it a try

The moment u met...phone don loss??
... u sure say no be naija baddie be that?? Na their MO be that ooo...... If u hear say her birthday na few weeks time... no dull ur self... na naija connection

Flamemignon1:
When both men below are out in public, everyone will think they are men unless they ask,from their voice to their mannerisms,they all act like men. The first one is a famous gay trans man IndecentStar Trip Richards while the second one is a straight trans man Laith Ashley,he was even featured in Taylor swift music video as Taylor's love interest and guess what? Taylor literally had no idea he was a transman. Transmen can pass as biological men more than how transwomen can pass as biological women because of the hormone replacement therapy and facial reconstruction

My boyfriend is bigger and muscular than Trip or even me and you need to hear his voice and see the way he acts,he's even more masculine than some masculine men, believe me,you won't know he's a transman if he doesn't tell you,now all of these qualities was what I saw in him even before I thought of his genitals,it wasn't until our third date that he told me,so was I going to let something as small as a penis get in the way of my feelings for him? No. I have already fallen in love with him and believe me man,if you know what love is, you will know it carries no bias. That's why a lot of people are single because love is standing right in front of you but because of the future you've envisioned in your mind,you let it go instead of building a future with what you have

You are not the first person to tell me I'm a straight man in disguise,I get that a lot from my fellow gay men who call me the poster child of conversion therapy,I even lost a lot of gay friends because they say I'm supporting conversion therapy by being with a transman,I catch a lot of hate from my own people for being with a transman so yours is just a bonus. You should see the vitriol and hate gay transmen recieve in gay porn when they sleep with gay pornstars who are biological men,their fans get even more mad when they say they loved it much more than ass lol so as long as we have each other,we are good.

Also, something you should know about transmen,not all transmen are bottoms or full on bottoms (the submissive ones or the ones that receives dick), some transmen are tops(the dominant ones),they don't like their vaginas touched due to gender dysphoria. My boyfriend is not a full on bottom,infact he loves to top than bottom so just because he has a vagina doesn't mean he wants or like to recieve dick,there are strap-on created for transman to make them top

How do u manage explain all these fvckery and it makes sense in ur head....??

You know its funny how u lgbt folks try to erase conventional line and boundries in nature, saying having a vaginà or peniś doesnt determine a gender..... yet i read how u are attributing a particular behaviour, tone of voice, looks, body built etc to a man or woman in ur comment...

So....At the end of the day....there are men and there are women attributes and features

... women have vaginas, men have penis and both have genes that codes for those behavior and looks u were attributing to men or women in ur comment.....

Y'all can use how u feel to claim wateva u like..
But biology dont lie.... u can use artificial hormone to suppress nature's autopilot operation....the moment u stop...nature will kick in.....how u feel will not stop ur genes from coding who u are....

So let me ask...are u gay men not just bisexual..cos u here can fvck a vagina...and many like u fvck women and even marry them have kids and them claim u are gay....??

Permit me to say...is this not just some form of sexual greed and boundriless, sexuality...??

Persephone1:
This your gender, your gender talk make you sound like some illiterate. Can we converse without that please?

Illetrate?? Ok ooo...i'll try and ignore the insult
its like u feeling triggered over nothing.... i said earlier its like u are angry...or u get angry easily

Persephone1:
Angry bawo?

Lol at least we agree that good character is needed for men to last long in their wives/girlfriends lives

Oh really??....Many of ur gender stay with men that have bad behaviours for long...

.... ur gender date horrible men for long just for greed/ money and many times marry just to change miss to mrs and stick with such toxic men to retain the money or Mrs title

Persephone1:
If you like yawn from now till eternity. If you have bad character,you will be dumped! That's the new law in town!

Sound like u are angry.....

Anyways.....it Goes both ways..... no one has monopoly over dumping...

Persephone1:
KEYWORD: "Most likely "

I guess you are not in the right frame of mind for a discourse.

Have fun.

Yawn!!!

Persephone1:
Lol all over him like flies right? . Maybe when they are just starting or she doesn't have a life.

Like men, women have ways they correct men's attitude. When you push a woman to the wall by not heeding to her complains she will most likely use the silence treatment or retrieve slowly and quietly from you.

You think all women have the time to shout and nag? A woman can love you but still let you go on with your foolishness while she decides on what to do with you.

Op most likely pushed his woman to that stage. He will learn not to next time, that's if there's next time.

So how did u arrive at him pushing her away??

The story said she no longer initiates communication...only the guy does... its clear she has left him in the relationship and want him to get the memo...

u dont have to make it look like its his fault....

. thats the same narrative u women like to paint ....even when u women fvck around...."a man must have pushed you to do so"

Matix222:
I saw her post some stuffs on her status that captions like this “ I care but I will pretend as if I don’t care”
Don’t just know what’s up with her

Should I talk to her about this and see?

But I quiet tired frankly

If a woman likes u, she'll be all over u...its not hard to notice a woman thats in love, even if they are doing small shakara....

All those whatsapp post na manipulation.....

U sef post same thing on ur status...

Matix222:
Me and this girl has been for a year now before she wasn’t like this tho but now she doesn’t check up on me unless I do so


I decided to be for a week without texting or calling her to see her reaction I was surprised she didn’t call or text either this is really getting on my nerves


What should I do guys?

Get the memo... u are dating yourself....
Someone else has her heart...
Find ur own babe elsewhere....

Flamemignon1:
First time we agree on something. We gay guys have our gaydar and it's completely obvious these two men are straight as an arrow looking for asylum. My gaydar have never been wrong before and it didn't even ping when I saw them

Nigga....come on!!!!!! .... u literaly fvck a woman ...as in ..u fvck a woman with a pvssy....yet still claim u are gay just because the woman is claiming to be a man.......ur gaydar is either broken to pieces or u are the most confused lgbt person on the planet....

Imagine i are fvcking a 14 year old that beleives she's an adult....does that mean u are not a paedophile??

Or if u a fvcking a woman who identifies as a cow...does that mean u committing a crime since animals can give consent...??

U see how crazy u lgbt folks are??

beekind:
This is insane, what if I haven't been working as I haven't worked in more than 1 year.

U are on ur own..... or go to black market..or buy from all those fintech companies like vesti or flutterwave....

beekind:
wow, does that mean I have to still buy from mallam ?

Yes oooo....
..u can only get from banks if u wanna pay school fees, buy travel allowance for vacation after visit visa approval, pay foreign hospital bill, or other business transaction approved by the goverment....still u will need 3 years tax clearance, and other other documents

Lol....

Nigeria is not that normal..everything is complicated

Ernesthugo:
You are the smartest person i know,based on the lie they must have told so they had to act faster.

Smartest keee......haaaa....

Na only God e sure for oooo

U marry them wahala...
U divorce..them go still give u wahala....

DrAda:
This is hilarious. I couldn't help but notice that they were a bit reserved and maybe scared of the backlash that these photos will incite.

Personally, I thought the photos were incredibly funny, largely because the entire concept is just strange. But then again I understand the battles they must be facing at this very moment and I sincerely wish them well in this journey.

Everyone deserves to be happy especially on their big day.

Its obvious naaa...they are not gay jor....

This marriage is likely a smoke screen to beat the system

Nigerian women....lol....as usual ..always over-inflating their worth..

. go girl!!! ....u deserve the best and u mst go for it....

Brownshoe:
Pls I don't know if this is appropriate place to post this,moderator 🙏🏻,
Now that need for money is increasing, how can someone borrow or collect certain % of money from his/ her pension scheme.?

Can they(bank/ pension manager) grant such r request?

Thanks.

U cn only get some percentage when u lose ur job..... the company u left will give u letter that all ur pension has been remited nd disengagement letter...

....u will get only 25%

Pele

maasoap:
Stop taking us back, online shopping has come stay. One just need to be careful of who you're sending money to, pay on delivery should be the only option when dealing with individuals like this one. But for organisation like jumia and co, nothing do you

Who is taking u back....?? U just want to talk...

So what exacrly is my comment about..?? Is it not about beig being careful??

There are established organization to shop with tht has standaed protocols for sales and deliveru....like amazon and jumia.... but u plle are giving random tbeives on instagram and twitter ur money....and u are accusing me of taking u back... dey play.... its ur money...

even jumia has pay on delivery option..

pstrings:
Thanks for your response bro..I actually did the paid call and told me decision has been made for a while now..but I don't know why my status is still on DMC. But they told me they will escalate it and I should give Dem withing 15working days.
But I wonder why decision has been made and still application on DMC. Today makes 17working days.

Them don forget ur application for one corner... no vex ...na pressure

Grace321:
Please I’m currently on a skilled worker visa. Can I work extra 20 hours with another company?

Please see below as this is a bit confusing.

If u came in on a care job... yes u can do extra 20hrs work provided its also a care job or other job on shortage occupation list...

Lol.... we have seen worse in this country anyway

FuckTheMod:
Stop saying rubbish
Do you know jumia, amazon, AliExpress etc before you buy from them?

Look whos throwing insulting .... u are trying to sound smart but ur IQ is like that of a four year old...hiw csn u be comparing amazon and aliexpress to individuals scamming pple on social media....basic risk management shoukd tell u thats a no go area...... do u even have a complete brain or u are just one of the scammers that want pple to keep being stupíd

Praktikals:
Boss, see the mail we got this afternoon. Only the MA didnt get the NSF. The mail didnt ask for any additional documents. Pls what should I do?

Dont do anything...not all nsf ask for additional documents....sometimes additional request may follow....ssometimes, its just an ECO being nice enough to tell u ur application is receiving attention..

Relax..u visas will be out in a week or a couple of days over

IconicR:
Let me advise you as an old woman. Never go into a marriage/relationship with the mindset of a woman feeding you or gifting you, I bet you it will surely not last. Take note of the word mindset.
A wife can gift her husband all she has and be a solid support but a girlfriend has no business doing wifely duties.
How do you know I've not in one way or the other made someone rich? You know little to know too much

Chatting with u is tyring ....
U that cannot buy gift for ur man...yet u want to make someone rich...iyaebe...thats not how life works....
...the way u woman know a man will be stingy in marriage right from the dating stage..is the same way a man knows a woman that will be supportive and caring in the marriage right from the dating stage....

na only mouth u get.... ....make someone rich indeed......with ur yansh abii?? Iyaebe your mentality is too parasitic and poor to contribute to any man's life....

Eky29:
Nooooo bro

If it were mine I would have come here and tell my story.😁
It is actually one of our group member, his own came out last week and was granted, 10 months after biometrics.
Meanwhile I’m a lady.

Oh...apologies

IconicR:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so if I'm broke, should I still allow a broke guy near me?
Broke+broke= Brokeeeeeeee
You really don't understand some things, God didn't create women to provide, it is for these reasons marriages ain't working anymore because these generation men have successfully chased their women out to hustle like them which comes with it's consequence.
No woman respects a man he provides for, it's natural.
Well women should assist their husbands if needs be but a boyfriend does not deserve husband's privileges.

Only lazy women use that line...God ddnt create u to provide.... so God gave u two hand and legs to bend down and chop peńis from back as a means of support...

.. all i have talked about is gift......even the chat from the op is just a gift from the lady..... just because u are too broke to give ur man a gift, u are dragging God into ur broke parasitic mentality.....

U lazy broke women...what does supporting ur man even mean to you?? U cant give perfume, u cant give boxers, u cant bring business idea, risk management? Zero knowledge....so what does support even mean to broke women like u....?? To come and watch zee world with 600naira/ liter fuel from morning till night.. and spread legs??

IconicR:
Boyfriend is different from husband, I can never spend on a boyfriend.
If I give a boyfriend money and he's comfortable with receiving it, he's dating himself from that moment.

Múmú... boyfriends will bcome husband.....or u just meet a man today and he will just bcome ur husband by evening... mama werèy

If ur boyfriend doesnt spend anything on u claiming u are not yet his wife...wont u say he's not serious....

oh let me guess...only men should spend b4 marriage abi....lol...

.. u are just broke iyabe...your mentality is broke, ur pocket is broke, everything about u is broke....thats why see buying a man u are dating a 10k perfume as a crime

IconicR:
You hate truth but I'm here to always tell you the truth.
I'll raise my daughters to always go for traditional men who provides and command respect from their women

Truth.?? Lol..u just like to cap...
...Dating a traditional man does not mean u cant give ur man gifts from time to time or when he needs help..
.. gosh..iyaebe... u are so backward in ur thinking...
the funniest part is ..u dont even have a billionaire husband or boyfriend...so u are probably supporting ur man or dont even have any man......so stop capping

Enugupikin:
Lol, that's if the chats aren't made up

Yeah chats can be made up...

.but there are lots of men like that..they are not comfortable dating women that support or buys them things, even when they are broke nd clearly need help........makes them feel emasculated

I have heard guys say they would never receive help or gift from their girl cos she can come tommorow and make a fuss claiming she made them....

I dont blame them though.... woman wey no give u anything but pvssy will be shouting "I gave him eveeything" when break up happens

IconicR:
Please erase this comment and have shame.
You think it's normal for girlfriend to be spending on a boyfriend?
That guy is intelligent because women ain't submissive when they provide. Provision comes along with submission.
Provide as a man and demand submission from your woman.
I can't ever spend on any man except I'm already married to him else if he talk one I'll talk ten

Iyaebe....Please clear off with ur shitťy, parasitic mentality.....try refine ur mentality abeg so u can raise impressive daughters tomorrow

He deceived me......men are scum.....
Oh shut up girl....u want to be deceieved....in fact....u desperately desire to be deceived....

An Actor in a very successful movie needs to sell 100$ gift card to chop? And u believe..??

Dem suppose use pin burst all the fat wey dey ur cheeks...mayb some of ur stupidiťy go leak off