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Divoc19:
Am looking for my warrior dear

We still have 21st century men that don't need feminine support, complain that they have spent/invested too much in women that have refuse to open their laps for them.

Oh ...u are still searching?? Lol......go see the starting years of the most rich, succesful couples u money-driven women wish for... and u'll realize most of these so called warriors did not kick off looking like the perfect picture u now dream of....

Good luck in your search

Divoc19:
Back in the days men were warriors today a lot of men want to be treated like women.
Is it because we don't have commnal wars and it's likes the way we use to anymore

Go and marry your own warrior.... and leave other men for women that understand its not bad to support their man...

21st century women!! always looking for men relationship that will make them not be responsible for anything except having sex.....and when u meet men that treat u as such, u start crying for respect...

Osaene:
Hello all please a friend needs urgent advice

This is her message below

I applied for skilled worker visa and I included my unmarried partner as dependant .Today I just received an email from the UKVI that the evidence we provided for proof of relationship is not sufficient enough and it stands to be refused.

Please I want to know if this will affect my own application as a skilled worker and the positive decision to be made.

It wont...they will only deny ur partner...why dont u ask them for more time to provide more proof

Abubanty:
Pls how does POF work?

Is that they check your actual balance in bank?

Is it before bometric or after that they check?

Reason why am asking is, I have a bank statement I printed with complete POF last month. But I just completed my TLS application today and the POF has reduced, but I used same statement I printed last month

We are in 21st of december.....
But u submitted bank statement u printed in November.?? When in november?

Well .....as long as the end date of the 28-day period is within 31 days of the date you apply for your visa. ...u no get probelem...

Still....if u jam ECO wey no nice.....they could ask for a new statement just to be sure u have the money....but lets hope it wont come to the latter

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faithfull18:
Lol, you will never agree but your non-agreement doesn't change the fact

...your claims doesnt change obvious statistics too.....they are just claims...
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faithfull18:
Dead this argument.

https://punchng.com/who-is-more-intelligent-man-or-woman/

There are several to back it up, this is just one.

There are also several real life statistics that says otherwise....until ur iq and eq on paper and beer palor research translate to measurable result .......they are just bogus claims

fadilaMaikiriki:
Alright. And you loved it? Like really loved it? I'm asking because I'm looking for a good female perfume to try.

Yeah....I really loved it.. i even bought another when it was exhausted...

Linda2022:
Good evening. A friend of mine secured a slot for me and i have being asked to pay €10000. Please is it advisable for me to pay or i am about to get scammed. Thank you

Weda scam or not....its too much

faithfull18:
3 and more....and yes, women are wiser, smarter than the average male, it's backed up by science too.

For starters...Vice chancellor seats are political positions..not an office of intelligence....but if u want to go by that thats fine...there are 170 universities in Nigeria so some how... 165:5 make u think women are more brilliant than men.

U said science?? What science and statistics are u using....
ur gender the greatest innovators...??
Ur gender the greatest discoverers..??
Are they the highest winners of nobel prize in science, medicine or other fields...

Lets bring it down...u go a school naaa?..they paste result every semester...na ur gender dey get lowest score....dey use use yansh collect mark....
hardest course in all schools, very few women or no women are found there...

In tech space...where are u women..??

What stats are u using exactly or its just emotions and ability to drag?

Biyikenny:
Good day all, my employer just sent my COS this morning, and I am meant to resume by 11th of February, 2023. I want to ask if I can still meet up that resumption date, as I intend putting my proof of funds for the 28days tomorrow.
And I want to ask if the proof of funds will be held for just 28days or 28 working days.

Its risky.....with the way UKVI is behaving....
U may not meet up....unless u pay for priority or superpriority
ur POF will mature on the 18th of jan(standaed 28days..not working days).
To get biometrics date is another issue...
For uKVI to behave normal is another wahala

faithfull18:
Hanhan, so you guys are finally admitting, that's good.

So two female vice chancellors is proof that women are brilliant than men......

horlahxeyi:
Appreciate so much.

I have applied, biometrics is 28th, submitted the 13m statement if account, won't removing the money now affect my application or I should just wait till visa is issued?

Scared of taking hard chances,sametime interest is killing.

It wont .... as long as ur balance doesnt drop below ur ur POF...u can remove

fadilaMaikiriki:
Please, can you give me the name of the female perfume you tried and liked?

britney spears radiance pink and blue bottle

horlahxeyi:
2.5m

...2.5M already covers ur POF for work visa which is just £1270...even if u have spouse and maybe 2 kids...that will just add an extra 800£ on the £1270..... by oanda excgange rate £2070 is just around 1M140k....what do u need 13 million for??

why dont just return the excess that u borrowed?.....

In fact.... if that 2.5M has been in ur account long before u borrowed the amount that made it 13M.... ur 28 day count may already be complete...meaning.... u may not even have wait till 28th dec to print, do ur visa application and biometrics..

oloyedewaris:
Is fifa ranking about past or present performance

Ranking is not just about one performance in tounament,its also about all time performance

So if morocco won the world up...u think they will automatically be number one on fiffa ranking?? Lol...

So by your logic.... why are u not expecting Morocco to rank on top of brazil since their present performance dust brazil in this last worldcup??

DaddyFreeze2020:
What's the rationale of putting Brazil 1st?

So u want three time winners to over throw 5 time winners?? Okay ooo

broke individuals looking for rich men to collect money from will be telling dudes paying their own bills what they can or cannot have in life....tuehh!!

e be like say una dey craze for this nairaland


this life ehn.... if u get money finish and you no marry babe wey rich like u.....u don fvck up.....

Tingotoe:
Oyedepo a bishop? A bishop of scamming the poor with his preposterous prosperity gospel preaching. He's still bitter over the defeat of his then preferred candidate Jonathan by the APC. No more free access to the villa. Nonsense!

So free access to villa is the problem of someone like oyedepo?? Someone building roads goverment refuse to build in otta.... Someone that politicians are going to meet in his office, including APC politicians...

. okay oooo... me i no say make u support oyedepo oooo..... but we all how badly this goverment has done

Give400:
This is going to be a long write cos I want to go into details so you all will understand everything. Sorry for the typos in advance

I dated this girl for years. We used to live together before I relocated to another state.

So here is the full story. We started dating in early 2014 we were still teenagers. Tho I wasn't the one that disvirgined her but she was good then. Her breasts and everything was firm and standing. Two years later she started giving me bad behaviors. I endured till I got tired by the end of 2016 and moved on because she started disrespecting me as well. I couldn't take that and moved on.

Fast forward early 2020 she contacted me I asked how she got my number cos I changed numbers then. She said she got it from my sister. They were kind of close.
This girl pestered me and I don't even know what she told or did to my sister but I found my sister begging on her behalf that I should accept her as well.
On a norm I wouldn't have accepted her but because I wasn't in a relationship then and konji was so on my neck I had no choice than to accept her back.

Thats how we came back and free sex was enough.we lived together I was the one paying the rent. I was providing and even got her a job she used o work and contribute and everything was good in the first 4 months until the fifth month she lost her job cos she made some mistakes and lost some money and her oga arrested her. I paid up and she said she won't go back so that's how she became a sit at home gf.

Fast forward I found out she was in contact with one of her exes. I even stumbled on their Facebook chat where she was asking the guy why he got married. The guy responded that he got tired of her ass the moment he realized she was dating one reverend father. Then I knew after our initial breakup this girl went on to become a LovePeddler.

So this girl kept disturbing this guy she will call him even though he told her was married she didn't stop. The same way she was disturbing me early that year to come back. Anytime I confront her about this guy she'd lie that it's the guy that's disturbing her.

Lemme not bore you guys...so this girl proposed a business idea and since I had spare funds I wasn't using then I found it cool and I gave her 200k to buy 20 bags of groundnuts. She said she had a woman she knows in her village that used to do the business. She was to send her the money to buy the groundnut and save it then when the prices go up we will sell and make double or triple profits.

So she sent me an account number to send the money to claiming it's the woman's son account number. Alas it was her ex's account number because the account name matched with the Facebook name. When I confronted her she denied at first but later opened up and promised me not to worry that the guy was only going to withdraw the money and give to the woman as she didn't have a bank account. I kept cool even though I felt betrayed.

Now instead of 20 bags of groundnut they bought only 15k. That covid affected the markets as people were scared to go to the markets and there was no groundnut to buy. OK send me pics of the 15 bags they bought it became wahala. It took weeks of postponement before the guy sent pics. At a time I got angry and collected her phone and called and the guy picked. I asked why is it a problem to send pics of the bags. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't have any business with me that I should not call him. That really got me and I said it's enough.

So I made my own plan. I exercised patience and forfeited the 50k. Cos it was obvious I wasn't going to get the funds because when I asked to get my 50k they will say they are going to buy that I should chill. They are going to buy turned to weeks and months till I gave up.

So I waited and when it was the right time which was December we sold the groundnuts and I got profit of 100k. Cos it was sold at 20k each. So in total I made 300k. Minus my 200k that's 100k profit. They ate the other 50k.

So i got the money and played along. I acted as if I don't even know what was going. In fact I changed and started adapting to her games. I smash her more often than I used to and squeeze whatever was left of her fallen boobs to nothing. Like I made up my mind to use her and dump on the road side where she belonged. I accepted she was damaged and that was the only way to do away with someone like her.
Rent was due by March 2021. I started looking for a new apartment we was in January then. I got an apartment in another neighboring state not so far just 2k transport.

Fortunately enough for me she got a job and used to work 5 days and come home only by weekend. So I had enough time to orchestrate my plans cos this girl refused to leavve. I know some people might be wondering why I chose to run. She refused to leave me. She even called the police me when I told her I don't want to do again. They said since she's living with me and I was the one that brought her in town then I shouldn't chase her out. I said ok

So I got my apartment and arranged the placed and she left for work on a blessed day and I used he opportunity to park my valuables and important properties and left. When she got home she called I told her I had traveled to Benin republic. She asked why I packed my things and my gen I told her I sold them to add money for my journey that I will be back.
I told her I will be back in a month that it's a bug business and I will eventually hit big in two to three weeks then I will be back. She bought it


Few days later I changed my Sim and that was the end.

So fast forward to last month we met and this girl has become something else. Very dirty and unkempt. Indeed I tried for her but she really deserved where she is atm. She was really pissed when she saw me. She said lots of scary stuff even some people at the event were like what's going on. She said she still has my pictures and I should think about that. That really spooked me.

The problem now is she's still threatening that she knows I played her and she's going to make sure she hurt me spiritually or in anyway for using her and running away leaving her with nothing. That she doesn't care if it's going to cost her life. She said this on the event day and just today someone called me telling me the same thing that she's going about telling she's going to make sure I am useless just like the way I made her. I don't even want to mention the number of curses she placed on me on the event day.

What I want to know is how do I go about this. Is she just making empty threats or is it something I should take serious. If that's the case then how do I go about it my brethren. I am seriously confused and kind of scared a bit to be honest.
Cos someone else could hear her and use that opportunity to hurt me then place it on her. Anything can happen when people go about saying they will hurt you. Help a brother with the right thing to do. Thanks

Report to police first....
They will invite her to cime and write undertaken for threat to life and if anything happen to you...na she be first suspect

Fredge:
How do you make deposits.

Deposits...??

Thats strange to me..cos i dont make money in cash....

Adabakee:
Goodevening my people I have been following and reading alot . please I have a question and would appreciate some replies.i am planning to relocate with my family to Uk next year by God's grace,I am already gathering all my documents for post graduate application ,all is ready am only waiting for my transcript then I would start applications.
Now because of money involved me and my husband are planing to go first and then apply for the kids later after we must have settled there,but someone adviced us to do the whole application together get the kids visa and leave them behind so wen we are ready to take them we only look for flight money for them,but we are skaptical because we feel adding them to the process will cost us much more than. We budgeted, please I will like to know the cost difference like what and what we will need to pay extra if we decide to add the kids along while processing our own visa.
Secondly my husband is based in one of this African countries,he doesn't have papers meaning ones he leaves that country to come home he cant get back in there again,and he is working there and taking care of us and Savin up for our jakpa plans,he is worried that what if he leaves thatplace and come back during our visa process and we ended up not getting Visa approval ..God forbid I know we will get, we are aonly thinking both ways.so he said he will be stuck in Nigeria since he can't go back cos of no papers.In this case my people please what do u advise us .
Thank you in advance

U mean ur husband is over staying in another country?? Haaaa....make i no talk too much on that......Anyway..na African country....

Maybe U should do the student visa....let ur husband still stay in his hustle mode in the African country...
..when u get the visa...ur husband can now go home and apply as dependent with the kids to join you.

Bukola94:
lead me through, how do I go about it?

Download standard chartered app..

Get ready ur nin..
Ur means of id....
And proof of address..e.g nepa bill, waste management bill, or another statement of account from another bank showing ur full address amd name...

thesicilian:
How much is their minimum account balance?

Zero

Bukola94:
They are not operating in all state

...everything is online....i opened my account online and got my card delivered to me via dhl fot free.....i if u have dispense error on another banks atm...they will resole it online...what else do u want....?? u want to go and be greeting their staff at the branch

Hagiazomakai:
I don't think it's outdated bro

What in a case of lanes property where one of the parties is trying to play smart?

What about joint account in banks?
What do you do?

So two pple that are not married cannot co-own property......?? What about joint account??
Pple that are not married are opening joint account so whats your point??


see oga...if u cant marry ur wife without changing her name on all her document and accounts.....go ahead....its just a lot of stress and a waste of unnecessary time and resources to me...

Uilday:
Hi

I married a nice Nigerian woman and we have 3 beautiful kids together. But since we had the last child there have been no "magic" and both feelings and sex has disapeared.

I am grateful for the kids she gave me, but i am feeling lonely in the marriage. Even if we talked about it, there was only drama and no solution.

I need love in my life and the last 11 years its not been there. Maybe its time to move on, i dont know..

Im danish and we live in Europe so i dont know if this is typical Nigerian or if life could be better.....?

Life happened to your both....but u both forgot Love does not have autopilot system....U will have to consciously nurture it...

Go out more, buy each other things, do role play.... sex style doesnt finish unless u are deliberately not willing...me i dont understand how pple say magic of sex disappeared....take a break..sex is not food...and come back into it with a refreshed intent to satisfy and have fun

Have sex in other places...go on road trip and fvck in hotels with fancy, nice smelling white sheets, fvck in the car, lobby, in the balcony.. get arrested for fvcking.....do something crazy...come on man....
.u are just creating unnecessary wants and looking for things u already have but ddnt nurtire in another woman......

.every relationship gets monotonous at some point....u will have to keep ignite the spark and keeping it alive....if u could survive 11 years with someone witbout any serious issues ..


. haba!!

Raychee:
Fake story. How can anybody even believe this premature nollywood script?

We all bored....
Play along abeg...

Besides this is Nigeria.... two 19 year old boys slept with a girl, cut her head and burnt the head in a pot in front of their house.... just last week a father and son both raped a girl together..... so nigerians have seen worse than a frustrated wife that wants to leave her husband....

MaxInDHouse:
May i remind you that this is Nairaland?

Yawn!!

obowunmi:
She can say he is dead and procure his death certificate

Nigga .....u harsh ooooo
U be confirm street....

MaxInDHouse:
He is talking about His own God but since your own God differs all you need to ask him is "what is the name of the God who said these things?"

I wasn't talking to you.....how u became an interpreter is weird