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mariahAngel:
It takes two (a male and a female) to produce a child, so there will never be such thing as "a single parent".

Off your mic.....woke people dont like hearing fact......na statement like "i'm a man in a woman's body dey make sense to them

meobizy:
Wait till she realizes the need for a father. Many of her type full England searching for random men to daddy their kids. The worst are whites who had children for black men. Those ones hound African men day and night. Tufia!

She be lesbian naaa...i dont think she wants a man

Artificial insemination wey people dey pay heavily for...

erinzy901:
Hello, Nairalanders, Actually this is my first time opening a thread like this. Please don't mind my typing errors.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for more than 5yrs now. I love this girl so much and I trust her too. Her family knows me and my own family knows her, I provide everything for her, I even place her on a 20K monthly allowance. {I'm a fraudster} I don't have females friends because of my girlfriend.

For 1 month now I noticed she's been going out with one guy and I confronted her, She told me she has nothing to do with him and that he's just a Bestie. Meanwhile, since we've been dating I never check my girlfriend's phone or maltreat her. I always make sure she's okay with everything, Anytime I called her she's always told me she's with her bestie, and sometimes she told me they go shopping. She once introduced me to the guy, I didn't answer the guy that day once the guy left she asked me why I sounds rude to that guy besides he was meeting me for the first time.{ I can't fight because of a girl, I'll never do that in my life}.

Anytime I asked her what was going on with the guy she'll be crying and I'll just forget the matter. Last two weeks I met one girl and since then we've been talking with a good vibe. I asked her out she told me she'll be thinking about it. Once I call my girlfriend and she didn't pick I won't call her back again. She notices I don't give her attention like before again, She asked me several times did she offend me, I'll answer her NO and She said why I don't repeat the call, I told her maybe she was with her bestie and I don't want to disturb you guys she's not saying anything again and she'll change the topic.

She later agrees to be my new girlfriend, So I told my girlfriend that anytime wants to see me she need to call me before she comes to my side.
Yesterday morning she come to my house without calling me and she meets my new girlfriend and She leaves in anger I don't bother to call her either she didn't call me.

My family has been asking what's going on with my girlfriend and I just said nothing. Now her own family has been calling me to come and see them.

Guys Pls what should I do?

She has bestie....but doesnt want you to have bestie.....
..no let them use bestie deceive you oooo....
If she or her family confront you, tell them your new babe is your bestie....that their daughter too has bestie

U better go do nursing or IT courses...... e get why.....u gats flow with the tide of times and season

JPB2:
But, that's discrimination!
Nd if she paid for the COS bcus sme coy make u pay would they refund

If she paid they would have probably treated her differently by letting her resume after having her baby.

Rozross:
I don’t get it

Two random trucks passing by on the highway
Taylor on one
Swift on the other

There's a super star musician called "taylor swift"

Islandlady:
I am surprised your moniker says you're a female!

Well that statement will always be a fallacy to broke and non-successful folks like you, but to the real and successful men around the world, most of them appreciated and confirm that statement to be a 100% true!

Its your greedy nature, love for money and men with prospects that makes u be behind successful men.
...only few women actually contributed to their husband's success story..

..besides there are gay successful men all around the world...so u women should stop this 18th century lie...

.ask a woman how she supported a man... and its all just entitlement story...

did she help him with loan?
Did she feed him when jobless??
U women leave when there's no money...you stay when there's something to gain....years later when a man has blown..u will claim u made him...how?...buy having sex with him as if u had better offer from dangote or otedola but chose to stay...

.its funny and its fallacy for you women to just claim your presence in man's life automatically made him successful....its fraud and witchcraft

.what will the mother now say.....he took risks, took loans, crossed lines, went into dark places, enterd strange partnerships, took more risks, and fvcking truckload of hard work.....

If you false saying were true...all men with a wife would have been successful in this world..stop claiming peoples success story is becos if one women fvcking me....its irritating..

Gangster mom...



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Lol....

Let me know when u get it...

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BaEnki:
Lol no be so boss. I deliberately left her work and mine out of this. She even earn more than me self(salary wise), but that's not the point.

We seemed to have been searching for each other for a very long time. I've been single since 2016 And she hasn't been in any too for a long time.

Guy......dont get me wrong...i'm not telling you not to be in a relationship ooo, im just telling you to ensure you are not being played...

..once you meet a lady and you hear "I've not had sex for a decade or many years".....know its all lies ....u are being manipulated..its a classic move of trying to paint good girl narrative...

Understand something ....women will tell you their past doesnt matter......they will tell you good character is all thats needed and make u see it....yet the first impression they want to sell to you is that they are a saint and not having sex and have only had sex with one or two guys

.if they notice you dont have any experience ....they will even say they are a virgin yet the place don wide...

Shes playing you a script. she knows if she told u she fvcked yesterday or not too long ago..you may see her as a slút, especially as a guy that has been clean and searching for 6 years...

Unless she has a deformity....even mad women roaming the street have someone fvcking them regularly ....#fact

U ddnt start sharp..never quickly reveal info that make u lose leverage or make it easy for people to lie to you...no matter the kind of relationship..romantic, friendship, seller/buyer relatiinship etc...

.u shouldn't have said u have not been in a relationship.
.u have exposed your vulnerability..u dont know her yet....get to know people well before u start singing your life...

....always start tell with a bad boy narrative.. guess what??women find it enticing and adventrous....

Tell her u are a strong man and dont care about a woman's past.....fabricate story of how one of your ex was a prostitute and u found out but u loved her still with your heart...that you are very understanding....guy!!!! she will confess even if they just fvcked her the same morning you met...

Just be on the look out for redflag and inconsistency in information you have been told by asking her again....lies dont usually sound exactly the same when told widely different periods apart

, if you have chance check her phone once every two weeks....the street is cold man.. make sure you are not being deceived....

Oh no....u meet woman 24th...u don dey profess love...una no dey hear word..
..too much korea movies

The love bombing have started...
billing go follow...
The ex will show face...
Alhaji and yahoo boyfriend will surface
your eyes go finally open....

God1000:
Nonsense, I don't know why some women stoop so low to these celebrities

Stoop so low?? Thats an acheivement for some women ooooo...
As sophia momodu
Ask chioma
Ask the third baby mama
Them dey collect millions per month

Evolutionlove:
Rubbish!!! Keep deceiving yourselves. You wey marry almost 8 to 10years ago when "INTERNET" haven't reached It PEAK In Nigeria Is comparing yourself with someone looking for a Wife In 2022 wey Internet have reached almost every corner. Even some Almajiri sef dey use android now. "POVERTY, HOOK UPS, YAHOO PLUS, FRAUDSTERS, WICKEDNESS, PORN" have scattered everywhere now both Online and Offline. You Just try do mistake make that your wife leave you ehn and Let that your Pastor come back again and pray for you and You should also fast 40days and 40nights. Last last na Pretending Olosho you go marry or make you no see Woman marry at all sef lol. Make God wan con catch you big time, Make you go be POOR MAN chaiii..

U are harsh....but its the truth.....anybody wey never marry by 2015.....na sorry case...

.na olosho full town now......i attended my oga's retirement party last week.... i was just shaking my head ...girls with no jobs ...20-21 year old in 200 level, 300 lvl using 700k phones and bone straight.....

I just shake head for my mentor daughter
...when her father said she should come and snap him and me cos her camera is sharper.

Parents wey no know wassup too dey contribute to their children wayward lifestyle....your daughter go tell u say iphone 13 promax na 25k ...u seff go dey smile like mumú ...

Slmgirldippussy:
Since I learn that art of BDSM from R.Kelly
Bitches matter no dey pain me again
This morning alone I don chook girl wey think say by Monday I will get her 400k loan.
She said anything for you baby omo Nandini tie her hand ,blindfold her then make her suck my dick.
I don Taya...bitches won kill me
On Monday I know it's vawulence

400k ?? These girls are heartless and stupíd at the same time....well i dont blame them...some idíots pay them...

immortalcrown:
Hmmm! What I do not understand is the essence of her apology. Has she not told her brother she prefers the other guy to you? Is she now begging to change her preference?

The cocrodile tears and begging na just Manipulation.....thats women's witchcraft for u..

Apexter0001:
you are just a dead brain slug trying to sound logical
I think you should read my previous comment carefully and not glancing haphazardly

Sigh!!!! U throw insults better than u can explain who u are....Anyway......enjoy your life and your insults

Apexter0001:
it seems you are not smart in unraveling puzzles
It has to do with being there for someone, offering loyalty and support, being a good friend to both men and women. Having a sense of humour and perspective on life are really important too." "My masculine sense of self are simple creatures and are basically interested in three things: relaxation, sex and achievement.

U cant explain how you are masculine to tell the world ur truth....

U just keep throwing insults and being condescending....

transgenders...all u have are textbook and western explanations of your self...u are just following heard ideology....
wrong gender assignment, and other invented/borrowed words bla bla bla....im yet to meet a trans who can truly explain the feeling of being man or a woman inside

Apexter0001:
I wasn't insulting but I wanted you to crack your brain to puzzle out my answers since you can't let me explain in another way

From the age of 10 or so , I've always had a crush on females. Now I'm 22, even today I feel attracted to women.
I will leave sexual orientation out of the equation. Sexual orientation and gender identity are different issues.
I have being Focusing on my own sense of gender
I have separated from my appearance, separated from the sex I was assigned with at birth and also my whole body and focused more on my personality, my own sense of masculine self.
Mode of masculine dressing
Mode of the masculine gait, expression and demeanor
Deep down I am a guy and being a man fits into my entire sense of my own gender

Dont add sexual attraction to the reasons otherwise u are just another lesbian....

Dont talk about clothes or masculine dressing etc....cos thats just preference for something created by fashion companies.....anyone can like any type of dress or accessories

.i like using earrings and necklace as a guy....doesnt make me transgender...

So what is an actual masculine or feminine feeling that makes people like you conclude they are trapped in the wrong body??

Chidiesta:
Good day nairalanders,

I have lived in Germany for 3 years now i have a 1 years old daughter and I also have a 8 years old daughter who lives with my elder sister in nigeria.

She is married with three kids , I provide everything for them and I pay one of her child school fee but my sister is never satisfied with the money she keep demanding me for more money.

She knows it very well that I am not stable yet in this country , life is hard just because she is taking care of my daughter and she want me to carry the responsibility of her three children.

I make sure that I send a big parcel for all of them once a year as I am typing the parcel is on the way but she want me to pay school fees for all her children too and I can't afford to pay for all four.

I am paying her son school fees is 87k per term and my daughter own is 67k . On the 2nd I sent her 300k for school fees and foodstuffs she called on monday demanding me for 154k for her son and my daughter school fee I asked her what about the money I sent on the 2nd she said she bought foodstuffs for 120k and use the 180k for her two oldest children school fee and she want me to send the 154k for the youngest 2 , I was angry with her and I cut the call.

I am angry my own sister is draining me financially and I have a lot of bills to pay too and a small child to cater for.

I have spoken to my friend she is happy to take care of my daughter for me until I am stable enough to bring her to Germany. I like the idea because my sister is not helping me to progress.

I hope my daughter living with my friend will be a good idea.

I haven't told my sister anything yet because we are not in good term but I want to hear from you first please let me know if I should allow my friend to take care of her or I should leave her with my elder sister.

Niegria is not okay now ooo...everything is expensive and hard .....dont let one outsider sell your pikin for money ritual....

Apexter0001:
I love it as you called me a man
That is what I want to be addressed with

When people get how u really feel they relate with you better... i asked to you but i know all transgenders cant really explain their issues but just want people to accept their delusion with them....so whatever man....have fun being whatever you wanna be man

Apexter0001:
too bad you are not smart enough to detect the answer

You don't expect me to give you a straight forward answer slowpoke
Crack your brain and you will see the answer deep down in a discerning mindset numbskull

..so u opened a thread just to insult people... Enjoy your day man..

Apexter0001:
I am a transgender, I don't conform to the STEREOTYPICAL feminine roles or feminity.
Societal normality is messed up
this so called STEREOTYPICAL masculine or feminine behavior based on genitals is fücked up
Are this standard of feminine roles really what you want as an unfortunate man who finds himself trapped in the wrong body
Are they fair, to expect me to behave feminine just because I have a vagina
Would you come up with the same standard if it haven't be there before you were born
I don't agree with the society sterotypes on feminine roles to people born with pussy/vagina

Simple question u ddnt answer but u are just rambling ....u cant even describe u...

Apexter0001:
Being a transgender is not something you just choose or being influenced by environmental factor it entails on nature not nurture

There is no physical bodies or organs involved in thinking one is being trapped in the wrong body but it has to do with the hormones, spirit and personality of the person involved

So what makes you think you are man trapped in a womans body....??

Chijeep:
Samaritans are termed unbelievers by the jews and which mean sinners. That's not what the post is all about

Jews think they are the only ones serving God...even Jesus was a sinner in their eyes

The bible ddnt say it was a sinner that stopped to help....the bible said a samaritan....

Rozross:
Redpillers kind of girl �

Seems redpillers is all you think about now...
Are you that affected by redpill?? ..dont go insane ooooo....

jkingx:
You didn’t answer or explain why sir. It's in the Bible, isn't it.
What's the explanation sir

So when u were reading it....u ddnt see the explanation in the bible ..or u just chose to ignore it

CSTRR:
She whom the son of man has set free is free indeed.
John 8:36.

Ur point??

Antyxx:
I have been having headache since i broke up with him
We just broke up this morning, and ever since, I have been praying for him, even though he blocked me and i blocked him back,I unblocked him and keep praying for him

He wont see my message anyways but i hope my prayers meet him

U go dey alright....its a great way to heal very quickly......

..i was having a very bad grudge against a colleague made me lose my job in the past....i was finding it hard to let go of the bitterness after such a long time

..until i met a very amazing girl who told me to praying for the person your are very angry at helps....it was like magic...