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Nightaccountant:
Please my dear nairalander, i sincerely need your help
Am married with a child but not yet wedded. I've completely settled her bride price list remaining their bride price token which rhe items required are kola nut and 120 naira and another #15 according to their traditional rites which I intend to payoff on our forthcoming traditional ceremony.
But here lies the problem, my wife is that kind of woman who sex starves his husband. She always expect me to beg repeatedly before she agrees to love making. She sees it as a weapon, and am growing tired cos it lowers self esteem ( someone who experienced it would understand better). Sometimes i struggle my way through while she's fast asleep but if she unfortunately wakes up she will be crying as if am ra**ing her. I don't know to do cos am not a woman type which she knows, am depressed b'cos its too early for this
Secondly she never apologize despite any gravity of her wrong doing. Instead she'll start giving me the silent treatment and plays the victim. I don't knpw if she sees it (marriage) as a competition. Recently she forgot my birthday making it thrice in a row despite alerting two days before it. And guess what she never apologized. She always wants to be treated like a queen while she never reciprocate.
I've had a heart to heart conversation about it to the extent I even woke the up at late hour (2am) to confront her about the consequences of her actions but all aids to nothing, gradually am losing the love I had for her but am just holding on for the sake of our child.
I cross heart i have never cheated on her but by the way things are going It seem like cheating might be my last lifeline which I might regret
Please I need your sincere advise cos it's early for these. Dear nairalander help save a marriage

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YourWriter:
I'm currently 5 feet 10 inches tall. I'd like to reach my goal height of 6 feet 2 inches tall. Can I still grow taller at 21 or it's over for me? If you've once increased your height at 21 or you know someone who did, please share your experience here.

Katehasty:
Hello house please assist me in selecting a masters program …I study agric as an under Graduate(animal science) ..please what can I study for my masters …please your suggestions is kindly welcome with cheap school too

WoundedLamb:
Keep telling yourself that.

chukkystar:
I'm guessing Your own Heartbreak was recent.

WoundedLamb:
The person above is just ridiculous. I mean, why do most men on this platform always find a way to blame women for everything? Even when a man cheats, they still blame the woman. See the way he's calling out the lady for possibly losing guard as if the man is some animal driven by instincts alone. If it were a lady that got into an amorous relationship with the husband’s driver, y'all would have been dishing out unprintable insults to the entire gender. Now, it's a man, and you just want to give him a soft landing by placing a good deal of the blame on the wife even without knowing the whole story. I'm guessing the last paragraph is to make us believe he's got some sense of objectivity; funny. I don't know where y'all learned that treating men's debauchery with kid gloves is a way of being manly. Sexism is ugly.

Manlikechoba:
You don't have a problem

Somebody somewhere will love you the way you are...

Dont soldiers marry there? When they go on 3yrs,5yrs and more without seeing their loved one(s) which we've seen on nairaland.... those fighting for Ukraine or Russia now,don't dey have gf or wives or husbands or bf??

Chill, u didn't make a mistake....

Scapula112:
It's not even about money, the guy my ex left me for is someone I can put on my pay roll every month and won't still feel anything. Thanks for your input ma'am.

date a doctor like you....

U won't both have time for each other.. which you will both understand....

or better still...date a geh that likes money...she will gladly collect your money and cheat on you steady when you are on call..

zed7:
You are talking to the wrong people. Go and communicate with your partner. I don't understand this our generation anymore. We leave substance and chase shadows.
Nobody is perfect and sometimes we don't see our imperfections until people point it out to us.

janejjjjj5000:
No, sir. We have not.

This is a good idea.

I just feel so tired and unmotivated to work on the marriage.

bidemsonlineng:
Aproko

GoodFaith:
A Gift is a Gift
There was no need to ask for all the gift back
Let the goat go

grandstar:
What a very petty person!

bidemsonlineng:
What is the Year model?
Best price?
And Location?
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LordVoldermort:
Is the child a gain for only the man or both?

chisun89:
Good evening everyone, please I called my school about transcript and they asked which school am sending it to.

Since am applying to more than one school in UK how do I go about it? Must it be sent to a school? Can they send it to my house address?

Or can it be collected without address, just like certificate

Please help o, am just starting

Wethmena:
Please I need help
What course do you advise a person that have a bachelor's degree in French to study for Masters degree because I am really confused right now.
Help a sister

Thanks for your input, didn’t really know about the transcripts thing

oluwaseyi0:
that is childishness taken way too far

but to be serious Harry Maguire is only still alive professionally because he is an English boy

Imagine harry being a black?

leef2022:
Punch? What you talking? Is that what you did or were trying to do, when you posted your op? If that's the case, then you are such a weak puncher... like your punch won't take out a fly. Now, go get doing what needs to be done and stop all the gibberish pity card.

leef2022:
My dear friend, I will give you a friendly advise and a patriotic one thats if you would listen.

Rather than stay here and call me names, you would be better showing you ain't lazy and a dedicated prospective student, by either taking the exams or proof you should have that requirements waived. If you can't provide either you are just lazy and not dedicated to your purpose of travel.

If a university have no reputation and you apply to them to go study there, how are you being wise, knowing well you would be paying loads of funds to this university? I don't get how the university is stupid? Like you want to part with your funds to a stupid entity? And you don't realize what that means to you parting with the funds?

And because you stand no chance of gaining admission to the top universities you go for the less reputable universities still get bounced, yet am an asslicker? You hold a proff. degree in nonsense name calling and shallow depth of reasoning

Don't get go doing what should be done. Keep flirting with delays on NL