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FreeIgboho:
That's exactly what dictionary and Google say. Here they are again

No be only you get internet ..


Definitions from Oxford
marginalized
/ˈmɑːdʒɪnəlʌɪzd/
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adjective
adjective: marginalized; adjective: marginalised
(of a person, group, or concept) treated as insignificant or peripheral.
"members of marginalized cultural groups"
marginalize
/ˈmɑːdʒɪn(ə)lʌɪz/


So I ask again....How are women treated insignificant in 2021

Lalasticlala..

We know beef
We know chicken
We know pork

What's the meat of snake called ??

FreeIgboho:
Bros, they are far heavily underrepresented in major roles in Nigeria of today: they are at the margins - MARGINALIZED!

(I keep calling u bros because I suspect u r a man)

Suddenly....beimg unrepresendted is the only meaning of marginalized...

U can't go to the internet to pull out google meaning again??

Samunosuke:
Gender equality/equity or whatever term is currently used has been hijacked by male haters to achieve their objective of subjugating men. If we are talking about personal lives then there are certain cultural realities that we have to acknowledge. My major problem with the movement is its application in the profession world. No man is given an advantage while growing up. We rather have it rougher but when we are able to surmount all of that and compete professionally, the odds are firmly stacked against us due to perceived marginalization from females. No organization would normally choose a less performing male over another except there are irregularities but for female it’s normal and even expected these days.

I could go on and on but I’ve come to accept that the world is headed for the edge if we continue like this. If I suffer to build an empire tomorrow through hard work I’d be expected to hire 50-50 regardless of if some are not up to my standards just because.

I blame the men in high positions that have allowed this destructive narrative to continue unchecked for a long time. They’re all scared of losing their positions so they accept it and even further the movement.

God help us all!

Relax..it's a dead on arrival agenda...

Their false LGBTQ research claiming men and women are equal and that gender isn't nature but only a social contruct is what's driving their female dominating agenda.

Men will be men
Women will eventually be women...

They can't force equality of outcomes.. it's a lost cause...

bukatyne:
Why eliminate men when you can condition them to be what you want?

That conditioning (part of which is making them ashamed of their differences) is happening on a global scale.

I always look at negotiating a win-win situation biko.

At the end of the day...
ur risk apetite will always be lower...nature rigged the system right from evolution

.You will always love and care for family more than men...it's your Achilles heel..

so try and condition all you want...yes, some men will become pvssies..but .men will always come out on top....no need for gender wars

.scandenavian countries have tried it and their equality of outcomes games are already failling..

bukatyne:
Abi we should all convert to men

And to think we have a lot of men transgendering to women than the other way round.

naaaaahhh ..
lets just eliminate all men ....
i bet many of you women will still cry foul

FreeIgboho:
Never mind all that - it is called small talk, shooting the breeze.
Bottom line: WOMEN ARE MARGINALIZED IN NIGERIAN SOCIETY
Now that you have agreed with that, no more discussion. QED.
Ciao!

walahi...you no normal..

FreeIgboho:
Genius the topic is wether women are marginalized in Nigeria, not causes or solutions. First go and learn the definition of marginalization then come back and let's see you still say women are not marginalized. Ok?

, u are the one that should go and see the meaning of being marginalized.....your rant over this thread is baseless... ? u keep saying women are excluded from leadership roles, women are treated differently in families, they are not allowed to keep their names after wedding.....when we show u examples that counters your claim......u will jump back to marginalization being the topic..... u cant eat you cake and have it

Walkee:
lol this one is just capping rubbish.
When I gained admission into AAU, the VC was a woman, Dean of my faculty was a woman, librarian was a woman, my hod was a woman. So shut the fucck up biitch and stop crying.

With this been said, there's zero chance of women being as successful as men. The reason you have more men in high position is the same reason more men are rotting in prison, more men have died this morning falling from electric poles, getting crushed by a heavy object they're working with, drugs getting burst into their blood etc. A man has zero choice other than succeed. While a woman can demand a man take care of her.
When I was 17 I was already working with old men constructing roads while my sisters bathe and paint their nails. While their boyfriends pay their bills.
If you want political positions be ready to do all the dirty things both legal and illegal no man is going to relinquish his position for you.

U went straight for the jugular.... I don't like you...

motayoayinde:
NA WAH OH!

SIX PAGES AND NO ONE HAS BEEN ABLE TO FIGURE OUT THAT YOUR STEP BROTHER SHOULD ACTUALLY HAVE NO BLOOD CONNECTION WITH YOU OR EITHER OF YOUR PARENTS.

YOUR STEP BROTHER IS NEITHER YOUR BIOLOGICAL BROTHER NOR YOUR FATHER'S BIOLOGICAL SON.

EXCEPT THE OP MEANS "HALF BROTHER".

Is like u are not Nigerian... well come to Nigeria...

Where all toothpaste is maclene
All noodles na so indomie...

Nigerians like using words so far it's convinient.....u should already know by now that the op means half brother

Juliusmomoh:
Am just afraid...
What if i tell him and got heart-break and die... He's 76 plus

If the stakes are high...like properties and other inheritances....I think u should tell now....
because if your father eventually does...u might want to say it especially when he and his mother starts to claim over-entitlement over property...that time, no body will believe u...they will just think it's becos of greed u are saying it

bukatyne:
Where was I when this thread was going down?

It would be strange to mention the problems of the girl-child in the North with mentioning the problems of the boy-child.

The North has a very peculiar set of problems that 'empowerment' of the girl-child is not the solution.

No need to mention boy challenges oooo.....the boy child has no challenge...once you come with a penis ..u automatically get to the top...no struggles, no marginalization, no matriachy....

it's women only women that are prevented and marginalized from becoming plumbers, carpenters, mechanic, heads of departments, CEOs and presidents ....in fact the women leaders and CEOs and champions doing well got there by error.....

FreeIgboho:
You people should stop arguing NONSENSE. Look at all the public institutions in Nigeria, how many are headed by women? Look at all the high-end private and business institutions, how many are headed by women. Even places like Alaba market (below) where trillions are made everyday, how many women are involved in them? Is it because these things are too hard fir women to do ? NOO!! It is tradition, culture, societal conditioning and expectations, the very structure of society - those are what exclude them. Even within the tribes there are all sorts of taboos and rules that favor men.. The result of all this is MARGINALIZATION!
YOU PEOPLE SHOULD STOP ARGUING NONSENSE!!!

U are the one saying nonsense...u have finally come out of ur hiding...so it's out leadership now

Women are not screaming Marginalization in other roles like plumbing, carpentry, mechanic, agbero, or is mc-oluomo not an agbero...

but when it comes to big roles, head of department, and presidency..that men had to fight to get...women are now claiming marginalization...

Sorry ..but please answer ...the men in those positions, did they get there for free just because they are men?? Answer please ...
...it's irritating that u women just want men to give up possitions everybody wants in the name of equality, crying that they are not represented are the people there non-humans.. are men from another planet...

There are more nurses everywhere, u don't hear men crying marginalization

U keep shouting culture and systemic bias...which culture in 2021...are there no example of women that are leaders because they to fought for it like other men....these examples of women already prove you wrong.... Women CEOs, women head of department that didn't wait for someone to give it to them ..that didn't let family hold them back, like some men don't allow family hold them back..

What we have are humans fighting to be leaders...weda man or woman it doesn't matter....but what feminist and bias people like u see is injustice and marginalization because some people are fighting harder for what they want....so the other people went there to play...I ask you...?? Did the men and other women wining go there to play...??

So it should no longer be by merit, persistence and resilience....positions should just be shared by gender ..

Buhari had to contest many times to win
Oby Ezekwesili contested once and left...and went back to scream that women are not supported .

.it's irritating...so people can't have their choice to vote for men anymore without women crying that it's marginalization..

U are the one talking nonsense

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says.
Godoverevery u wanted Google. Here's more Google for you

U call that data to back up your claims..
Dude...I don't mean to sound rude..but u don't know what data/evidence means...

FreeIgboho:
You know this is also what whites do about blacks. They'll tell you discrimination ended long ago and enumerate how blacks are even the ones favored. Yet you look at all the juicy positions and you hardly see any blacks. I asked Google for you. Below is what it says

....u dialogue with emotions..not objectively or with data..
..when peoplee counter your opinion...u don't seem to have a countee comeback ...but u just want them to accept you say so without showing significant evidence..

You:Women are marginalized...
Me: Show me significant proof..not isolated cases..
You: no, forget it..just accept it...it's the same thing with blacks and white

FreeIgboho:
My friend forget all these retail stuff. The system itself, societal structure itself, is unfair to women (including traditions, customs, culture, expectations, conditioning, etc - which were of course set by the dominant sex).
You may start the reformation by giving the female child EXACTLY the same rights as the male child in her father's house including the right to propagate her surname (like have all or some of her children bear her last name) - which is basically the only reason Nigerian parents prefer a male. After that you move to her children being equally hers as her husband's; then you move to her husband not having any right to ask her to move out of "his house", etc
And why are most OB/GNY men?? What's your answer to that? They are not "wired" for nursing but they are wired to go into a woman's thing!

i should forget obvious facts...because it doesnt fit ur narrative..ok....i'll indulge you and your petty points

1...the right to propagate surname can be discussed between spouses.....the gorvenment ddnt make it rule, it started hundreds of years ago...may people dont even care about it...many people marry now without change of name..so i dont see how this is an issue killing women...women dont have to cry over this...

2...this is the 21st century oga....in the old days ..people wanted male children because they did more exploits in those days...now both genders fantastic...different people prefer different gender...i'd love to have a girl child... some people dont ..u cant demonize poeple for their choice..
people have their preference for different reasons,,,u cant hastily conclude what their reasons are for them...if i say all u have is fallacy now..u will say i dont know what fallacy is...

3...please u need to go to court once in while and see how divorce cases are judged...in fact judges rule infavour of the woman more than the men when it comes to child custody...so i dont what you mean by " her children being equally hers as her husband's"

4. oh u want the US law that a woman will commit adultry and still get to chase the man out the house to apply here in nigeria....fine...
go to the US...95% men and women contribute to the mortgage payment, share bills...that's why most judges split things equally.....u think they are stupid in the US.... and the only reason women get the house is when they get custody of the child...the home goes to whoever wins the child custody, it could be the male.... Didnt Adele pay alimony and leave the house for her ex husband.....??
nigga...nigerian men dont chase responsible women out of the house....no sane man chases a good wife out....even if he built it all himself...
all this chase out of the house point u are raising are isolated cases...please mention something else...



5. ...The reasons why there are more obstetrics and gynaecology men is same reason why there are more male neuro surgeons, more male cardiovascular surgeons and every other specialization of medicine.....it's resilience......men and women dont have the same risk and toughness appetite........the medical field is highly demanding right from the start....as you go up...women that are tough are consultants...

.go and look at the statistics of people that fail or change from medicine right from year one, two, and three,....its a fvcking tough field for both genders that are not resilient....but once more women are affected...its the mens fault, its society, its the system....please stop it...its pathetic..

my elder brother was in the residency program after service..
many doctors dont even get into residency......more than 80% of them had to do their exams four times..an exam thats about 500k twice a year... many gave up including men...u think its every doctor that becomes a consultant....but once women are affected u people call it marginalization because more men decided to toughen it up....

FreeIgboho:
My friend forget all these retail stuff. The system itself, societal structure itself, is unfair to women (including traditions, customs, culture, expectations, conditioning, etc - which were of course set by the dominant sex).
You may start the reformation by giving the female child EXACTLY the same rights as the male child in her father's house including the right to propagate her surname (like have all or some of her children bear her last name) - which is basically the only reason Nigerian parents prefer a male. After that you move to her children being equally hers as her husband's; then you move to her husband not having any right to ask her to move out of "his house", etc
And why are most OB/GNY men?? What's your answer to that? They are not "wired" for nursing but they are wired to go into a woman's thing!

i should forget obvious facts...because it doesnt fit ur narrative..ok....i'll indulge you and your petty points

1...the right to propagate surname can be discussed between spouses.....the gorvenment ddnt make it rule, it started hundreds of years ago...may people dont even care about it...many people marry now without change of name..so i dont see how this is an issue killing women...women dont have to cry over this...

2...this is the 21st century oga....in the old days ..people wanted male children because they did more exploits in those days...now both genders fantastic...different people prefer different gender...i'd love to have a girl child... some people dont ..u cant demonize poeple for their choice..
people have their preference for different reasons,,,u cant hastily conclude what their reasons are for them...if i say all u have is fallacy now..u will say i dont know what fallacy is...

3...please u need to go to court once in while and see how divorce cases are judged...in fact judges rule infavour of the woman more than the men when it comes to child custody...so i dont what you mean by " her children being equally hers as her husband's"

4. oh u want the US law that a woman will commit adultry and still get to chase the man out the house to apply here in nigeria.... go to the US...95% man and woman contribute to the mortgage payment, share bills...thats why most judges split things equally..... and the only reason women get the house is when they get custody...the home goes to whoever wins the child custody......
nigga...nigerian men dont chase responsible women out of the house....no sane man chases a good wife out....even if he built it all himself...

all this chase out of the house point u are raising are isolated cases...please mention somthing else...

The reasons why there are more obstetrics and gynaecology men is same reason why there are more male neuro surgeons, more male cardiovascular surgeons and every other specialization of medicine.....it's resilience......men and women dont have the same risk and toughness appetite........the medical field is highly demanding as you go up...

my elder brother was in the residency program after service..
many doctors dont even get into residency......more than 80% of them had to do their exams four times..an exam thats about 500k twice a year... many gave up including men...u think its every doctor that becomes a consultant....but once women are affected u people call it marginalization because more men decided to toughen it up....

FreeIgboho:
Data my ass. You are beating about the bush. The question is marginalization. Women in Nigeria are marginalized in all sorts of ways. If men and women were two different tribes in Nigeria, will there be any question that one tribe is marginalized?? Do you even have to look hard to see it?

u are a educated for fvck sake....why the heck are u talking without examples ..u are just screaming marginalization...where is the data..
in advanced counries women dont collect full pay when they go on maternity leave if thyeve not worked for more 600hours...

here, they will take maternity and annual.. amd get their full pay as men...
which company pays swomen less for the same role in nigeria..
which school prevent women from addmission..
which parastatal or agency did government say women cant head....

show me how women are deliberately significantly marginalized in 2021 that men dont have a fair share..

u talked about jobs like carpentry, plumbing...i told u women dont want to be represented in all these jobs, in fact if you offer them those jobs, they will call it an insult...they are on this forum as them if they want to be plumbers and carpenters..
.its about power, power they dont want to contest or compete for....if you cant see that......then u are just an ordinary cry baby like them

FreeIgboho:
In some SOCIETIES there are almost equal number men and women doctotos and nurses. Why would OBG/YN doctors be mostly men??
But the question is marginalization. If men and women were two different tribes in Nigeria, it will be obvious to anybody that one tribe is marginalized

I give up on you...
U have no data or evidence to back your claims ...u people just used grammar like Marginalization, patriarchy, and all manner of English to make women look like victim...this is 2021 where women are CEO of banks, doctorss, lawyers, but because they are not in power they cry foul...
Some people even add pay gap to it....Nigeria that pays women that go on live for 3months the same pay as men that work for 12months will still cry gender pay gap .. it's just funny...

FreeIgboho:
You are ridiculously wrong and easily proven so. You forget Nigeria is not the only country in the world. In some societies there are almost same number of male and female doctors and nurses, and more and more men going into nursing due to corona. What prevents Nigerian men from entering an in-denand field like nursing. Therin lies your answer.(We know from other societies that it is not "male wiring"

I am not talking about Nigeria alone.. and u are the one lying cos u don't have statistics to back your erronous claim that there are equal men and women in nursing..

There are more female nurses than male everywhere in the world..united state has the highest..and it just grew to a mere 12% recently, according to the bereau of labour statistics....just as there are more male in engineering than women...
u think women don't study engineering...they eventually leave and end up doing other things...

The equality of opportunity is fine...that's acheivable... But U can't force out individual or group outcome...that's a fact ....

If u like seff...prevent men from contesting for the next election... The love women have for family will prevent many of them from remaining in politics for long...how many women have risk apetite like tinubu, like ffk, like fayose, oshiomole...

Women will tell u men marginalize them ..but the good heart and caring soul they are wired with more than men is mostly why they won't leave family and chase career full speed..

Give a man a 1.5million naira manager job in maidugurii and he will not think twice before leaving his family... Give a woman the same job and she will remember her kids first cos she won't even want to leave her kids with anyone ...not even her husband..

FreeIgboho:
I don't think you know the meaning of fallacy. So why don't men become nurses which is in high demand instead of being unemployed? Nursing is a JOB and there is no part of it a man can't do very well. It is not the job, it is tradition and societal conditioning and expectations - same things that have women excluded from so many career paths in Nigerian society. It is like saying all one needs is pass an exam to get in - ignoring that some people have been systemically programmed to fail the exam or not even apply to take the exam. Evidence of systemic exclusion is in the result

many men are not nurses not becos culture or society or anything is hindering them but becos most men are not wired that way in the end.. its called eventual outcome....even if many men study nursing today, you will eventually find many of them going into something else....
we have more male engineers today becos of the way men are wired, not because someone hindered women....in fact half the few women in engineering today will still somehow end up as makeup artist or dealer in women and baby clothing....why..."eventual outcome"

. so if you like give all the women scholarship in the world to study engineering for free(its great).....i tell u ..u will still have more men in engineering and practicing it at the end because u cant force equality of eventual outcome, no matter how much u force equality of opportunities..... men and women are not wired by nature the same way.........

PrimadonnaO:
To allude women's decision to not aspire to certain positions and heights to societal conditioning is just too intangible.

How can that be measured?


How have you reached that conclusion?

So if a woman says "I'm not running for the office of the President because society doesn't expect me to" do you think she still has any right to scream marginalisation?

No, she doesn't. Because her limitation is in her head, and there is nothing in the real sense stopping her from breaking free of it.

they are just bunch of cry babies...there's no point arguing this matter... until all the men drop dead in the world...women will keep playing the victim card.... The only way for them to level the playing field is to incapacitate men...They dont want to compete

FreeIgboho:
The word is "systemically" not "systematically". The very system (culture, traditions, expectations. conditioning, etc) excludes them right from birth and even b4 birth. Your example of male nurses is a good example - the same "thing" that excludes men from nursing also excludes women from those other jobs and it is actually stronger than a law, not because nursing is so hard!

All you have is fallacy...from birth?....culture??,,,,,what culture, what tradition?? this is not 1945 where there are no tampons, and culture/ society prevented women from doing almost everything... you are just sounding like you are reading...

no body or culture is stopping anyone...again this is 2021....if men want to become nurses they would....most men dont just like nursing... its that simple....
women that want to be CEOs and leaders should go ahead and stop claiming culture and men are hindering them... this is 2021 for fvcking crying out loud

FreeIgboho:
You are making my point! All those are jobs that put food on the table and women are systemically excluded from them! Yet u are insisting they contribute to family expenses equal to men. How hard is it to drive a taxi? But women are systemically excluded from it by societal expectations not because it is hard!

what the Op has been asking u is ....show proof that women are excluded from these jobs
how are women excluded?? who systematically excluded women....u dont just they are excluded becos they are not many in these job roles...how many male nurses are in the nigeria... are men excluded from nursing? yes, some people laugh and mock male nurses... but does that mean men are excluded.....

stop deceiving urself ....women dont want equality when it comes to plumbing, carpentry, mechanic, underwater engineer, trailer driving, etc...
they want equality in juicy places of power and they dont want to fight for it...they want men to roll over and hand it over....they want law to make seats of power available to them automatically and uncontestable by any man...even in company's board ....they want automatic vicepresident seat by law, commissioner seats, all those seats that dont need election...
and when there would be election,,,,men should not be allowed to compete....

its what Scandinavian countries are doing now, surpressing men so that women can rise...its not hidden.... lets see how far it goes..

last last we all need each other

Martinelli35:
Although this did not happen to me, but it brought a very heated argument between i and my fiancée.

I saw a video on Instagram where a man caught his younger brother sleeping with his wife. He saw them but they did not see him, he pretended he did not see anything.

A few days later he told his wife that he wanted to surprise her with a gift and told his brother to help him out, he said he wanted it to be a surprise and so he tied up his wife’s eyes with a cloth and then also told his brother he had a surprise for him too, that one also had is eyes tied up.

He then took them both downstairs and gave them both empty cartons to hold. On one side of the carton he gave his wife he wrote “she cheated on me” and on the other side was the caption “with my brother”. She was very excited at the expected gift and was smiling throughout and giddy with anticipation, meanwhile oga was filming the whole drama.

On his Brother’s carton he wrote “my brother slept with my wife”, of course he was blindfolded and didn’t know what was written or the fact he was been exposed and humiliated to the world. Oga now gathered her jewelry, makeups and other stuffs and started putting into the cartoon. Madam was jumping up and down thinking of how many and heavy the gifts were. At the same time oga had carried all his wife’s property and thrown on the road while videoing the whole scenario play out. I leave you to imagine the shock and humiliation on there faces when the blindfold came off.

Now this brings me to my own scenario. Now I love my fiancée very much and as is customary of me, I send her funny videos I see online. We laugh about it and all. So I sent her the aforementioned video and she laughed and then got serious and asked that if I was the Husband what would have been my reaction, I told her that I won’t be violent, but that would be the end of the marriage. I would be done and I would never forgive her, but that after time must have passed, I would eventually forgive my brother. That is where issue escalated o. She said that would be very unfair of me, that they both deserve equal punishment, I told her that he is my family by virtue of blood and that can never change, though he betrayed me, but we remain family and I won’t want my parents go through the agony of seeing there children apart. But that my wife only became family by virtue of the trust we have towards each other and that once that is gone, nothing holds us together, besides I won’t be able to stay together in the same house again with her.

She just started ranting that it means I would choose my family over her and that I won’t treat her equally and that what am saying says a lot about me and she got really pissed at me. She took it really personally.

My question is, did I do anything wrong? Is my assertion a totally reprehensible one one devoid of logic? Or am I being unfair?

This is part of what feminism is causing....women of nowadays simply bring equality into everything...it's like they don't understand logic or personal decision...

I jam u for street..u cheat on me...weda it's with my brother or an outsider, return to the streets... What I do to my brother is none of your business

There shouldn't be a discussion of equality here like it's a court issue

GodWrites:
A man that has no respect for your wife or girlfriend, to the extent of sleeping with her definitely doesn't respect you as a person.

The last thing I'll do is drinking beer with someone who just bleeped my fiancee.

Use your brain please!

U obviously don't know how cheating men thinks....a polygamous or cheating man will always look at the heating girlfriend as the villian for being cheap....

Even though he may be angry at his brother and the thought of imagine his brother fvckimg how girl may never leave his head....
he'll later be happy that his brother slept with her in revealing she's a whoree that's not worth walking down the aisle with..

heendrix:
Told my sis bout us and she's like how would it feel marrying from same families, even begged her to look for another guy but she's not listening to me

What's the problem...

Don't u see twin brothers marrying twim sisters??

Abeg marry your girl...it's not an abomination....

DEMZEE:
Both genders are polygnous. Men are polygamous by nature, men can sport Bleep till they die. Women are monogamous by nature, women can't sport Bleep till they die.

A promiscuous man is not the same as a promiscuous woman. A promiscuous woman is a hoe.

It's biology dude lol

No body can bleep till they die ..we all get old and weak...that's biology...

Depending on how strong you are ..some men are weak by 60...while some are still okay at 70...same for women..

Many dirty old women have sugar boys at age 80...don't u see guys looking for greener pastures fvckimg old women for passport......

A promiscous man and a promiscous woma are both shameless and dirty ... U are just creating double standards that only existed years ago....

Women are bolder now and looking for sex everywhere the way men do....

Is Kim Kardashian sex tape not everywhere....go and look at the big guys dying for her...you can't even lace their shoes..... This is the 21st century....

There's no longer it's a man's world... It's everybody's world...

DEMZEE:
FACTS DONT CARE ABOUT FEELINGS. MEN AND WOMEN ARE FUNDAMENTALLY DIFFERENT AND VIEW SEX DIFFERENTLY.

A PROMISCUOUS MAN IS VALUABLE AND RESPECTED IN THE SEXUAL MARKETPLACE WHILE A PROMISCUOUS WOMAN IS A HOE.

WOMEN JUST EXIST AND GET SEX FOR EXISTING WHILE MEN MUST CREATE THEIR VALUE TO GET SEXUAL ABUNDANCE. MOREOVER WOMEN WANT AND DESIRE MEN WHO OTHER MEN WANNA BE AND OTHER WOMEN WANNA Bleep

A man sleeping around will be respected is not fact...it's fallacy and variable societal construct...

U are the one avoiding facts... Everyone likes to fvck....both gender cheats...both gender can be polygamous.... It's not a man thing....

DEMZEE:
Wen it comes to sex women are more pragmatic and selective. It's easier to get sex for women, sex is hard for men to get so therefore we can't b held to that same standard of cheating. Wen it comes to dating and sex women play the game on easy mode and men play the game on hard mode. Women can't get hard mode benefits wen they play the game on easy mode.

The benefits of playing the game on hard mode is that u can have sex with as many people as possible.

A promiscuous woman is a hoe while a promiscuous man is valuable and respected

Men and women are different and view sex differently

this guy.... u are funny... all u have are bunch of fallacy...this is the 21st century..
sex is everywhere is easy for both genders .. cant u see paternity fraud and baby mamas everywhere..


u can paint any type of picture and condition you want,,, a cheating man and a cheating woman are both dirty and irresponsible....

where do u get the idea that a promiscuous man is respected?? By who? his wife? his children? his parents??
maybe his co-dirty friends because even the court will mess him up by taking what he owns in a sane country,

who respects a man for jumping from one pvssy to another.?? nobody...oga there's nothing respectable about not being sexually disciplined.... no matter the gender

hermesprogidy:
Which one is Toyota 504? By the way 5 pounds is chicken change in the Uk today, and 5k can buy you a very decent meal in Nigeria.

Na Peugeot I wan write as it's popular in those days...but Toyota don bribe me my mind..

Please call ur friends in the UK....and ask how much they earn permonth.... Which 5k pounds is chicken change...

If you are not in software dev...most decent salary is between 2500 and 3500 permonth...

Minimum wage is 10£ per hour...
for most Weekly wage earners...even if u work Mondays to Sunday...u no fit earn 5k for at the end of the month for 9hrs per day