₦airaland Forum

PlayMaker14:
For this life ehn, If you get money, try get sense to avoid your yansh being exposed to the furcking world.

Unless u are gay u can't avoid women...abi mr dangote go dey straff woman without removing his chlothes..

Just pray make your village people no reason your matter.... Any body wey dey around you go just become your enemy.

ashewoboy:
What is your take? should a wife wait for her husband to come back from work or wherever he is before she eats or she should eat alone?

Share your take.

If hungry wan kill am..she go chop...

What kind of waiting is that..??
Is that supposed to be another form of respect....ordinary food...

Na una dey let nairaland girls talk anyhow..

maynia:
This recent Paternity fraud threads really exposed a lot of evil people. See all the silly excuses to defend fraud

When topic like this come up..it's normal to have different ideologies no matter how annoying or controversial ...however not being being rational or or sensible while presenting an idea is what is annoying...

Dominatrix:
Disgusting!

Are u really a dominatrix or it's just a symbolism

oloriooko:
tigers next to creche? this is the height of wickedness

Shebi na law we dey follow in civilized settings...?? We have deleted inapproprite and sometimes safety from our dictionary...

Tobbaco that destroys lungs is legal.
marijuana that can drives people perdiposed to mental ilness mad is legal..
Gambling that used to be illegal and done illegal and in the dark web is now legal becos of tax...

Talks to make cocaine legal is under way so that tax can be paid on the concaine trade..

So why blame the guy since keeping tigers on residential property is allowed in the country....the creche should move if they feel their safety is threatened...

maynia:
Do you know the definition of moral rights?
This is what happens when you abandon reasoning for emotions.

This is not ambadonig reason for emotion..the guy's IQ is less than a 10 year old's....he doesn't even know how to make proper comparison or even use a word in the right context....he saw others presenting that line of argument and decided to support it without knowing how to back the arugument rationally

NigeriaIsGreat:
if you check and it turns out negative and you checked for your ward's and it was same negative

You don't have any moral right to castigate your wife cos after all una be same same

And you know bird's of a feather flicks together >:

A man wants to know if his wife has not been deceiving him...you are claiming he doesn't have the moral rights to do so if he's a bastardd.....how is he the same with his adultrous wife..is he the one that gave birth to himself??


U are just using English wrongly and in a wrong context for that matter...
U don't know the meaning of having moral rights to do something...it's like u just saw some people like kobojunkie raising this line of though and u just decided to jump in....kobojunkie that is an expert in arguing wrong things by being vague...u will nevwr know what he's saying...and he will hold u in an ariguemwnt for 10hours


It's okay to raise a line of thought...we all can analyse issues..but when u don't even know what you are saying like a primary school child ..what's the point of your argument......

Moral rights koor
Moral left niiii

I don't know why maynia keeps waaring his time answering you back and forth...

Help2020:
I'm not saying she is not a virgin oo

Really...??

So what were u saying or trying to say

mandax:
But the Igbotic olodo might not have understood that his wife was rather menstruating then, not a virgin.

So u automatically know the girl is not a virgin?? How..??
You also know the guy doesn't know the difference between a free passage vagina and the one with hymen...??

Wait let me ask u...Have u even slept with a real virgin before ..not all those ones that lie that they have use candle or finger when they were 13...

The difference is too clear..

Mom007:
Commendable... But not everything is for social media.
Kudos to the lady, she will be highly prized by her husband.., I hope.

Nairaland oloshos...make una come see see una mate here wey get sense...she said it's commendable...kidos to her....simple...any other thing is by the way and a stupid specualtions

All of una busy shouting
It's doesn't mean she has good character
It do doesn't mean she will not cheat
It doesnt mean she will not do paternity fraud..
It's mwnstration blood..Shame on all of una!!!

....una don tear eyes finish with 20 body counts and plenty abortion to match ...una come dey vex for babe wey maintain sexual discipline...thunder fire una....

Help2020:
This Is pure illiteracy.. A lady can have sex several times and the gate will still remain close..hymen has elasticity,and it can accommodate slow sex and and remain unbroken.. The fact that blood came out does not mean she has never had sex.

Lol.....Oh Lord have mercy....

U guys like making one off cases a standard..

Have sex several times indeed....

why is it so hard for u people to believe that someone's daughter is a virgin till marriage...is that hard??

Ruthymoon:
I just hope his thing is big, but he's a disgrace showing his wife mentruation on Social media, and about confirmation , doctors will do the real confirmation in nine months time

So a woman can't be a virgin in peace??

Is it that hard...that it must be a lie??


This life...lol....

nedekid:
Alum tins..
If you know you know.

U don't even know what alum does to the vagina

IbileIfe:
There is no scarcity of stupidity in Nigeria.

Virginity does not translate to purity.

He never said virginity is translated purity....

He's celebrating he met his wife a virgin.. why is that annoying to you guys....

People literally post dumb shit on social media like:
they slept with someone's husband or wife
..thet they commited adultery and paternity fraud and so what .

..see people even post their bodies for sale..

So this dude decides to declare to the world that he met his wife a virgin...and he's now stupid...??

Charmingrascal:
The fact is, because you married a woman a virgin doesn't mean she won't f*ck those d*ck after marriage.


She might decide to Bleep and explore those di*ks she didn't fu*k before my marriage.

Women who were virgins before marriage, might start wondering what they missed out when they were young, and decide that it is not too late to start finding out especially when the husband is not living to expectations in the aspect of satifsfying their sexual desire.

So Mr man and Mrs woman stop being childish and take this dirty sh*t off social media.

U are right...There is no riskless journey...But He took a calculated one...
It's better than marrying a retired prostitute with 20 body counts and 4 abortion history...

InTheCloudySky:
It's actually possible for a child to look like someone they don't share DNA with, and in the same manner, not look like someone they share DNA with (e.g. children who don't resemble one or more of their biological parents, biological siblings who look nothing alike). The bottom line: if an individual is uncertain about a child being his, a DNA will help clarify the situation. I don't see the big deal there. A woman who has nothing to hide won't sweat it, and it may be important for the child's health.

Are u a man disguising as a woman??
Cos nairaland women are no this rational...they always talk with bias as long it's against men and favour women...

We were discussing this issue at work.. and a lady that said exactly what you said was verbally attacked by other females for not being a feminist and against her gender....and that DNA test is an insult whether they cheated or not....claiming that sometimes cheating is possible and that a woman cannot fully know if her husband or the outsider owns the baby...

I'm like how the fvck did humanity get this low....

betabread:
Is it only facial structure u give ur child, my dear don't over flog this.......

U seriously don't know how genetics work

Back in the old days, elders stamp their feet on their children not marrying into some families, u think they don't know what they were doing

Granted a woman might philander but if a product arises from such Union, it is as clear as water


I stand on my ground, Dna test will only help out if close relatives are battling the paternity of a child..... You don't need Dna test to sort out a paternity row between an Isoko landlord and an Fulani tenant

Lol.... Isoko and Fulani....is that how cheating scenario play out in the real world??

So what if you are Igbo and your wife also cheats with a Igbo...or isn't that how it really works in the real world...

Besides ..it's easy to tell a child might not be urs when the child is fully grown....but when paternity doubts comes up when a child is still a baby...perhaps becos of infidelity from the woman...guy u can't totally be sure is a baby is urs without DNA..

.I've seen many cases of people thinking they are not the father of their children because the baby looked completely white like the mother.....and it turned they are the father....

betabread:
Let's stop reinventing the wheel,a child's genetic make up is split equally, I don't need a dna test to know my dad is my dad, it like using a machine gun to kill a mosquito but if mum had slept with my dad's brother or relative then dna night come in to prove

U obviously don't know how genetics work...because you And ur wife donate 23chromosomes each doesn't mean you both will equally donate the gene that will code for the faicial structure...
It's a random thing during ontogenesis...

That's why u see sometimes, girls look exactly like their father because sometimes the process selects the father's genes that code for facial phenotypic expression..but mostly, lots of girls look like their mother...

The fact that there is dominant and recessive genes makes the process even less black and white like u are implying

JovialJune:
Hehehehe, I'll be on the lookout for "m" monikers, let's see if they will be bold enough to bitch about since this one is a grown ass adult, of which his momma was born in the time past, and not females of these days.

What's funny ma??

A girl child can be the splitting image of her mother... So even after if ur wife sleep with another u can't know by checking the resemblance...DNA lo sure

takimsipho:
Since this is the type of mindset you girls have, then tell your parents not to collect one Kobo if someone wants to marry you. Don't expect gifts from men, or don't get married at all, stay single to flex with 30 guys if you wish. Society pressures men to get married and be the breadwinners, only to end up with someone who doesnt truly care about him. If you date a Nigerian girl for some time and have had sex with her, but you decide not to get married so as to save yourself the future wahala. Everybody will see you as wicked, why do you want men to marry you and take care of you when you hate them so much. What do you do for us, we hustle our lives by ourselves to take care of you girls and the kids. You marry us only if we are successful which most times happens without your support, then you want to show that you have dark mind?

U sound like u are pained....that's what these women want...they are just pressing your buttons.....stop giving them the attentions....

Lightorder:
i have been shouting it sir. If I have a wife who doesn’t give me trouble, how would I go to confirm the DNA of a child who has been calling me daddy. I no fit get that mind disown a child I have been bonding with since her birth

The internet stories has spooked many men...

Some women show no signs of infidelity
Yet, some guys go for DNA because the child bears no resemblance to him or his wife....

Sometimes the child will look like the mother only and the guy will suspect fould play for other reasons..

We are in the era of sexual liberation...u will hardly find a virgin these days....
If you jam a girl today...chances are she resently hopped on a dick.... If you are too quick u too will enter the place....sometimes these women don't know and aomwtimes they suspect but just decide to keep quiet hoping the husband owns the child..

Haven't you heard that many first Borns are from one ex, sugar daddy or one past relationship the lady was in before one of the boyfriends decided to say let's head to the alter.....

Kobojunkie:
This paternity fraud issue has been a part of Nigerian culture for at least the last 60 something years of its existence. There are even traditional laws meant to grant custody first to the husband who raised the child before anyone else. That is to show that this problem has been around long before many of you were even born.

Gramting custody to the man who raised the child or whose name is one the birth certificate is when theres a child claim issue between two men....the court usually favours the man who raised the child because he did it ignorantly i.e., with the knowledge that the child is his...


But if a man feels betrayed and doesn't want anything to do with the woman anymore or the child, theres no case of gramting him custody....

Kobojunkie:
It is meant to keep folks from possibly kidnapping the wards of others and fleeing the country with them.

Many people have asopted kids and travel with without any DNA test. So Why will I want to kidnap someone's kid and call it my own when I can just prepare adoption papers that won't raise the requirement of DNA test...

Kobojunkie:
My paternity isn't in question here since we all DNA- tested in my house and were cleared over 20 years ago.

The question is what about those or you agitating for DNA tests today as a way of solving all frauds? Are you certain you are the child of your own father?

What's your point??

So a man doesn't have the right to acertain his wife isn't deciving him Until he questions his own parents??..

ume1000:
that's unlelated

I think the right example would be when her husband trick her to carry someone else child in her womb (surrogate) and she discovers after 15years

Finally .. somebody has sense on this forum

larryjonze:
Lets even agree every man that want a DNA is a bastard, ehn ! ehn ! if i am a bastard due to my mother mistake i can't correct so i should also accept a bastard from a LovePeddler wife,even when i can correct it, are you people sick or something, what kind of lame justification is that.
if nedu were to be a bastard would that justify is wife actions. TBH we need to ask our forefather for forgiveness, they saw ahead.

U people have time...these women taking nonsese on nairaland that men should accept any child are just pushing your buttons..they are men haters with no boyfriend

ultraviolet27:
. I hate what I don't Like. Like you Could Raise a Child who is not from ur Loins and treat Him/Her well?I don't why Most Women are insensitive and wicked.I am a Woman too but if Women Cud maltreat Kids from the Street and not from their Loins(Step Kids,House Help,and Relations). Don't See wy u would want to Foist a Bastard on your Husband and for the Rotimi Salami everyone is entitled to His /Her Opinion but a Man has the Right to Conduct DNA on the kids under His Roof as you as a Woman won't even want to share the Bills with Him equally in the House So He Cant be training other Men kids its is His money so He Can do anything with it for u to even Rush and bring Rotimi Salami Opinion here the Joke is on You .If that Guy that died early this Year had done DNA on those two kids earlier on He may still be alive 2day as He won't have been training those FCMB Directors Kids.
Women that are Callous So that they Can Leverage on the fact that another Man is not dragging the Kid with their Husband and give their Hubby Kids from other Men to train to Higher institution? That was how One Woman gave Her Husband 4 Kids frm other Men to train to University Level Had it been One of the Children ddnt need an Organ Donor d Man for no know and who told u the Kids won't go look for their real Dad in the future?or the Woman Cant even Callously take the Kids away as that Moyo of FCMB did So who go Come lose? A Clear Conscience fears no accusation!!!well u Can advise your Brother to be training other Man kids sha as His efforts no go waste.

I never knew we would get to this point where infidelity is so normal that men are now being told to manage Whichever child the woman births as his own.

How did someone put it seff...the feelings of the wife and children should be considered...

How did we even get here...
Where moral standards has become so low..

Where it's now okay to to cheat...

Where women are expected to accept because men are polygamous...

Where women will go and bring another man's child deceptively into a marriage and men are expected not to talk becos children are children...and he should manage whateva child it is..

And women are even bold to say...shebi is if u can afford DNA test..

How the fvck did humanity get this low.

In the next 20 years I don't think there'll be an institution called marriage...

Everybody should start masturbating full time because pain is all people get in marriage these days

Ibkhaleel01:
PRINCIPLES OF GOOD GOVERNANCE IN ISLAM
Published on March 29, 2015
Author’s photo
Ali Ahmad Darwish
Deputy Chief Islamic Banking Officer | Maiwand Bank
Introduction to Islam
The word Islam is derived from Arabic word S L M and its mean surrender, obedient and as well as peace and this mean that a person can have a physical and mental peace only when he fully surrenders to all mighty GOD

This religious system is been start by Muhammad SWT Peace be up him at seventh century and Islam is one of the fastest growing religions in the world and in each five person one is a Muslim in all around the world there is 3 million of the Muslims (Malik, 2003)

The Holy Quran describes good governance as the law of justice, a just and principled order and compliance of rights and responsibilities in a society.

The Qur’an declares: “Those when given authority in land, establish (system of) salah, give zakah and enjoin what is good (mauruf) and forbid what is wrong (munkar) (Quran, al-Hajj, 22:41)

It further says: “O you who believe stand up as a witness for Allah in all fairness, and do not let the hatred of people deviate you from justice (‘adl). Be just, this is closest to piety (Quran, Al-Maidah, 5:

Islamic view of good governance is qualitative and not mechanical. Major features of good governance can be précised under seven fundamentals

Rules of Law (As-Shura)
Khilafah
Accountability
Transparency
Justice
Equity
Al-amr bil maruf wa nahi an al-munkar
Rules of Law ( As-Shura)
As-shura is one of the most important constitutional principles in the Islamic Law. As it’s very important that’s why it’s been mentioned in Quran Moreover, a sura (chapter) in the holy Qur’an was named after that principle. It is called “Shura”. This show the importance of this principle in all the affairs of Muslims. The whole system of the Islamic state from its beginning to the selection of the Khalifa of the state and all those in key positions as well as its communications must be led by Shura, so it should be carried out directly or indirectly over selected or nominated councils

There is mention in Quran: O you, who believe, be custodians of justice (and) witness for Allah, even though against yourselves or your parents or your relatives. Whether a man is rich or poor, Allah is the greatest well-wisher than you. So follow nor the behests of lust, lest you swerve from justice (Quran, An-Nisa, 4:135)

Even the Prophet, although he was the receiver of direct guidance from the Almighty Allah, was command-ed. Allah says:

Consult them in affairs (of moment). Then, when you have to take a decision put the trust in Allah. For Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him). (Quran, Al-Imran, 3:159)

Following this advice and lead, Khalifa Umar admonished that:

There is no khilafah without consultation.

Thus, The same mechanism was followed by the follower of Muhammad SWT for the selection of Khalifa and It was the first Muslim elected four khulafah guidance, although the selection and approval process varies. The important principle is the truth and accountability and public confidence in those elected by the community.

The importance of Shura
The basic fundamentals of Islamic political system is called Shura.its is responsible for all the affairs of Muslims .Thus, the Islamic state might have preceded the modern democratic systems with regard to the necessity of agreement over choosing the one who runs its affairs and cares for its interests, something which stresses the value and effectiveness of unanimity among Muslims (Al-Nuzum, p24, 25) .

Decision maker of Shura
A group of Muslim people who have the power to make decision are all called Shura. And those who are members of Shura must have some qualities like Education, Wise and Justice so it can be said that the Shura people are scholars and leaders.

For applying the rulers it’s important and necessary to have a Shura .It can be said that it is one of the most important manifestations of civilization that Muslims contributed to its creation and consolidation in the Muslim community. So, Shura was a kind of expression of the divine will on the basis of what the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “My nation shall not agree upon an error.” (Majah) . In Here I would like to mention that Khalifa in Islam can’t give the Right to express the divine will. I.e. he is not authorized to pass legislation, because the power of legislation is entitled to the Muslim community or the whole nation (Al-Sanhuri) and this, of course, happens in the absence of clear evidence from the Qur’an and the Prophet’s traditions.

Difference between Shura and democracy
We should say the Islamic Shura is much different from modern democracy system. Democracy is the people made rules and assumed by people and people should make their own constitution and law, In order for people to assume lawmaking authority, set laws and distinct between authorities, general elections are held to select a group of individuals who are able to monitor all authorities, and those persons have the rights to remove or bring ministers or head of a state

Islamic Shura have a different view. Shura in Islam is based on the rule of Allah’s and Sunna Muhammad SWT and loyalty to those rules in basis of faith.

Scholars are the people of power and decision. They come at the top of the people of Shura. Given Allah’s rules, scholars don’t have their own consultation laws they just have to prove the text is from Quran and sunnah.

The truth is that democratic system can be easily controlled or avoid by some powerful parties over political actions in a country and they will and politely parties and they will force to apply by the nation. However the Islamic Shura is supremacy for Allah only and and give the priority to Allah’s rule which lead to the emergence of men living in the company of Allah and fearing Him Honestly (Ghalush)

From preaching peace and serving God almighty to the people of medina ...your prophet took the land from the owners and his followers forcefully started shariah rule....was that the original plan or was it a by the way arrangement??

U Call it the will of God..so that people must obey and never opppse...they oppose...u will still pull the clause from the Hadith that it's blasphemy and they must die...

U see how all na package transaction??...I know u don't see...just asking a rhetorical question...

SarkinYarki:
See the idiot we were all begging Buhari to forgive

Islam religion is a packaged political tool...the average Muslim has just refused to see it...that's why their leaders will easily use them to kill thousands under the guise that it's the will of Allah for Islam to rule a state or nation..and killing will get them virgins in heaven

It was technically the same thing the romans and the Catholics tried to do with the gospel of Jesus during the dark ages..killing christians(protestants) and others that protest against them and their idea of calling the pope God's representative on earth...

Thanks to france and other western powers of that time who seperated the power of religion from state.... But this Muslims never gree..

eviewzmedia:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RyC4HKjeML8
Is Wizkid Using New Artiste to Remain Famous?

Finally fans will be getting a Wizkid and Ckay Collaboration!
In the early hours of Wednesday morning, Wizkid’s baby mama and manager, Jada Pollock took to her IG account to hint on a Wizkid and Ckay collaboration. As seen in her post, she is excited that Big Wiz will be collaborating with the Love Nwantiti crooner.

This news is coming hours after Ckay dethroned Wizkid by becoming the second African artiste with the most followers on Spotify and also topping USA Shazam chart.

From Tems, Bella Shmurda, Buju and now Clay, is wizkid actually using New School Artiste to remain Famous?
Please before you insult me watch the video above to understand what I am saying

So wizkid is now small to compared to clay..that he will need clay to stay releveant..

A whole Grammy award winner with enough endorsement ....
He even just added tommy Hilfiger to the list just last week...