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Oksman:
You didn't dodge any bullet. Forget that rap that made you feel okay as if you are smart. I understand you very well, and the reason why you had to resort to this forum to pour out your heart. The issue here is are you a virgin? Of course not. Have you slept with him? Of course yes. Have you taken in before? Sure yes. Have you done an abortion before? Yes. Age is not on your side that was why he demanded that you get pregnant first. you know you are in your 30s which means it may not be easy for you take in immediately hence your decision to keep him in suspense. Whatever the case you are pained because you feel used and still lost him and not that he has a wife in Dubai which you claimed was your after- discovery. My advice to you is to trust in God so that He will give you a husband, who may not fit into your choice, but would give you a peaceful married life.
Goodluck

Bodmum:
it's better to remain a xtain. Don't come join my religion of pieces, we shall teach you how to kill for allah

Geestarry:
Something isn't adding up.

How would someone be sentenced to death without a case file

gfon:
omo na that diesel part be my worry,it's terrible bro

Queenslander:
This is disgraceful to say the least.. the moral decadence in our society is now alarming,. Maria threatening a married woman? Just imagine the audacity..

NtiObaEneke:
Shut it. Purveyor of STD

MeghaneMorgane:
As a lady, a guy with too many body counts is a no no for me. I become disgusted no matter how fine you are and no matter your achievements. Any guy that sleeps with different olosho every weekend is a no no for me. Any guy that meets a girl today and wants to sleep with her next week is a no no for me. I’m actually disgusted by those kind of guys and the best relationship we can ever have is friends. Nothing more than that.

Once you have too many body count, I see you as someone who will definitely and obviously cheat on me. And me I no get energy for one man to come and cheat on me. Body counts matters for me. If I meet a virgin man, good for me. If not, make e no pass a certain number. Except if of course the guy has genuinely given his life to Christ. If not, we cannot be more than friends.

I don’t agree with what op has posted. You need the past information of your partner to know how to navigate the future. I want to know my partner’s past. If you don’t want to know yours, that’s your cup of tea

Smartb0y:
his gf is a conc feminist.
she has brainwashed his life

sirjamesjnr:
. What cake do they eat? It is their body, respect it. That is what maturity is all about.

Smartb0y:
@op,stop giving them false hope

seyz91:
from the wat he type the shit story

looks unreal

see as he's telling the marriage story like it's some normal scam dating with naija girls

you know what i mean..

how can you take naija girls lightly with their word of "not having sex until marriage"

thats shit will never work for me as i wont allow my enemy fall for it sef
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98percent of naija girls are deep well

seyz91:
un real shit

it's obvious you made this shit up

seyz91:
un real shit

it's obvious you made this shit up

NtiObaEneke:
I smell lies but let's assume the op is not chasing attention-

Ladies, don't build your relationship on lies. If you have nacked well, own it with your full chest. Na nack you nack, you no kee person. Why lie when you know the man will still enter the place last last and discover that you are a dirty, stinky liar? You will destroy the trust he has and even if he forgives you, your deceit will always be a strike against you.

If you choose to be unfortunate and keep lying, at least lie strategically. Make sure you have back up so you don't disgrace your entire lineage on the day of reckoning.

Petyprincess:
The truth is not everyone will get married, I have the utmost respect for women living their best life without depending on a man.
A woman's happiness should not be defined by having a man because of two hairy balls!!

Jman06:
I can do homework and attend PTA meetings by myself!

Lenny22:
I want a revenge !!!! Call me petty, idgaf.
My name is Jeremy, I'm respectful, friendly but I get pained easily. I came here to pour out my mind and to seek good opinion.

There is a pretty girl I know right from secondary school days, we were not friends in secondary but fast forward into three years post secondary school, we started chatting. We had smooth conversations, although I was always the first to get in touch with her and also the first to chat her up.

I never for once hit on her , flirted with her or disrespected her in any way. I noticed I was always the last person to text and the first person to start another chat. I once waited weeks inbetween but she never texted until I did. Sometimes she never replied my text (Not a bad text in any capacity).

Two months after I decided to check on her three days ago by chatting her up . Her replies were to short to the extent that she replied one of my statements with just a word.

Please Fam, I just wanna save my face and regain my respect. What can I do to make her feel how I feel at the moment. I just want to make her have a taste of her own medicine, the feeling of being ignored.

tivta:
Those type of ladies are very hard to find. Too many stubborn ladies around.

PhilipReigns:
Sorry, I know some people might find this a little offensive. But it has come to my observation, that some big boys (mostly internet fraudsters aka Yahoo or G boys) who live very comfortably have parents and siblings that appear needy, unkept, poor and miserable yet thier sons live large in d city or town where they are and are doing well for themselves. Why? Exactly what's the essence of having money, living large and still watching your dad drive that same old bike he's been driving for the past 16 years or living in the same old house he inherited from his father while you live in Mansion, drives exotic cars and spend recklessly on cars, friends and women.

I don't get it, please someone should enlighten me before.

ultiabaz36:
Is it good for Pastors and Alfas wives to mourn during sex?

tivta:
Hi all. I need married men to please tell me the major benefits of being married.
I'm an extreme introvert that loves being alone at least 60 percent of the time.
A geek in love with electronics, used to taking care of himself when sick (as long as there's money there's a way).
In need of intimacy every now and then.
Not one who is crazy about kids but tolerates them from time to time.

So with these attributes of mine, do i need marriage? And what type of woman do i look out for?

uthlaw:
this babe set ooo!

Damian3354:
As for those that Don't know why you should NEVER Marry a Girl that's a Graduate, haha haha...heh heh, una funny
You know what ehn, hehehe.... just come to my lodge fess and see what they are doing to the so called Girls that will become graduates tomorrow (p.s: Am among those doing the do, but i no dey Stupid, When we're done with them we EXPORT them to the outer society for any man that Wants to Eat "Left Over" to enjoy.)
Forget Girls that have passed through university
"Prostitutes" are better than them .

lezz:
Then Muslims worldwide are powerless if a dullard like Buhari is the 15th most powerful Muslim in the world

Richywiz:
well, that's the reason this forum is full of kids, You men must learn to accept the fact that women are emotional beings, we didn't choose to be that way, we were created that way

Richywiz:
Nairaland has become a one gender forum because it isn't forgiving and welcoming to ladies.

Most of you men are just suffering from low self esteem and u feel insulting ladies is the only way to show u are in charge.

U may not agree with a lady's fancies but that shouldn't give u the right to insult her, please learn to respect us as much as we do to u, Sometimes u see someone shouting "all girls are useless" and people just hail him.

Seriously?