₦airaland Forum

donbachi:
I no understand..as in na him placenta dem use lay the foundation of democracy in nigeria.

psucc:
Which year?

And what's the actual problem or issue with the car?

Righteousness2:
We Live in absolute crazy times.
Who does Mr billy think he is with all these their Ungodly Craft and actions?
All what man thinks about is how to alter the Gifts of GOD to Humanity.
They come in various guise like climate change and all sort of Ungodly Sciences.
Unfortunately it is in vain! The Earth is of the LORD and the Fulness thereof.
If man was God, it would have been so terrible here because of the Wicked nature of man.

Glory to GOD that man is nothing but a mere creature

Kwara1stson:
they've built schools, hospitals, publishing Houses that employs thousands of people

tunatrezy:
What a misleading utterance by a "Bishop" Yes the schools were built by missionaries but handed over to the government years ago, government pay the salaries of the staffs and take care of the school in terms of infrastructural development. For this reason the school belongs to all citizens of the state regardless of their religion orientation. It's very unfortunate when I see a Christian going against Hijab, I wonder if they truly believe in what is in their Bible

Kapeter:
See breast. Ugly thing. Davido don give am free fame. See mouth self. Nonsense.

Btruth:
The Assurance Of Salvation

It’s not about your hold on God—but His hold on you!

henrixx:
no bro. the happiest people in the world are not the rich but those who follow their heart desires. only if you understand

donstan18:
If he had died, who would have believed the lady didn’t kill him?

OyinO:
Like woman at your own peril. The days of our Mothers is gone FOREVER and ever! The successful and humble woman you're referring to now come one in a million. That is a negligible proportion or minute fraction that makes meeting such woman a very rare and unlikely occurrence. But you have a point.

OyinO:
Marriage of nowadays is for the benefit of the female folks. They're smiling during pre-wedding photo-shoots because they know they'll be smiling to the bank where they didn't invest.

blueAgent:
I don't know why you are getting workup.
I am done trying to explain yourself to you.

blueAgent:
It's amazing how you can lie in broad daylight.

blueAgent:
Are trans created that way?
Or if should rephrase it did God create trans that way?

blueAgent:
But you wrote this?

Is it that you don't understand what Advocacy means or what?

blueAgent:
And you also wrote this.

blueAgent:
You advocate for them ,so you probably will have a solution to such Dilemma.

WoundedLamb:
We are all social beings and unless you plan to live in caves alone or isolate yourself like Medusa, it's practically impossible to ignore social constructs. Do you know money (the concept of currency) is a social construct? Yet virtually everything we do life is aimed at having it. Marriage is a social construct. Dressing is just a social construct yet Bobrisky is one of the most hated people in Nigeria for cross-dressing. The concept of countries is a social construct yet people move from one country to another when they feel the former isn't working for them. Gender norms are social constructs and it's not any less important than the ones I've mentioned above. Institutionalized social constructs give shape to human existence and it's practically impossible to ignore them as long as we are alive cause that automatically implies social ostracism, the fastest route to suicide.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being girly, that I totally agree with. But unfortunately, life is hell for them. You've never heard? Well, I'm telling you now. A boy who feels better putting on tight trousers, a boy who likes to keep long nails and hair, a boy who can't walk without moving his waist like a lady, etc. is automatically irritating to an average straight man. People hate them for no reason. Regardless of how much self love you claim to have, you can never be happy when you attract hatred from all angles just by existing. It's so easy for you to say cause you've not walked in these people's path.

You can disagree with me about self love but if you agree that no one just wakes up and decide to hate himself, then you invariably agree that self love is influenced by external factors. Nevertheless, like I mentioned earlier, transgendering isn't all about self hatred. People change gender to be where they want to be.

Government does not encourage or discourage anyone to become trans. Government doesn't just take that freedom away. Freedom is one thing Africans need to appreciate. You may not approve of something but you shouldn't take away that freedom from others cause you don't like it. Do you really worry about the chemical/blade anatomy they go through (that would be very kind of you) or do you just hate transgenders?

WoundedLamb:
Good morning from here.

Self love/confidence doesn't just come as a personal decision. It is influenced by external factors. Even when we are ugly, our mothers tell is how beautiful we are. When we are good in playing football and our male friends praise us, we will feel good about ourselves. Things like these make us appreciate ourselves as we grow up. A very efiminate kid is told by neighbours that he's different. He's hated and bullied by his fellow kids who don't see him as good enough to share the same space with them. Strangers look at him like an alien when he's passing by. Even adults that should know better mock him. He grows with the idea that he's unwanted/unacceptable. Self confidence lost, self love non existent, he tries to hide himself from the world and he always questions God who made him that way. Sir, you don't just instruct such a person to love himself, not when he'll still be living amongst those who constitute his source of anguish.

However, there's a slight difference between self hatred and gender limitations (a thin line actually). While people like the hypothetical kid I described above may want to transition into the opposite gender and move to a new area, I'd like to also mention that a trans person isn't necessarily always someone who suffered self hatred in the actual sense of it. Many experienced gender limitations. A masculine looking girl with zero interest in ladies' stuff who has always dreamed of playing with Toronto raptors or doing other stuff males do may feel limited by her own gender. Such a person may feel useless as lady. On the other hand, some boyish women would never want to transition cause their passion can be pursued even as a lady and I learned (not sure) people are generally more tolerant towards them than towards the effeminate guys. In that case, no limitation/no self hatred.

Finally, transgendering isn't tightly coupled with sexuality. This is because not all efiminate guys are gay (but how many women would want to date them?). Yes, many men who transitioned into women date men, but not all. I know a straight guy (or rather, heard she was a man) who transitioned into a lady and now has a girlfriend. So you see, it's not all about se.x. If it were, we wouldn't have trans in Canada cause anybody can have sex with anyone here regardless of the genders. Maybe some of them try to fit into social constructs like you said, and if that saves them from a lifetime of sadness and social ostracism, I wouldn't stand on thier way, brother.

inumidun2010:
Are you a WINNER?.... Shey you want make the GIRL come next SHILOH ni

blueAgent:
Let me ask you a question, if a transgender female is arrested and sentenced to prison for any offence unrelated to their sex, which prison will be appropriate to put them? Is it a Male or female prison?

supernet4:
wow 54?
I don't believe it
happy bday emekus

WoundedLamb:
In summary, yes.

The expression "trapped in a body", according to the medical dictionary is the feeling that one's gender is different from one's mind, heart and personality. A cute girl with visible jaw lines who is naturally inclined to engage in body building, play football, go on low cut, put on baggy trousers, fight, etc. may be feeling limited by her own body. She can't join the male team where she feels she belongs, she can't pull her shirt in public as she'd want to cause she has breasts to cover. She can't openly have a girlfriend in some places cause she's a girl. Such a person feels trapped in her own body. The fact that she has to be a man to live a fulfilled life implies she might never really be happy in life. The thought of this alone could lead to acute depression. This is where the option of transgendering comes in (for those who feel the need to).

In Nigeria, you have some extremely effeminate boys hated and bullied by thier mates. Even the adults aren't spared. They pretend not to care but many of them are very depressed. They cry at night and wish they weren't born. Some get suicidal. Yet, they can't change cause they don't even know what to change; they can't walk like your stereotypical men, speak like them or like football like they do. They are stuck in a life of perpetual sadness. But they can't transgender cause the same people that hate them also hate transgenders. It's like saying, "we won't let you be, we won't let you go". It's almost as if suicide is a better option.

Finally, I'd like to add that transgendering does not necessarily promote gay rights. If you feel attracted to fellow men and then you turn into a lady, you'll only end up reducing the gay visibility. This is not always the case but I just felt I should correct the impression. Thanks.

Cc: blueAgent

Wickedfacts:
Don't defend rubbish. It is wrong to insult potential customers. Why is he crying when he can't take what he's dishing out?

I doubt anyone who sees his behaviour on this thread will be willing to do business with him.