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Education / Re: Ezekiel Odeyemi Appointed Redeemer’s University New Pro-Chancellor by afilaka(f): 9:45pm On Sep 13, 2021
I dont know why, I am just happy that i am a redeemite.
If you know pastor odeyemi,you would know he is a good choice.
Family / Re: Should I Consider This Wedding Budget?? by afilaka(f): 4:20pm On Aug 23, 2021
Do what suit you but 1.6m in this buhari time is not too much as things are on the high side, itz a 1 time celebration, if itz worth it and you can afford it,then go for it.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: What To Do If You Hate Your Job by afilaka(f): 1:07pm On Jun 13, 2021
I used to think i hate my job until i started receiving very big salary for the same job in the same company just because i went to get a professional certificate.

If u see good money,u wld love your job, the routine becomes fun sef cos itz what yoa used to,so stress level no longer there cos as i am working,i am tinkin of ways to spend and invest my salary. Not before that i would be frowning my face.
Food / Re: See How I prepared my stew as a single guy. by afilaka(f): 5:47pm On May 05, 2021
descarado:


The so called fresh chicken u buy has preservatives also.


If there is something killing us in Nigeria, it's definitely not frozen chicken.

When you buy your frozen chicken, after defrosting, add any of these and soak for like 10 minutes; salt, baking soda and or white vinegar. They will wash off any preservatives.



This is not true, I have some1 that supplies them,also ve a friend that used to work there, they do not compromise on their products.
Food / Re: See How I prepared my stew as a single guy. by afilaka(f): 5:26pm On May 05, 2021
uboma:


How can you be so sure that there are no additives added to the frozen chicken?

Because i have some that supplies them the fresh ones. It took her good 7months to get the approval to be a supplier,they did their due diligence very well before giving her approval. If not that her place is far from me,i wld be getting from her directly and moreover whats the need for lying. They already stated it that they ve both.
Food / Re: See How I prepared my stew as a single guy. by afilaka(f): 6:25am On May 04, 2021
uboma:



You are right. I stopped buying frozen chicken from shopping malls a long time ago.

I dont know the shopping mall you are talking about,but shoprite here in lagos has both frozen and fresh chicken. Thats where i get my fresh chicken from,no addictive whatsoever.

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Romance / Re: Another Reason Why I'll Never Get Married. by afilaka(f): 9:45pm On Feb 20, 2021
Hamiltonii:
You're response proves to me that you are indeed whorish and frustrated.

Lolz, I can imagine evry female around you is whorish, sorry oooo. So because i have a beautiful marriage now,you are pained and fruatrated, seek for mercy from the lord cos your response is not even correlating any more and i ve begin to think yoa typing from yaba-left where most frustrated being like you are admitted. UP BEAUTIFUL MARRIAGE !!!!!! DOWN FRUSTRATED FOOLS

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Romance / Re: Another Reason Why I'll Never Get Married. by afilaka(f): 8:44pm On Feb 20, 2021
Hamiltonii:
Go and sit down, I know your type. Phuckers every where.

Pour that frustration on your parent not me. We ve a good life here,get urs together.

So many Bitter soul walking around looking for who to direct there frustrated life to. Look up to God ,he is the only solution to your life long problem and not me or every other person that believes MARRIAGE WORKS and it has come to stay and we are ENJOYING it.

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Romance / Re: Another Reason Why I'll Never Get Married. by afilaka(f): 7:41pm On Feb 20, 2021
I am married and my marriage is blessed and a blessing to both myself and my husband. Both my parent and my inlaw's marriage has being an encouragement to us as it is blissful, thus, we ar taking this as a yardstick for our own successful marriage as we ve being well enlightened on how marriage should be through proper counselling and with God,we are rest assured our future is secured even with our ups and down.

Whatever you proclaim with your mouth, so shall it be. If you believe marriage wont work for you, then so be it.

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Family / Re: 8 Nigerian Women On Their Funniest Pregnancy Moments by afilaka(f): 2:37pm On Feb 03, 2021
cococandy:


@bold is the argument you’re both making against yourselves. No one told you that all women or even most women do this. You chose to say that in response to the thread because you want to misrepresent pregnancy as no big deal. Create a poll on this thread alone and see how many ladies who had pregnancy cravings actually inconvenienced anyone else in other to satisfy them. I bet you the number would be less than those who didn’t.

Then in the rest of your post you also said your other aunt handled her cravings well.
So argue for and against your own point.

Good job. Keep going cool

BTW. As a pregnant woman, I wouldn’t hide my cravings. If I can cook it, I will. If I can’t, I’ll go get it myself or order it via any of the multiple food services available or ask my SO to stop by where it’s sold and buy it for me. The options are plenty.
It’s not a complicated life.

Coco, exactly my point, why should i hide my cravings when i know i can afford and get them and itz healthy and my husband is not complaining . I dont eat mashed beans(ewa agayin) ,there was a day my husband and i had to drive around early in the morning and bought from 3 different places because i was looking for a particular kind of taste in the beans and stew. Till now,i skip meals atimes because i cant get what i crave at that moment and i just settle for fruits. Till now i still crave banga soup that i ve only eaten twice in my life but hubby keeps promising me that he would order online when he gets a good recommendation.

These set of men just hate the women folks generally especially the kind of women with the easy life. I so much fear for the kind of wives that would end up with them. Look at the way he described pregnancy bloating with food bloating, something that made me cry in the first 2months cos i could not sleep or lay on my back or side for that long.
I am just lucky with my kind of husband, i swear.

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Family / Re: 8 Nigerian Women On Their Funniest Pregnancy Moments by afilaka(f): 7:42pm On Feb 02, 2021
RisenPhoenix1:
I just can't get past the fact that only pregnant wives of doting monogamists have these 'uncontrollable' cravings. Millions of co wives, as well as teenage and unwed mothers; carry their pregnancies to full term (the unwed mothers even evade detection long enough to dump them in hostel toilets) without anyone hearing about any cravings or early morning sicknesses. Makes me believe that they are either faked to get favours/attention, or actually controllable, but exaggerated; again to get favours/attention.

It is all about psychological manipulation of the poor long-suffering husband.

You are so insensitive and also an ignoramus. I say this to you because i am pregnant and my cravings are real.

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Family / Re: Three Experiences That Make Me Think I'm Married To The Wrong Person by afilaka(f): 1:33pm On Jan 22, 2021
malcom1X:
Guy be a man.
Don't ever borrow money from your wife to do anything. If you don't have tell her you don't have. That her money should be spent on her children.

Pay her dowry, don't owe her, it's her money. She saved you from embarrassment.

If my husband had taken this advise when he wanted to start his business, i am sure he wld stil be in the police station nw cos the other option for him was a bank loan and unfortunately business did not go as planned ,returns didnt start when expected until like few months after and i must say i am glad he didnt make his ego overshadow him. That business has turned our lives around, i used to earn more than my husband before but with this business,my salary is like tithe to him.

Ladies,if you have the means,please help your husband and dont ever use it against him. Mine paid me back and added a whole 25% to it, even if he did nt pay back,i wld ve stil be patient because he is hardworking.

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Health / Re: Dr Kingsley Onwuzuruigbo Is Dead by afilaka(f): 12:33am On Jan 15, 2021
malcom1X:
If they marry early, they won't need a fertility specialist.

Stop taking pregnancy pills.

You are world most stupid goat.
Celebrities / Re: Shafy Bello Celebrates Her 50th Birthday With Lovely Pictures by afilaka(f): 12:39pm On Oct 08, 2020
padi94:
Who is shady Bello again, pls Posters, when you post stuffs like this, do a brief introduction.

Only people that make use of the cinema regularly that are use to her face. You would hardly see her on Africa magic movies. High Quality Actress . She is on Battle Ground though.

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Romance / Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone You Met On Social Media? by afilaka(f): 7:31pm On Aug 27, 2020
We didnt stop at dating, we also got married.. That guy makes me so happy. We dated for 6yrs and ve bin married for 2 n half yrs.
Events / Re: What Was That Thing You Later Realised You Wasted Money On During Your Wedding? by afilaka(f): 6:04am On Aug 27, 2020
Didnt waste money on anything. As far as everything served their own purpose and we didnt borrow a kobo for the wedding, infact my parent bought land from the cash gift people gave dem and myself and husband bought some of our stuffs from the cash gift too. All my kitchen appliances ar al gift, Right now sef, i have a whole room cupboard filled wit lots of gift, i got 3 big microwave, washing machine and a whole lot that i dont stil knw aw to deal wit it.

My dearest, Enjoy ur day, Big or small wedding, the only attention that day wz my hubby for me. I cant settle for a small wedding cos of the kind of people my parents are, so many ve bin waiting to celebrate with dem cos they celebrate people too alot. We stil have our dress of almost 300k intact, got people that wanted to buy but i said no, i love to keep memories. Also work and biz is doin just fine for myself n hubby. I cant count how many people ve come to snap 1 or 2 things from my wedding album.

Regrets? Not 1.
Advice? Plz be happy on that day and stop any regret after.

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Family / Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by afilaka(f): 11:33am On Aug 24, 2020
phazotron:


Be living in 18th century. Which man has time for stunts now with everything going on in this world?

Come try am with me u go know what's up.

Who the Bleep are u exactly?

My husband far better than ya. And even at that, you're nt still it.
Family / Re: When Did You Realize Your Spouse Stopped Loving You? by afilaka(f): 8:50am On Aug 24, 2020
dingbang:
Marry a woman who loves you more wink

Believe me,except yoa ready for marriage,this would irritate you as a man. Men love to go after Hard-to-get ladies.

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Family / Re: What’s The Reality Of Marriage Exactly Like!!!!! Pls Help by afilaka(f): 11:23pm On Jul 25, 2020
My dearest, itz either u got married during corona period or u got married outside lagos. Marriage is not boring oo, i dont see my husband as HUSBAND, i see him as my friend
/gossip mate and he gets so busy wit work that any chance to be at home wit him is not even enough for gisting,gossiping, playing n hanging out. We can talk for africa and we share alot of ideas together and as well plan abt our future. This is why whenever we ve any form of misunderstanding , we both feel it so much and we try as much to settle almost immediately.
N.B- we ve being together for 8yrs but married for 2yrs.

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Romance / Re: I'm Ready To Marry Her But I Discovered She Has Two Kids From Two Different Men by afilaka(f): 4:45pm On Jul 19, 2020
Or11:
It's better to marry a fertile woman who can give you kids that one without kids but infertile. That's if you plan on having kids.

This is the most insensitive reason i ve seen so far. Like how and when does being fertile or not start to be a criteria for successful marriage.
Please educate ursef more on infertility before u dribble and say anytin abt it. Itz a serious issue and should never and not be used against any body either male or female.

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Romance / Re: God Did Not Only Butter My Bread, He Added Fried Egg On Top by afilaka(f): 9:08am On Apr 17, 2020
ElasticStone:


Bro, u be mumu o.

I am buying my mom a brand new Toyota Corolla 2010 by August this year. I cant buy my dad cause I cannot afford to buy him a car better than the one he drives now. Not everybody is hungry and in need of money like u. grin

#ProudySimp

Your Annual Net salary must be more than 10million then, cos a brand new toyota corolla 2010 cost more than 5million. If this is the case Congrats oooo

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Career / Re: Will Salary Be Paid During This Lockdown Period? by afilaka(f): 8:24am On Apr 15, 2020
If u currently work in an organization that would not be able to pay your salary this month, please once the lock down is over and u resume work, kindly start looking out for job in a better organization. In a well structured company, this form of risk is well prepared for, though there is definitely a limit but not less than 3 month.

U see al those coy that donated to covid-19,their staffs are secured.

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Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye: “The Day My Ex Girlfriend Came To Me For Prayers" by afilaka(f): 2:57pm On Mar 02, 2020
Sincerely, the number of bad,stupid,dull,senseless,tribalistic,uneducated,uncultured,foolish people i have seen on this nairaland is more that the number i have seen physically. I might just have to quit coming here cos it is getting worst, With the mindset of most people on this forum,Nigeria can nt go anywhere,i blame most people's parent,they ar the reason you lack proper training.
Religion / Re: Pastor Adeboye: “The Day My Ex Girlfriend Came To Me For Prayers" by afilaka(f): 2:53pm On Mar 02, 2020
TissuePaper:
Dammmmn Nigggaaar

Adeboye is a bitch ass fake Nigggaaar, he always advised his members not to have girlfriends meanwhile he had been enjoying his girlfriend's warm pussy during his youth before getting married to his wife


God, how can some1 be this foolish,dull and stupid at the same time?
Car Talk / Re: Corolla Or Camry: Which Should I buy? by afilaka(f): 7:28am On Feb 13, 2020
DavidEsq:

May I ask why I said this?

If you know ,you know

Thieves like corolla more.

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Car Talk / Re: Corolla Or Camry: Which Should I buy? by afilaka(f): 7:26am On Feb 13, 2020
Frankiss44:


I tot a tokumbo corolla is more expensive than a tokumbo Camry of the same year ?

You thought wrong oooo. Camry is much more expensive.

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NYSC / Re: Corper Azeez Shittu Olalekan Missing In Jigawa After Their Bus Was Robbed by afilaka(f): 2:10pm On Jan 18, 2020
Am tired of you guys,after all this kidnapping story,u guys stil travel that route....u tink those news that have been trending online about the kidnappers on that road are all lies. My cousin and her husband were kidnapped last year a day after their wedding too, they were released after payment or so.

Now again,another of my cousin wants to get married from that side , every1 in the family wish him well,no1 wants to b kidnapped.

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Business / Re: How Are You Shopping This Black Friday? by afilaka(f): 5:09pm On Nov 29, 2019
AlphaStyles:
na to buy am buy bread come outside chow am grin

my husband vex chop bread and took monster energy drink b4 we were able to make payment for the few tinz we got sef.
Business / Re: How Are You Shopping This Black Friday? by afilaka(f): 2:01pm On Nov 29, 2019
Black friday is a scam.....i was at shoprite this morning,the only tin black friday was Malta Guiness

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Health / Re: I'm Depressed Over My Height by afilaka(f): 3:17pm On Nov 26, 2019
Adekun33:
yea am skinny

But not that skinny tho

try lifting weight,it wld change ur body structure.....ur tallness is nt an issue at all.
Education / Re: Non Issuance Of Transcript By Olabisi Onabanjo University (OOU) by afilaka(f): 2:26pm On Nov 06, 2019
I graduated from this school,just to avoid stories like this,i requested for my transcript the same year i graduated,got it less than 2weeks after request. This is for those that just graduated, do the needful and dont wait till wen u wld need it.

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Family / Re: Woman Shocked As Her Mother Dresses Her Daughter In Shoes She Wore 35years Ago by afilaka(f): 3:58pm On Oct 31, 2019
Nigeria mothers can keep and hoard things for life.

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