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na the facebook people worst pass. they are bunch of unserious element there. they will whyn you and waste your precious time and not buy anytime.... I hardly make any sales from facebook, as i prefer JIJI over them, just that JIJI don they Bleep up as you cant post more than one product now except you pay for the platform. |
Even though for one thing am still grateful my father did was building a house in lagos, the benefit am enjoying now in lagos as i no dey pay rent. though my dad is late now but the man left a property for us which is what is helping me, despite the fact that am married, na still my papa house i dey live. If you like abuse me say i no get shame, na your wahala be that, na person wey go follow you suffer pay house rent bill you dey find. Gone are the days where people will be ashamed to live in family house, for this lagos, if you no plan your self well, na landlord you go dey work for. instead of paying crazing house rent in lagos, i better live in my papa house, save the money and start my own house project than giving one greedy lagos landlords. Nezzjnr: |
Dont be deceived by the blood that came out. That baby is still intact. I will advice you not to abort that baby. For the abortion attempt to fail speaks alot. That child is destined to come to this earth and if you prove stuborn to hidder, you might pay dearly for me. It happened to me few years ago. My girlfriend now my wife got pregnant and all attempt made to about the baby failed totally. She took all manner of drugs and injection. It was a nurse that is an expact that did it for her. The baby refuse to drop. My wife almost died due to the sever pains she went through then. My wife was already smelling after several attempts to abort. She see sege. The nurse advice she go for D n C but that was when i stop her not to go further cos she received a message that if she proceed, she will loose her life in the process. We both agreed later to keep the baby. What amazes me is if you see that child we attempt to abort then, you wont believe she is the one. No deformation or abnormality. She is complete in all ramifications and very intelligent. Initially i was scared the very day my wife wants to deliver her. I was expecting to see a deform or abnormal baby, but it was a beautiful baby she gave birth to. Till today i thank God for making me to take the decision of keeping the child. God has been providing ever since i gave birth to her. Dont be scared bro, keep that baby. You will be happy later that you did. If you proceed to abort, the girl might die or lost her life and you end up in jail. The risk is high .pls dont venture in it |
Having issues with the churches you are going to shouldnt make you become an atheist. You can change your church to the one that suit you or rather stay at your home and not go to church but still believe in God. I myself got feedup with how church is being run and have decide to stay at home but that doesnt stop me from believing in God the creator of heaven and earth. |
See op. I will advice you because have been through what you are going through. See woman are unappreciative in nature no matter what you do for them. If you render your life to them, they will still say you didnt do much. I know how much i invested in establishing my wife in her business but things didnt work. I dont earn much salary but every month huge amount is put into her biz to the extent that i and the home will be lacking. Despite all the biz was not yielding. I collected 2 shops for her in lagos. U can imagine the cost of that, i gave up when i noticed its getting to me and my psych. I was forced to tell her to quite and go and look for normal job atleast that will bring something to her instead of wasting funds on biz that is not yielding. Now she works and i have peace of mind as i dont expect any unnecessary funds to be invested in the so called biz. Despite all this my wife didnt appreciate. That was when i know that am not gonna kill myself for this woman. I will just do my best and leave the rest thats all. Imagine despite she knowing how much u invested in her biz, she still have the guts to tell you that you are not taking care of her. Gush some woman can be so anoyying and detestable. |
Pedrokush:Its well o |
osazsky:Well i wont argue with you cos you have no idea what this life entails thats why you are talking like a deluded fellow. |
See what is wrong with younis 100% spiritual and dont get confused. Its a spiritual attack sent to you to limit you and make you redundant. Though i dont like talkative but in life if you want to succeed you have to be able to communicate effectively and not being a talkative. With you deficiency it will be difficult for you to attain greatness which is what the enemy is trying to make you be. You can be gentle and also expressive in words. You need to embark on serious fasting and prayer to send evil arrow back to sender so that you can be free. The enemy wants to limit you. Have experienced such and can tell you this is spiritual attack. |
My question is if everbody become worker for church, who will now warm the bench as they claimed. Everbody cannot be a church worker base on individual reason. If you know you are a busy type and you join worker for church because brother timothy that has a free time and not busy type is also a worker. Na you go suffer am pass o. Working for God is grace and if the grace is not there at the rime, pls dont force it. |
Righteousness2:Ok.. Thanks anyway |
Longsleeve:My fear is that even though she is not cheating presently, should i be concerned she had cheated in the past |
Biglittlelois:I sweared based only on sexual activity with other ladies and not based on conversation i had with them. So i dont think i need to be scared about that cos in that area, i am justified. |
Righteousness2:But i had the intention of forcing her to swear else there will be issue in the home and things will not go well with both of us cos its through that swearing that will make me seeing her faithful. If she is innocent as cliamed, why is it difficult for her to prove her innocent. I need to know. I gave her the condition that things will not be normal in the home again except she prove her innocent by swearing. |
Longsleeve:As i said, she made me do it and just to put a stop to her incessant accusations of cheating on her and changing her perception, i never knew it will resort to this as i regretted it. |
Good day my fellow nairalanders. Pls pardon my typo errors and will just make this brief as i can. I need your inputs in this scenerio that is giving me some sort of concern. I have been married for close to five years now and have two kids to it. My marriage to my wife has been ups and down but have always tried my best to be a responsible husband and also father. I ensure I take care of my home financially to my capabilities. My wife happens to be a good wife though with her own flaws as she is not perfect. She always has the notion that am cheating on her and have a side chick. But to be honest to you guys, i have never had sex with any other woman except my wife ever since i married her. Though at times the temptation might come to catch some flings out there but will later decline such thought and abort any action have made to do it on the long run.. At times my wife will read chats I do have with some random girls and have the notion that am cheating. I know i have been wrong in this but attimes a man will want to be a man but as i said earlier, have never had sex with those girls. Just random chats that all and it doesnt go further or lead anywhere. So it happened that me and my wife had a very serious misunderstanding recently that resulted to verbal abuse and also almost physical violence from the two of us. The last time i intended to have sex with my wife, she denied me and this had been in my mind and got me so angry towards her. So it happend that she needed my help for something and did not help, she started shouting and nagging and this got me angry and i almost hit her but i didn't. During those heated moment she started saying things about my cheating and so on. She said if am not cheating that i should swear with bible but i refuse to swear that night. Upon the following day i decided to even swear with bible that i have never had sex with any woman ever sinced i married her. I know i was innocent and i truely swear that very day to make her change her mindset and perception about me. After the swear, something happened that makes me confused till this very day, I ask my wife to also use the Bible to swear that she had not cheated or slept with any man ever since she got married to me. Could you imagine that despite all my efforts to make my wife to swear using the bible, she refused bluntly that she will never do such. I asked her why but she insisted she is not going to swear. This got me concerned and was asking myself why is this woman refusing to do this if truely she is innocent and doesnt have any skeleton in her compound. Her excuse was that she cant use the world of God to swear but mind you she is the one that prompted me to do such at first. I even seized her phone that if she doesnt swear i wont return the phone to her but despite my threat, my wife didn't not. This lasted for hours and I later gave up on the quest. Ever since then have not being myself and have been thinking alot. My wife doesnt look like someone that can cheat on me cos have not seen any traces as such but with this her action, its making me to have a rethink about her. Pls house i dont know what step to take as i need your mature advice on way forward on this issues troubling me. Every input will be well appreciated especially from married and experienced people. |
Look at what is coming out from a SLUT called tega. It just a pity a married woman could be this foolish and loosed |
Am suprised no one is mentioning HEALTH PARTNERS. See my own openion, all this HMO and even hospital using them are all scammers. They will never give you treatment they are meant to give you just because you are under a shitty packages. They keep giving u drugs of 300 which they know will not solve your health issues. I have choosen many hospitals thinking they got issues but they all the same and got issues when it comes to HMO. Now i prefer going to pharmacy to get drugs than going to hospital to waste my time and also wont get any good treatment despite the money being removed from my salary. Health partners are culprit in this. |
Am just tired of this country. Thr govt just want to frustrate the citizen. Ordinary gas that is just almost waste in other countries is what this govt want to turn to gold for us to suffer to buy. It will never be well with this people and their generation. |
See aunty owode onirin |
This pere won dey rule like buhari. Tyrant leader |
Any man that is upto 30+ and not thinking about marriage is not normal and needs spiritual intervention to be set free feom whatever shackles his holding him. |
Which drug were you given pls. Someone need it asap. Halen: |
Hospital this days are just to suck you of your funds. Even if you are under HMO , They treat you low and give you cheap and inferior drugs that they know wont cure you and they will forward outrageous bill to your HMO to pay. Now i dont waste time going to hospital. All i do is go to pharmacy and give them my complains to prescribe for me and am good to go. Its more cheaper and less time consuming. |
PLS GO TO MFM PRAYER CITY. THIS IS A DELIVERANCE CASE. TOU SHALL BE FREE IN JESUS NAME |
I just pity all this blind nairalanders. If una see life u guys will not be yarning trash. I repeat evil exist and the life is damnn spiritual. |
This arin na arindin omo |
Good day nairalander. I am creating this thread according to the previous thread named My wedding has finally crashed. Pls pardon my writings as am not too good with English writing. Here is my own story according to the previous thread. Seems like we both are going through the same issues mentioned by you. Acoording to the thread my marriage has finally collapse. Infact it looks like your wife is related to my own wife in some certain ways cos she exhibit same trait your wife display. You have said all and a word is enough for the wise. Single guys should open their eyes and pray real hard before settling down with any lady expecially those that were raised by single ladies and those that came out of polygamous home. They are really toxic and unbearable. My wife mom abandone them to their father when they were young and it was their step mom that raised them. The father had many wives and also her mum married multiple husband before she married their father and still left him to marry another again. So you can imagine how messed up their background was. I knew all this when i was still dating her but let me say i was carried away with love or probably lust and didnt make me consider those things. The issue am facing now with my woman, when i maried her, i only did traditional marriage and didnt do any registry. After the traditional, madam show me hell o that i was even looking for a way out cos of peace of mind. Now after some years, my father inlaw just called me recently that we should go and do our registry which is court wedding. He mentioned that he gave me a week to get this done and if i dont have enough funds , he is willing to assist financially. Now my question is with the way my wife has behave in the past, should i still go ahead and do the court wedding now after 5 years we did our traditional. Pls i need answers and advice from matured married men out there cos if left to me, i am not doing any court wedding cos the way i look at it, i dont think our marriage will last with the way my wife had behaved. If its you, will you proceed to do the court marriage. |
Hmmm am just speechless with OP experience. Seems like we both are going through the same issues mentioned by you. Infact it looks like your wife is related to my own wife in some certain ways cos she exhibit same trait your wife display. You have said all and a word is enough for the wise. Single guys should open their eyes and pray real hard before settling down with any lady expecially those that were raised by single ladies and those that came out of polygamous home. They are really toxic and unbearable. My wife mom abandone them to their father when they were young and it was their step mom that raised them. The father had many wives and also her mum married multiple husband before she married their father and still left him to marry another again. So you can imagine how messed up their background was. I knew all this when i was still dating her but let me say i was carried away with love or probably lust and didnt make me consider those things. The issue am facing now with my woman, when i maried her, i only did traditional marriage and didnt do any registry. After the traditional, madam show me hell o that i was even looking for a way out cos of peace of mind. Now after some years, my father inlaw just called me recently that we should go and do our registry which is court wedding. He mentioned that he gave me a week to get this done and if i dont have enough funds , he is willing to assist financially. Now my question is with the way my wife has behave in the past, should i still go ahead and do the court wedding now after 5 years we did our traditional. Pls i need answers and advice from matured married men out there cos if left to me, i am not doing any court wedding cos the way i look at it, i dont think our marriage will last with the way my wife had behaved. If its you, will you proceed to do the court marriage. |
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GOTVee:You are a mumu man. I dont blame you as you have not experience life, incase you have, you wont open that your smelling gutter mouth to spill this rubbish. Incase your village people or powers from you father or mother house don show you pepe, you wont be saying love your enemies while you are on the verge of death. There principalities and powers that dont want to see you exist and its only the violent that can take it by force. No be me talk am, na bible talk am. So woke up from your spiritual slumber. |
slawormiir:Note.. She might really be a good girl but because of your mindset you felt or thought she is one of them loose girls. Mr dammnn nigga, we still got good girls with moral just that they are rare to find. Watch well so you wont loose a good lady. |
All this nonsense promises that you cant meet up to onless if God gives you the grace to. Give them few months now, they will forget and abandon the family to themself. Na so my papa family talk when my papa die. After the burial, we no see any of them for years despite all their stupid promises. I pray God comfort the widow and send her helpers. Amen. |
Even though I'm a born again Christian, this man is a fake pastor. Do not believe in his fake doctrines of violent prayers cos the Bible admonished we true Christians to love and pray for our enemies. He's going to hell with that Gorimapa in otta