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Serene123:
I have gone as far as secretly getting access to her WhatsApp. I didn't see any single chat with her and the guy nor another person. But the calls just keep pisisng me off.

I realised I shouldn't have gone that far. I should have just be calmed and let her do her wish

Will you be a man and stop covering for a cheat who's playing chess with your heart! What nonsense.

You even sound like a weakling

Trayceey:
I Need Your Opinion On This Issue That's Threatening My Relationship

My fiance wanted to come to the house to see my mum but I told him I won't be around because I'm about heading out to somewhere, so he asked me if my mum would be around, then I said yes and he said he would still go to see her and it doesn't matter if I'm not around.

When I later got home that night, my mum complained that he came empty handed. He didn't bring anything for her and she was the one who offered him her drink.

Although initially, I didn't see anything wrong with that but when my mum expressed her displeasure, I later called him to ask why he came to the house empty handed then I let him know I wasn't happy with him, that it would have been better if he didn't come. He tried arguing with me but I hung up.

Since then, we haven't spoken to each other nor visited each other. Was I wrong?

You and your mother are leeches that need to be avoided like a plague. Just imagine the seedy and queer feeling of over sense of entitlement! You mean he should have brought the market to your house just because he came to see your mother? And you have the effrontery to tell him that he'd have stayed back instead of coming empty handed.

This clearly shows that you and your mother are after his pocket, and not his genuine intention towards you.

gypsey:
I am with you until.... you mentioned choosing his sister, what is wrong with choosing his sister? You contradicted yourself here, her sister is also a woman, the same gender you want to protect.

Read his comment again. There was no contradiction.

A married man's first priority is his wife, and that's what I am on about

10th January

heendrix:
Don't trust women bro......on that thread bout Moyo Thomas husband dying after the wife's infidelity news I was shocked to see 80% of these senseless hoes rather supporting the woman n bashing the poor man. Never again will I pity any bad thing that happens to ladies/women

I'm with you on this man, Never trust women ! i'm undoubtedly sure she's the one that pushed the gentle man to this point

In this particular case, I am ashamed you are called a man. So, after the cutlass cut visibly seen on her shoulder, you are calling her names?
You must be a domestic violent practitioner.

There's no amount of provocation from any lady that warrants such dehumanization from a man that claimed he's in a relationship with her. Not to mention that she's the mother of his kids.

It's your type that'd choose their sister over their wife and children.

I am seriously ashamed this came from a man!

Chimaokigwe:
It is inability to afford a Benz that makes you buy a Lexus. It is small yahoo boys who buy Lexuses. Once you have proper money, you use a Benz.

So, you mean everyone with "proper money" all got benz?

Jokers everywhere!

RedPanthar:
You lots should keep deceiving yourself.


The wife also got the treatment, love and care she has to reciprocate as a kid. She didn't drop from the sky.


Marriage is for men, not boys.

Get lost

A man told you that he's struggling financially and lives in a room and parlor self contain, yet, you feel it's okay for his insensitive wife to bring in more 4 of her siblings not minding that one is already with them, coupled with the fact that he wasn't even informed prior to the invasion in his house.

I doubt you are even married, no married man will sound this way

T817:
I returned home from my shop only to find my wife 4 siblings in my house I wasn’t happy because she didn’t informed me they were coming over and in this economy when the country is hard why would they come all four of them at the same time.

My mother in law came for omugwo she stayed for 5 weeks, she left 3 weeks ago I had given my wife 30k the money I borrowed from a good friend of mine to get her some few things to take home, then 3 weeks after, her 4 siblings are here too, they are 6. The last born who is 10 have been staying with us for 2 years now. I take care of her, my wife doesn’t work and I am only managing I don’t know why her people want to
drain me.

Can you imagine as soon as I entered the house, her sisters were asking me about their Christmas gifts, "brother where is our gift?" As if I am their ATM. I just ignored them because I was already angry seeing them in my house without my permission but keeping calm was the best thing to do.

What shocked me was the fact her brother was comfortably sleeping in my bed next to my 2 months old baby. My wife didn’t see it as anything bad she said he is her brother and wouldn’t harm his own niece but my point was not about him doing something wrong with her but the fact that he doesn’t have any respect for my bed that what really got me angry which led to my wife and I to quarrell not in their presence but in our room but since it’s only parlour and room self con I believe they must have heard everything but I don’t care.

My Wife thinks I am overreacting and I don’t like her siblings and she said she will tell her parents everything I said to her in anger which I didn’t meant to but nobody in my position will be happy if he happened to be in my shoe. How do I handle this problem with my wife without causing any further problems between us and her parents because I don’t have money to feed 4 more mouths for 2 weeks because they are not leaving any time soon not until the 3rd or 4th of January and before her siblings came she complained about her Christmas clothes and hair. I told her I will only do Christmas for the kids because I don’t have money she frowned her face and started giving me attitudes and on top of that she has invited her 4 siblings when I don’t have a kobo to feed all of them.

Even the food we have in the house won’t even last until January because I bought enough for 5 people but now with 9 of us it won’t last and her siblings are expecting me to do Christmas for them too , I don’t blame them because they are small children 20,18,15,12 who thinks that I have a skeleton in my cupboard where I get free money lol.

What should I do right now ? I am not happy Your advice is needed please

Oga, grow some balls and ask them to leave if your wife won't do it. You owe nobody any explanation since nobody explained anything to you prior to the invasion in your house.

I had similar issue before the lockdown. I respectfully asked my sister in law to leave, my MIL doing omugwo said she'd also leave if I don't allow her daughter stay.
I told her to do whatever she wanted, that no one will tell me what to do in my house.

If you fail to handle it now, your home would be taken over by your in-laws and nothing will happen.
Tell those leeches to leave your house at once

Openyamind111:
Okay Paul wrote all the songs Peter dropped recently?

Oga read my comment again devoid of anger and bitter heart.

I said he wrote and sang "most of their hit songs".

waze63:
This guy is a fvcking smart businessman, he keeps diversifying in everything while his other brothers are just all about music
I wish him all the best... The sky is the limit Mr P

What are you on about? Peter is no musician, but a dancer. He was hiding under the umbrella of Paul who is a writer and singer.

Paul actually wrote and sang most P-square's hit. While Peter heads the dance team and prepares them for their music videos.

Paul is killing it musically, home and abroad. And since Peter cannot measure up, he's gone into business to say afloat

efighter:
This Amaechi is a bad politician. That’s why Wike Nyesom has been humiliating him. Have you heard that Tinubu suspended any dissident party member in South West? Even his boys that left still came back to the Jagaban. That is how you know a Leader. If Adeseye Ogunleye, Musiliu Obanikoro and other political prostitutes can come back to Tinubu, then that should tell you that he a a very erudite political looter.

Imagine Ayo Fayose now campaigning and grooming boys for Tinubu. Even the mentally unstable FFK, have you heard Tinubu ever fight him despite all the abuses from FFK towards Tinubu. Even the silly boy in Ibadan, Seyi Makinde that has been indirectly attacking Tinubu, did you hear Tinubu ever attack him back? Even Ambrose that fought every member of the party was not suspended nor abuse.

The Jagaban Borgu is a political god. Rotimi Amaechi has a lot to learn from Tinubu, only if Amaechi will be humble enough to go to Tinubu for advice.

And with all your smartness and civility, you referred to a sitting governor as "one silly boy"?
It speaks volume of your exposure and maturity

Cyberterror:
Appeal Court Justice Stephen Adah is just flexing PDP bribe money. Even he knows that his decisions on Metuh and Dasuki will be overturned when EFCC goes to the Supreme Court for them to maintain the course of Justice. They just allowed Metuh to celebrate Christmas with his family. He is going to return to jail next year.

Just as Orji Uzor Kalu has returned to prison?

Jokers!!!

Jonathan39:
Some of you are ignorantly foolish, let assume someone took a picture with your ex and tag you, you will clap for the person. Mumu

You are the foolish one actually.

Why not advice him to stop bearing his former employer's name if he doesn't want to be associated with him?
Why ain't he bearing D Angel and Grill Chief Priest? Why Cubana?

He doesn't want to die, but he wants to make heaven!

Hypocrite

espn:
He is simply saying she should not associate him with his former employer..see comments off track..



Modified: *EMPLOYER*

You can't be bearing "Emma First Bank" and be warning people not to associate with First Bank.
If you don't fancy dog meat, then don't cook/share the meat with your pot.

He should stop bearing his former employer's name (Cubana).

People like him wants to make heaven without dying

stanleyravos:
When is the turn of MBA forex? I know if that one collapse snapper will sell faster than pure water in this country especially for pH

As in eh, my pals are all hooked there and won't listen to warning

MyGeneration:
Na so e go clear mba forex investors for eye d day e go happen

I dey tell you. But surprisingly, some of them are still coming out with physical offices. One (Pinnacle Derivative Investment Trading) is been wooing me. That they're registered with CAC and are cleared by SCULM etc.

Been looking at them from a distance

Madu2013:
It’s not as if I don’t need a job I do, but taking this job will be like settling for less and blocking the way for more. I make over 80k now in my side hustle but am still not comfortable.
I know that once I start this job more responsibility will be added to me by my family not to talk of other small small Billings from family and friends.

This man has given many people jobs in FIRS, CBN, Immigration And NDLEA.
I know that he will soon get one of these slots again I just have to be patient.

None of the aforementioned jobs would let you keep beards and they are almost same salary scale except FIRS and CBN

Hardgun:
Enter my room without knocking i ask him why he said he his the owner of his house I nearly beat him that day

Person wey you for push commot for your room

saaphiere:
The earlier men understand that their WIVES need more attention and caring than their moms the better for them. Something like 60:40.
If you want to experience hell in your marriage, buy something for your mom first before buying for your wife or give your mom a quality item than your wife.

As for Duncan laying curses on men because the take care of their wives than their mom, I really don't blame him. Anyone is entitled to do or say dumb things to trend. Just of recent a child made a fool out of his parents just to trend by telling them their TV is touch-screen.

Stop charging his words, he never said "wives", rather, he said, women

NoContract:
Samsung Galaxy Note 8
6gb ram — 64gb memory.

What's the feel like?

18wheeler:
Samsung Galaxy note 8. Still using.

What's your experience with it as per battery life, sharpness, camera and sound?

Melir787:
The king. Samsung note 8. I am planning to buy note 10

Ordered this device (Samsung galaxy note last week, and can't wait to get my hands on it.

How's the picture quality, speed, space and general experience? And the earphone too, how's the sound?

Paullardricky:
How much did you bought it boss

Around 85k or so. That was around August, last year

Michael390:
but their phones don't have playstore

Dont say what you don't know. I've Huawei Y9 Prime 2019, and it has

mank1234:
Going by that screenshot, there's no link to any terms and condition, so Jumia would be liable.

OP should contact consumer protection council. Log a complaint on CPC website.
That's what I did to get my refund for non-functional electronics sent to me. If not for lack of time, I was pressing for 10% interest refund after they delayed for more than a month.

If you have time and energy, don't give up. Fight for your right and for the sake of others.

I'll sure follow it up.

Thanks

NinjaMetahuman:
you don't get.

As it stands going by your screenshots and their response in the case, you only have 50% chance of winning cos jumia lawyers could claim anything in court.
You might even lose and jumia claim damages for trying to destroy their business.

Because 1, according to your post and jumia response, you didn't read all follow jumia requirements for the promo to the fullest.
That's why it's important to read promo Terms and conditions before doing it.

2, It's not an outright case of fraud case where you paid 120k for your item and jumia took your money and run.. according to jumia policy which you agreed to before buying your item.
You can get your money back in full if you are not satisfied with the service rendered within 15days.
Or you could cancel the order of it hasn't shipped.
Which means, they didn't defraud you, or took your money without avenue to pay back.


Even if against all odds you managed to win in court, the highest judgement you will get is that jumia should refund your 10k money. If you are lucky and your lawyer is out of this world good against the army of lawyers from jumia, the judge might ask jumia be the one to pay your legal fees and give you some change for your trouble.

You can only get more money from jumia, if you can manage to get more people experiencing the same problem to sue jumia in a class act case and get big settlement. Not an isolated case like yours.

You are the one not following. The item i ordered for was not on promo, neither was i shown any promo relating to a particular bank's card. Rather, i was encouraged to pay with "a mastercard" (no mention of any bank) and get a discount of 10k for using my mastercard.

Jumia showed me minus 10k from the original price immediately i entered my card details and also asked me to pay ₦117,359 as against ₦127,359. But immediately i clicked on pay, they reverted to the initial ₦127,359.

Again, Jumia never showed me any ongoing promo details when i clicked on the item i ordered for as clearly shown in my attachment

LORDEST:
You all still don't get it.

On your order page they tell you already have 10,000 discount before inserting your card details. After you've inserted your card details it's all get removed from your cart and product returns to initial cost sending you to insert token.

It's honestly so deceitful , Why should you tell me I have 10,000 when you haven't confirmed the card I'm going to use ?

So you all stop all the Stanbic Bank MasterCard hippie dippie bullshit and let call them for a fraudulent unmannered approach of doing business

Thank you! You got the point exactly.

jasonnn9:
Op i empathize with how you feel, if I was in your shoes I might even be more pissed off because I believe this issue arises from lack of clarity on the part of Jumia..even to the point of checking out your orders.

Someone has however previously given the terms and conditions attached to this promo.
So I would like to know.,
1. Is your MasterCard that of Standard IBTC Bank?
2. Is this your 1st transaction with the card on Jumia?

If yes to 1 alone, know that you are adequately qualified for this promo and you can even carry them to the Supreme Court and win on this matter flawlessly.
If yes to 2 alone, you qualified for the 5k discount regardless of which bank you use.
If yes to both, I don't know what that qualifies you for.

If no to 1, which is what I suspect is your case, then it's an error on the part of Jumia for misleading you in the checkout page that you were qualified.
But they will insist it was indicated on the terms and conditions so at the end of the day you will be the losing party.

So the only option really, if you really need that 10k is to cancel the order and find a cheaper offer as some nairalanders above have suggested.

A word?
Be careful of all these promos you see, please always endeavour to go through terms and conditions,so that issues will not arise. I learnt the hard way one particular time. Story for another day.

Remain blessed.

I use a First Bank debit card and the transaction is my first with the card.

About the promo you raised, i was not attracted by it. I had selected my item and was gonna pay with another means when they offered me 10k discount if i pay with either Master or Visa card.
I selected Mastercard and they clearly showed me minus 10k and said, pay ₦117,359 as against ₦127,359. And immediately i clicked on pay, they took ₦127,359. That's fraud.

Note: There was no mention of any bank's Mastercard during my purchase on that page. I've all the screen shots of the transaction.

juman:
Only in america a character like trump could became president.
A character like him cannot be president in any sensible country around the world.

But a worst character is president in your country?

Jokers!!!

bskyb:
Many outlets use words that need to be carefully interpreted.
Here, it is stated that you have discounts "up to 10,000".
Therefore, it means the discount can range from 0 to 10,000. It is not clearly stated that you will have a 10k discount. This is likely to be the clause they will rely on. It is commonly used across the world, so it's not a case of "Naijja has spoilt ".

Did you omit the part that reads "total to pay - ₦117,359"?

NinjaMetahuman:
lawyer for 10k?

Atmost they will do his refund his 10k, and you pay more than triple of that to a lawyer.


AFONAMARO the best you can do is to keep posting on every social media page and hope may be it will get enough attention to have your money refunded.
Or just cancel the order all together.

Don't you think they'll sit up when people start making them pay for deceit? It doesn't just have to be about the 10k, but correcting the act itself

LORDEST:
Was a victim of the the so called discount too. A product worth 159k with 10k discount as claimed and was charged 169k in the long run.

Crazy people

You see my point, this is an intentional act to deceive people into purchasing their items