₦airaland Forum

psalmistkakah:
Fellow nairalanders, Since I witness my wife giving birth in labour room, my body no longer remain the same again. No arousal, I see women non attractive again.. have been trying to see if I can go to my normal self.. I hadly feel sexual huge again .. I was there other woman was screaming to an extent I felt for her. I said to myself this woman will never have sex again. I relate to my wife, she said is labour pain that cause it.. my concern is that my body does not respond again to women good figure.. which way forward..

Laugh don kill me here.

Wetin carry you enter there?

Someone like me, knowing i rarely let things out of my head, i stylishly stayed away from the labour room for our 3 kids. In fact, the last one, wifey was doing laundry when she started having contraction.

When we got to the hospital and she was moved to the labour room, i jejely started praying for her with our other 2 kids who couldn't wait to see their younger one.

Mynd44:
Now people understand how the leaders of Zimbabwe and other countries could/can stay that long in power. There are always people ik the populace that are willing to support them and stand with them.

There are always people who are willing to give them support and ask then to do things contrary to what is right.

For me, this is not about who's standing with them, but exposing the fraud therein.

There is already an evidence of how a dead person (Denise) voted in Pennsylvania, the evidence has been provided.

There is a major conspiracy (operation get Trump out by all means) currently going on, which was applied during the election. But be rest assured that Trump will fight to the end.

kane10:
Small thing go happen una go shut school, as if the govt cared for the schools... UK dat went to there second lock down didn't shut there schools

They've currently shut schools

naptu2:
Sharia law has been in the constitution since 1960. It is part of customary law.

So Sharia law can be part of our constitution while Christian beliefs are no where to be found?

There was indeed a country

Madibahisback:
Folorunsho alakija is 2000 times richer than her husband
Funke akindele is richer than her husband
Okonjo iweala is richer than her husband
More successful women are more richer than her husband
You might earn much than your boyfriend but as long as he earn good money you're good to go
But Nigerian girls with fucken sense of entitlement is damn crazy

Who told you that Ngozi is richer than her husband? Do you even know what he does for a living and how long he's been on it?

You cannot compare a profession that's often based on appointment with a professional that has a stable and progressive income over the years

Zzor:
Theres no such thing as poor wives with rich husbands,men are providers while women are care givers,its just that our modern men are trying to switch roles and hence the reason we have unstable marriages everywhere

So, in your words, unstable marriages is as a result of a man not being financially sound?

Ndi akuko

forghe:
Wike is trying but let the development be even.
Its not only Obioakpor and Phalga we have as local governments in port harcourt
Peace✌�

Which other LG is in Port-Harcourt aside the aforementioned? Phalga and Obio/Akpor are the only 2 LG's in Port-Harcourt. Others are in Rivers State

NOC1:
RIP.

The real problem is probably in Rivers state and the media and its bunch of social media influencers are not paying interest in what is is happening at oyigbo, they are still centered in Lagos state.

Those lives lost in Rivers are they not humans, are they valueless to the unconfirmed ones in Lekki?

Just because it is a PDP state?

I am beginning to see all social media influencers and celebrities as people under few persons or Organisation payroll.

The people of Oyigbo have been shouting for days now but media and his agents are deaf and dumb.

Relax, stop calling people out unnecessarily.

The people you are referring to are all in Lagos and participated in the protest, so, they have first hand information of what transpired in Lagos.
Are you expecting them to report and campaign for what they know nothing about in Port-Harcourt?

People in Port-Harcourt should rise up and defend their people

Plead:
How is it nonsense?

The information the teacher gave never said mothers are not working and are meant to stay at home all day. Rather, it portrayed fathers as the pillar of finance (which is widely known) while mothers run the home and take care of routine house chores.

I wonder why she's picking on known/acceptable duties of both genders in a given marriage. If she want the role changed, she should simply tell her husband to stay at home and tidy the house while she provides the necessary day to day finance needed in running the home.

JidennaJason:
The siblings of the late civil engineer are just being tribalistic.... They don't want a "stranger" to have control of their brothers property. If the lady happens to come from the same village with the husband, this nonsense abduction and seizing of property wouldn't have happened.


Your wife or son should be your Next Of Kin.

I blame the man �.
Knowing that his people are tribalistic, he should have protected his wife prior to now.

All I've got bears my name and that of my wife. We equally have a joint account i fund in case of eventuality. And she knows all my signatures and has a copy of all necessary documents as well as keys.

My wife is my responsibility, and i will go any length to protect her and our kids.

I could remember once when my elder sister drove my car, she noticed that the particulars bears our names (mine and wifey) as against just bearing Mr...... She asked why it wasn't in just my name, that her husband bought even her own car in his (the husband's) name. I told her that i am fine this way, that all we (wifey and i) have bears our names.

Men, protect your wife and stop putting your siblings ahead of your immediate family. The Bible asked that you leave your people and cleave to your wife.

I am not saying you should abandone your parents and siblings. But that you put your immediate family first at all times

myBraine:
Typical Nigerian mentality.

Can't an accomplished politician prosper in peace again?

A man that singlehandedly built Lagos from scratch doesn't deserve to own a mansion. Now I know how backward people's reasoning are in this part of the world.

Quit making noise! A man that single-handedly built Lagos with his father's funds, right?
Like he went about building infrastructures and other developments personally?

You are actually one the people who make politicians feel they are doing us (the masses) a favour, rather than responsibility.

doggedfighter:
That family is in disarray.

Most times these children are better off in their new families who are genuinely in need of children to love .

Most families selling these children are not it at all.

Wish proper channels are followed.

Proper channel are followed in selling your grandson against his parents wish?
Speaks volume.

Why didn't she (granny) sell her own kids? Why another person's own?

Kamdil:
In this part of the world it isn't polite by African tradition. You don't relate with an older person in such manner, that is lack of courtesy. It can only be proper after greeting him, and accord him that respect, then you can now say, ' how are you sir/ma'
Or how are you doing sir/ma.
Not 'how are you' like he is you mate

Oga shift! In fact, dress go far! Which kain yeye African respect!

Whenever i speak to my Pop's or Old girl, i go, Mpa/Mma, good morning, kee k'imere? And that's what's up!

Ona for kuku carry respect for head like gala

Zzor:
Is this your own way of saying you won't make plenty money to take care of your woman?you better change this your reasoning ooo,you should be thinking towards making money so you can make your woman very comfortable and happy and not what you are posting here.

You better change your mentality and start thinking of how to make money and take care of yourself. No man owes you jack.

Quit being entitled and work hard as you reek of liability

Osagyefo98:
This what Soludo should be aiming, and not moving from national league to local league.

You move internationally and not reverting to square one.

Truth. But trust me, a shot at becoming a governor is everything to an average Nigerian.

Career wise, Soludo would have shunned partisan politics and focus on his core intellectual abilities

Righteousness89:
I Have a Gift for Ozo, laycon, Dora, nengi, wisdom, Tochi , Others and all over Nairaland . My Gift is JESUS Christ of Nazareth!
This is The Gift that will Grant us all Eternal Life..

Despite all the Iniquities, Immoralities and Evils that have Happened! Jesus Christ is Available to Forgive, Purge and Cleanse you all..

Oh, you even know their names self?

You never talk well

Brachaa:
The hair he formed with in the womb? Not healthy. Please cut it.

How's it not healthy?

My twin daughters will be 4 next month and they've never cut their hairs for any reason

backbone503:
The major factor that led to POI's defeat was that many components (particularly Northern) within and outside APC wanted to totally humiliate and relegate Oshomole, and further deflate Tinubu ahead of 2023.

If Oshomole, and by extension Tinubu, hadn't taken this contest very personally, POI would have stood a greater chance of winning. Many people became sympathetic to Obaseki, hence voted for him.

There he goes again!

My point is, POI has been defeated twice by same man (Obaseki) regardless of the party and support accorded to him (POI).

Do you need me to spell out the fact that POI is a looser?

backbone503:
Assuming Obaseki remained in APC (with Osho baba not supporting him) and POI flew PDP's flag. Don't you think the narrative would have been different?

POI had contested under PDP and equally lost. He felt aligning with Oshomole and APC will give him victory as he thought that was how Obaseki won.

Today, he (POI) has same party, structure and perceived support he thought gave Obaseki victory, yet, he's losing.

My point is, POI is a serial looser irrespective of who he aligns with. He should re-evaluate himself politically

ThatFairGuy1:
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Lagos Political structure is far different from Edos. YOU WILL NEED TO UNDERSTAND LAGOS POLITY BEFORE THESE JARGONS.

Quit shouting. Lagos is like this because all the aspirants have been playing to the gallery with Tinubu.

The day another radical politician like Tinubu decides to be bold enough and challenge him, his grip will let loose.

That was how Amaechi made noise that Wike will never succeed him. I bet you know how it ended

backbone503:
We'll keep deepening the electoral and political process. Congratulations to Obaseki and the good people of Edo state for making it peaceful.

I hope APC has learnt one or two. The party really needs to be rebranded. On a good day, POI should have won this election.

Give me 2 clear reasons why you think POI should have won on a good day? Is he better than Godwin in anyway?

Let's eliminate the factors (forces) backing him (POI) up, he won't even win in 6 LGA's. The man is a serial looser!

Adebola314:
Rumor has it dat he was as good as sacked as ED Fidelity Bank because of his alcoholism

He resigned in 2013 to contest for election which he won in 2014.

Go back and tell the rumor to try harder next time

Kuriou:
See dem o! Is clear their people no dey happy.Na so people dey abuse dem for stealing our money to be giving their families good life in America while people for their state dey suffer. See Obiano’s wife, kids and Indian housekeeper posing for picture outside church in America where they presently are enjoying vacation after flight ban was lifted. Governor Obiano himself who took dis picture posted it yesterday on his Facebook page. Come see reactions�!

Obiano was already made before politics. Like Akwa Ibom state governor, he was an ED at Fidelity Bank prior to becoming a governor.

He was equally the Chief Internal Auditor at Chevron for years

Eternitymedia88:
The only credible candidate I see for now from Nnewi is Chris Azubogu.

Politically, Ifeanyi Ubah will favour Nnewi alone, and steal Anambra so blind that after him, nobody will support any candidate to lead Anambra.

Azubogu will favour the whole Anambra State, developmental projects will be evenly shared to every nook and cranny of Anambra with minimal fund mismanagement.

This statement will haunt Nnewi and Anambra in general once they make the wrong choice.

I have meet both men, so I'm talking from in-depth experience from interactions with them.

Your level of sentiment is glaring.
Pitch your tent with whoever you deem fit without using seedy words to run down any of them.

Your remarks about Ifeanyi Ubah is derogatory and laced with suggestive words.
I hope you'd be able to defend your stance when called upon?

Coder2Client:
Why don't you divorce him instead?

If you feel uncomfortable with sex in marriage the best way to go about it is to divorce him and let him get a woman that is ready to take your place joyfully and let another man who is ready to be sex starved take his place. Simple logic!

What are you even talking about? That a woman is now an object of sex just because she's married to one pervert? What happened to consent?

Rape should be condemned!!!

I bet you won't give your daughter same advice

SmartProf:
Can you imagine that they both pleaded not guilty and have been granted a N1million bail by the Judge who also adjourned the case. It's sad cos even if justice prevails, a Star girl is gone forever.

What would you have the judge do? Jail them without allowing them to defend themselves?

They mistakenly ran over her while trying to stop and exchange pleasantries with her. Is that a criminal (non baliable) offense?

Kazim88:
Na only woman fit type this rubbish

I am not your regular male (he-goat)

adajoe555:
she is just confused

She's not.

For one to be romantically involved with another, you need to connect physically, emotionally and financially.

Physical connection brings about sexual desire.
Emotional connection brings about affection and warmth.
While financial connection propels you to go extra mile in helping a love one without ulterior motives.

Often, you'd notice you like how a person talks, smiles or walks. But other than that, you ain't connected to the person mentally.

It happens

Righteousness89:
If you feel wat goes on there is normal, you must be Joking!!

Almost Everything there is Orchestrated by a force that is beyond the Comprehension of the people in there....

If you are Watcher of that program and you are Sincere with yourself, you will have had your own Personal Experiences of Strange and immoral habits ..

Will you quit jumping on BBN threads and saying nonsense! You claim not to like a program, but will always look out for its posts to display your dogma.

Nigeria will keep being backward as long we keep getting carried away by religion

hashtagged:
Dont be silly, you think 3 pastors will say no by coincidence, they saw something bad in her get a clue

What's this about pastors saying whatever they deem fit? Our parents never visited any pastor, yet they lived happily.

It still baffles me how we (Nigerians) neglect the necessary things and start looking out for what pastor's say or did not say.