₦airaland Forum

AfroKnight:
Dump is not disrespectful. It’s just the colloquial term for the act of initiating a breakup.

And dump has varied meanings across disciplines.

No matter how you look at it, the word "dump" is highly suggestive and seedy, shouldn't be used for humans in the ongoing subject matter

Commentor:
He's in a dungeon.

By the time the government is done with him he'll be chanting "Sai Baba".

Same way they dealt with Dansuki and sentence him?

Jokers!

BuyAndSellStuff:
Na dem.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise squad.

Why not concentrate on the brighter side of life?

Dude is a model who has been modeling since he was 18 years old and only used the Olympics to sell his craft to the world, and it worked.

But you won't see that as you appear to be more focused than the model who clearly is on about his modeling ability going viral

BuyAndSellStuff:
For me its not culture related.
Raising a female child in these immoral times is scary when I think of it.

Imagine watching my own daughter's sextape with one guy ramming her senselessly going viral online. Chai!!

I'll kill her then take my own life.

Yet, you ain't thinking of seeing your son's sextape with a random girl? Or, are the sins of ladies more dirtier?

I hope you know the assumed sextape wouldn't be your imaginary daughter doing herself, but with an ill trained son raised by an assumed failed father, who was/is also a son?

I weep for our backward way of thinking.

Let me ask you, when a man is dead and gone, how would he know who bears his name or not?

I bet the likes of Ngozi Okonjo Iweala, Dora Akunyili, Oby Ezekwesili, Chimamanda Adichie etc, are all men?

Rozcol:
Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks

It appears most Nigerian youths go into relationship to gain favours.

First, a boyfriend owes his girlfriend nothing, just as the girlfriend owes her boyfriend nothing.
A relationship is place to learn values, morals and support each other. Not one party feeling entitled.

Second, relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. If you need money, go get a job. And if a guy needs sex, he should go get a wife. Women are not sex machine, neither are men, ATM.

Finally, a man is only responsible for a wife, not girlfriend. Just as a lady is only answerable to a husband, not boyfriend

AdakaBoro8:
shut up you this woman-alike.. go watch zee world, you are not a man

Needless showing the world your lack of home training

AdakaBoro8:
do you have problem when reading narration or you just a disgraced to the men race??
you must be a woman mestruation.

You already reek of disgrace and unhealthy blood, hence, you know what a menstruating man looks like.

Agama lizard

richmond500:
I called u a simp which u are obviously a simp, if u think u are also a fool, then I didn't know.

I am sorry for ur misfortune

You do not even know the meaning of a simp, coward.

Go to bed, kids are asleep already

richmond500:
insulting me doesn't make u better than a simp, set ur boundaries. There are things as a husband u will do to help ur wife, do go about washing plates in a restaurant, people deh big pass some things

You are obviously a kid. You called me a fool and that wasn't an insult to you. But when I returned your lack of civility, you come crying like a child.

You obviously need mentoring on what marriage entails.

Now, run along, kiddo

richmond500:
simp, na ur kind of men weh their women deh control anyhow

Brain dead. Your type deserve to live alone as you consider women to be inferior and second class citizens

richmond500:
I didn't read this ur nonsense.
This isn't about pride, its more of respect.

When things were going well with the man, he didn't turn her into a full house wife, he opened a business for her and does his manly duties diligently but due to probably her bad attitude, most of her staffs left and things went bad for the man and all she could do is to try turn him into one of her maids abi?
When she said it first, he gave her a bad look, that was suppose to send a message that he wasn't happy, but because she prides herself as the bread winner and the king of the house, she has to tell him again to wash plates in public, the man has to show her that despite his predicament, he is the the king of the home and won't stoop so low in washing plates in a restaurant.
Everyone must have an ego, here the woman has massaged her ego beyong country and is trying to destroy the mans ego

Neither did I read your foolishness.

So, you expect her to cook, sell, do the dishes, feed you, pay rent, fees and come home to spread legs for you to mount? Awon Mountain Everest!

Look at the way you are spewing saliva allover the thread, gloating that a man slapped his wife that's hustling to feed him.

Turk in your stinking ego. It's repugnant

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?

You guys should stop carrying ego and pride on your head like gala for sanity sake. Didn't you read where she stated that her husband is jobless, does nothing, and that she is the only one at the shop that feeds the family including the husband? I bet the man actually came to eat before the wife asked for his assistance which isn't a daily occurrence.

The man is wicked for allowing his wife do the dishes, serve, go to market as well as cook for public to raise money to feed same man, pay rent, pay the kids fees and run the home.
What exactly is marriage all about if not togetherness, understanding, sacrifice and genuine love?

I bath my kids, take them to school, do homework with them and run my home (finance) 100%. And my manhood did not disappear.

Marriage is not a slave camp for women. Rather, it's a union championed by 2 consenting adults to assist and be there for each other.

I pity women that marry egocentric men like you

Cutie09:
Which HR you guys dey do for Nigeria? When HR call the 1st thing tney do is introduced themselves and reasons for calling befor proceedings to am speaking to mr xyz if you day yes you are my xyz next question is to confirm your name, address etc if it matches what's on your cv.

Either the HR person that called is not trained HR assistant or your story is not true.

I come in peace

You clearly know nothing about HR. No HR personnel tells an unidentified applicant his mission. He/she would strive to know who is on the phone before stating his/her mission.

When you take a call, you are supposed to at least, say hello, then the caller will introduce his/herself first, then ask if you are so so and so, before giving out his/her mission.

This is done to ensure that no personal information is released to a wrong person

firstworld:
The HR person is at fault I am in HR and because of these kinds of reactions, I usually start my calls by introducing myself first so the other person knows who is calling and is at ease. He could have simply said "I am John D calling from bank. That wouldnt hurt. That said, the lady should have been cautious as a job seeker that was just interviewed and expecting phone calls. Lets call a spade a spade please.

What spade abi cutlass are you talking about? Ain't you supposed to say "hello" when you take a call so the caller would know you can hear him/her before he/she introduces him/herself?

People like you gloat over simple things with your arrow, abi spade!

PrimadonnaO:
LOL! A woman said that? Many Nigerians are just so unprofessional!

I bet you wore glasses. You didn't read that it was a white nurse before calling Nigerians.

Stereotype!

chidi4eze:
Governor Wike is just a noise maker. The question I will want to ask him is that; how can a local government chairman make one a governor in this Nigeria? Secondly, at what point did he make Amaechi governor; was he the one that gave him PDP ticket or he was just running errands/coordinating Amaechi’s friends to get funds for Amaechi’s court case against then PDP?
Thirdly, please governor Wike should tell us who nominated him to be local government chairman for a second tenure?

You know nothing about Rivers State politics. The Obio/Akpor Wike served as Chairman, is Rivers State itself. It's the power house of the state and richer than some states.

Odili never wanted Amaechi as governor because of his disloyalty. It was Wike, Magnus and co that fought that battle. In fact, Wike led the fight while Amarchi ran to Ghana.

Odili had already perfected plans to ensure Omehia succeeds him. But Wike fought the battle til the end, while Magnus supported from the flanks.

Same issue Wike had with Ameachi, is what Magnus is currently having with Ameachi.
Ameachi sees himself as God even amongst his peers, which is not suppose to be so. Imagine bringing Tonye Cole who is not a politician to stand election against Wike, just as he misfired with Dakuku.

Ameachi's utterance (over his dead body will Wike be governor) is why he (Amaechi) is suffering political loss and irrelevance in Rivers State at the moment.

You clearly know nothing about Rivers politics

Oluromantic:
Lol. Nothing better is expected from an NL lady


If this one sees ur guy, she will grab him aand shower him with love and she's advicing you to...not even separate peacefully but dump. A decision you may regret later

Pls op be properly guided

And how do you handle an unrepentant and repugnant cheat, if not to dump him?

Quit the name calling and stick to your opinion. There is such a thing as "public opinion", and we're all entitle to one.

I wonder if you'd tell your daughter all those things you typed in your earlier submission.

Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?

Relationship is not a poverty alleviation scheme. What she need is a job.

If her father could provide 90% of her needs, she wouldn't be feeling entitled.

Just so you know, you reek of liability.

istina:
So childish of him.
She is just your girl not your wife, just walk away and get yourself another lady who will be yours and yours alone.

That's what he has done. He ensured to walk away with the wig he got for the ingrate.
One cannot work in Access Bank and takes allowance from First Bank. Let the new guy replace the items

okpalaAnambra:
I'm talking about the positions, read to understand

Post to make a valid point.

Again, what's your point?

okpalaAnambra:
When we say a state governor is like a president some people won't understand, a senator is far lower than a governor

What's your point? Both men merely exchanged positions as one was a former governor just as the other, while one is a former senator like the other.

NewDelhi:
Firstly he is British, you can't serve in another country's military as a foreigner. He is British only that he's of Nigerian decent..

"[b]He is the first non-british to be commissioned as an aero-systems specialist engineer[/b]lol.

That statement dey make me laugh and when I saw the source, I wasn't surprised. Junk journalism.

He's a Nigerian before becoming a British. You read where he mentioned that he was a barrack boy. He obviously was born and raised in Nigeria before travelling

Fahdiga1:
Already tired of one of his loot. Africans can do the unthinkable

Can't you read? That house was built and opened before he became governor. Was it your community's money he looted prior to becoming governor?

Chii59:
A wrong use of sarcasm.

That's not even sarcasm. That guy is an hypocrite laced with the spirit of envy and jealousy

JidennaJason:
Now I understand that part of the Bible where God said and I quote;

"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you"

Imagine if this guy was not having any form of disability, Debola Daniels would have been one pompous nuisance intimidating people because his father is the number one man in the state.



Our God works in mysterious ways....

To God be the glory.

You alleged to be a Christian and won't let people rest with your heavy quotations. But see how happy you sound over another's deformity.

Hypocrite!!!

Sammy07:
Can you point to one infrastructure Jonathan did in South west?
Pls I am waiting

How many has Buhari done in South West?

blamingthedevil:
Peter is a bigger boy

Not correct. He's more sociable, hence, he has more followers.

Paul is doing well in every standard

Kriss216:
"20 Man shall fall that day if you cross my lane" - Wizkid


"Put am for gear one" -
Faze

But Wizkid is plain enough, it was a direct message