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You be mumu for asking if you should give him another chance.. okponu

Mispreeti:
Please I need your advice.

My sister is at the hospital with one of her twins who is seriously ill and I'm in her house taking care of the other twin. I have been here for a week and her husband has been disturbing me for sex. I refused but he is not listening. He touched me while I was asleep and I felt it then I immediately woke up. He pretends to be covering the baby sleeping beside me. I told him i will report him to my dad in the morning. He has apologised and promised not to do it again but I know he is lying because this is not the first time it has happened since I came here.

I can’t go back to sleep and I'm afraid if I close my eyes and sleep, he will come again.

Please should I report him to my dad or give him another chance?

alsudan:
It’s obvious the dullard needs help and Jonathan being Jonathan is there to help. What a Lifeless Presidiot.

lol

Men and their issues

TheRealProphet:
This Kobe Bryant death opened my eyes to how this world view people with fame..the crash killed 7 or more other people but the media and other celebs are only interested in Kobe and did not talk much about the other peeps that died on that plane crash.. This life ehh...RIP to the whole victims of the plane crash.

that’s how life is man.

Nigerian Legal System ehnnnn odiegwu.... and SHAME on Nigerian Police very useless set of people.

donogaga:
Destination Canada bro. UK is a no no.

same here

Please we are still not far from 2019, all this garbage should be thrown back there..... nobody should give me headache this new year biko.

IMO state and stupidity, please I’m not interested

Shibaraba:
Paula escobar. I sight you

shebi na eyes you get

Give me 5 minutes

phylshan:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/374888-breaking-senator-asks-buhari-to-resign-over-insecurity.html

Senator oyiri nna ya na iberibe.....issokay

LoFarms:
Amen thank you for this. Very persons encourage people nowadays

you’re welcome

This one na Hollywood movie

HacheNoire:
Please explain what God has done here.

She gave birth safely, that’s what God did. She could have died you know, but God saw her through it can only be God .

Good work , but why only Cucumbers?
God will help you more.

LoFarms:
Greetings from LoFarms Located in Ofada, Ogun State Nigeria.

I’m here to share details of the various stages we are going to go through setting up our first 1 Acre Cucumber farm.

We pray that God, The weather , The plants and The Pest will be fair on us. However we will do what we have to do.

Watch this space. For updates.

Liposure:
na you oo. I just dey appreciate d work of god. Dis one no be scam.

thank you

Liposure:
omalicha, asanpete, tomato jos, ninth world wonder. Hi

ohkaay is it me or someone else you’re flattering like this.... dem don start this 2020

Don’t listen to any other advice, leave that house immediately, some apartment are destiny and business destroyers. God help you

Daumandu:
Can This Lead To The Downfall Of Someone?

I just moved in to a bigger city and a better and bigger apartment. I co-rented a flat with a middle aged man.

Now here is the problem, in my business at least in a week, I attend to nothing less than 20 clients but since one month I moved to this apartment I have not seen a single client.

Any day I do my digital marketing I am sure to see at least 10 to 20 enquires but since a month I moved to the apartment no body ever chatted me up for business.

Today I had to withdraw the last 5k in my account. The least amount I ever had in my account was 20k now I only have 500. I am someone that always enjoy the grace of God in my business but now its as if heaven has turned it's back against me. I am seriously thinking of leaving the apartment.

Any Advice?

Oga your friend is in for doom, they’re not married and she’s already behaving like this. I seriously pity your friend....

bamangar:
Story shared on Twitter by @the_onismate

I was talking with a friend few days back and he said anytime I'm ready to get married, I shouldn't marry any woman from a very rich family with so much attachment to her family. I asked why, he began narrating his wedding journey ordeal.
He's about to wed his woman. He only has N4m but intends spending N150 (court wedding and then feeding the 50 guests they are inviting. Then use N2m for honeymoon in Dubai. But bride no gree. She wants a big wedding.

Upcoming wife said either a big wedding or nothing. And her estimate for the big wedding is N5m.
Upcoming wife said if my guy can't bring out money for the big wedding, she would meet her dad for support. Well, she came from a rich family, her dad will be willing to roll out the cash. But my guy has refused. It would be a crash and dent on his image for upcomingwife to request money from her dad for their wedding.
Few closed family & friends had asked him to yield to up-coming wife's demands for her dad to sponsor the wedding. But my guy said from inception of the relationship, any slightest challenges, she always runs to her dad for solutions and he doesn't like it. He wants to start limiting her going to her parents to seek for solutions to every problems they have.

The girls parents are willing to foot wedding bills just to give their daughter her dream wedding. My guy has refused. Wedding preparations is on hold. My guy no gree, upcoming wife and her rich family no gree.

https://mobile.twitter.com/The_Onismate/status/1222036512394620928

Mstick:
Seems like men have relationship issues more than women. Always one complain or advice, it’s well.

walai asin this 2020 dem swear for them with rubbish complaints.

budaatum:
Sounds like your 17 year old niece has led your daughter astray. If I were you, I'd send her back home to start with, then me and hubby have to sit down and be honest about how we both produced this or lie and rue the consequences of our errors.

gbam

Nigerian men ehhnnn, yet you expect women to trust you all..

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

As you don’t have sense to know that everyone is entitled to his/her opinions, but your oversabi will not let you know...now go take a rope and hang yourself, you’re one of those irrelevant illiterates..cunt

GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok.

As you don’t have sense to know that everyone has a right to his/her opinion but your oversabi will not let you, now go take a rope and hang yourself you’re probably one of those irrelevant illiterates.....

GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok.

Like I said you stupid,
Flappy fvck...

GGirll:
Fine arts I can understand now pls smell outta my mention I don't like responding to dolts ok.

Girl you stupid gan walai.... and for your information I’m a graduate of fine arts from the University of Nigeria Nsukka.

GGirll:
you can't speak like that in a delicate matter as this and call it being sarcastic....don't know your level of education though.

GGirll:
Why don't you become his side chick? Home breaker better get sense this year cos many diseases abound non sense girl.

shut up you dumb cunt..... don’t even know when someone is being sarcastic.....puta madrefuka

goodmorning40:
Why them no arrest Ned Nwoko

at least he’s taking good care of his children

Go get yourself a side chica maaaaaannnn...
That way you’ll feel better.
Thank me later.

Prosper82:
I Feel Like My Marriage Is Falling Apart

I would like in advance to apologize for the long post but I think some background information is needed so you can assess the situation.

My wife and I have two kids. The oldest is turning 8 soon and the youngest is 7 months old.

Since our first child was born she has been co-sleeping with us. And ever since our sex life has been going down hill.

Now since our youngest child was born he has also been sleeping with us in a queen sized bed. But after two months of very poor sleep, I decided I couldn't follow that arrangement anymore so I went to sleep in the next room.

So since our kids were born my wife has been sleeping with them and now I sleep alone.

As you could imagine, you can't really have sex with two kids on the bed. We have gone weeks and even months without having any sex.
So my wife says that we should have sex in the room where I sleep after she puts the children to sleep.

This to me sounds like making an appointment to have sex. It isn't something you can have if you have to set up a time in advanced. I also miss cuddling with her and sleeping in our bed.


I feel like us sleeping in different rooms and beds has been the biggest hurdle to get back to the point we were before having kids.

We have a crib for the baby and a bed for our oldest daughter where each of the children could sleep separately but she's into attachment parenting so if the children cry (which I suppose they will when adapting to a new sleeping arrangement) is something that she wouldn't tolerate.

I also I understand the 7 month old might need to be breastfed in the middle of the night so she says it's more convenient just to have him nearby in bed than having to get up to breastfeed him but I feel that my daughter should be learning to sleep independently.

Anyway, it's been quite a while without sex and I don't know what to tell her or do.
We have a lot of fights because of this.

I feel that attachment parenting might feel like you're doing the best for the kids, but if it also ends up destroying the marriage and we separate what good would that do for them?

What do you guys think?

Lol

Davash222:
After the day's toil, a married man needs the wife's cuddle and touches at night. It's essential in every young marriage. Coming back home at night to behold your sexy wife alone with lingerie at your wide bed gives joy and also elongates life's span. Wives should stop depriving their husbands this privilege.
One of the reasons for having children bedrooms is to create provisions for these things.


OP, I understand how you feel. Imagine a 7 month old baby dragging your breast with you.. Breast that you paid for. I know you dont have access to that breast again. Nawao

I’m the man in red shirt right now