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Frank25:
babe go read ur books

Iwantpeace:
I Need Advice About My Brother Inlaw Attitude

Hello good morning Nairalanders. I have been a guest and a member of this forum for quite some time now. I have equally seen and learnt from the inputs of many issues brought here especially family one. So I decided to create this new account.

I am a new married woman, my marriage is barely 3 months. Before we got married I and my husband agreed that visitors will not stay longer than 2 weeks in our home. Although he begged me that his immediate younger brother whom has been staying with him will stay for a while or comes to stay with us anytime he is on holidays.

I reluctantly agreed just for peace to reign. He shuttles between our home and my SIL homes for now. To cut the long story short, prior to when we got married that I go visit my then fiancé, anytime I cook this guy is fond of dipping his hands into my pot of soup or food without asking me and this is what I am not comfortable with and I really don't like it. I have sister in law too and I have sisters too anytime I go visiting I don't dip my hands into their pot of food without their consent I see it as something disrespectful.

Again, I couldn't talk then because I feel he may say 'ha dem never marry her she dun de get attitude', now he's continued the same attitude. Yesterday, I made food for the house, dished his own, he ate and slept off when he woke up late in the night he went to my pot again and spoilt my dishing spoon in the process. meanwhile I have not dished out my husband's meal.

Coincidentally, my husband came in from work at that moment and I was going to the kitchen to serve him his meal when I saw him doing what I don't like. When he saw me he said 'this spoon dun spoil '. I kept quiet. I later discussed with my husband, told him that I am not happy with the way his brother is entering my kitchen anyhow n because I am someone that don't like keeping things in my mind I like saying it out to free myself. When I told my husband he said we will talk in the morning.

This morning, the first thing this brother in law of mine was to go straight to the kitchen to look for something to eat. This is someone that will eat and keep the dishes, whenever he is around I don't stay in the living room anymore, my room and my phone is my companion because we stay in a one bedroom flat for now. He's giving me this attitude of it's my brother's house so I can do as I please, when he comes back he expects me to greet him first. I am not saying he cannot stay but my main issue is that he is tempering with my kitchen and trying to flex muscles with me.

Pls how do I handle this issue with my husband amicably because up till now he hasn't said anything and it's bothering me?

BabbanBura:
Talk to me bebe, wetin do u wey u dey hate my awa govno lie this?

wellmax:
Your posts see usually senseless. Why.

bluefilm:
Very bad.

I mean, very very very baaad.

Take JAMB again and start all over.

Chiwesley1:
OK , make VP waka go from abuja to borno alone, if he comes back alive, then I will believe they are handling security well. FTc for our lost soldiers, may their souls rest in peace

Opeyemiebun:
Hmmmm, so I should encourage us getting 2 cars within the next 3months looking at Nigeria's economy and the need to have multiple source of income?.
Waoooh, thanks for the advice!!!

OlawaleBammie:
Guy dont kill urself oo, it's my prayer dat is bn answered anyway....Long tym ago av told God dat I dont want to b working on monday morning and if at all i want to work, maybe i should start late and d prayer is bn answered na


Dont u know dat starting work early momo under duress is kind of frustrating, wen one tink about going to work by 4:30am on monday morning surely he would go frustrated na , dat may b d reason many are bittered about the marriage






pls am not well oo, let stop this.

OlawaleBammie:
The way u guys are constructing ur sentences baffles me ni...

Anyways, av not started work for today so am still having some times to face u.

OlawaleBammie:
Why are ladies on dis topic soo bitter??

That is how one was saying Chioma is too ugly dat even make up could not cover her ugliness..
omase oo

SifonAbasi:
Good morning friends.

Please how can I politely stop my ex from visiting my home?

Yesterday was the third time my husband returns from work to meet my ex in our house.

After the incident that happened between us, my ex started coming closer to my husband and they became distance friends.
My husband invited him to our child's naming ceremony and that was how he got to know our house.

Eversince then he has been visiting and I am not comfortable with it.
I told if he must come he should come when my husband is around.

Please what should I do?

etrange:
I'm not a religious person but, dude, you just typed crap and you don't even have the slightest idea how dumb you sound. Did you even read the OP at all?

Danhoys:
I don't know if this is the right section.. Please lala, your help is needed.

Just this morning, I got a debit alert from AlieXpress and was wondering how possible. I thought it must be a problem with Aliexpress since I do shop there.. As i was trying to get to support, I got another debit alert, and yet another.

I had to block the atm through my bank app. I tried looking for my atm and it was nowhere to be found.

It dawns on me that I've lost my atm and someone is shopping with it. Now my question is, is it possible to recover my money through my bank, possibly trace the transaction and know who did it?

hammerU:
Baby i am in the toasting mood this afternoon. Wat brought u online?

lalasticlala:
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/mercy-johnson-why-i-no-longer-play-nude-romantic-scenes-in-movies/

BuhariAdvocate:
Keep quiet you are not a lagosian so in your mud village it's not possible for you to know what lagosians going through from the hands of this nuisance .

J111333:
No need calling the name of Jesus. Just keep your paperwork right woth no criminal record and have a good reason for visiting the US, that's all they need.

dre11:
Drama As Adulterous Couple Caught Red Handed In Action



https://iharare.com/watch-drama-as-adulterous-couple-busted-red-handed-in-bed/