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Magnoliaa:
NOTHING BUT A DUMB SUBMISSION.

Airhead. No time to engage your kind.

Juell:
I'm sure the cost of the pieces of meat he ate is not up to monthly salary, the owner should have deducted it from his salary with a serious warning/query instead of taking him to court.

Then the employee would spread false news that he was underpaid without telling people what he did.

This is a strong message to other thieves.

Hotel owners are always battling shortage.

MiztaFabuloz:
You need to stop quoting me if you are this senseless not to understand a simple post. Stop forming like one intellectual because to me you are embarrassing yourself. I will suggest you go back to secondary school and ensure you take comprehensive English very seriously this time because you must have skipped that class a lot.

You still cannot answer a simple question. It appears you are offended that the world can now see how shallow you are. Just look at how you demonised it. Oh, she should have told him before marriage. Like it’s a genotype or fertility problem or something. Educate yourself young man.

Sixfeetbelle:
I mentioned you cause your comment lack a modicum of intelligence. Let me make it clear to you: a woman must not always lie down like a log of wood during sex. There are a lot of other positions that allows a woman to do the whole work instead.

But don't worry, I won't mention you again. My apologies for this time.

[facepalm]
How did you arrive at this redundant argument? Are you asking questions in your mind and typing out the answers for me? Where is all this crap coming from?

Six “feet” belle. Lol. More like your “number six” is below your feet. Avoid quoting me until you have sense.

Blu03:
I agree that it's wrong to bully another who doesn't suscribe to one's views.
But your generalizing, does it make you many different?
Generally condemning 'feminist' because your opinions differ is still the same poo.
A good number of feminist are feminine and traditional. Stop disputing that truth. The extremist are also called out.. Are they not?

Big joke.

Feminism is an extremist philosophy. We know this by observing their actions and not just their words.

Sixfeetbelle:
Because you only know two sex positions, that's why.

And how did you arrive at that? Do you think everybody is like you?

I really don’t like when shallow females quote me.

Michellekabod2:
You should have used the word "some".

How couples run their homes ain't feminism business. Not all feminists give unsolicited advice to ladies on their personal lives

Feminists are misandrists who like the name “feminists” better.

MiztaFabuloz:
You are just talking out of point. So the man is wrong sending her out of the house for just stretch mark she has been hiding from him till she got married to him. I think you are a kid not not comprehend the main point here so I don't think I will answer you again except to say something relating to the main point of the topic.

Now you’re getting emotional, man.

You come off as shallow if you cannot tell us why this thing offends you when it is clearly not an indication of personal hygiene or a skin disease. It’s like saying you hate grey hair in the beards of a young man.

You reason like a child who rejects a toy because it’s blue and not green. You should read some more and grow up.

Thank goodness it’s a woman saying this. Feminists are bullies. They bully women who do not subscribe to their extremist views.

“Live and let live” is heresy to feminists.

Lol. 5 naira is too much sef.

Lamanii22:
Nah... It's not life threatening, it's a natural cause... On hygiene, you can't have stretch marks and be dirty, no man will look at you twice lol... You should just try as much as possible to work on your hygiene, plus there are natural ways to clear it off...

I know it is natural. I just want the guys who hate it to tell me whether they think it’s a personal hygiene issue because the way these guys speak against it ehn, it appears but they know some hidden information that cannot be found on google. They talk as if it’s a dirty thing or a skin disease.

Easybela:
If I were to be in her shoe,I will dump u asap due to the following reasons
1:you have concluded already that even in 2years time,you won't be financially stable.
2:you are seeing marriage as something that will tie your freedom down.
3:you don't love her enough for marriage, if you do,you won't vomit all those trash in her presence.
Once you genuinely love someone, the only thing that will occupy your mind is how to spend the rest of your life living with him/her.
There are better ways of presenting your case to her than sounding childish.

The young man has evaluated his present situation and decided not to get married based on his projected financial status. Do you know if he has standards that require a lot more than he can get in two years? It’s a projection. If he were a banker or civil servant (who doesn’t do runs) then his financial status won’t change drastically in two years unless he saves aggressively or gets a new high paying job this year.

OP, you told her the truth. If she cannot wait, let her go. Don’t let one girl put pressure on you cos if shit hits the fan, she will abandon you.

Belafonte:
It is unsightly. Period. No other reason is needed.

Lol. Okay. That was candid.

Bro, you should end the relationship. Obviously you have warned her over and over but she doesn’t respect you enough to respect herself.

Chase her away. What’s the benefit of dating her, except for her to spend your money and collect nakking while lying down like a log?

I say chase her.

MiztaFabuloz:
See its not a matter of being a life threatening thing or not. There are some people that it really turns down honestly. Some men naturally do get get aroused when they see that. Some men get really irritated by it and that is not good for a relationship because it won't work with such guys. There are guys that don't feel anything about it and that's fine.
The point is why she didn't have a way to letting who she was dating know about her little issue to see if he is one of those that can stand it or not. If he was one of those that can stand it, he will not be thinking of sending her out of the house, but rather he will help find a solution.

So its not all about being just stretch mark, its about opening up to a guy you kept away from sex before marriage and after marriage he finds something like this. How do you expect him to feel really?

You are talking like it’s a problem. My question is why do you think it’s a problem? Why should he help her find a “solution”. Solution for what problem?

I don’t think it’s something a girl needs to disclose. Is it a disease? Is it contagious? It’s just stretch marks. Even bodybuilders have it.

Na wa o.

I feel like konking you and your girlfriend.

Instead of you people to express yourselves in clear terms like adults you are here complaining.

Actually you fit each other. So this is why you opened a thread on a Sunday Morning. Nonsense.

funmisticqueen2:
I never called him a narcissist. Go back and learn

I said he seems. There's a difference

That’s a weak argument. You labelled him a narcissist. Now you want to slither out because your own narcissistic personality is peeking out? Lol.

Apologise to the man.

funmisticqueen2:
they are both victims actually. You think I didn't tell the girl to leave him to. That was what everyone told her in her thread.

There is nothing narcissistic about the OP, but you labelled him so. You owe him an apology, but you are you. I’d be surprised if you called a spade a spade.

funmisticqueen2:
[s]you seem to have a narcissistic personality[/s]

A confirmed narcissist wrongly labelling another person a narcissist.

The irony.


It appears you cannot handle the fact that the guy is the victim here and that the woman you supported was actually a hœ.

ProfDview1, give her red card abeg. I fit swear for you if you no do am. How can you be entertaining a manipulator in your life? Cut her off so she can go on with her hœing. Make she no bring HIV come give person.

You should have given her red card long ago.

This kind of babe go lie on top your head for family meeting. Delete her sharp sharp.

Complete bullshît.

I want to ask guys. What is it about stretch marks that you hate so much? Have you read up on the causes? Do you think it’s life threatening? Do you think it indicates personal hygiene?

I don’t understand the aversion, really.

Solidtruth:
Well said, it's funny how non lagosians jump on threads and topics they know absolutely nothing about to comment. You said it all

Don’t mind them. They are always the first to make comments about Lagos.

spinna:
The way they screamed cursed and shouted when okada was banned but everybody quietly enjoys this now. It was a pleasant surprise boarding this from Berger to Ikeja last time i was in Lag

If you lived in Lagos you wouldn’t say this nonsense.

Traffic is much slower than before. Those who wait on the island till late before heading home are no longer using that strategy cos it doesn’t work anymore. From 4pm to 10pm it’s traffic galore in VI.

People trek more because they have no choice. Google map is always red. Exhausting.

Those days when one could get to about 3 different locations in Lagos all on the same day are gone. Now you have to space your movements and choose which appointments are really important.

Just when you think you know one shortcut you’d find other “smart” drivers like you stuck in front of you.

macof:
You must be a very useless slowpoke. It's fools like you who have no relevance in life but just go around with deep hatred for anything African. Dumb slave ready to burn his father's house and everything inside down because foreigners tell you so.
I'm still waiting for the list of human sacrifice victims, or report from police investigation or reports of missing people linked to the Palaces
You iidiots go around with your lies and slander just pull down traditions and install foreign culture to complete the work your masters could not complete

Lol. First of all you assumed I am religious. You see how stupîd you are? Why are you afraid of your own shadow?

Like I said. Continue your human sacrifice. You will be found out one day and it will be too late. Keep celebrating your depravity. Even wild animals are better than you.

macof:
I don't understand why you people are filled with so much hate for yourself like this
If that is how we have been killing ourselves won't we have gone extinct by now?

Some foolish missionaries and colonizers told you our traditions are all about killing ourselves and you believed like a gullible fool to forget who you are

You must be a dunce and a criminal to think human sacrifice is excusable in the name of culture. I have probably experienced more palace culture than you have but you just assumed and you just jumped on my comment like an irritating housefly. Borrow a brain since you have none.

Continue your criminality in the name of tradition. One day you will be caught and you would wish you were never born. Ode.

See wahala. Imagine doing all this cos you want to be in a relationship with someone that is retailing and rationing her love to you?

Better do your thing in person rather than sliding into the dm of one girl whose level of maturity you cannot determine.

See guys.

See how they met and discussed and settled things. What about the hôe? She doesn’t know anything. I would have said you should allow her buy her gown before calling it off, but no need to waste money trying to get back at an unworthy hôe.

Many of these babes no get conscience. They are ruled by their greed and selfishness.

Well said.

We are disappointed at the lies told by toxic women to demonise men so they can drive their feminist narratives.

Women are unbelievably egotistical. They can’t take half the shît they dish out and when men decide to give them a taste of their own medicine, they go on rampage. Then these feminists jump on such stories and begin peddling the exception as the rule.

Many marriages crash because wives are feminists or they listen to these feminists. They import strife into their home, neglecting their roles as mothers and wives and struggling with their husbands to steer their marriages. Who would put up with nonsense like that? Some men do. And they end being pants. Not just quality pant sef. These men end up as disposable pants in their own home.

Women should realise they are not men. Stop measuring your success by the downfall of your man. If not, na you go tire.

Different definitions of feminism flying up and down.

One thing is for sure. Feminists hate men. That is the summary of their campaign.

Many of them are lazy women who want things to be easier for them just because they have ovaries. Rubbish. When they find out that they have to earn their way through life like men, they go around screaming oppression. They try to bully men into giving them opportunities they are not qualified for while excusing themselves from responsibilities suited to their unique gender.