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Instead of you to say thank you for the compliment. My friend, your laps look borrow-able. Lend them to him.

I have heard things but this one is just too funny.

Anyway, like we say here, picture of the laps or...

True love.

Pure and simple.

I remember this scene. Girls were laughing until one guy came out of the crowd, walked to the devastated guy, pulled him up and gave him a quick reassuring hug. Then the hypocrite ladies started clapping.

There is no going back to that relationship after such an embarrassment.

Any guy who proposes in public without rehearsing in private with his girlfriend is taking a foolîsh risk for a woman. You should think hard before taking a risk for a woman who is not your blood.

Once a woman rejects your proposal, delete her from your life and move on. Why? Cos she waited till you asked before telling you she was not interested in marrying you. She should have expressed her reservation long before you deemed it necessary to propose. Why waste your time giving you green light only to disappoint? You don’t need such a person around you.

Dem go Dash you for free and you will still reject? Guy you are harsh o.



As long as she knows her place, she can demand. If she begins to have airs and ideas and expect respect and equality then she should refund all the money used to settle her bills. Many girls have sold themselves off as property then wonder why the guy doesn’t consider them as partners and takes crucial decisions without their input. Well, I don’t see the need to consider the input of a dependent. She should earn herself the dignity she wants or keep shut and sit pretty while men are talking.

This is not a hospital. Go and see a doctor for treatment.

Okeytus:
With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

I like the 2nd part of your post. If she has taste then she should contribute to it. She can’t be having standards that depend on another person’s money.

Naija women have ego issues. She will only beg when she thinks she has no choice and there is nobody to cheat on you with. Anyway, it’s a good indicator for her readiness.

Naija women should also embrace the practice of kneeling to propose to their men. But they can never agree to it. They’d rather die than do that. Foolîsh pride.

This is like reading someone’s diary.

I enjoyed your narration bro. It is lively.

Tell her you just want a nakking partner and watch her run away. However, if she says she’s interested, then bro, I’m not the one that adviced you o. You’re on your own . Only God can save you from her. Just find a way to dismiss her before she blocks the real fish.


Many girls don’t know they’re not fine. They are just yellow.

What the fûck!

Is this how shït goes down?

My people, behold a rare insight into the business of runs girls, pîmps and their clients. My programmer friends will call it “backend”. What a pun.

All runs girls are hereby banned from having regular boyfriends. You should register your true business and print your business cards so guys can know what they are getting into.

What!

And she will come to Nairaland with her colleagues to bash guys and scream equality when her feeding and upkeep depends on the pastime of a man.

Interesting thread.




Intelligent wives would be taking notes and making adjustments instead of coming here to form feminists while frustrating their husbands at home.

Baba say him no want “no single drop of noise”.


Break up.


You should have broken up when she told you about the child. She deliberately hid her kid until you had invested 7 months of your time and resources into the relationship, because she is manipulative and more importantly, she is not proud of her own child.

How can anyone hide her own child from a friend? I want to believe she was friendly with you for a little while before she became your girlfriend. Why would she withhold that important information?

You fell in love with a lie and you should have ended it all immediately you found out.

I like the fact that you are upfront about your feelings for the child. Good. Like someone has told you, her love for you is only as deep as your usefulness in her child’s life. If you are not openly critical of him, if you refrain from correcting him and keep your opinions to yourself, if you pay his bills, buy him clothes and presents, you will get profound love from her. Simple.

The easiest way to win the love and loyalty of a single mother is to care for her child as well. Now she has brought him to live with you. Your behaviour towards the toddler is the number one source of problems in your relationship, because you are not showing him care like a father or uncle.

One more thing. Her babydaddy will always be a part of your life if you marry her. You cannot wish him away. If you are ready to accommodate that, go ahead.

But I still think you should leave her. For your own peace and for hers.

Millenniumlady:
I said what i said. If you can't defeat your opponent on the pitch i don't think you can defeat your wife on the bed

Pitch?


Please refrain from commenting on sports. Stick to romance section.

Pitch

This is so funny.

Your own brothers, your blood brothers (like my people would say) told you he wouldn’t treat you well, yet you dismissed their warnings.

Okay na. Shebi they were yarning dust? You see yasef?

Ladies should know something. Guys know bad guys.

Once a guy, who is not romantically involved with you and has not made any move towards you, gives you a warning about another guy, PLEASE HEED.

Nothing you can do to change him. Just endure or leave.

healthserve:
Evil wicked bitter soul. Why not divorce and go with your side fvck mates than subject a human to your witchcraft

Pure witchcraft!

Manipulation is filthy but this is even filthier. She is withholding the love she swore to give her husband, yet she refused to leave him alone. 3 years! Such a wicked woman.

This is a wicked woman.

May God save us from wicked women.

She held on to the marriage, punishing the guy, daily draining his love and refusing him the intimacy he deserves. It has been 3 years of frustrating him, creating and maintaining the distance between you guys.

Wicked woman. Perhaps you’re waiting for him to cheat so you can justify your wickedness. You go wait tire.

Leave him so that you can go back to your ex or anyone else; but just leave him abeg. He deserves a wife, not a roommate.

Dedetwo:
How did these sticks that parade themselves as SAN become one? Whether it is pre-election matter or post-election case, the Supreme Court of any country is the final arbiter in electoral matters.

Olodo.

This why you should not take statements out of context. Context would help you. Read the entire post then delete the nonsense you wrote.

This one na original olodo

Fasindo:
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Mtchew!!!


Falana should focus on how to win El Zakyzaky case that he abandoned nd leave bayelsa election matter, he is not vast in law more than d 5 supreme court justices that delivered the case.

Just because he manage to win Sowore case he now thinks he is more vast than anybody in law[/s]

Ignoramus.

Read before posting a comment so you don’t end up looking like an idîot.

Tell her what she wants to hear. Get the damned contract. After contract, continue dating her. Marry only when you are sure.

He told him to mind his business with style.

We are discussing with Niger and Benin. Mr Burkina, oya, kindly excuse us.

Still can’t forget the time this guy travelled to China to stand at a vacant lectern to address a nonexistent audience. He even posed for pictures.

madridsta007:
Rapist detected.

You have labelled him a rapist because he decided not to be fooled by the allegations of a woman. She never reported rape. Nobody sexually assaulted the woman, not the landlord and certainly not the poster you quoted. But you had to call him a rapist. Why? Cos he dared to challenge the truth of an allegation.

You have only exposed your gross ignorance and the mental laziness that hinders you. Dummîes like you joined the mob and “cancelled” Johnny Depp and labelled him until he was fired from his role as Jack Sparrow, based on the stories of a woman who played the victim. Today, hard evidence has made many of you hide your heads in ignominy.

You must have been playing with monkeys the day your creator shared logic to human beings. People like you are the perfect candidates for Boko Haram. Idîots with the herd mentality nursed into them on the breasts of foolishness.

72Morale:
It will be foolish of any sane person to believe this crap.

Once a woman start using "Because he asked me out and I refused" as a defensive line in any case, Just know that she's telling lies.

Exactly.

masterflowx:
Sorry girl but you got what you wanted.

Probably, you had a ghana guy that you left heartbroken.

You be Olosho!

Honestly, that’s the truth.

Olosho got olosho treatment from a racist. Sad.

He promised me this, he promised me that. How about what she promised herself? How about being independent and working a decent job for your money and not being dependent on a racist?

Yes he’s scum, but she’s a scum magnet.

See young people mocking this man.

It’s the same way he was mocked when he challenged the illegal permit for protest that the police demanded from protesters.

When he won the case, you guys suddenly knew your rights.
There are lacunae in our laws and a lawyer like Falana helps to clarify grey areas by challenging the status quo.

One day, this man will retire and then you all will look for lawyers to defend your basic rights.

Many Beninois don’t play with their juju o. If you can’t accept it, break up.

Irresponsible woman. Her parents should be arrested for raising a complete îdiot.

nlPoster:

What in the...

AshiraWealthy:
Where's the beauty? Anyways... No body dey gree say them no fine again.

Who dey talk?

Jewessgratitude you better sit this one out.

Even after rebranding to hide yourself, your bad character still gives you away. The rain does not wash away the spots of a leopard.

Valid point.

So many pretenders trying to become “Mrs” by hook or crook. And we guys are the only ones that can truly rescue them from spinsterhood. We should be more careful when selecting wives. Some are feminists in disguise. A man would think he has married a reasonable woman, next thing he knows, everyday is battle of the sexes.

nlPoster:
Is it something about Africa that makes Africans or Nigerians brutish and heartless? Everything is gra gra all the time, never considering alternate ways of doing things.

What is the point of this senseless thread @ op?

And how is it even your business? You didn't post properly in Agriculture section where the topic is more relevant, but decided on romance , why?

Why so sensitive. You could have just scrolled past.

Your guy should just spread his net and catch bigger fish. This one has found a buyer already.

healthserve:
Leave plenty talk. Na Rabber

Abi na.

They think that he will take care of them better since he can cater for his wife and kids. They don’t know anything.