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Suspend the EPL. Mad people. Suspend the damn league.

Ariza:
This right here is my problem... Like how can someone be more tolerating?


Some minutes ago, I lied to a guy that I was resting just to avoid his call (his third call since I got back from work). The truth is I'm not resting, I'm surfing Nl right now . Teach me, do I pretend or just switch off my phone.

Lol. You too? No wonder.

Better answer the handsome young man before I open my eye.

It’s like somebody has eaten the money for interlocking stones.

Starz825:
See person wey don lose interest in marriage dey give meaningful advice

Lol. Cos I’m not a kid.

I wonder if guys need to go about with affidavits or something before sleeping with women.


The video clearly shows she flirted with him. But you know what tipped the scales? Her gender. She claimed she flirted because he is more powerful than she and that she felt vulnerable and other bullshît.

Harvey may have raped other women but this video shouldn’t have condemned him. She was flirting with him, yanking his strings.

Honestly, young women should be the last people joking about rape.

Pascopele:
yOU ARE NOT SAYING THE TRUTH.

Lol. I didn’t say I was celibate. I said I have lost interest in marriage. Not women.

These days, girls are moving mad.

Better ask her quietly in front of her house around 8pm then collect your no and head home or collect your yes and start planning wedding.

SassyGem101:
Hmm....

Mehnnn that space of a thing, only God can separate me from it yuh. Its something else.

true.

SassyGem101:
Yeah. For that six years I had peace of mind and really enjoyed self-company while it lasted.

I didn't need to lose myself or be committed to someone's course and all that relationship brouhaha.

I think what happened was that I felt my space was being contended with and stuff.
Ill try and work on accommodating other peeps. I'll adjust.

Thanks.

I’m in your shoes too. I love my personal space.

But I love women too.

OP has set a trap for those who only read captions and jump in to comment.

SassyGem101:
I had always wished and wanted to but with what happened recently, after 6 years of not having a relationship. I eventually gave it another try this year and then boom! It hit the rocks even before it took off. So For now, I'm not looking forward to it anymore.

If you’re still interested in marriage.

Look within. Make some adjustments. Try again.

Why?

Cos after 6 years of being alone, you probably enjoy your own company more than the idea of sharing your personal space with another person.

I’ve gradually lost interest in marriage. This bachelor life is not bad. Work, rest, work, lounge, go on holidays, back to work.

Oluwatunmise529:
They store plates in the kitchen and wash only the one they use to eat that moment and leave the rest to stink....

Complete bullshît. Tell us another story abeg.

Sorry. It will take a lot to convince them.

If you stick to her they’ll say she has gone to her church to bewitch you. If you dump her, you’d start afresh, looking for a suitable woman. Lord knows how long that would take. Good young women are not many these days.

safarigirl:
She's not a stranger, she's the help

A stranger in the sense that she just joined the home.

safarigirl:
LOL, let me not tell you what I saw when I went to my married uncle's house some days ago

There are people who don't eat in their houses, yes, they will enter car and drive to a restaurant and eat there, dem no go touch one plate.

It is very possible, I believe that one die.

But it doesn’t apply here. This girl says she’s saddled with domestic chores. A family that eats out cannot decide overnight to eat the cooking of a stranger.

Her story does not add up. She’s lying or hiding essential parts of the story.

ednut1:
Another fake story

Exactly.

She has not replied one person since. Just post lie for people to be commenting and fighting over.

OP come tell us another lie.

How can a sink bring out maggots? Haba! Does that mean they have not washed plates in 5 days? Is it possible? So no cooking in 5 days? No eating? This your lie is too stupîd.

It appears there are a number of simpletons on this thread.

She is obviously joking. How can you miss the joke? Are you that dàft?

MrBrownJay1:
you are just creating a foul environment... i understand that someone may be upset and wanting to get back at someone, but the above is just way too much, let alone childish. i can only imagine what the babe will decide to do in order to make him pay.

its ok to be angry because a babe dumped you (for whatever reason) but wanting to humiliate/punish her because of that is very childish and shows just how conceited someone think of themselves.

You may describe it as a number of things but it is not childish to get revenge. It is only fitting that he humiliated her cos she humiliated him too.

Now the scales are even.

This is certainly not about conceit. He knew what she wanted deep down, that made her dump him for a seemingly better guy. He took that desire, dangled it in front of her and turned her joy into ashes. He got even, and that is valid, at least to him.

Mymynd4u:
List continues


Kingsteve
Afro Knight
912 (see him face like wall gecko )
sonofanarchy
johnkey
SenecaTheYonger
Skmoda360
Lightangel65

You must be a little slow in the head to have listed me here.

I don’t argue with enfant terribles. If she wants to go on a man-hating spree, she has my blessing. That’s her personal problem.

Can they be reared? Catch one male and one female and start small business. I bet they’d be expensive to keep.

MrBrownJay1:
so because a babe dumps a dude, you need to humiliate her in public like that?! really?

I was angry.

I wouldn’t even take her back.

He wanted a pound of flesh, he deserved it, he got it. Crude method, but the result is the pound of flesh.

I understand his anger. And humiliation in retaliation for humiliation is fine. Not my style, but it is fine.

Amotolongbo:
This is my problem with many of these pastors.

Many of their preachings are so daft and against reality.

We all know that many ladies on seeing a man’s prick for the first time will take away their eyes, though not their mind. So what is he now saying that “How can a lady see a man’s penis and the eyes will leave it”?

Moreover, majority of these men only make their sermons from theory and not the reality. Can he confidently tell us he never had sexual affairs with women before getting married?

Don’t judge him by your standards. It is plausible for men to marry as virgins in every sense of the word.

The fact that you doubt the possibility tells a lot about the ever changing perception of right and wrong.

mekaboy:
Foolish Bill's from the north. Is anybody still importing sagem, trium,alcatel phones in Nigeria? It's about demand and supply. If there is steady electricity, it will ban itself.

Honestly, it should have been a ban on underperforming ministers of power and imprisonment for them and for every underperforming administrator in the power sector.

MrBrownJay1:
how can you even doubt that this is true love?! YES, this is indeed true love FOR MONEY

Regina's mate!

But damn! I love the girl’s skin. Might be a filter though.

Laseye008:
Am like WTF? do ladies really deserve to be treated like this?

I can swear for you for asking that useless question. She dumped the guy because of money yet you’re asking nonsense. Ladies are not special. They are just female. Finish. They don’t deserve any special treatment just because of their gender.

I was even getting angry when she left him kneeling for too long before saying yes. She’s mad. Somebody wants to rescue you from singleness in your father’s house and you’re keeping him waiting.

Anyway, tell that guy that I want to buy him 2 bottles of Hero. He has done well. A bit dramatic, but the message is beautiful.

I wouldn’t have taken her back though. Once you leave me for something that isn’t an offence on my part, just stay away.

Depends on how she treated you and your work in your former place of work.

If she was an unserious person then, she may not have changed now.

Will you be able to take disciplinary actions if she proves to be unserious.

If she took advantage of your closeness or your breakup to hurt you in the past then you have no business employing her.

I’ll leave you with this:

Adults don’t change. Women always look for ways to take guys for granted.

proclinician:
If i find a girl i want to date i don't think i really need to start telling her not to cheat or something. If she wants to be faithful it's fine if she doesn't want to I'm out. She is not bound by anything and she is free to do according to her volition. I will however keep tabs on her okay for my own sake and be very ready to leave at the slightest concrete evidence of infidelity. If u put a bug in the phone of someone you're just dating she can get u arrested and u have nothing on her.

It's different from after she has said all the i dos and we have a certificate to our union then i will have four eyes on her and also ready to quit at the slightest concrete evidence that's why i have learnt all the manner of phone hacking right from year 2010.


Truth is a woman that respects herself and values herself is gold. For the rest it's problem.

That’s why I said moderate snooping. Not something as extreme as bugging.

You must be fairly certain that you’re not getting married to someone that can give you another man’s child to raise as your own.

proclinician:
It is not wrong but there are some perspectives to this issue.

1. If you both are not legally married or just married she has right to do as she wants okay. If you have unprotected intercourse this may be a time to stop. You have no right to bug her phone because u have no right to question what she does with her body.

2...

Saying she has the right to do as she wants with her body cos she’s not your wife, is not telling the truth in its entirety. It’s present facts in a simplistic manner.

If she wants to fück around whether with protection or not, then she has no business being in a relationship and she is not worthy to become a wife. She’d better open shop and print business cards as a pleasure merchant.

Is it an unfaithful girl you’d marry and expect fidelity from? Lol. Because she’s not your wife? You’re setting yourself up.

If you have doubts about your babe, address them. Moderate snooping is good cos it saves you from the hazards of her unfaithfulness. It saves time and helps you shed unnecessary weight.

Do they discuss for long? If the discussion lasts long in your presence, then she has no respect for your relationship. Keep a close eye on that babe. She’s probably only a V to you.