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proclinician:
It is not wrong but there are some perspectives to this issue.

1. If you both are not legally married or just married she has right to do as she wants okay. If you have unprotected intercourse this may be a time to stop. You have no right to bug her phone because u have no right to question what she does with her body.

2...

Saying she has the right to do as she wants with her body cos she’s not your wife, is not telling the truth in its entirety. It’s present facts in a simplistic manner.

If she wants to fück around whether with protection or not, then she has no business being in a relationship and she is not worthy to become a wife. She’d better open shop and print business cards as a pleasure merchant.

Is it an unfaithful girl you’d marry and expect fidelity from? Lol. Because she’s not your wife? You’re setting yourself up.

If you have doubts about your babe, address them. Moderate snooping is good cos it saves you from the hazards of her unfaithfulness. It saves time and helps you shed unnecessary weight.

Do they discuss for long? If the discussion lasts long in your presence, then she has no respect for your relationship. Keep a close eye on that babe. She’s probably only a V to you.

RisenPhoenix:
How you know say no be girls. We are in the age of 'equality'. Always remember to be gender neutral in your speech.

Real talk.

I won’t be surprised if it’s a gang of female students.

Money moves!

Ose! Omo ologo.

I pity you.

Granted, you might be careful to keep it secret but is she as careful? When they bust you, will her body be worth the embarrassment?

Give yourself brain.

Lol.

So cute... Until she starts her short babe wahala.

Kendroid:
He's a king only in Onitsha, we Igbos have no King!

Lol perhaps the people in Onitsha are idomas then, not igbos. See talk.

BafanaBafana:
Igbos have no king.
A lot of Igbos do not even know who the Obi of onitsha is

Don’t exaggerate na. So Igbos have no king, but obi of Onitsha is what? A class captain? Baba calm down.

They are all employees of the State. That’s why they try not to offend the ruling party in their states.

He should have retired 8 years ago.

Community clash in 2020. Una no dey tire?

I like your angle. If you’re paying her bills then your cheating can be tolerated. Interesting. But I don’t agree with vice versa. I don’t like cheats but if one partner must cheat, I believe it’d better be the man.

A cheating girlfriend has no business getting married. What she needs to do is to register her escort business so guys know what they are getting into when they go on dates with her.

What’s your problem?

Why are you complaining that the men decided to walk away instead of remaining in the relationship and cheating on you?

If you’re having second thoughts then decide if you will act on it. There is nothing wrong with a guy ditching you cos you won’t allow sex in the relationship. I think the guy is doing you a favour by not wasting your time or deceiving you.

Move on. Your spec will show up.

chozzy:
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It's the Buhari/APC govt.
Ganduje will not remove such a powerful Emir without conferring with president

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He is just a monarch with no constitutional power. Plus the state is the monarch’s employer. A governor does not need the approval of the president to remove a monarch in his state.

Ganduje’s power play is disgusting and childish, by the way.

See there are two ways to answer such a forward leech.

1. Ignore her request and move on.

2. Tell her no and move on.

One thing is imperative: you must leave such girls alone and move on.

Why?

Cos they have demoted you to maga status and I tell you, the affection or respect you’d get after is only as good (as prompt or as frequent) as your last payment.

They have no shame. So you too should have no shame to tell them a clear no. No matter how small the amount is, tell her no.

RisenPhoenix:
Before I got married, I would sometimes take girls out to meals or drinks (alone, at a place of my choosing and at reasonable expense) as a reward for sex AFTER the deed. I considered it a mutually fair exchange.

But when any of them asked me directly for money, I would pointedly ask her what her usual charges for 'short time' and 'all night' are. Normally at this point, she would just go dead silent and you can see the anger seething wildly underneath the wig/weave on/Brazilian hair. Of those who later decided to stay, complete the meal and go back for dessert at my place, not one ever asked for money a second time.

I have pointed out to many of my female acquaintances that there is a well-known word for women who ask for money in exchange for sex.

A king!

I for say make you organise hot babe for am among your friends, but you can’t trust babes these days. She can wreck him emotionally.

But women have told us to save our sermons when they go half nak.ed. They call it art. They call it being a strong woman who is comfortable in her own skin. They call it beauty.

When we admire it, they call us perverts.

Married men know that if they mistakenly propose to their side chicks, they’d get an instant yes. Why? Money.

They owe her an apology

Se ko si?

goodnewscliff:
big Yansh kee u there

My brother it is not easy

Wow. You’re such a violent human being.

You should get a grip before you kill someone.

Put “Late” the caption.

Some people came with ready made curses for you just because of the caption.

The ball is in the woman’s court. Respect her “No” and step aside.

My brother, I understand.

Honestly it’s not easy. I try to look elsewhere but something keeps turning my head.

Only God can save me from big yansh

So many entitled people here. It’s so disgusting. Who do you think you are to expect gifts? One got 50k gift for his wedding and he’s still saying God is the true giver. Were you expecting 2 million naira as a gift? Are you not ashamed of yourself for being so entitled?

Go and hustle. This thread is disgusting.

The tightest, most professional live band I know.

Gosh this is sad.

May God comfort her family.