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ThreeGEEKS:
Round tummy? So what, she even likes it when I rub the tummy.

Thank you my brother. You know as e dey go jare.

I dey even tease them with the belly sef.

joelenesleek:
Baby when are we getting married?

next week dear.

desire222:
My knight with golden sword. More likes to ur comment

wow! thank you

MzOnajin1:
I do not v a big tummy but i love ur comment

Thanks.

Checked your profile pic... Wish I could click "like" more than once. You almost stole me away.

Big tummy no mean anything. I want her like that. As long as she doesn't give me stress. Such ladies have healthy appetites. I can spoil her with food.

We would even joke about the tummy. I sure won't force her to lose it.

Wow, so many shallow girls on this thread. Well, young men, there you have it.

Moral of this: Spend your money on yourself. Everything guys do for their babes in school is a potential waste. You could have spent the money and resources on yourself or your business. As for sex, we all know the pleasure goes both ways so she's not doing you any favour.

Let them go and meet their sugar daddies in peace.

Qualer:
it was the 'quick quickie' that got him in the situation to start with!

that is true o.

I think he should have been a little more sensitive. You don't go to a place of mourning to show off. Show some propriety at least.

Merlissa:
Well... I did.. Naija babes like to form too much

Please send me your mailing address. I need to send you a mighty gift for saying this.

Merlissa:
Where are the ladies

Misspicy ooo

Lol. You don't know your fellow ladies? I'd be very surprised and suspicious if a Naija babe dropped her whatsapp number here.

All these fake stories. This girl just wants guys to go to her profile to check out her boobs. Ladies. Smh.

If you are this young, I wonder how old your married friend is. This story is fiction.

Bro, it's too late to avoid heartbreak. You have already cracked her heart. Better to shatter it now than later, when she go nakèd herself swear for you.

Tick tock says the clock,
What you have to do, DO QUICK!

Sorry.

Some guys cannot stomach lies. It unravels everything before their eyes. They'd no longer believe anything you say or have said. I don't blame such guys.

Sorry again. Please move on.

PushPlay:
Then he should leave her..
I guess you skipped the part where i said he should move on if things don't work out.
That's the purpose of dating. You practice those things you spoke about.
It's very simple.

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I really wouldn't want to bring people's personal experience into this but i've seen someone who lost his job and he never took a dime from his wife until he got another one.
Dude should not and i repeat..NEVER rely on his wife as a source of finance.

This concerns the scenario you narrated.

It would be very inconsiderate of the wife if she didn't offer to help the man. What then is her business in his life? Just to take, take, take and never give? My brother, that is not a family.

When the chips are down, who should be his first source of assistance? His parents or siblings? Or the woman who swore to love him for better for worse?

My brother, may we marry good wives that will be there for us no matter what. Wives that won't let the storms of life expose our nakèdness.

deyemia:
Some part of me still can't believe she seriously meant that. If everyone on NL knows its a dangerous mindset then she should also know it's a terrible ideology.

But then, this is marriage where one cant afford to make a mistake.

I will try a bit of patience and dialogue and I hope my instincts dont betray me..

Thanks bro

Bro, does she buy you gifts? Birthday, Christmas, Valentine or random gifts? If no, please don't even expect a change. Don't disappoint yourself.

She wants to be a wife but why is she planning to carry on with the reasoning of a single lady? A marriage is the most fundamental form of Partnership.

She must be willing to "cover the nakèdness" of her husband just like he covers her. If she has money and her husband is broke, outsiders must not even smell the situation. Tell her this.

If she still insists on withholding financial assistance from her husband, well, many other ladies out there are supportive. If you still want to marry her, you already know what to expect.

Just realize that for the next 60 or so years you must always have an infallible finance and never over-extend yourself cos she won't lend a helping hand.

Besides, those saying she would change should consider this. It is "sweeter" for her to withhold her support. This means more money for her to spend on her whims.

We are human beings. Once someone is determined to enjoy herself like that, you really cannot expect that person to make a u-turn and deny herself just to be a noble wife.

She won't change because she is already looking forward to enjoying her money by herself and even demanding from her husband. This one too will be a mother one day. Perhaps she will wait until her husband brings money before buying pants and sanitary pads for her daughters. What a woman.

Bro, if you know that she is very serious about what she said, I'd advice you to look for a replacement.

This is a very bad mindset. At some point you will take on expensive projects that will make you spend less on the home front. This disposition of hers means you can not count on her assistance at this time. If you need to pay for quality aluminium roofing for your building project, and you have just enough fund for that, you would have to settle for less quality slates because you know there is no backup from your wife. How far can such a husband go?

How can a husband progress when he cannot afford to invest heavily in the future just because his wife wouldn't support him? It is a hindrance.

If you still want her, please settle it in your mind that you are on your own, financially. However, this is not how a family should be.

Lo . It appears a female passenger delayed you guys today.

That's Rivers for you. Very violent politics.

Their governor has immunity but they don't. Someone must answer for the electoral crimes committed.

Funny, that politicians would be "at work" quite late. We all know it was not official business. Let them go and explain their nefarious activities.

pesinfada:
is did not dsame guy DAT was given #500000........I don't tink he has to turn himself to a beggar because of 5.0 CGP

Did he come out to beg? No. Freeze did what he did because short sighted Nigerians prefer to celebrate beauty as an achievement instead of academic prowess. He addressed the lopsided and myopic value system which people like you uphold.

If it makes you happy, please continue seeking to play down his achievement. If 5.0 is easy, why couldn't you get it? What is your excuse?


This guy deserves all the help he can get in his time of need because he is an asset and any company would be glad to have such a focused young man as a staff.

Continue beefing. Jealousy never helped anyone.

Look at them hating on the brilliant dude. Lol. Fact remains that he has achieved something you could not because he gave his all to it. This is an amazing story of focus and hard work. He is in his trying times now, but that won't last.

The rewards of his tenacity and brilliance will pay off in no time.

Haters, go and achieve something meaningful with your lives. No amount of bile can stop this young man.

Nice development.

What these students don't know is that their Professor is boosting their morale. Other departments (who looked down on you) will begin to admire you guys. Even you would be proud to be a part of that department. Especially those of you who didn't originally apply to study Physical Ed.

Just look at the sheer number of haters on the first page saying his was reading without thinking of rent. It is obvious you guys are dull academically and in every meaningful sphere except at insults.

By reason of his achievement, he has met influential Nigerians who can connect him to great opportunities. This guy can never struggle for jobs like you dull ones.

Wherever he applies for postgraduate studies abroad, those Universities will be more than willing to offer him admission and scholarship opportunities, while you lot will pay heavy fees or be rejected outrightly. Jealousy has blinded you people to the blessing of a 1st class result. It is a foundation he'd enjoy for the rest of his life.

What you guys don't know is your CGPA is a reflection of your work ethic.

Sempumping:
Marriage isn't an achievement. ..so far we are happy with our status,we can be single as long as we want ....

The Op is hurt. ..


HUSBAND dey everywhere

I believe marriage is sweet when you find someone who values you. Many men and women have been blessed or unfortunate because of their wrong choices in spouses.

I'm still searching for that lady though. And when I find her I'd be the happiest man alive. My sister, is that not an achievement?

These people. I just knew t had to be one of them. They just love things like this.

No wonder they refused to vote for the late Dora at the senatorial polls. They hated her cos she spoiled business for them.

Now I think these people should stop the mudslinging. The stories no longer add up. First she didn't want to leave Yellow cos she was hypnotized now this?

Educated people should know by now that emotions have taken. The truth is lost.

Vig86:
You ask for proof in form of video, link or PICTURE. I should be the one asking you if you are all there.

Lol. You obviously don't know Femi Kuti that's why you could make your earlier statement. It's like saying Wole Soyinka campaigned for APC or Buhari.

It is false. Standing against Jonathan is not the same as standing for Buhari.

[quote author=Vig86 post=43480996][/quote]Lol. Is that your proof? You're joking right?

Vig86:
Femi campaigned for buhari(APC). Why is he telling the guy to seek those he voted for?

Lol. Femi Kuti campaigned for who? Buhari?

Kindly provide a link to a video, picture or interview to back up your statement.

You must be a follower of the ineffectual buffoon that's why you reason like this.