₦airaland Forum

It's more than enough, marriage starts after wedding. Do not let anyone pressure you into spending unnecessary money just to show off for one day to people that will mock and laugh at you when issues start to come up in your marriage. Normally na people suppose do for you for your wedding, because they are coming to witness and celebrate your union. It is instead a Friday and Saturday event where people go to show off at the expense of the groom's pocket. Do according to your power. The remaining money put it in savings for your unborn children. Plan with your future wife to be.

delzbaba:
That's a baseless rumour that can't hold water, how can you melt polythene into oil? waste of government funds.

WT pyrolysis is the process in which the rubber polymers that make up WTs are decomposed into gas, oil and carbon black at the right temperature in the absence of oxygen or presence of inert gas.

Thought they said going half naked and having sex was a sign of female empowerment? What do you expect when their idols on TV promote sex and drugs and parents have no time to even attend to them either due to over working to feed the family or poor parenting skill. Sex education is something that should not be frowned upon by the parent and school counsellors.

Cause most religions were designed to control and subject the masses, not help them. Mainstream religions are just cash cows. You even see corruption in the place of worship. And the members will blindly defend whatever the minister says.

Reject on social media, then gladly collect in reality.

The current one is already paying for the stupid democracy that was forced on us. All this politicians are just experts at blame games. He was the foundation of bad government and corruption. The blueprint he created is the major reason for this madness. Up to 95% of Nigeria leaders throughout the years are people that should have never saw public office in any capacity.

To understand japa syndrome, you have to look deep. No matter how much you tell Nigerians, they will prefer abroad over Nigeria. When a Nigerian is born, society sings to him/her that Nigeria is hell, it's a zoo, it's punishment, it's a backwards country. That usa/uk is heaven on earth, the promise land, the place for everyone to live. The average Nigerian is programmed to hate Nigeria from birth. They go into survival mode until they can make plans to move. It's opposite over there, they teach their kids that their country is the best. Their kids grow up with the mentality that they are better and will do anything to make sure they look better than others. That's why a millionaire here can sell all his properties here and move there and be just your average citizen and doesn't mind it. Mentally, he has always seen there as his end destination. Whatever hardship he sees there, he doesn't mind. Ask the average Nigerians, you would see some don't mind sleeping on the road of usa, as long as they can say I'm in usa. If you like, give them an essay on how bad usa or uk is, they will still prefer it. Even our leaders do not see the Nigeria as good. Hence, they send their children there to learn. They go there for treatments.

SoNature:
How hilarious!

Truth indeed!

People who don't leave their brown roof enclave come online to spill trash about things they have never tried before and call it truth.

See how ignorance is a bad thing. I am not even yoruba or stay in the west. Funny thing is that brown roof region is where you golden roof people flock in drones, enter night bus to go seek a better life. The yorubas have their flaws, but as bad as you guys berate them online, their land is always where successful ibos end up in. Why is that?

SoNature:
Stop writing NONSENSE here...

Truth is a bitter pill too hard for you to swallow

afadi2410:
You have never been to the east and you say to get land in the east for outsider is not easy?

Who gave you that notion or is it just a propaganda you people are spreading?

Only part of Nigeria I haven't been to is the deep north.

The path the current ibo generation are charting will only lead to alienation. Illegal structures are over Nigeria. The buyers know very well it is illegal but believe they can bribe their way through it. Then when a new government comes in and do not care about bribing you say tribal hate. Getting a land in the east the legal way isn't even easy as an outsider, why do you then say it is okay to get land the illegal way in another man's land? All this unnecessary tribal hate has to stop. So the law shouldn't apply to ibos? The other tribes that are involved, why are we not hearing them singing tribal hate?

True, currently experiencing it with some of my friends, the drug abuse is too high coupled with depression.

Kafirbigot:
Shut up...

I am from Akwa Ibom...and i am a BIAFRAN and lover of IGBO.

Get Out from hia...spits

Mental illness has already rotted the core of your brain. No hope for you in this life or the next one.

Why are the ibos so desperate to include south south in everything about them. Stick to your region like others are sticking to theirs. It is always what another region is doing that is your worry. The disrespect you receive is born out of the disrespect you give to others. You don't see others are equal but inferior to you. You want to be the centre of attention in another man's land. The benefits you get from others, you never return in back. Then, when they get fed up with you, you scream tribalism. Mind your business and leave us to handle our issues. You haven't found any solution to any of your problems, but want to force your way as a solution to others.

Peter Obi was just a push by the ibos to have their tribesman in power. They know he was a failure as a governor. Not until we drop religious and tribal bigotry, will we move in this country. I do not like Tinubu, but he is the president, the right thing to do is to band as a nation and figure out a way forward.

igwebuike01:
Which other tribes Mr man? The fake tribes you oil thieves created. Same tribes speaking igbo and practicing Igbo culture

We are not oil thieves, we don't speak ibo or have anything to do with you. Language and history isn't even similar. Only oil thieves and land grabbers are your people. Can't make a home of their houses, so you run to other people's home to claim relevancy.

The downside of the internet is that stupid people like this now have a platform to express their foolish, and locate other foolish like-minded individuals and cause confusion.

annford:
God bless you for this piece.

You are highly welcome.

No such a thing as homophobic. No one is afraid of a homosexual. Homosexuality is a mental disorder, and we just want them to seek help. If they don't want help, then isolate yourself. Do not disturb a mentally stable individual because you need self validation in your life. If homosexuality is a normal thing, put two gay man on an island, come back in 50 years and see if the population on that island has increased. Homosexual families are the most dysfunctional, have the highest rate of domestic abuse, substance abuse. Contribute the less to a developing society, do nothing for the workforce of a nation. Homosexuals if you look deep into their past suffered from one type of sexual and mental abuse when little.

Experiencing same, but on my end it shows no data but it works. Bought 10gb of data that doesn't show but counts in the background.

Shutting down a service that isn't stable nationwide, some communities have gone 3 years no power. Funny thing is federal government settle them, the common labourer will see nothing. Your union leader will send his children abroad and tell you to keep yours at home all in the name of strike.

Modern women will always seek to find issues where there are none.

Judolisco:
See no Nigerian politician is a saint... Especially if you've govern a state before in Nigeria...

Nothing wey u wan tell me, every one of the Don carry money before directly or indirectly...

many of them don't send their kids to government owned schs and they don't use government owned hospital, and to even make matters worst they go abroad for even toothache

D only place that's good for them is d government house....

So wether na obi, tinubu or Atiku... They're all brothers

Tribalism and religious bigotry will never allow the masses to see this is all a game. Dog cannot eat dog.

yarimo:
It has been long obi you made the world to see you and anyone from Anambra state as fraudster

Because of Peter Obi, the whole world thinks Nigerians are desperate deluded tribal bigots.

PaulNwosu:
Dubem,
Tinubu appointed Ben Akabueze as a Commissioner in Lagos when he was Governor.

Tell us a single Yoruba man appointed by Peter Obi when he was Governor.

Tell me what Peter Obi has ever done for non ibos in his 8 years as a governor. They can never answer.

southsouthking:
Deltans oya over to you.
Help us confirm if this is true.

No true. Bad roads everywhere, poor light, stealing very high. His hometown is just going backwards. Mounted army checkpoints close to his house and that's all.

donjazzet:
I hope nigerians are aware that many of the pro-tinubu accounts here are paid agents and not casual users like you and I?

These people are a coordinated propaganda group paid to try and shape and manipulate public opinions.
Look at the "likes" on their posts, you see how it majorly corresponds with the likes on the "pro obi" posts. If on any topic, a pro obi commenter makes a post and it gets 20 likes, you see that the pro-apc posts will get that very same range. 15-25 likes.
Please more people should speak up about this seeing as Seun is not tackling this adequately.

Don't let yourself be manipulated

Seek help before it's too late

seunny4lif:
Some of you reason from your anus, one said it’s was Putin’s fault, sha na Putin destroyed Libya, that allowed over 3B worth of weapons to flow down to Western Africa countries, that fell in the hand of Terrorists.

Abi it’s was Putin’s fault, that BH became to powerful.
Abi it was Russia military that have been training Niger Rep, Nigeria, Chad and Benin Rep how to fight against terrorists yet BH are still strong in Western Africa countries.Is that a news? Like we Nigerians don’t have that kind of news everyday here.
We have massive Terrorists problem in Nigeria, so let’s face our own first.
How many people are being kidnapped everyday on our major roads?
Our train service can’t even function properly due to attack by terrorists everyday within Nigeria oooh.

You have to understand a lot of them are mental slaves to whatever the mass media sells them. If you have a constructive discussion with them, they don't even know what's going on. That's why the default approach they take is to Japa, instead of fixing their home.

Reading a lot of the comments here shows our people are completely clueless and bitter hearted. The same things they will praise other countries for doing, they will bash Nigeria for doing. You want Abuja to be as beautiful and neat as others, but you will insult any attempt to make it that way, cause the person leading that movement isn't part of the team of the person you voted for.

Nigerians will still flock there in masses.

Alaigbopress:
When the Democratic Government punishes the people who elected them by looting the common wealth of the people US, ECOWAS, UK, EU will look other way but the moment military takes ove to sanitize the system the UK, EU and US will start roaring. Even TINUBU that committed a democratic Coup is also roaring while sitting on someone's mandate.

Peter Obi lost woefully and will forever be remembered as that.