₦airaland Forum

norahvivi: i will like to go straight to the point cause i need your advice right now more than ever.

I have this man that has been helping me out financially and he has been begging me to have a child for him that he will send me to any country to have my child.

Although he has children with his wife but he said he want more children which the wife refused to give him. I have been insisting we use protection, but he always insist on skin to skin.

Recently i noticed that i missed my period, so when i told him he gave me money for the test and said if it is positive i should DECIDE WHAT TO DO AND LET HIM KNOW. On my own side i don't really want to commit any sin by abortion cause my only brother who is married for the past 10yrs is childless and I'm thinking if i can have this child for my brother/family.

Secondly my fiancee who is a pastor, wants us to get married before the end of the year.

Please what should i do should?

Do I explain things to him or just do things my way i.e relocating to somewhere else to have this child including abandoning my education and work?

please i need your advice.

please advice and not insult.

achi4u: Why praising this man as if his spending his personal money?

Beside what special about this pictures

PapaBrowne: Hehe.

Eko Ile is the new secretary of the PDP Governors Forum.

I'm suddenly wondering whether it is Iya Tinubu that was paying your dues before and since her demise you've opted to switch parties. I hope your new paymasters are paying well.

Brimmie: Eko-Ile is doing exactly what a Real Progressive should do, not being one-sided!!

God Bless U Bro!!

Eko Atlantic: That should be directed to the minister of finance who has been dishing out lies to innocent Nigerians on the state of the economy.
Who else is rooting for nigeria's fall other than the fG who keeps telling massive lies about everything?

Checkout the lies
https://www.nairaland.com/1322771/many-lies-goodluck-ebele-jonathan

Shying away from the truth to protect the incompetent nature of the president.

Chimerase: ABATI 4 : 0 LIE ACN.. Dts de latest nw

mbhs139: You guys are getting the message wrong! This is not about the PDP or opposition as far as I know. It is about the institution of the presidency, it is about the image of the country, it is about the image of the office of the presidet.

Aren't you the same persons complaining that the president has received so much bashing, and who bring this bashing if not the likes of Abati and Okupe.

chidindufrank: Attacker got attacked, attacker begs for soft landing. House owner don catch thief, thief come dey beg for mercy dey ask house owner why he go buy AK47 when him wey be thief dey come with ordinary pistol

Omen100: what are you saying my guy? don't you know the importance of "GARRI" again? the man needs to hang or shut in his head for abusing the consumption of "GARRI"

ziccoit: Yes wife is not cheap at all. Do you ever think of how painful is it to set go your beloved daughter to a total stranger after being her keeper right from her birth? In fact, 1m is even too cheap to compensate for the "severance of the parental bond and love". Ladies, stop selling yourselves cheap. You are not cheap at all.

martyns303: If I read the statement correctly it says "off the coast of Nigeria" and if that means what am thinking, then technically it didn't happen in Nigerian territory. And am sure u can't operate a rescue mission without the aid of the local authority.

brainzdh: There was this robbery, the robber shouted to everyone: "All don't move, money belongs to the state, life belongs to you".

Everyone in the bank laid down quietly.

This is called "Mind Changing Concept --> Changing the conventional way of thinking".
--------------- --------------- ----------
One lady lay on the table provocatively, the robber shouted at her "Please be civilised! This is a robbery and not a rape!"

This is called "Being Professional --> Focus only on what you are trained to do!"
--------------- --------------- ----------
When the robbers got back, the younger robber (MBA trained) told the older robber (who is only primary school educated), "Big bro, let's count how much we got", the older robber rebutted and said, "You very stupid, so much money, how to count, tonight TV will tell us how much we robbed from the bank!"

This is called "Experience --> nowadays experience is more important than paper qualifications! "
--------------- --------------- -----------
After the robbers left, the bank manager told the bank supervisor to call the police quickly. The supervisor says "Wait, wait, wait, let's put the 5 million naira we embezzled into the amount the robbers robbed".

This is called "Swim with the tide --> converting an unfavorable situation to your advantage!"
--------------- --------------- -----------
The supervisor says "It will be good if there is a robbery every month".

This is called "Killing Boredom --> Happiness is most important."
--------------- --------------- -----------
The next day, TV news reported that 200 million naira was taken from the bank. The robbers counted and counted and counted, but they could only count 20 million naira. The robbers were very angry and complained "We risked our lives and only took 20 million naira, the bank manager took 180 million naira with a snap of his fingers. It looks like it is better to be educated than to be a thief.

dorthmaen: Tks @ Yinka.I'v done all that Though I'm not so familiar with the installation but at least I know all cables are well fixed.

confusion247: Hypocrisy is the answer. west is better but people from there are so scared to stand on their own. If a northerner commits crime, people from south west will keep quite, but if it was done by someone from south east or south south, they will start to make unnecessary noise.

mekaboy: Hypocrites that say they want one Nigeria.you can't have one nigeria based on lies. You can't claim to fight for Nigerian unity when your taking sides.

I am not supporting asaris statement, I am saying if asari should be arrested every other person who has made such threats should be arrested too.

I am happy that asari is making such daring statements, to open the eyes of Nigerians to see the hypocrisy of the North and SW.

If jonathan goes ahead to arrest asari, then he is pleasing the north and SW. If he goes ahead to arrest buhari, atiku, bakare etc. Then he will be pleasing the other parts of Nigeria.

So if he ignored threats from the north, he shld as well ignore threats from SS.

It is clear the type of president APC want to produce. A one sided president who will arrest anyone that threatens Nigeria from any other part of Nigeria except the north.

This events have opened the eyes of Nigerians. When the say the SW pple are slaves to the north, its not just to make them feel bad but its the truth.

The former GOV of anambra state stood in the middle not taking sides. Said they should arrest both asari and those that made previous threats. That is the one nigeria spirit.

The same buhari that said the dog and baboon will be soaked in blood. Tinubu did not see it as a threat and call buhari to other.

APC under buhari and tinubu does not have a one nigeria agenda, and will produce a one sided president.

Nigerians can see clearly through this asari incident what APC is all about. And they have started failing already.

You can't ask Nigerians to unite with you to fight PDP when you take stands with the north. You want pple from every part of Nigeria to come under your umbrella, yet u come out openly to take sides with the north.

It won't work. Like okupe said, they have committed political suicide.

Gbawe: Meanwhile Tinubu is one of the few prominent politicians doing the right thing by his region and Nigeria to promote peace and order. Why should he then not comment when he sees others openly or tacitly endorsing the criminalisation of the Country? Has he not earned the right with his real actions, even some hate him, to comment?

omo9ja1: I think Asiwaju said it all, people can not just come out and say anything they must have some backing from oga at the top

ilugunboy: Seriously saying you aren't making any iota of sense is absolutely an understatement...where are you fellas from for goodness sake?

ilugunboy: The problem with people like you is that you don't mind dying and taking down others along with you. You are worse than the known terrorists because you are of the closet type.

ilugunboy: Why is it that the majority of the people encouraging this divisive and potential inflammable talk coming from the likes of Asari are from a particular ethnic group? Even temperate people from NL are careful in their utterances.

Apparently these people believe more in their utopian and dream country of the risen sun than the progress of Nigeria as a country....and anything that will bring this country crashing down will by default find favour with them.

Keep beating and encouraging the drum of war......he whose head the coconut is broken never partake in its eating....when it eventually happens none of you beating the drum will partake in the spoils.

mekaboy: Tinubu has taken sides with the north. The rest of Nigeria should leave this APC to the SW and NOrth. When the issue of arresting asari came up in the assembly, the former governor of anambra state ezeife, said that the arrest should start with all those who made previous statements. Which is the right thing to do.

In last election it was written that pastor tunde bakari said there will be wild wild north if buhari looses.

Atiku made his own statement, nobody asked for his arrest.

So it is now clear how things will go down in 2015.

North+SW and SS+SE+MB.

ochukoccna: Like Gbawe said,is it that Nigeria now lacks men of vision and ideas that the likes of Dokubo will be saying such imbecilic utterances
While many are pointing the finger to the north and laying the blame on them,it points to a failure of the intelligence agencies
Why were Atiku and Ciroma not invited for a chat then?
How come it is a militant gunrunner who is speaking on behalf of Jonathan and the Ijaws?
Is this not a pointer to the class of people in that part of the nation
I've always stressed and repeat,THE SOONER WE CONVOKE AN SNG to deal with our ethnic faultlines,the better
For those e-fools beating the drums of war,Rwanda and Yugoslavia will be at best wars fought with toys compared to what will befall 9ja

noblezone: Gradually, they are declaring their stands!

When the North was threatening, Tinubu was wining and dining with the tyrannical traitor called Buhari!
He had wine in his mouth, so he could not utter a word!

Now his mouth is empty, he can speak!

Shame on Nigeria. Nigeria must split!

Gbawe: Tinubu is entirely correct. It is especially important for men of ideas and intelligent social observers from the ND to take GEJ to task severely and robustly for the sake of the future of the region because they, for many decades, will bear the brunt of GEJ's current agenda involving the empowerment and elevation of militants, oil bunkerers, scammers and criminals everywhere. This is why the likes of Asasri-Dokubo are now emboldened to insult the sensitivity of Nigerians.

In serious nations, the criminals, violent thugs and war mongers remain underground or have their head beat down when they raise it above the parapet of decency. It is another sign of failed nationhood that any common criminal can come out to openly threaten ordered society and the interest of the majority. It is in Somalia and Afghanistan you will see warlords, war-mongers and violent men lording it over what should be ordered society driven by minds with ideas.

Nigeria, under GEJ, is becoming like those nations with how men like Shekau (Boko Haram leader) and the likes of Asari-Dokubo are allowed to thrive and disturb the nation with their violent minds and divisive/incendiary thoughts. It is a direct measure of GEJ's Presidency that we are going through a 'criminalisation era' whereby those who are deviant, aberrant and a threat to what is best for society happen to be the ones now being empowered by commission or omission. It is the story of Somalia et al and all sensible Nigerians will do well to condemn this mad and ugly trend.

solomon111: This is standard practice all over the world.
An animal responsible for the death of a human being should be confiscated.
I wonder what is funny or bizarre about this.