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He's your cousin, no wonder. I am very sure you can treat your own child that way even if he had commited the same offence.
Some children can very naughty, but no matter the boy's crime, the punishment is just too harsh and cruel.
I'm very sure the person that made the video will have noticed the maltreatment for long before making it public to save the poor boy
That's one the issues with letting your children stay with other people, some of them get maltreated.

Judas the second
They have turned church into business.

Life is full of ups and downs
Please get yourself together for the sake of your baby and your family. Because if you fall sick or die, he will still go about sleeping around, making your child motherless and throwing your parents and loved ones into mourning. Don't let your parents investment into your life come to a waste because of a man.
You can force a guy to be loyal or faithful to you, you can only try your best to be a good wife.
Please leave the marriage, if you can no longer endure it or it is affecting you psychologically.
Your child deserve the best of you.
Don't stay alone, you will just get depressed. Surround yourself with people you can trust and can make you laugh
Please focus on your goals and how to make your life and that of child better
I know it's not going to be easy, but I pray God strengthens you, and you will look back and smile at the end

Why are all these women embarrassing us na, making it look like most ladies are unfaithful and gold diggers.
Dear guy, there are still good and faithful ladies out there, though they might few.That's why you need to look beyond shape and color when choosing to avoid these kind of stories

He's your cousin, no wonder. I am very sure you can treat your own child that way even if he had commited the same offence.
Some children can very naughty, but no matter the boy's crime, the punishment is just too harsh.
I'm very sure the person that made the video will have noticed the maltreatment for long before making it public to save the poor boy
That's one the issues with letting your children stay with other people, some of them get maltreated.
It is a pity the boy is an orphan

While I'm still recovering from Joshua Harris heartbreak yet another one happens.

All these longterm relationship sef.
A guy or lady will just waste your time, emotions and money for six years without showing any commiment or interest in marry you.
Maybe the guy isn't ready for marriage yet or interested in marrying her.
But if she or he has a toxic behavior let her go as soon as you discover she's not willing to change or you are no longer interested instead wasting his or time for years or giving them false hope, because it's not always fair on the other person.

Yes na, but life will be much difficult you especially business transactions.
Our forefather survived and did business without the existence of banks
It's like choosing to walk a long distance when you can drive a car or any other means and arrive at your destination faster

oghenerobo91:
Sorry to tell u that some of us don't handle rejection well. I think I was rejected twice and stopped trying

Eh yah, that doesn't mean you stop trying though

Yes I agree, but calling or using the name Jesus has been working for me, I don't know for other people ooo.

boiz2men:
Which translates directly to "having no emotions"

Cos that was insensitive to guys who have faced terrible rejections from your gender.

You spoke for your gender cos a good percentage of your gender share a similar thought..

that's where you are wrong and I said you don't know me.
I understand what it means to be rejected in fact I feel for a lot of guys here on nairaland when I read their stories.
Sometimes I wonder how they keep failing for evil and wicked ladies hence painting all of us to be totally evil and unfaithful. It pains me that some ladies are gold diggers and b*tches.
Cos more than 50% of the ladies I know and have in my life are good and very faithful.
Unfortunately a lot of these good ladies end up with bad guy and viceversa

boiz2men:
Eh ya..

You think I insulted you. Please highlight the insult cos I don't remember doing so.

If you feel insulted, it probably your conscience pricking you and reminding you of the hypocrisy.

Did you say aggression?


I have always maintained that any one, or job or company who says NO to me is at a loss... For me, love is a choice. So if you say no, I just find and make another choice..

I had to respond to you cos there was hypocrisy and double standard in your earlier submission and I wanted to make it glaring for you to see.

OK I understand you better now, but you said I was emotionally void

[quote author=MJBOLT post=81213716][/quote]come na, I dey my house

boiz2men:
Really?

What a revelation!!!

This just shows you are emotionally void. Its OK to reject but you can't take your own medicine....


Do you know what happens in a guys when a babe rejects him?

Most times, it isn't the rejection that hurts him but the manner it happened.

Guess what, you lot have zero emotions whilst at it. Esp those teenagers and early twenties...

you don't have to insult me, cos you don't know me, like I said I was only joking. I know what it means for a lady to reject a guy cos I have guy friends and I know how rejection tears them apart. Please you can transfer your aggression elsewhere

boiz2men:
What happens when you reject a guy?

Handling rejection are part of the things that makes you real man, it toughens you up and you build emotional stamina
Abeg nobody should quote me unnecessarily oo, I am only joking.

The lady deserves some accolades. I salute her courage and boldness
As a fellow lady, I can never ever try this.
What happen if guy rejects me or isn't interested
I will literally die of embarrassment

Haba, op, your tittle is misleading na

This is the second suicide news today
This is disheartening
Once you are depressed and having suicidal thoughts please seek help and talk to others about it.
Whatever it is you are going through "suicide isn't the solution". You will only cause sorrow for your loved ones
No matter how grievous you offence is talking about it to the right set of people will relieve you. If you are too ashamed to tell the people around you or you can't trust them with your information. Then look for someone else that can be trusted. We have religious leaders, professional psychologist or counsellors or you can choose to talk to an anonymous person online.
Don't die in silence, hence adding sorrow upon sorrow.
Let us watch out for people around us as well especially introverts. They wouldn't tell you their problems except you ask or they can trust you with such information.

imitateMe:
I'm depressed. I need good sex, can you give it to me?

My brother you really need Jesus, not sex

Suicide on the news everyday
This is disheartening
Imagine him asking them not cry but pray for him. Will their prayers wake him from the dead
Will his apologies undo what has be done.
He has deliberately made his wife a widow and his daughter fatherless.
Once you are depressed and having suicidal thoughts please seek help and talk to others about it.
No matter how grievous you offence is talking about it to the right set of people will relieve you. If you are too ashamed to tell the people around you or you can't trust them with your information. Then look for someone else that can be trusted. We have religious leaders, professional psychologist or counsellors or you can choose to talk to an anonymous person online.
Don't die in silence, hence adding sorrow upon sorrow.
Let us watch out for people around us as well especially introverts. They wouldn't tell you their problems except you ask or they can trust you with such information.

Hallelujah, glory to God
Reminds of paul in the bible
There is joy in heaven over a single sinner that comes
The host of heaven are rejoicing

thesicilian:
Why is there so much talk of divorce nowadays?

People rush into marriage without enough preparation
Some people enter into marriage on the basis of emotional feeling or falling in love and when the feelings disappear they also pack out
Some people marry because of material things such as money and beauty, once it's gone they also quit
Youths nowadays are longer willing to endure in their marriage or tolerate their partners. Any little issue they quit
Adultery is now a norm

cenaman:
No lady that doesn't cheat maybe if u leave her now the next one will be worst. tell her to cut off communication with her ex. calls and social media (that is if you have her in mine to marry) if possible change her phone number.

Not all ladies cheat

Shinapraise:
stop this bullshit the lady in question is not matured enough I suggest u talk to her and let her see reasons for her action and also let her see the consequence if she did not let go and focus on you and the future I believe she will have a change of heart it is not everything you have to fight for sometimes we ought to let sleeping dog lie .

You quoted the wrong person

Since you are hurt and wish to quit the relationship, be a man and break up with her, except you are ready to subject yourself to a lifetime of unhappiness. Such a marriage willbe miserable for the two of you. Don't let her manipulate you with virginity.
Or maybe you are not telling the whole story and you are looking for a flimsy excuse to end the relationship and still satisfy your conscience.

Help us tell them oo

Suicide again!
Suicide is a permenant solution to a temporal problem
suicide is on the increase in the country, God help us all.

She was obviously defining the relationship na. She just considers him to be only a "friend". The girl has no interest whatsoever in pursuing a romantic relationship with him.
The guy should just "borrow himself brain" and find his squareroot. Some guys don't just understand traffic light in pursing relationship. If you give them "red" or green light, they will still not understand. Until you say "No". Some will still be pursuing you after saying no sef thinking you are forming

My dear, forget about this guy o and move on with your life, he's obviously a player.
rejoice and be happy, because you are seeing this now and not when you are married to him with children because it would have been more complicated.
Some breakups are just blessings in disguise.
I pray for strength for you to get over this whole situation, a good guy comes your way soonest

HitSong:
Psychologist my ass
Talk? Just a waste of money...
Moreover, people can only feel such pain if their pussies were deceitfully devoured. That's why it's good to wait until after marriage.

It's not about sex, once you have emotional feelings for anybody, you get hurt when they leave. We just different ways of processing emotional pains

Relationships are for mature minds oo, because the pain of an heartbreak is usually very bad.
I remember my first heartbreak, I was just walking around the campus aimlessly with my hair unkept, I didn't even notice I was putting on bathroom slippers. Mind you I was in my mid twenties
Another friend of mine barbed her hair after her first heartbreak.
Someone said that the part of brain that processes physical pains also processes emotional pains. For physical pains, other people can see it, hence they can comfort you, treat it and help in the healing process but emotional pains nobody can see it, you are the only person that knows where it hurts hence healing is much more difficult except you get professional help from a psychologist . unfortunately a lot people have little informations about these things