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Manu

I understand the situation totally. Our enemies of progress are not far fetched, they are those whom we think we know or very close to.

However, if you want to go abroad and you have funds as you claimed.
I have a little information that can help you navigate your way. Strictly as a student not for relocation purpose. Meanwhile, you can do it later.

I'm not an immigration agent. Just trying to add value.

What you're saying is not different from what. Rosaline5000 said earlier. She killed everything with absolute intelligence.

So.........

gloriana:
that's not true. I met a guy I really liked too a few years ago. He's an elect elect graduate but currently a secondary school teacher. I work too and was willing to settle down with him but he was not ready to commit to the relationship, more like he wasn't ready to settle down yet and I don't have all d time to wait till he is ready cos that might be long time, so I had to move.

I'm beginning liking this girl already
Wooooooow! Is all I can say for now

Rosaline5000:
Nobody left me because I was fat lol, i am building myself, I only used me as an example to say what men want, when I was fat, I was body shamed by men (not that I dated them) but in my place of work when the slim girls want something it's easier for them.

Men are move by physical attributes and do you think Men will want to get to know a fat lady long enough to know her amazing character, it's only family friends that have been with you or neighbours.
Nobody you just meet will take their time to get to you know when you are not their spec.
Most guys when they meet a lady for the first time, all they ask is your pics, do you think the conversation will go anywhere if the lady is ugly, absolutely NO

Look at Kelly baddie and how she blew because she was pretty, do men care to know whether she is rude or have a nasty character NO, all they know is she is pretty and they all fell for it.

Men rather takes risks with pretty ladies with bad characters hoping to change them then Ugly women with good character because at the end of the day Men are move with sights.

So you can be angry but it's the world we live in, men want pretty things so let's women want money.
Life isn't fair

As if two months is enough to build a new house. Mtcheeew
Useless people

As much as I'm not a fan of odumeje, this was too harsh ..how can you give just two months notice to relocate a church? That's not fair at all.[/quote]

Just tell her that you're out of town.
Period

Well done comrade.
However, you should've charged him for this wonderful piece of advice. I hope he makes judicial use of it.

I won't mince words as i'll tell u what you need to know

Yes, your woman is an hookup girl, olosho, pr*stit*te, just pick whichever that suits you, so u know, she has someone bankrolling her currently more than you do. It's a big red flag if she wouldn't respect your decision and it clearly means she doesn't love or no longer in love with you. Now I'll tell you this for free. A woman fears and respects the man they truly love, as she wouldn't want to loose u. You don't force it as it comes naturally.

Now I'll leave you with this question to go and pounder on...

Can you go ahead with a woman that wouldn't take your words or rather respect you as man?

I believe you've gotten the answer. Now be a man and be logical. *drops_mic [/quote]

DryMouth:
No love anywhere...
I jst left a 3month relationship this morning.

We were supposed to go out yesterday, my car wasn't available due to some mechanical and maintenance issues so i took it to a repair shop. I told her to come to my house so that we can use public transport to our destination. The motherfucker opened her mouth to tell me she can't enter public transport, so she cancelled our plan. This is an idiot who dnt have/cant even afford to buy ordinary okada. Funny enough i met her in a BRT bus sef.

I jst called her this morning and informed her that I'm no longer interested in the relationship. I can't ignore this kind of redflag the idiot exhibited. She'll definitely leave me for another man if things aren't going well for me financially even if we have married.

I dnt ignore redflags during courtships

Comrade, you're a real niggarr!
Two bottles for you...... But I would have loved to complete it Three bottles and this is why;

You don't need to inform her that the relationship is over. You should have just left her in the relationship.

OG gat no response........









Because it's actually OVER!!!

Villa real makes it 2.0
We're Spanish

anochuko01:
The thing is that it makes people lose focus.
The energy, time and resources people should spend to do productive things is spent trying to chase, convince and satisfy these cravings.

I carton of odogwu for you

Premiumwriter:
I can go to prison if you threaten to harm me bro.

Whether it's because I won a trophy and you threaten me over it or because a woman chose to be with me.

Once you threatened me, I'm not backing down. It doesn't matter what is involved.

Some of you don't know the difference between been a simp and when people treat you like a door mat they can walk over.

Op I'm sure you've received different types of advice here. But the truth is that you should [b][/b] fight!!!....... For your life

Am I how many years older than you?

That's the correct English

No words for now, if you can connect with me.
Contact me via email or indicate by quoting me. Then, we'll take it from there

However, be ready to turn a new leaf if not don't bother me

Goal Liverpool equalizes

saphiere:
Men and rape..
I weep for this evil gender.

I've. Noticed something fishy on your comments. You always sound very bitter. You've never made a good comment here even on a good news thread.

From what I observed so far, you only follow rape news as if you're the victim of all the rape happening in Nigeria. You might have been raped for sure but there are many others who has gone through the same horrible experience even multiple times. After all, they were able to get a good life and moved on. Why can't you opt for the same.

Your dreams of setting up a foundation against rape and rapist is a nice one, I must commend you. However, the way you are clamoring how you going to do this or do that bla bl BLA BLA .... Or even take a life if you have to, is not worth it at all.


Moreover, many people have been on this mission or are still on the mission. But the reality is, rape is still going to happen because our society has rotten beyond redemption.
So why not take it easy on yourself.

Protect yourself and the people around you by creating awarenesses. Let them know that rape is not going to stop. And teach them how to protect themselves from being raped. You've been through it, you now know better.



But don't forget, your brothers, nephews, cousins and some of your relatives are potential rapists.

Thank you

Ololanla:
He acted on impulse. [b][/b]most women are not worth fighting for.

Exactly!
Imagine the holosho coming out to say that she does not support Smith's action

princefrank76:
in that context, a man has an edge over a woman. The day a woman start paying a man's bride price she'll will have every right to practice her polyandria. U can't stay under my roof and practice such. Na ya papa house u go stay practice that one.

Comrade be calming down na

I once had the same experience. On getting there, I was told that there's nothing like interview in that location. I was very surprised because I was sent there by the person that linked to the job.


So I had to call the person and he told me to tip those security guards there.
When I gave them the money, I was shocked to see the same people who told me that there's no interview are the ones directing me to the actual floor which the interview is been held.

Haaaaaa! I can't even explain what I felt

tensazangetsu20:
I am a programmer it won't take me 2 years to find another job, maximum of 6 months and if things are so bad a year. It doesn't take anyone two years to find a job in tech. If it was oil and gas or banking ehen you can say 5 to 10 years to see another job and even if it does I was a mechanic on 25k salary before being a programmer so I know poverty and suffering and it doesn't faze me.

Can I be your mentee in programming
I am a novice, don't know nothing but would love to

No matter how toxic you are as a Boss, when you meet me your toxicity will disappear.

Reasons
1. I can work with the devil, Judas and Jesus at once without issues.

2. I don't give a fxck about you. Just deliver my job and get out.

However, there's was this woman( my supervisor) I worked with. Her toxicity is out of this world. Upon all my scope on her, she still wanted to treat me like others. Though she succeeded at some point then I had to bring out the other side of me she never knew.

To cut it short, I was removed from her department but we still work in the same block.

She decided to make friends with me. But as real niggarr, I Don't give a fxck about her. Sometimes when she greats me, I would ignore her.

Meanwhile, Any time I decide to great her she seems very happy and would want to initiate a conversation. Then I would discharge her with scope.

Aside no 2, I don't think any other thing can hurt my feelings.

Don't give a fxck

Something must kill a man

On the journey to make ends meet, unfortunately turned out to a journey of no return.

Comradewhy:
Call the number, arrange with some group of policemen,tell him to meet you at a particular place.
After that once he's there,they would finish up the job.

Thanks comrade

Good morning great people of this land
I need an advice on what to do about this issue. There's this very close friend of mine 'a lady' not my girlfriend. I have known her right from the time when I was in Ekiti. She's a Yoruba girl while I'm ibo.

Presently in Lagos, I met her again. Friends as usual, our relationship continued. As time goes by, I discovered that she's a street, so I decided to storm her base. She was surprised to see me. She took me in, during a chat with her she told me what actually made her venture into the business. So I sympathize with her and life goes on.

Onto the real matter now, one of her clients stole her phone (including my small phone that I left in her place) after doing business with her. I questioned her about the whole thing and she explained to me. She later told that the thief is still using her number but only at night. One day I decided to try the number at night and I got it, hung up the call and saved the number again because I had earlier deleted it. I went straight to my WhatsApp and discovered that the profile picture has been changed to something else ( a product's picture) on it. So I called the number again and told him that a friend of mine introduced me to his product that I would like to buy from him. After much discussion he sent me another number with which I will use to call him whenever I need the product.

Now my question is this?

1. Intend to arrange area gees so that they will beat 10years out of his life span. Though, am afraid they might kill him.

2. Hire a solder to do the job

3. Lastly, get him arrested by the police.

More ideas and tips will be appreciated. Please do well to correct or pardon my grammatical errors. Thanks

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Sir, you're yet to be matured for a relationship. If these little issues can get you confused, who knows what would happen if the real troubles come. However, if you don't know what to do then allow do what she wants to do with you, by the time she's done with you maybe just maybe you might have learnt the lessons. Thank you

Exactly the point
Business as usual

Your friend is real nigarrr
No advice needed
He's done it already[color=#000099][/color]

slawormiir Damnnn niggar
Isoright

Coming from someone whose wings gonna be clipped before 2023


Only if you knew what he's talking about

A travelling lifeless thing