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FamilyRe: My Wife Constantly Denies Me Sex by alizma: 10:52pm On Oct 24, 2023
Marynwachukwu21:
That means you fit cheat on your wife🙄
Is it not cheating for a woman to denied her husband her body after she swore right on the alter, before the entire congregation that her body will be for the man till death? Do you people even understand what is cheating?
You don't rightly acuse a hungry man who steal what is enough to fill his tommy of stealing but you can accuse him of stealing if he takes something he already has at home and there is no evidence that he is hungry.
FamilyRe: My Wife Constantly Denies Me Sex by alizma: 10:43pm On Oct 24, 2023
Ogalanyaidi:
I have been married for a little under 2 years. During out courtship, my wife and I were very intimate. Later on, she became pregnant and we welcomed a child but since then, our sex live has never recovered till date. My wife is currently pregnant but the denial didn't start today.

She does everything possible to prevent us from having sex, from laying our child on our bed instead of the court to cleaning or watching movies in the lounge room whenever I am in the room, she will then reenter the bedroom when i am asleep. The last time, she said that I don't do enough to get her arose and that if I want sex I have to earn it. She suggested that I have to start in the morning by being nice to her so when it's night, I would have been able to get her arose.

I work an average of two shifts everyday, and sleep at home maybe 3 nights a week so I can pay our mortgage and other bills as she barely works due to having to look after our child.
Too much novel and movies dey worry her, I once find myself in that shit. Get yourself engaged in something that make you happy, set aside one whole month or two, within this period, don't ask her for sex, don't deny her the basic things but don't give her much cash to the point she has extra, e get why..
PropertiesRe: How Much Electricity Does Water Pumping Machine Use In a Month? by alizma: 9:35pm On Oct 24, 2023
NotoriousBiggyS:
I stays in an apartment that has five 5flat , each flat occupied with 5 different tenants including myself. Before we uses direct electricity which we collectively pays monthly but recently got change to prepaid meter. With each fat with it own prepaid meter. The landlord refuse to bring another prepaid separately for the compound water Pumping Machine.
However the tenants come to dialogue and agreed to tap electricity from my own prepaid meter to the pumping machine in agreement that each tenant will be paying me 1000naira monthly. So I want to know if 5k can be enough to run pumping machine for a month?
That should be enough for the month but if you are not ok with it, let every tenant get a sucket each at a particular spot, such that will not be too expensive for them to link to there metre, with this, the pumping machine will be plugged to one tenant's sucket per week, this goes round till it returned to the first person.
With the abov, there will be no quarrel, fight etc
FoodRe: What Do You Call This Food In Your Dialect by alizma: 9:24pm On Oct 24, 2023
meum:
Anem.

I love them very soft with palm oil, salt & pepper. Pepper soup too dey make sense but not a fan
You are hereby conferred an honorary title as a fan of Esuru, this title is conferred on you on behalf of Esuru fans world wide. Congratulations
PoliticsRe: Nne, 7 Days Non Stop Electricity. Nwanne, Emilokan Is Working by alizma: 3:42pm On Oct 24, 2023
Shikini:
Water level at our hydro dams is high. It's usual at this time of the year since GEJ's tenure.

What has Thiefņubu done exactly to improve power? Obviously, nothing yet.
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It has not been like this. Say the truth, it won't take away your dinner.
Foreign AffairsRe: Before And After Videos Of Hamas Supporters In Gaza by alizma: 3:36pm On Oct 24, 2023
Lol
CrimeRe: Femi Olaleye Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Defiling Wife's Niece by alizma: 1:23pm On Oct 24, 2023
Hmmm 15yrs girl and they are sending him to life improvement? That is not humanly fare.
Anyway he called for it, men should stop this things, approach matured ladies, is better your wife gets to know and it's ironed out either by going separate ways than facing this jail term.
PoliticsRe: HAUSA & MIDDLE BELT ARE RISING! THEY WANT FREEDOM FROM FULANI DOMINATION. by alizma: 1:17pm On Oct 24, 2023
mbaise1000:
Impossible, think again, how can a block swallow the sand and cement from which I was molded? Can a person born by a man born back his father? He can born other people but he cannot born back his father, his father is forever older than him, still if by any chance, the tree is swallowed (because I am among those who believe that impossible is nothing) you tell it that it just swollowed the tree from which it's carved, and then let it know that, if that Tree is swallowed, then the product of that tree is less than the tree itself. And will be easier to be swallowed.
capici?
Lol, you said an oracle, an oracle is not to be seen in the way you talk of sand and block. It is not called an oracle for nothing.
PoliticsRe: HAUSA & MIDDLE BELT ARE RISING! THEY WANT FREEDOM FROM FULANI DOMINATION. by alizma: 12:37pm On Oct 24, 2023
mbaise1000:
In our place, it's said that, if a diety or an oracle overshows, it will be shown and told the tree from which it's carved
What if the oracle swallowed the tree what are you going to show?
PoliticsRe: HAUSA & MIDDLE BELT ARE RISING! THEY WANT FREEDOM FROM FULANI DOMINATION. by alizma: 12:34pm On Oct 24, 2023
Wike will enjoy 8 good years as FCT Minister. From next month, we want to start seeing the roads, flyovers, buildings etc. Mr project should do it again.
Foreign AffairsRe: Hamas Frees Two Israeli Women From Gaza by alizma: 8:41am On Oct 24, 2023
Hamas is obviously regretting the invasion.
FoodRe: Nagiko Threatened To Kidnap & Kill Me Over Erisco Tomato Review - Chioma Egodi by alizma: 4:55pm On Oct 23, 2023
SoNature:
It's beginning to look like this lady just loves to chase clout.
Chase which clout if she is out to chase clout, then let the company send out online questionnaires and let's see what the users of that product have to say
Christianity EtcRe: My Pastor Rejected Anniversary Money Because It's Too Small by alizma: 8:53am On Oct 23, 2023
The pastor don go borrow money somewhere in expectations that he will be receiving at least 250k from the youths.
PoliticsRe: Saraki Meets Akpabio & Gbajabiamila 2 Weeks After Visiting Wike's Abuja Kitchen by alizma: 9:14am On Oct 22, 2023
Ahmed0336:
That photo was taken in uyo where Nigeria senate is having a retreat. Former NA leaders were invited as resource persons.
Make Una dey fear God abegggg
The same way they were invited to Wike's kitchen
PoliticsRe: LP Lawmakers Shun Abure, Set To Collect Suvs by alizma: 8:27pm On Oct 20, 2023
Unie30:
What makes you think that everyone is looking for a price? Kindly leave Obi out of this and focus on the shege that has come upon you because of the drug lord you voted for.
I am not the one dragging Obi but the guy is. He just said that LP lawmakers have all been compromised and these are the people with whom Obi was expected to run the affairs of this country, this are people that carry Obi's identity and ideology, if they cam be compromised it also means that by extension, Obi has a price tag. It will be the highest level of stupidity for anyone to think that an individual's integrity is enough to run a country.
PoliticsRe: LP Lawmakers Shun Abure, Set To Collect Suvs by alizma: 2:36pm On Oct 20, 2023
Urheadmaster:
cheesy

Labour Party lawmakers are already induced by Bola Ahmed Tinubu the cocaine sniffing vagabond tongue
Are you saying they are not as upright as you made us to believe? Probably their master, Obi is also dragging baba because baba hasn't tell him to name his price too
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Do Recruiters Reject A Candidate Because Of Location? by alizma: 2:08pm On Oct 20, 2023
YES, Workforce did it to me in Enugu, I passed their interview, first and second stage but on getting to the documentation stage, the guy realized I used my permanent location address and he carelessly told me he won't take my documents.
It was like my village people followed me that day.
The guys that handled the first stage had to tell me to wait till the whole thing was over so I could talk to him, I waited till it was around 8:30, begged this guy but he refused, I ended up sleeping on a table till the following day.
I pray I see the guy someday so I can show him that God still exist and he alone has the final say about me.
PhonesRe: Multi-Links: Did You Make Calls With This Phone? (SEE PHOTO) by alizma: 1:51pm On Oct 20, 2023
DyingFetus:
That one's for indomie generation


I use this in my teenage years and it was much comfy
I did, nitel office Owerri
PoliticsRe: Why Must Rufai Oseni Always Argue With Every Guest On Arise TV? by alizma: 1:13pm On Oct 20, 2023
SoNature:
That's because he's not a pushover. Dude is very knowledgeable. Rufai does what BBC's Stephen Sackur does on Hard Talk.

If you want a TV station that will hailing you for every nonsense you spill, go to NTA or TVC
He is neither a judge or a law maker, the issue of pushover doesn't come in at all, he is just a quack present who can only excel in a country like Nigeria.
You are to anchor a program and you ended up taking side and your guest always regretting coming and you said that is because he is not a pushover.
FoodRe: Can You Buy This Food For #2,200 by alizma: 8:16pm On Oct 19, 2023
Westchester:
I went to this local restaurant to eat and was told this food costs a whopping sum of two thousand, two hundred naira shocked
Do you think it’s worth it huh
Ask for the breakdown of the total sum
TravelRe: Abuja To Owerri December Price (picture) by alizma: 3:04pm On Oct 19, 2023
Ok
FamilyRe: I'm Addicted To Prostitutes Please Help by alizma:
The guy is trying to get more hookup girls. You don't need to put what you can offer for sex on the write up and the entrance of that 30k and the attached picture of your bagain is evidence of your true intention which is to get more ignorant girls to yourself, kudos
FamilyRe: Recurring Dreams About My Wife Wanting To Kill Me by alizma: 2:51pm On Oct 19, 2023
Handsomejok:
I have been a victim of fake proohet which has destroyed my home in the past.

My wife and I were separated before and we have reconciled although our marriage is not the best but we are managing staying together for the sake of our children.

I have a problem bothering me that I keep dreaming about her wanting to kill me this dream is coming more often and I strongly believed she has no intention to harm me but I remember once when we were arguing I asked her why she has decided to come back to me if she doesn't want to do any effort to amend our marriage.

She said she cane back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children. When I think about what she said and also the way she treat me like her enemy I am scared and I started to think of what if she came with a plan to harm me to revenge back all the suffering I have put her through. I am confuse and I don't know what to do right now please advice me?
One mistake a man can make that could lead to his immediate destruction is to ever assumed that a woman said what she said by mistake, in anger or it wasn't intended. Having said that, it will interest you to know that it is dangerous to remain under the same roof with a woman who you once have feelings for you but currently have no feelings for you. Women will gladly destroyed what they have before but currently do not want it or cannot keep it for themselves than to let another woman have it.
A word is enough for the wise.
SportsRe: Benzema Support For Palestine Sparks Uproar In France by alizma: 9:06am On Oct 19, 2023
Revolution2022:
Before IDF invaded Hamas den,the terrorists group have been firing misiles into Isreal but they were intercepted and destroyed by Isreal defence system.That one didn't do Hamas,they now infiltrated Isreal border,captured and killed civilians.All these Muslims that are standing behind Hamas never said anything then until Isreal started retaliating.
Even as we speak now, they are still firing missiles at Israel and without Israeli defense system, by now the entire Israel would have been flattened, unfortunately people are not looking at that angle, they want to see the country in pieces before they understand what is actually happening. As far as this war is, sympathizing with Palestine is just like sympathy for a murderer who had stabbed another twice, and while attempting to stab him by the throat, the man successfully seized the knife and killed the murderer
BusinessRe: Ebonyi State International Market On Fire (Picture) by alizma: 5:38pm On Oct 18, 2023
See Ebonyi o, nice market with concrete floor
PoliticsRe: PH Refinery: Community Disputes, Spare Parts Mismatch Threaten Dec Target by alizma: 2:16pm On Oct 18, 2023
They have started again
PoliticsRe: Governor Nwifuru Empowers 500 Ebonyians With ₦‎2 Million Each (Photos) by alizma: 2:14pm On Oct 18, 2023
This is commendable palliative
FamilyRe: My Wife Calls Her Family For Everything by alizma: 1:54pm On Oct 18, 2023
marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?
A woman is helping you and you are complaining? Oga, the 3k is small , it shows you really don't have much but I wonder how you take use 75k buy watch for her when you can't drop 10k for cooking.
However, It's obvious that is her life style, she doesn't want to suffer and the brothers are willing to help, just act like you are not seeing them
FamilyRe: Between Owning A Car Or House Which Would You Advise Someone In His 20's? by alizma: 1:47pm On Oct 18, 2023
Easyincome24:
It's good one plans his/her life early enough to avoid story that touches.

Some of our parents never believed that the country will become what it is today.

My father told me how cheap lands were in the country when he was in his 20's. He regretted not investing enough due to shouldering many responsibilities especially bringing his siblings and extended families to the city. He nurtured them till they became of age. When he realized what's up, time has exceeded him as we the children have needs too.

Now, I'm asking the following question: between owning a car or house, which would you advice someone in his 20's to acquire first?

Both can yield returns as long as they can be used in the proper way for investment.

Can we have more people comment on this to help many who are still in their 20's and able to fund any of the assets?

Note: Some young folks are doing legit work earning in $$$. I have some techy guys in their 20's as software developers, Blockchain DAOs, Freelancers, Content creators, YouTube influencers, Social Media Marketers, 3D animators, AI engineer, Bitcoin minning. They evolve around tech working remotely. So, not all of these guys in their 20's are yahoo yahoo, at least these ones I can guarantee.

We engaged in a discussion where they raised the above question about which is best between owning a car or house at their ages.
House
Science/TechnologyRe: Nigerian Man Finds An Owl In His Home (Pix, Video) by alizma: 12:12pm On Oct 18, 2023
Why is he acting like he doesn't know his village people? Lol
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Launches Conditional Cash Transfer For 15 Million Households by alizma: 2:30pm On Oct 17, 2023
We are not getting anywhere, it will all be swallowed in the north. Take a closer look at the names on the cheque
PoliticsRe: Umahi: Ogun Cleared To Fix, Toll Abeokuta-Ota Highway by alizma: 10:44am On Oct 17, 2023
Ozommadu:
Look at the fuul above celebrating "TO" statement from ebola government, chai


Brainless agbado everywhere
Are you in Ogun state, if the people that are using the road are ok with it, what's your own business?

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