₦airaland Forum

ftmom:
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Take your pick - poverty, societal pressures/stigma, selfishness, etc etc

You have to love and respect yourself first

jaydude:
Foolish man! Divorce your wife and go and marry your mother now,rubbish! Its d stupidity of some men that makes mother in laws have d right to treat wives like slaves! Nonsense!

Relax101:
For those Igbo people who say Igbo dont crown women as EZEs(King), I hope you all will read Nwando Achebe's research of a Woman who was king in Igboland during the colonial era.

LagosShia:
i am at war with the devil and his falsehood called christianity.you can do whatever you please.i will return fire for fire.you will only do yourself good and save yourself from humiliation of fighting truth.

LagosShia:
in northern ireland,catholics and protestants have killed themselves for years.right?

maclatunji:
Those of you against the act should tell us if a husband will have to divorce his wife if she donates blood to him afterall they now share the same blood. The wisdom behind preventing a pair who have been suckled from the same bosom from childhood is that the two share the woman's antibodies and other formative elements crucial to an infant's development.  Tell me what genetic details a grown man will get from his wife. It will be digested and not form part of his genome.  It is about both deriving pleasure from each other.  Don't take things beyond their proper scope.

deols:
the link u provided gave d two sides of the argument and then wrote a conclusion which is wat i posted above. Why would a man want a fill from his wife's bosom milk. If it happens accidentally? fine. But it should not become his source of milk. .yoghurt is everywhere for God's sake.

I read a sahih hadith from Bukhari in the book of Nikkah. . I wld av gone for it But for time. In it, one of the wives of the prophet, I think Zainab had a boy living with her. he was attaining puberty and she told the prophet he was starting to look at her in a way. .He asked her to feed him from her bosom milk and that just normalised him. .ds boy wasnt an infant.

Well, am not a scholar. May God forgive me for any mistake I might av made. The best thing is to always leave what we doubt and go for what we are in-doubt of. WaAllahu a'lam.

uplawal:
I dnt think is alrite cos the husband is not her son,hence,he will become non-marriageable to her o,Allahu Alam.

vedaxcool:
^^^^

Can you tender any evidence that Christians in the North of NIgeria pay Jizya? As you have completely altered the meaning of Jizya. Ekiti, Kwara, Benue, Kogi, etc.were never  christian and when did this invasion occur? Is your hatred for Islam pushing into delusions?

vedaxcool:
Jizya  is a per capita tax levied on a section of an Islamic state's non-Muslim citizens, who meet certain criteria. The tax is/was to be levied on able bodied adult males of military age and affording power,but with specific exemptions, From the point of view of the Muslim rulers, jizya was a material proof of the non-Muslims' acceptance of subjection to the state and its laws, "just as for the inhabitants it was a concrete continuation of the taxes paid to earlier regimes."[5] In return, non-Muslim citizens were permitted to practice their faith, to enjoy a measure of communal autonomy, to be entitled to Muslim state's protection from outside aggression, to be exempted from military service and the zakat taxes obligatory upon Muslim citizens.