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obiorathesubtle:
20 cartons of soap..dem no dy baff before?

lol

godfrey01:
You nailed it.. I am still single and searching... You are right in all your points...
But if you agree that man is the head, then the woman should answer to him whatever he says...

the word "HEAD" is pregnant... you can either be a HEAD or FIGURE HEAD! There is no in between! Only a figure head will ask for his fiancée account balance...
Choose whichever one you wanna be

godfrey01:
Remember the bible says women be submisive to your husband and your husband will be submisive to you... Remember he is the one that made the first move to ask you about the balance.. And once you show him your own he can then show you his own... Submisiveness.....

husbands love your wife, and wife be submissive to your husband that's what my bible tells me, and the same bible said, a man that cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel (I'm sure you will not see that part)well, I don't have a problem if he choose to be an infidel. I wonder what brought about submission here, but since you now want to use the bible to justify your 'point' oya let's talk bible.
The bible said the man is the HEAD of the home.. now one of the duties of the head is what? I'll leave that for you to answer.
Women should be a help mates to the head (husband ) now the duty of an help mate is what? To help the head when he is stuck (and not just financially )
What the husband shoild do is ask his mate for assistance not ask for her account balance like it's his right! And in yur own case, you are not even married amd you are already asking for your fiancée act balance how does that even sound to you
And when you want to get married, your wife-to-be, parents of both side amd yourself contribute to the success of the marriage financially!
Iv not even seen where a groom to be is the sole financial contributor towards his wedding. Sometimes I just wonder if some NLders are from a different planet
And at the bold part, I don't care about his account balance, he should keep it to himself.

godfrey01:
Marriage they say is the union between a man and a woman to become husband and wife. It has become a norm that ladies are the one who make all the plans for the marriage while the man do the financial provision.. In chemistry, when two elements wants to bond together, both element donate whatever they have in order to form a strong bond within themselves. So guys before you marry any girl, ask her to show you her bank account balance.. Both most contribute... Or is it wrong to ask a girl you want to marry her bank account balance

you think men are solely responsible for the financial aspect of a wedding ceremony? Nah... The man is involved, the wife is, and both parents also.
And my man can't ask me my account balance, just like that I don't have a business with yours, so he shouldn't have a business with mine

HardMirror:
You ladies are the ones that keep twisting the definition to suit your selfish interest. You think by calling a guy mummy's boy you can make him do what you want and slow down on making his mum a priority. So abeg park well jare. I don't care what you call mummy's boy. Those with sense already understand me

read my modification

Lol, you certainly don't know the meaning of a "Mummy's boy" HardMirror
@ Kalushaiyke you right, I'm wondering where the OP got his own defination from. And why will any girl stop her "bf" from caring for his mum. If you want to know a caring man, find out how he treats and talks to his mum and sisters.

And "Mummy's boys" are guys that depend solely on their mum for everything.
Some of them don't work, infact I have a family friend that is 31 and still collects pocket money from his mummy while his sister that is just 25(the last born) is working and buying stuff for the parents o, the brother is waiting for inheritance. now I personally can never date someone like him.
Mummy's boy depend on their mum for fuel, to buy them cars, to pay their house rents (if atall they are not leaving with her) seek her opinion in everything, some grown men even seek the opinion of thie mum for something as little as what to wear! Please I don't need that kind of person in my life, what happens if mummy dies? What happen if the family business he depends on crumbles? And even if it doesn't , how can someone who doesn't know how to manage his life manage a business??
How will he find his feet when all the money he hoped on disappear??
I can't deal with such "men"

tgmservice:
I went to visit my father in the village. One night I went hunting alone in the bush I was attacked by two lions mehn they eat me to shreds, ripped of one of my legs but I still managed to crawl for survival. Use an artificial leg now that day was a nightmare

sorry. ..

Integrityfarms:
A terrible shot was played by a senior when I was in primary school using Leather size 4 ball! The thing landed on my forehead and I fell backwards and hit my head on the hard ground during a street game. It took some minutes for me to regain consciousness

Lol, I'm so sorry for laughing, but this is really funny!
I can imagine the bold

That was few years back..,
I asked my daddy for money, and he said I should come to the office to get it (ontop how much) So I told him I can't that he should please give me before he goes in the morning, he said "ok iv heard you " (lol, he had his own plans)
So that morning, when I woke up, all relaxed and all, not knowing the day was going to be terrible for me, went to my daddy's room to ask for the money, he said "ill call you when I'm leaving" I gladly said ok..
After about 30mins, I went to the kitchen to drop something o.. I just saw him inside the car alrdy.. really smiling.
I just started shouting while runing down the stairs "daddy daddy this is not fair o it's not fair o, wait wait " I fell down and bruised one of my toe.. and the nail came out
God!!! It was painful! And it didn't come out entirely, a little flesh was holding it, my mummy had to pull it out ah, iv never felt such pain. My daddy ended up not going to work that day sef

Amodsun:
Yeah... Or have you any reasons to say or think otherwise??
BTW ur profile pics is awesome,asin u nailed it.

nah, I don't have any lawyer friend (male) so I wouldn't know....
Thank for the compliment

Abuja is just like kano, only that things are cheaper in kano.
But I don't think to get an apartment or life in general is that difficult. Surprised reading some of the comments...

AfroKnight:
Favoured is the man who wins your heart.

AMEN! Thank you

dayowunmi:
Words of wisdom. I hope women also treat their husbands as Kings. Some women deny their husbands of sex and then later complain that he's looking outside. Some men may be patient with such women some may not just give a damn. Women treat your husbands well if you want to be treated as a queen.

if you treat your woman as a queen she will treat you more than a king that's how it works.
But if you treat her like a queen and she doesn't reciprocate, then she is not a real woman
I like the fact that the OP talked about comparisim. Alot of people go wrong in their relationship because they keep comparing their woman to their friend's woman which is so wrong. Imagine your friend's gf has a very bad attitude that you don't know of because he definitely won't tell you.
because he wants you to believe he is in charge... He yells at her, uses her as a sex slave and you all make fun of it... But he won't come clean as to why he is doing all that to hero.
Now you will want to melt the same treatment on your loving and respectful gf without knowing that, your friend doesn't get the kind of love your gf gives to you.
But some men will blindly compare. "If he can yell at his woman, why can't I yell at mine? " and the trouble starts

Hell no!

alexistaiwo:
don't mind them sis. nice siggy by the way

thank you.

AlienStar:
Trying so hard to locate his wallet: some guys after ordering for food and its to pay, he will hesitate in bringing out his wallet with the hope of hearing "don't worry I take care of that" from the lady, maka gini?

Bargaining the price of food after eating: some guys will bargain the price of what he and the lady just ate like
waiter: Sir the food is #2,000
Stingy guy: #2000? what is it that I ate? assuming i have only #500 what will you do? Chineke!

hahahaahah is someone talking from experience?

Heheheheehe.

Lol, the economy is hard! You won't blame them na...

No. 7 tho, hanhan, free food and free transport again

Amodsun:
I don't concur with you...they are very dateable,they tend to keep convo going effortlessly and kinda make you feel save and secure

Really?

Themandator:
How on earth would students of a private University be termed 'broke'?

hanhan, it's possible na... which student doesn't go broke? At least there are certain periods people go broke in sch both private and public

ayatt:
i admire you sha....you look beautiful walahi

thanks

ayatt:
why people jst dey call eksu na??

what of..
aau
uniosun
buk kano
unijos
nsuk


you go see person dey soak garri by 2am.

this is not usually a sign of being broke. Some people just feel like taking it

My friends and myself are so guilty of this

Purezoe:
My Clipper blade Sharpening machine

this is lovely! I love to read things like this... I'm always drawn to business minded young ladies.
God will bless the work of your hands in Jesus name

From this picture I'm seeing, the room looks too choked sef

wristbangle:
I experienced this situation at ojodu berger, Lagos when a guy approached me with tears, explaining his ordeal that he was attacked by armed robbers on his way coming to lagos that I should help with whatsoever amount I have to transport him back to ilorin.

Out of pity I gave this idiot N500 hoping I have done something nice not knowing he is a scam. Few days later at same spot, Someone approached me with same story and remorseful utterance only for me to discover that it's the same guy.

After narrating his fairytale, I asked him to take me to the garage so that I can pay his transport fare. The next thing he said was that "oga if no get money, abeg waka go".

I got angry and shouted "God go punish you" Thief! Ole!!!. Trust touts around that area na, the guy ran for his dare life and till date I have not set my eyes on him @ Ojodu berger.

lol this must have been really painful...

How did the beggar gain access into a classroom sef.
You should have confronted him, I don't like cheats atall!

Beautiful picture...

I don't know if this was made in Nigeria, but it sure looks like what Nigerians are capable of
Why waste 90-150k when you can ask them to construct one of these types for you

Your mum is the real deal!!

eesquare:
This snake probably killed a rat inside my house and instead of just moving away, it started trying to swallow the rat. My mom saw the struggling snake, quietly went to get kerosene and poured it on the snake which weakened it. The snake tried to escape but she matched on to its head and pressed it very hard, holding it down till we got a machete and cut its head to pieces. Greed kills, evil desire kills too. Thank God for the way it all turned out!

rudebouy:
Bros abeg no vex, can you tell me the name of those sites? I wd like to join a congregation of intellectuals abeg. Or shd I do you a pm ni? So dat we no go spoil seun market?

I'm also interested in the names of such sites

DangotePikin

DangotePikin:
kidnappers alert.

how?