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eeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhh.dey don whip us like akara school children.

eeeeeeeeeeeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhhh.dey don whip us like akara school children.

thanks joshjosh for the youtube link.i've seen it and that pretty much says it all.
@michelin89

yes it may not sem like love,but i know the two people involved are so much in love.my dear,there are hard times in this thing called marriage.it only takes ones maturity to keep it going.this guy is torn b/w his loyalty to his wife and his family.it is not a walk in the park.he was trying to be diplomatic,settle things nicely and still keep his marriage and his family ties;but things went awfully wrong along the line.in the earlier part of the day they got the phone call that began the kwata,i saw them and they were okay.
shapey is on her way back thru france.her hubby is hot on her heels coming 2mrw night.it will all settle.it will be well.

thanks for the invitation,pls send me some money for ticket.i'm waiting.

are ladies allowed to post in the sports section
i love my 9ja o!!anyhow wey im be,i like am.

so 9ja 2 ivorycoast 1 today na today.i'll pick my babies quickly,cook sharp sharp then settle down to watch the cracker.cant wait.

@davidylan

you sure say you strong?
women go through worse things than these.i've seen a case where a man called his family meeting for his wife.his own wife o. shapey own na beans compared to that.

robert55 who are you to judge people in this manner.choose your words carefully.

davidylan,+osisi,et all, tolerance please.we gain nothing by runnig down other people's religion.let's all be cool now okay.

these nairalanders una no go ever fall my hand .did i hear shapey say i'm having a time of my life in my home well i claim it.i had a problem that i felt was bigger than me,i opened up on this same forum cos i'm not one to go to all who knows me about my wahala.
anyway,i am so grateful to my MAKER that my marriage is exemplary.there is no marriage that is perfect.i've been married for almost 5yrs and i know how sweet and bitter it can get.my marriage is an inter-tribal one also.

shapey's hubby is not spineless.i know how he stood and fought to marry her when his people said they'd never see him marry from another tribe. we all went back to nigeria for the wine carrying.his people only came cos they did not want to be disgraced.the guy organised his friends and his uncle and prepared to attend even amidst several threats from his socalled family members.this guy went ahead and damned all consequences.
i told shapey to remember this single episode in their lives and be strong.i know it seems so difficult but it is possible.shapey's hubby loves her so much-i know that much.he will be willing to work things out.i don't believe it's over.you dont just throw all these years away.i spoke to her hubby and the guy is dead inside.he thinks it's all a nightmare.he kept on asking if shapey will come back to him,if she'd ever forgive her, he'll need to work hard on it,but he'll get there.
marriage is not easy especially when the man is from a different tribe-i've tasted a bit of it too.it was a bitter pill to swallow believe me.in my own little way,i'll try to help out.i will.

i knew nairalanders will once again rise to the occassion.shapey is in lagos.after her hubby performed the dust to dust ritual,her parents whisked her off to calabar airport and cut- out.her husband could not get on the flight but has promised to be in lag with the 1st flight out in the morning.shapey is trying to get on BA to britain on monday morning or sunday night if possible.
her mother has warned me not to let shapey's hubby come within 100m radius of her since he cannot protect her.how can i ever achieve thati cannot do it o!!!!!!! my husband has wagged his finger at me,asking me never to get in their way,and me,i intend to obey and comply.i'm all for peace in this matter.
thank you so much everyone.

aisha i agree with you,but what caution is there to exercise.infact caution is not in anyone's vocabs now as things are.shapeys mom is busy shouting and telling everyone who has ears that her daughter is not from the bush and that she bore her in her womb and so will never in her life time see her child being maltreated and stuff like that.there is no need for such things.i dont even see why she should be seperated from her hubby now.emotions have also gone wild if you ask me.

my husband has called some of his people in akwaibom to go and intercede.i do not know how this will work.but one thing i'm sure of is that shapey's husband is being overwhelmed by events.he never knew things will go this awry.

i think shapey's hubby shares the same views as davidylan and richyblack.but the guy is torn between being at peace with his extended family members and keeping his hitherto happy marriage.i know that to shapey's parents and family,the marriage is done and over,but with the husband,he does not think it's over-he loves his wife alot.
it's all the sister's fault.nobody would have known of what transpired in uk(the laughing thing)but for her spilling the beans on shapey.i'm also mad at the hubby for believeing his sister over his wife who he knew for 3yrs before marriage.
in my candid opinion,the marriage could still be saved.shapey's sister i hear has  packed her stuff and she'll be off to the UK by tuesday;and the plan is that she'll be with me.my husband has warned me not to play any obvious role in this,so as not be called in their family meetings or any such thing.i hope for peace to reign.she is going through her worst nightmare right now,and her parents are bent on taking back their child.i dont know how this will solve anything.i dont think people are concentrating on the burial anymore,everyone now knows the family kwata and is getting involved one way or the other.the husband has said he's taking his wife to lagos this night after the burial,but her parents has refused and are bent on taking her away with them.shapey slept in a hotel last night and will be going in the company of her parents and sister to lagos later today.all the prayers i had with her during the little problem here  and before she left did not work out.the worse case senario we envisaged is a childs play compared to the goings on now.

oh davidylan you bet i'll do just that.he is so bent on 'keeping the peace'that he refused to properly call his sister to order.at the end of the day the peace he thought he was keeping has blown up in his face.
i tried to talk things over with them before they left for 9ja,but the sister went out of control.shapey's mom has announced to them that once the body is in the ground she is going with her daughter.and i trust she can do that.i just hope has not been blown out of proportion. i know for sure that things are not too good over there and i'm not happy am not able to make it there.

shapey's hubby is now begging to have his wife back.instead of concentrating on burying his mom,his now thinking of other things.the mom's younger sister-shapey's husband's aunt-came with a cane for shapey.instead of the man to order them out of the place and ask them to leave his wife alone,he was busy calling her to come and greet them i could not believe my ears.greet people who have come to crucify you?
her mother then exploded,asking him if her daughter was a goat or cow to be flogged.she then told them all that if anything happens to her child they'd be sorry.
na im the guy begin beg.abeg my people the tory better for shapey mouth.
it's a sad situation.i have spoken to both parties and shapey's mom has said enough is enough.i was even blamed for letting things degenerate to this level. what on earth would i have done.

nice work siena.

yeah,we are cousins.

we can slove the failure epidemic by, buying generators

no o the man is not yoruba o.he is a calabar man,he is efik from cross river. shapey is going through alot right now.apart from her home wahala which she managed to sort out,the sister in law gathered some of their people and was gisting them how she want s to put fire on their roof by asking her brother to seize her p.port once they get into nigeria so that she will never go back with them to london.today is the wakekeeping but shapey is weeping her eyes out with her mother threatening to take her daughter back with her. she has even cried more that the chief mourner in that burial.her husband is trying to make peace,but it does not seem to be working out.the oldest man in theris family has summoned shapey and her husband is threatening to cut all ties with his pips after the burial.


how did i know, ask me how.

congrats my dear,pls be a good wife.all the best.

pepper spray

@pilgrim1
pls what do you know about the Grail message book.kindly enlighten me.are you one of them?

@pilgrim1

why Grail messengers?do you know anything about them or the book?

@drriolelli

is this an english class my deartake it easy on the poor fellow, okay boy

make una give chance o!!!! olabowale don come again o.

na wa o una nor dey tire

orisirisi owa ni nairaland.pls post this in the dating section of this forum i beg you.

you could just kneel on the road side and beg for alms.i'm sure you will get a few coins.i can see you have nothing to think about.

i dont know about hong kong for honey moon,but there are other nice places that will readily issue a visa.there is SA.there's France too.was there last summer with my family -disney and we had a blast.if you have been refused a uk visa 2ce then my dear it'll be quite tough.i know about 4 people who have been down that road.if you insist on trying(i think you should try though)then pls get married first.funkybaby has offered a good advice.

all the best,and have a blissful marriage.

almondjoy i always find your posts funny.
@topic.it's hard to keep malice with your spouse especially if you are close.i tried it with my husband for 5hrs and i almost died. i had to go and beg even though i was not to blame.
24hrs ke? na die o.i beg who will scrub my back when i'm having my bath i beg i no fit.

ehe i for say!!!! if elosela no talk put for this matter,e no for complete.almondjoy were you dey.i beg show my dear i miss you.
elosela how are you?we are good now right?

be a good girl and take care.

ah ah this elosela!!!!! you no dey tire .okay i agree am still an idiot,but we are both idiots yeah

okay lets's hug,and make up. i like your kind of person sha-never-say-die.now that's a real nigerian there
keep it real.