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Lannister360:
This is what men go through everyday without complaining.

You see how that guy is, this is how 90% of you Nigerian women are, if your neighbor was a man and the leach of a boyfriend is a woman you won't be here on nairaland complaining, you would have called it love.

Just swap their genders and see how useless and how much of a liability you women are to men.

AK481:
The rent is not mmensurate with the cars parked in the compound .

Tennant cannot be paying anything above 500k per year and no car or nice car for the compound.

Red flag

chisomkachy:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02gb6VhC43CB51Vn1sa5GQZdXtMdQS2AKNGVJ4Dgy834NebwF7URZpp6AuJb3aAtATl&id=100044290876307&mibextid=Nif5oz

FlawlessKarl:


Spain is "Africa" very close to Morocco, if that's how you want us to see it.

Mitsurugi:
Shut up!
If you have nothing sensible to say, just shut it. You see people like you, you're the most dangerous. I saw through you a long time ago. If you cannot condemn FFK because he's your man, then be quiet. You don't need to post.

Do check out for freestuffs on common sense and read it

Sirheny007:
An action he'd definitely regret in two days.
I remember when I was so angry at my mum I refused to eat two meals.. After hunger formatted my oblong head, I had to beg her in the middle of the night..

Why waste money?

Gandrova:
You are wrong with this ascertion. I remembered vividly 29 of May 2010, I was called for an interview in Ajaokuta kogi state and I reside in Kaduna. Which I boarded a car to Abuja and to be sincere I had no idea where the company that called me was located. I just knew I will get to my destination with Faith. We got to Lokoja around 10pm because I Left Kaduna late around after 4pm. A good Samaritan engaged me in discussion and I told him about my journey. He said it was late already that I should try and lodge in an hotel. I told him I can't afford any. He gladly took me to his house. Even though, his younger brother had second thoughts but he told him that it is good to be of help to others. I slept and proceeded the following morning. May Almighty God always locate that dude with His favor and mercy always. I will never stop praying for him.

MALIGNANTGuest:
You are not entirely correct.
A Local Food Vendor protected my wife at Waterlines junction in Port Harcourt at night. My wife had to pass the night in their thatch house.
Few years later my wife relocated to the US on permanent basis with high quality visa.
She fixed herself up and we visited Nigeria in 2018. Could you believe she remembered that woman and we flew into Port Harcourt and headed to Waterlines and we were informed she had left that place because she couldn't meet up with the rent. We traced her to OIL MILL with someone offering help.

When we met her, she never recognised her. But my wife did. RIGHT there 80% of her life problems were solved. Kids went back to school, she got a befitting shop filled with goods.
In fact, she became the talk of OIL mill area.

Today, we video chat her like a parent.
Unrestricted access to us.
Be careful in Life!

Bananapill:
I went somewhere in Enugu some years back for a friend's introduction and I tell you, the list he was given wasn't up to this.
I realised marriage list varies from place to place and family to family.

My own Urhobo list was not even up to this. Like I said, it varies from family to family. In fact my father's village gives the govt approved marriage certificate.

SmartMen:
Igbos are not the only tribe in Nigeria. You could have just commented on the list and moved the furk on.

I am an Igbo guy but the problem I usually have with many of you is that YOU ARE SO LIMITED to your environment... TRAVEL THE FURK OUT for heaven's sake. Akwa Ibom list will shock you to your marrows....

What are all these we vs them attitudes every time? I hate it to my stomach. If you have traveled wide enough you would have known there are other cultures with a high list...

If YOU have traveled wide, you would have also known, like it was stated in this thread, all these are negotiable in other places..

Lastly, if you cannot afford stuff, please find the one your power carry and let everyone live in peace.

A female friend told me how her Yoruba ex left her by bringing some useless tribalism into their affair just to end the relationship. The only thing I could deduce is that the guys folks saw her as an Igbo person even when she is an Edo lady.


Go and sleep abeg..

CaveAdullam:
1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

waxxydude:
Looks like a stoopid nollywood scene, where he'll now meet that mumu rich man daughter, that decided to eat in his shop, her guards tries to stop her, but she's a hard nut, she says "i want to know him, there's something really special about him" .

After two scenes, the nigga's started bonking her chronically, then her parents finds out and tries to kill him. He eventually survives and they give their lives to Jesus.

Thunder fire some nollywood film makers.

tegrianonigltd:
Na you suppose dey ashamed for your candidate blabbing times, incoherent moments, lied about student loans, lied about jobs 2015 and 2019. His drug cartel format of ruling Lagos.

Trying to compare to a man

Who have chairman two big banks, I am sure you are using his bank, chairman corporates organizations he co owned including tech companies, build and co ran successful businesses home and abroad. A former chairman of Nigeria stock and exchange comission, as a governor he was in economic council of the country, so many more positions, fellowships, etc, did courses All over Ivy League universities,

You want to compare that to a Mobil accountant and governor

Who became the king of Lagos politics during agberoism, killing the great Funsho Williams?

A core politician to an Administrator,

Una Dey sick, politics of hatred, religion, party don blind Una.

A man who have never collected pension or any gift as an ex governor to one who collected am in millions upon millions, Una Dey mad, really man.

I wonder when people especially youth can sit, research and say we want to change that country like great LATE Lee of Singapore DID to Singapore and other great leaders. Not the one sucking all wealth, putting puppets everywhere to his advantage calling it maker of men.

Bye

Eriokanmi:
Till now, many of them still don't believe there are both Christians and Muslims in Algeria, Morocco and Tunisia yet, they remain ever peaceful. I call them unfortunate Africans cos their character doesn't reflect that of an average African. My friend is from Algeria. He's a Christian. He writes in Arabic and very fluent in Arabic, English and French.

PoliteActivist:
Nigeria is one WEIRD country. Any other country the woman will NOT be allowed to bail him. His case is with the state not the woman. Even if the woman refuses to press charges he'd still be tried and if guilty, go to jail - whether the woman likes it or not!

dontrulee:
For you to type this at 3:44am shows how pained you're.

If you read ubanja's post about how good girls fall for bad boys, you'll understand better.

Every girl has both a good side and a bad side.
This knowledge unfortunately has made me explore the bad sides of most females both physically and online.

Many ladies that appear good are very bad inside, they're just waiting for a bad guy to touch them and make them express themselves.

I know this from experience, many ladies have told me that I am a bad guy but they can't leave me because their boyfriends is very boring and I am very exciting.

After a while, marriage will get boring with time. The bad boys will exploit this if you're not watchful and vigilant especially over your wife.

It's a very crazy cycle and I pray you don't experience it, only few ladies, very few ladies are chaste up to 70%. You see the remaining, they're either just pretending or they don't have the opportunity to express themselves yet!!

Haaaa, my Mom's friend a good and virtuous woman, one who taught many the way of God and married a virgin even almost fell into the trap, from that moment I knew that no one can be 100% tested and trusted.

Many ladies message me about how bad some of their boyfriends treat them and yet they can't still leave them! And the simple reason is because their bad side is resonating with the bad side of the bad guy.

Most ladies just want to catch fun and vibe, they follow their feelings more than their logic.

It's very funny how once, I was chatting with my ex and she was requesting for a breakup or a space and within five minutes, she was requesting I updated my Facebook profile to show that I am in a relationship with her, this was someone requesting for a breakup few minutes ago. To test my theory, I updated my profile to show that I'm in a relationship with her only for her to tell me that she can't confirm the relationship because she's scared and that she didn't want some of her friends to mock her that the relationship wouldn't work bla bla bla. This makes me to understand to an extent that most ladies don't know what they want!

Haaa, ladies don't know what they want most times, as a man, you're the driver! When I was still a top notch bad boy, I can video a very "SU" sister, we will have fellowship or devotion together, study the word of God and even pray together for like two/three hours only for me to turn the conversation sexual and the lady will be moaning for me on phone. Is this not the lady that was fired up praying few moments ago?? I have done this with more than 100 ladies who claim to be sexual Puritans many of them are virgins but with the right tools, any lady can become vulnerable to you! I have done some really crazy things in the past but thank God I am repented now.

Good ladies find it exciting to fix bad guys, it turns them on. Ladies will claim they don't fight over men, they want to be the only one but all ladies I have dated have always asked me, "how are your concubines, my rivals doing"? Some have even confessed to me that I like it as you're baba for the girls, they'll say, I hate a guy that has multiple girlfriends but I like you that have many girls around you! Does that not show that ladies are confused?

Marrying is tough job. Fortunately for me, my parents are very opened, they've passed through many stages in their marriage and it makes me wow at how opened such people are towards each other! Anyone in the house can access their phones at any time, they talk about sex freely and liberally, they'll tell you the right path and still tell you that you can choose the wrong path but can you bear the consequences? They're marriage counsellors and they paint and give scenarios of marriage situations they face everytime. They're open about their strength and weaknesses. They make marriage so sweet and interesting!

The solution for you Op is to be a bad boy to your wife! Women love to hear bad things especially if it's coming from a man they Love.

I hope this my long write up helps someone. Thank you.

Nigeriafirstlad:
That split second when your mind tells u to say and acknowledge the truth but because of stomach infrastructure u can't just let it out in full.

Poverty is a bastard

doggedfighter:
Many of those claiming Lagos are even from other Yoruba states.

A lady that fixes nail here always claims' I am a Lagosian' even when she's from Kwara.


And their only claim to Lagos is speaking Yoruba.

Core Lagosians rarely make this noise.

Nobody made it by sleeping in Lagos . Hardwork was put in and it paid off.

Lagos didn't just put money in people's pocket were it to be so. Those motor park touts would have been billionaires.


Cut people some slacks !

Freethinker87:
See as dem dey hide Tinubu like contraband.

Vote Wisely!

CheapHomes1:
When last was Tinubu an auditor? Did he not spend any money he made as an auditor?

What were the early investment in stock that gave Tinubu his present wealth?

CheapHomes1:
The pic you put is that of Oriental hotel. Where did Tinubu get money to build such a massive hotel?

Where did Tinubu get money to set up the other companies on your list?

How much shares does Tinubu have in oando and intels and what is the worth of the shares? Where did he get money to acquire those shares?

Am glad for once a Tinubu supporter is acknowledging that Tinubu owns alpha beta. For alpha beta, what do they do? When did Tinubu set up alpha beta?

wunmi590:


C. Ronaldo moved coke away their sales declined for like a week.

He called out Manchester united board and coaching teams and the club is up for sale...

Abeg who be that babalawo wey do the juju for this man?

Franzinni:
How do you explain the straight line of blood drops which one drop is bigger than a mosquito?

The guy u quoted is a fake atheist, real and genuine atheist no dey too counter everybody claims cos they also believe that everyone's opinion and experiences matters, it's only the foolish ones even if you show them an evidence of ur experience dem go still dey drag am,talk say na lie

Nigerian atheists were founded by buhari as hunger is making most people not to use their brains and reason well again, they feel that if they're hungry and the God most people believe in can't provide them with food then why should they keep on believing in him or anything else

They're just broke, frustrated, lost and hungry people

foleskay:
Don't mind those ignorant fools. Forming strong head on nairaland whereas most of them are cowards and will get jittery when confronts with real life challenges.
Even the whites believe in occults that's why they produce horror movies,but some ignorant mofos here would always play down any spirititual situation. Capping foolish civilized mentality.

ibechris:
Minority indeed.

Keep the lies coming.

Have u ever travelled? Have u visited alaba International in Lagos,computer Village,idumota,idioro market,cele market and many other markets such as oshodi all in Lagos?

Come to Abuja,u will see igbo men and women in charge of all the timber markets in Abuja,building material market in Deidei,gudu,F01 another market such as Zuba spare parts market,Apo.

If u visit all these market around Nigeria,u will know how huge the igbo population is in Nigeria.

Kano and Kaduna is another one.

Kogi state is another area.

After Awusa people in this country,the igbos shouldn't be toiled with just that we are not politically serious.

The day our people would take politics serious,u guys will see that igbos can't be written off.

franchasng:
But when we tell you Tinubu Urchins that Igbos make up second majority of voters in Southwest after Yorubas, you ignorant, hatefilled selfish people will say na lie that Igbos are small, but now that it has come to poverty statistics, una don shift mouth, now 10million Igbos have relocated to Southwest but the same 10million Igbos dont exist during voting in Southwest.


After Hausa, Igbos are the second most populated tribe in Nigeria if you carry out a honest and unbiased census in Nigeria because in every Geopolitical zone in Nigeria, Igbos are the second or 3rd largest tribe after the indigenous tribe.


Una madness will finally be cured one day sha

HEBEI:
Don't be deceived. There is poverty everywhere in Nigeria today.

South easterners are hungry just like the northerners are. South westerners and South southerners are not left out.

Here in the south east, there is poverty in the midst of plentifulness. People are suffering and need help.

The only difference is that the easterners don't wait for the government to feed them. They hustle their way out of poverty.

pinkPUSSY:
People that have ruled Nigeria for over Donkey years are the poorest...

It's a pity!!





Who's this one again and what's he saying ?

Always twisting and switching narrative to suit his jargons...
Political and tribal banters aside, I am very sure that there are so many Igbos on your street, single out ten Igbos on your street and equally single out another ten people from your tribe, jusxtapose them, compare and contrast their lifestyles and check which set is doing fine...

No dey come online to deceive yourself to feel Ok..
Talking of population of ethnic groups in Nigeria, after hausa people who have the highest members in Nigeria, with percentage of 27.4%, next is Igbos which is 14.1%, following by Yoruba 13.9% then fulani and the rest.. Accept your position in poverty rate in and population in Nigeria as well and move on..

https://www.nairaland.com/4848276/cia-revision-nigerias-ethnic-religious

Robisky001:
The hooked-up industry is booming like wildfire. The government should start taxing all these hooked-up girls to fund next year's budget.

Massiveglory:
I dare emilokan to sue for character assasination on the forfeiture of $460K for drugs dealings involvement.

The only lies in their news was that INEC meddled into the drug matter. Everyother thing there is truth. You were involved in drugs dealings and forfeited $460K to US government.

The greatest purveyors of fake news is the tinubu gang.
Urchins have almost destroyed nairaland with lies, fake news, fake reports, misleading headings and so on.
They only gave you a taste of what you do.

Sucre6:
This is nonsense, inconsequential and a total hogwash, who said Obi was an angel, he's human and has the right to express his feelings when pushed too hard, anyone that see this as a flaw is just a stupid urchin and a never do good amoeba

When Tinubu said y'all should shut up no one saw it as a bad thing

When Atiku said he was going to sell NNPC and privatize government property and share to all his friends, no one saw it as a headline,

When Obasanjo who was our sitting president abused someone and said, Nah your papa and mama Jagajaga no one saw it as newsworthy

But obi expressed his feeling as a human being, and full time, online minimum wage-paid urchins started discharging from their pvssies and foaming from their mouths like rabid infested street dogs and saying rubbish.

Obi is coming get use to it