₦airaland Forum

Honestly, marriages will keep failing and breaking up because most young people today are not well taught or enlightened on what makes marriage work...

A successful marriage is not that different from a successful business empire (don't take my word for it... Do some research)!
That a successful business man fails in marriage is more than likely because he didn't apply the same principles.

A lot of people take the sole emotional route when it comes to matrimony. This is pure recipe for disaster!!! It will interest, even shock, most of you to know that most of successful and long lasting unions are not made up of faithful, romantic, or generally most emotion driven people.

The main thing after godliness, is compatibility! The next is respect and mutual interests... Couples who share and pursue very similar goals in life will more than likely stay married even in the midst of infidelity and familial crisis.

Love comes quite secondarily tbh... Though, its presence makes the other main factors even better.

Sigh... And, the year never even start o!!!

symbianDON:
you know, it's quite ridiculous the way our leaders reason. I really wonder what a 'midnight curfew' is supposed to achieve!....like covid-19 is a terrorist or fulani herdsmen.

The idiots are trying to score cheap publicity points with the gullible... Don't mind them.

xamuell:
You may be smart, you may be a realist. An uncommon odd determined your intelligence. Shed your arrogance and disdain for those not equally privileged. Just a peaceful observation.

Honestly, I don't even esteem myself anywhere close to what thou describe... I even see myself more lowly than I happen to be.

I, however, concede to being occasionally and mildly irritated by bandwagons and groupies. To this end, I can't agree more with thy admonition, and thank thee unreservedly! Peace!!!

"Those who led nationwide protests demanding extensive police reforms with the #EndSARS hashtag must be prosecuted, says Festus Keyamo."

That above is easily the dumbest thing ever to be written by a normal and right thinking human being, least of all an educated one.

UnBanEbenezer:
obviously your couldn spot the sarcasm

Oh... I certainly did not!!! My bad then.

juman:
Sorry o.
Corona is raging furiously and fiercely.
This second wave nah die.

Probably tens of thousands of people would die.
Corona in nigeria is out of control like in america.

Be safe.

Is this a joke?!! What kinda nonsense talk is this?!!

Do you know it is a crime against humanity to spread falsehood and panic?!! Do you?!!

Be warned!!!

Someodds:
Can I get that toothpaste from store, and what's CA-C 100, also what's the generic name for the painkiller you're suggesting? Thanks

Euthymol toothpaste is sold in major pharmacies and supermarkets across the nation... It's quite pricy and kinda rare.

It has been proven to be handy in certain mild dental issues like sensitivity, cavities, tooth decay (mild), etc... You simply brush with it twice daily.

For pain, diclofenac 50mg (preferably Cataflam by Novartis) can help a lot.

CA-C gives strength to weakened teeth and bones. It also helps in healing (High strength Vitamin C).

chachanga:
Nigerian policy makers are one laughable lot never failing to embarrass with the types of directives they specify for enforcement.
I was being told of the near-absolute lack of compliance yet low incidence rates in Nigeria, well I hope y'alls lucks don't run out anytime soon. And same goes for the Govt. and Health Departments emphasizing Clubs, Churches etc more dangerous for infections possibility than markets, offices, banks etc.

It is nothing but eye service and hypocrisy!!!

They actually think they are fooling anyone... Well, some gullible citizens can be fooled.

Sewasaunt:
Fun fact, taking calcium frequently makes the bone more dense and hence teeth are more difficult to remove when they eventually need to be extracted from lack of timely, adequate professional DENTAL care.

Enough Calcium is usually gotten through our diet, if anyone needs calcium supplements, it should not be because one or two teeth have holes.

You are welcome.

Thank you..
I never recommended CA-C for long term use. 7 to 10 days at best for non osteo-compromised patients...

Well, you line about diet and calcium tells me you don't quite know how poorly nourished the average Nigerian is... You would be amazed.

starbuck:
The way I am looking at those people , I won't be surprised that 90% of them are Nairalanders, we no dey hear word at all

Okay.... So, how does arresting and lumping them all in the same limited space not further the spread of the virus?!!

This looks more like a vice raid than anything else...

Cos, I don't see the police arresting crowds thronging in markets, car parks, transport buses, etc.

...And what the hell is the meaning of Midnight curfew?!! What exactly has that got to do with Covid-19 prevention?!!

Lagosinter1:
What's CAC 1000 pls?

An effervescent tablet form of high strength Vitamin C and Calcium.

Quite good for stronger bones, teeth, and immunity.

What's this again... Seems this is a whole new season of "Killer Dicks" or "Sexual Mortality"!

You men better start keeping those monkeys caged!!!

nairavsdollars:
That's the best option available

I doubt it...

A friend was told to extract due to a persistent tooth issue.

When he came to me, I suggested Euthymol toothpaste with CA-C 1000 and painkillers...

Well, he has not felt pain and has been using his full dental cavity wholly well going on 3 years plus.

Whew!!! Finally! A Breakthrough!.... The goal even came from the person referee be wan knack Airtel.

Lucky Arsenal... That Red card for truly cast them! VAR to the rescue, for a change.

They should maximize this extra time and win the game.

Thank God for Barcelona and Dortmund!

zedegit:
They were thinking they went to meet sensible people.

They wanted to be law abiding citizens.

Well, I guess they never heard the following saying:

In a world of insanity, it is quite insane to be sane!

This nation is at the dustbin of an infamous history.

Elxandre:
But even 1% fatality is actually massive.
You're talking like an average Nigerian who takes lives for granted.

Wrong... I am talking like a serious Nigerian who sees past this poorly scripted subterfuge.

I will like to say more, but I will hold my peace and leave you with your thoughts and opinions. Thanks.

bluefilm:
People can be so stupid.

Instead of arguing about what's actually in those vaccines, they are arguing about whether they are getting the Pfizer vax or Chinese vax.

Well sha, na una sabi wetin dey do una.

As for me and myself, coro no dey for my side at all.

#COVIDIOTS

Africans??! Dem go ever reason that deep! Bunch of Bandwagon thinkers!

Dem fit even re-package sterile water inject them (Placebo)!!!

CSTRR:
Only the living can make Money.

So, the vaccine to a disease with over 99 Percent self recovery rate (Which, by the way, makes it less worrisome than certain other common infections) is now a determinant of life and death??!... Issokay! Y'all should continue!

Make I just dey observe all of una!!!

Just look at everyone making a dumb fuss about vaccines while more important things like security, exchange rate, economic diversification, etc, keep getting swept aside...

You would think learned people would act better than puppets!!! SMH! Negroes!!!

careytommy37:
You are dull. She wanted you to see those pictures

Beht why??! Why must you pipo say the truth anyhow??!

Chummynoni:
He is right, but do people still shame anymore because of leaked nudes?. The world is full of immorality, and leaked nudes dont shack pple anymore

Sure about that??! I know a lot of future In-laws who won't take such liberal views about the whole world seeing the privacy of their son's wife.

GetMeRight:
Still not a crime

Never said it was... I don't even agree that Adultery (Sex between consenting adults) is a crime either.

My point was that polygamy is not the way out of infidelity. It doesn't solve the infidelity issue or problem.

Nice hustle... I like this. They should keep it up.

It's always refreshing to see people working hard to make honest living instead of begging, stealing or robbing for money.

While some people hustle hard to get that cheese off the streets, others are only thinking of shortcuts to success.

Oracleforce:
It is obvious that op is a very simple guy and her fiance also complement him....
What a simple lifestyle! But what spoilt the picture is the beer parlor background....

Op, is like both of you are drunkards

Some of you are not well at all!

Mekudi:
She is still flashing boobs at 41

Like there is a "Proper" age to dress indecently...

Abeg, free the woman jare!!! Age is just a number!

Okoroawusa:
Are you sure that you are a woman?

Wrong question....

Right question: Are you sure you are normal?

RaptObserver:
And adultery has landed him in trouble now. Take it or leave it, Africa was better off morally when we had the choice to monogamy or polygamy. Though we still have that freedom but we have subjected ourselves to an alien and deceitful culture. How many wives does Donald Trump have? How many times has Boris Johnson married? Let us face the truth.

With all due respect, your view on this matter is quite dim.

What evidence do you have that the people you mentioned stopped philandering after marrying severally??! Do you even know how many side chicks most Nigerian polygamists have??!

So, are we not saying the same thing??!

Even in the olden days, polygamists and monogamists still had concubines (albeit in very low figures compared to what we have now)... The difference between then and now is simply the high level of degradation of our moral values today. Our society has become far more immoral and rotten!!! This is indisputable.

So, my point remains irrefutable! We must go back to the place of sexual discipline and self control! That is the only way to prevent such embarrassing stories. This failure begins from our individual homes, schools, religious houses, etc... We have to go back to the place of morality!!!

The kind of life choices our young ones make these days ehn...

What on earth will make a young lady not ready for marriage and motherhood go fvcking around whether with pastor or heathen, even without protection.

RaptObserver:
That is why a man should rather marry instead of housing a girlfriend. If a man can't cope with one woman he should marry two. No need of pretence. If he had paid her bride price now as a second wife he won't be facing imprisonment now. Am sure his odogwu will never rise again until he is out of this mess. Nonsense and Dangote's bumbum

Sigh... What are you even writing here??! Where is the sense??!

How many women will a married sex addict now wife?!! Even after marrying over 500, King Solomon in the Bible still kept on having hundreds of concubines (Side hoes). What does that tell you??! When there is no discipline or self control, multiple marrying won't change a damn thing when there are many more women out there.

Even if the man manages to marry all the women on Earth, he would move on to aliens in Mars.

Bottom line... Every man and woman must learn to tame his or her sexual appetite, if possible before marriage.

Forget all these talk abeg... Polygamy solves nothing!!!