₦airaland Forum

Kimjongun:
My point is men should be responsible for their action, their is no evidence in the video that the woman lavish the money meant for the child, or that the lady set him up.

As a man as far as you intentionally sleep with a woman without protection to the extent that she conceive for you, you no longer have any excuse.
You must take care of your child, you know the risk and you go for it.

If you know she is not going to be a good mother, DON'T PUT YOUR SEMEN IN HER. And if you do, you must be ready to be responsible for the consequences.

If this doesn't change and we keep having kids with reckless parents how will our society become better.

I wasn't arguing or opposing your point... I was merely making an addition. Everything you posted is my opinion as well.

I also believe every woman not ready for parenthood or not sure about a man's preparedness for fatherhood should avoid conception... It's a 2-way street. No woman is handicapped in the area of contraception.

Parental responsibility should begin before conception.

Kimjongun:
Do you see how the woman is approaching the new girlfriend? The girl is not concerned that he is going out with someone else, he should just take care of his seeds, simple.

...And by extension, take care of her own needs too.

A lot of ladies deliberately conceive and birth kids for the sole purpose of setting themselves up for easy lives.

Some actually spend or lavish the funds meant for the kids on their personal frivolities.

Blackmoran:
Is this video real? In the first place why will you take your baby mama to meet your girlfriend....
That is disrespectful

Bro... Abeg, watch that video and read the caption again. Thereafter, edit that thing in BOLD. Thank you.

Guyman01:
For all these small Nairaland boys promoting baby Mamaism its obvious you don't know the crisis that goes with it, you just think of Whizkid and Davido who throw money at the problem and think that it will be easy for you that won't even watch this video because you are afraid it will eat up your data but thinking that marriage is over rated and Baby Mamaism is the next beautiful thing after sliced bread, you may have your wish because life na teacher

You are right, but this also goes to the ladies, and it is not even merely enough to put a ring on it.

A man not ready to truly settle down will never settle down no matter how many babies you have for him or forcing him to get hitched.

A good case in point is Nick Cannon who is still busy hopping from bed to bed, sowing his seeds upandan.

For wealthy guys, money just makes it a bit bearable for the ladies till their mental health reaches its limit.

Any young lady still thinking getting knocked up and birthing kids would be enough to tie a man down for life simply has no self-worth.

The way stale news take dey crawl into Nairaland Front Page is kinda amusing...!

God help anyone relying on this forum for breaking news.

thecommunist:
here in Canada, my supervisor and colleague would not only try to reach out, but would also wish me quick recovery if they find out I am sick and did not show up to work. My office is cleaned everyday after work hours by the cleaning lady and any food or drink I left on my desk that is getting spoilt would be thrown our for me.
This may be so because my 90 % of the people in my work are immigrants from, my direct colleagues are from Iran, Jordan Indian and Philipines, My supervisor is white and he has started to get influenced my us. he asks about our wellbeing and families.

Thank you for this clarification... That's how it should be.

The keyword is "Influence".

Tendd:
That explains the high rate of Obesity.
Processed foods are not good for your health.All these Chawama,pizza,hot dogs, hamburger etc are health hazards that will send you to your early graves.That is why Americans are the most obese in the world.Stop eating them.They ain't good for your health.

It's amusing and also sad how Africans think eating such synthetic meals (Fast Foods) elevates them above their fellow citizens compared to local organic cooked meals.

Little wonder cancer is taking a firm hold among Africans.

Neocolonialism and low self-esteem are clearly bad for the health.

haphizz57:
1qtr of nigerians can not afford

Can't afford or won't bother with??!

Get your facts right abeg.

Most Nigerians will leave Mama Put, Kilimanjaro, Genesis foods, etc, to patronize KFC say wetin happen??!

Sigh... Another thread for idle testosterone-fueled dick measuring contests between dumb citizens of 2 African nations.

TotoIsGud4boy:
The white thread serves as a form of distraction for the child’s brain.
As silly as it may sound, the distraction helps to reduce hiccups.

Children as you know are naturally curious. And placing the white thread on either their forehead or hair triggers some sensation that the child may want to know and find ways to adapt.

So the brain direct its activity or concentration towards finding out the new thing on the head. And that tricks the phrenic and vagus nerves to act towards that.
That combination of concentration and distraction cause by the white thread as noted help reset the brain to stop or reduce the number of hiccups.

Brilliant...!

It's always refreshing to see people with good IQ on this forum.

Kudos chief!

YesDaddy1:
He has dragged d entire Igbos into his roforofo fight teytey.
Dey play!

If he doesn't retrace his steps, his people will disown him.

dominique:
This is what happens when you grow up in a society that makes excuses rapists.

Precisely... I keep saying that the following words of King Solomon in the Holy Bible are for most Nigerians:

"Because sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil." (Ecclesiastes 8:11)

Some of you guys go continue to dey fall hand... Such idiots with wandering dicks.

Una mates dey keep their heads down thinking of how to take over the technology, politics, academia, militaries, etc, of these great nations, but una mind is always thinking of one crime or the other to indulge in.

Dem swear for una??!

Banks are not directly under NLC and TUC... At least, that was what my friends working in major banks told me.

They are private companies, I think.

What I fail to understand is why TCN and EEDC will keep the state in darkness for over 2 weeks... What does Joe Ajaero enjoy in using electricity outages to stress his people's lives??!

Other states fit get light steady during the nationwide strike, but EEDC will never fail to cut off Imo state.

As much as I am against the brutality meted out on the Union Leader, the man needs to seriously take his eyes off the Imo State Government House... Whatever personal issues he has with Uzodinma, he should sort it out without dragging the entire state into it under the guise of unionism.

SonOfDSoil01:
lagos state is a progressive state and not like your back ward enclave. There are special welfare package for street sweepers in Lagos and I am sure there family will be well taken care of

Okay... Well said.

So, what Country is Lagos state in??! And what country is his "Backward Enclave"??!

Iluvmycontr3:
I only eat cat fish from living waters, not these pond rubber cat fish

What is the difference??!

Better yet, how can you tell the difference??!

Just curious to learn.

victorazyvictor:
Stop eating catfish, is not good physically & spiritually.

Yeah... Don't even eat at all! Food is not good physically and spiritually.

Just fast and pray till Heaven calls you home.

If truly he was trying to evade LASTMA, then he deserves to go to jail...!

I was in a bus that drove dangerously trying to evade the traffic police in that Lagos... Na God save person that day. Death stared me in the face.

On top wetin??! On top how much fine??!... Which fine big pass attempted murder, Manslaughter, or fatal accident??!

Nigerian drivers, make una dey use common sense always. Smh!

Op... That is criminally and ridiculously cheap.

dfrost:
Nice one paddy mi.

First move is separation, not divorce. Divorce is the last option. It is deadly because the divorcees will be bitter all the time. Man, I have seen a lot of them.

Yeah... It is not easy living apart from someone once happily married to.

Sadly, the world of today has fully embraced it.

In the near future, there will be fewer marriages.

HITdemUP:
Una too like rubbish this Country as any slight issue. Accidents like this happen in other Countries too

Please, I beg you... Don't start that rubbish with me.

Take your misguided patriotism elsewhere.

Preventable accidents are not a norm in serious nations.

Do you know how many of this same accident we have had this year alone??! Or in the last 5 years?!!

Next thing, you will tell me Insecurity is normal in other nations... Or that corruption is in every government abroad.

SMH!!!

ChristianMuslim:
First to comment today.. None is okay.. Just stay focused and humble with your spouse

You mean suffer in silence?!!

Please, don't give such dumb advice abeg.

If the Marriage is abusive and toxic, get the hell out before death truly does it for either of the couple.

On the topic, Separation is not the same as divorce... That's the mandated first step to see if you guys are better off apart.

If separation works for them, then divorce can and should be finalized.

Honestly, apart from the first name basis thing, every other thing up there is how me and my guys live our lives even here in Naija.


The older I get, the more I wonder why most Nigerians can't mind their fvcking businesses... Like, Dem swear for una?!!

However, the part about not being seen at work and no one checked on you is kinda farfetched...! Employers are largely mandated or duty-bound to do that.

HardBishop:
we blacks don't value human life.. I swear. what's the role of the FRSC? WHy can't they check the truck carrying the container? why why why?
what's the duty of the fed govt and state govt......
can't they revitalize the roads or repair the crack damages? are we BLACK CURSED? this is total mess.... even lack of maintenance culture.
if found wanting punish the truck driver but no keep collecting bribes. black man black disease

My point exactly...!

I have seen a tanker dropping fuel along the road, and it had successfully passed through at least 2 checkpoints.

This country go ever good like this?!! No one does his job properly and passionately.

Nigeria has to be the only nation on Earth where such a preventable accident keeps being allowed to happen due to negligence.

Seems human lives truly have no value in this nation... Maybe, we are too populated and those in leadership positions have been tasked to do their best to help trim it down.

Cos, I don't understand why such heavy-duty trucks that are not properly secured are allowed to ply the highways alongside regular motorists... What are members of FRSC and VIO doing across the nation?!!

That vehicle passed so many checkpoints since leaving the wharf, and it didn't occur to any official to arrest the situation and prevent loss of lives.

Such an anyhow country. Spits!!!

So, finally... NLC grew the balls to lock down the nation.

It took a state governor to push them off their seat of cowardice.

Hope Uzodinma is an enemy of APC and Tinubu


They should call him to order when this is all over.

HeatSeeker:
I remember PDP boasted in the same vein during their reign. Don't worry, your time will come soon

Jonathan singlehandedly destroyed PDP by choosing fairness.

Tinubu and APC won't ever make that same mistake.

johnjose68:
One of the obi.phool...as you don start the strike, you don start to dey enjoy abi

Dey play, let see if the LP president Ajaero and his fellow jesters will continue the strike for the next one year.

We will review the status tomorrow

Stop wailing like a dull child... Talk like a man.

What's the meaning of Obi.phool?!!

Since a whole Nation's Labor union has now been reduced to a mere political party, go ahead and ignore them.

Boycott the strike with your family and friends. Thank you.

CoronaVirusPro:
Hunger will reset those employees.

30 days max! They will resume work by themselves.

Despite the tremendous efforts of His Excellency, President Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu (GCFR) in piloting the nation to greater heights, it is saddening that, the local institutions within the territory of Nigeria are sabotaging his efforts.

30 days max?!!

Do have any idea what will happen to the economy of this nation in just 3 days of strike, not to speak of a week?!

It's always easy to know those who are dull. SMH.

Aquila99:
Nobody go enter, na only u n ur family.. as una candidate bo win, una just wan burn down dis country.

Oga, go and boycott the strike with your family as well. You hear?!!

As your candidate win, everyone should keep silent and suffer while they run the nation into the ground.

Everything begins and ends with Politics for you people. You can't even think beyond tribe.

9182736455O1999:
Na them i just dey wait for.

That would be the last straw...!

No light, no fuel! Anarchy will ensue nationwide.