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boiz2men:
actually there are no true virgins anywhere in the world. Its a hoax.

even catholic priests are not. they masturbate.

So u are not alone.

other than the fact that a virgin is thought to not promiscous in the marriage, there is nothing more to it.

its just a piece of tissue. Virginity is overhyped. even sex too. We will all get tired of everything

adahlee:
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I started masturbating when I was 14. I was naive and was scared to death about sex. But I was on my bed one evening and I put my pillow in between my legs. I humped and had an orgasm. I felt guilty afterwards because I was brought up in a Christian home and was taught not to touch myself. I saw myself doing it repeatedly. I couldn't use my fingers cos my v*** was tight. I just rubbed my clit, orgasmed and felt guilty. It went on an on until I started watching porn. It started with softcore porn and graduated to hard anal sex. I hardly masturbate now. I just watch porn and cum. I'm 23 now and I have a boyfriend. I told him I wasn't ready for sex yet. He's agreed to it because he vowed to remain celibate till marriage. I still watch porn and I feel bad afterwards. Soo.... Am I a virgin?

Second story

I don't think I deserve to be called a virgin. I have a boyfriend. We do oral and I give him handjobs and blowjobs. But no Penetration. I don't let him touch my v***na cos I'm scared of breaking my hymen. I do oral to help him release when his hormones are raging. Am I a virgin?

So, my question is "IS VIRGINITY OVER HYPED"
I know it's part of our culture for a girl to be chaste till marriage. But can she survive without any form of sexual activity?

Because most "virgins" masturbate and practice MouthAction. So, can ladies stand the test of time?
Not involving guys because they have raging hormones and society doesn't expect much from them.

Preciousgirl:
1. Man that cuts finished toothpaste tube to use
2.man that can't cook
3. Man that can't last 45 minutes in bed
4. Man that has a baldhead
5. Man with yellow teeth
6.man with mouth odour
7.man that doesn't have at least 1000 dollars in his count
8.vegetarian man
9.man whose poo smells too bad
10 man that licks pussssy
111.bowlegged man
12. MMan I am taller than



The above are disqualified

Chopwater:
There is d girl i ve dated in past, we broke up. everybody find their way. recently i find myself communicating with her. i don't know hw i get her number 4 d first place i'm surprise am stil talking to my ex. though she is married now blessed with one kid. my problem now hw do i stop telling her lies. one time she called, she asked if i hav a girl frend. i told her why she wants 2 knw. she laughed nd replied me so person no fit knw again. abi they hide am. I dont hav choice than to say yes i hav. knowing fully i dont hav a female frend let alone girl frend. since then when ever we make calls she always asked abt my girl nd i keep telling her more fabricated lies. It came to an extent i stopped calling her nd she is d one calling stil asking abt my girl. i hate lie, though i used to sometime but nt dis continueos lie. I'm Think Of letting her know d truth bt i want to do it maturedly.

prechbills1:
After they will argue what a girl actually have to offer. 

Waste education that most don't need, after fornicating all through nysc then sit back and search for a rich guy to marry.. 

Why don't u work...? 
Poor girls always have big things to say and dream.

before I use to argue or insult parents who say; sending a girl to school is a waste of resources,

but as time goes on I've come to realize that the statement is 100%true .

most Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer, 70% of ladies going to school in Nigeria are doing it because their friends are going to school too or have acquired a certificate.

it is only in Nigeria that ladies of 22years will start dreaming about marriage as if their lives revolves around marriage which they don't even have anything to contribute to.

why go to school when;
after NYSC you sit home and start looking for a husband that will feed you?

I really don't blame most Nigerian ladies for being lazy, I blame Nigerian men.
Nigerian guys/men are the most sex starved guys/men in the world.

people who can't stay without sex,
it is only in Nigeria that you hear statements like; a relationship without money is this and that .


one thing about Nigerian men, they keep complaining about dependent ladies yet there are many independent ones around but they don't go for them because they're not too classy as if they're going to eat big yansh, most independent ladies don't have time for showing off, being classy etc, they don't force their bumbum to shake while walking, but the average Nigerian lady that is poor would want to dress as if she's a billionaire when she doesn't have kobo yet.


if you're rich can't you go for a rich lady yourself?


I've seen Nigerian ladies say that many of them were born into poverty you can't expect them to stay like that,
so without a husband you can't make it in life?



four dreams/priorities of most Nigerian ladies;

1.Finish Secondary School
2.Get a University or polytechnic certificate
3.NYSC
4. Get a husband who can take care of their needs.



some days ago I read a post where a middle class lady that is working in a multional company said; I just work for nothing because I can't spend the money on myself, I save the cash and my future husband will provide everything I want and pay me extra salary, these days when I see such posts I don't reply I only take them as evidence that sending most Nigerian ladies to school is really a waste of resources.


it is only in Nigeria that I see ladies telling their fellow unmarried ladies to go and marry that without a man she's not complete, how many times have you heard such from people, like telling a guy that without a woman he isn't complete? simply because most Nigerian women have nothing to offer.

The no1. thing on most Nigerian ladies minds is having a husband who will take care of their every needs, after school, they don't even want to work. They get that certificate just because some people are getting it too.


all said and concluded; Sending some ladies to school is a waste of resources.

why not just wait for the rich guy that will take care of you at home instead of going to school and still do the same thing?



nb; my post isn't misogynistic it's just the pure fact, and I'm not generalizing it,



SENDING SOME LADIES TO SCHOOL IS A REALLY A WASTE OF RESOURCES BECAUSE EVEN WHEN THE SAID LADIES ARE IN SCHOOL ALL THEY DREAM ABOUT IS HOW TO CATCH A RICH GUY, JUST DON'T GO TO SCHOOL BECAUSE IT'S OF NO USE BECAUSE GOING TO SCHOOL INITIALLY MEANT YOU WANNA WORK IN A PARTICULAR FIELD.




Some people will come here now and start shouting I'm broke because I had time to compose this write up, lol I'm not broke. Billionaires trump, elon musk, George soros, Robert koch and bill gates also compose lengthy posts but Nigerians think anybody who create lengthy posts is broke or jobless,.

BTW correct any blunders by yourself

Gentlesniper:
U kind of berated other bible believing churches too, tho in a subtle way. I believe as a xtain, being christ like and making heaven at last should be the sole aim. I dont even know why there is soo much division between catholics and pentecostals.

Gentlesniper:
mehn, this wan just dumb found me sha. it is well

Gentlesniper:
but bros i dont understand, ain't we all serving the same God? At least i was thinking in this time and century, that we have passed that stage where issues like this should pose as a stumbling block to marriages. I am yet to hear Muslims have such issues, and pardon me, but why is it very common with Catholics.

deomelo:
The otuoke clown made the right decision because the last thing the people at these meetings trying to solve Nigeria's problems want to see is the sad and pathetic face of the clown responsible for the problems in the first place.

Joemetry:
Now you get it...
From school laws to societal menace.

It a process...

Joemetry:
Obviously you didn't read the news.

Boys spent over 24 hours in a female hostel.

A law was violated.

SmartPolician:
Hi NLanders,

I need advice. Well, I ve known my girl for nearly 8 years. We started dating early last year.

I'm 32 and she's 28. We are both working graduates

Her boyfriend just broke up with her the time we just met.

So, he accepted to date me but told me she needed time to get over him.

Fast forward to this year, that's over 14 months she has yet to let me touch her.

The best we do is smooch and kiss.

She sings that he loves me.

I love this girl enough to marry her but she keeps telling me to be patient.

Meanwhile she confided in me that she had a sexual relationship with her ex before they broke up.

I just can't break up with her easily because I really love her and her family even knows me.

Please I need advice.

Thank you