Albert Einstein once said "Two things are infinite; the universe and human stupidity and I am not sure about the universe" ........

My sister, most people here on nairaland will only give you a parlour advice because no one knows better than their experiences in life and we are sum total of our individual circumstances therefore I don't blame people for their ignorance...

From what I know, It's obvious that act is your boyfriend's "pleasure instinct" which is also called "Fetish".....Human beings are animals( I don't mean that in a insulting way), and we respond to our stimulus irrespective of our situation and that's where taming or let's call it training comes into play

In a nutshell, what I am saying is that, sexual activity in those kind of places or situations appeals more to your boyfriend and that's what satisfies his "pleasure instinct"...This may not be common with all guys but if you ask people around, we all have one thing or the other that satisfies this instinct in us

I once met a lady that will prefer to have sex on the floor rather than bed and one of my guys will rather have sex only when the lady's pant is on- we nicknamed him "pant-shiftter"...So, your boyfriend is only satisfying his pleasure instinct and he is not taking you for granted

You can read more about it from "pleasure instinct by Gene Wallenstein" and I hope in future you seek informed and knowledgeable counsel...Eat that frog!!!!

Things like this will continue to happen for as long as we choose to socially empower military and para-military forces...We have a way of oppressing one another especially when we are connected to some para-military or military officials and we will still be the one to come online and cry foul when we fall at the receiving end of this attitude...I will "show" you, that's where it starts from

Also, 95% of our social media content is largely based on the military being some sort of demi-god you don't get into trouble with anyone close to them, be it their wife, kids, uncle, etc...we need a social reverse engineering to bring the power back to the civilian

Don't oppress one another with this officials irrespective of your connection but I know these won't happen because we are all a bunch of oppressive individuals who will try to be get one above the next person, no wonder our leaders are oppressive too

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There is a grand master plan going on in Nigeria ans only people that can think outside the box can see this.

The plan is to unleash terror in different parts of the country, to create a very unstable state for election to be conducted come 2023....Someone don't want to leave power and it will have to take him declaring a state of emergency to keep him in power

If you pick up arms against their foot soldiers and burn your region up while doing so, you are only playing according to the script but if you avoid setting your region on fire while fighting their foot soldiers, you are probably going to avoid being a part of the game

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O.P, you are fast about this as I was planning to write something about this Ini Edo comment during the course of the weekend....

The truth is this ideology is one of the major problem that is destroying our society. Women playing this victim card has encouraged the formulation of loads of societal policies to protect them like an endangered specie while men has to pick the crumbs off the table

Success is not handed out to men on a platter of gold, in short men do engage in unhealthy competition amongst themselves to get to the top but naturally concede excellence or success to a woman that can show enough grit and determination

I work in IT field and can tell you men are not doing better than woman that believe their success lies upstairs in their brains and not in between their legs. It is more natural for a determined lady to get to the pinnacle of her career compared to a man that has to fight both tooth and nail to get recognition for his effort among the sea of men in similar space

After careful study and a bit of anecdotal experience, I realized that the statement tries to provide comfort or solace for ladies with lazy mentality and mediocrity ideology. They blame failure on their environment or society without recognition of their gross incompetence in the management of opportunities around them

In present day times compared to many years back in Nigeria, it's is much easier to solicit for sex with money or affluence because we are blessed with a large chuck of women that don't want to try but use every form of packaging to present prostitution in a acceptable and less damaging manner which is quite obvious in her- Ini Edo's, sector of the economy

Anytime you hear people say that around, tell them to make research on the percentage of women enrolling in traditionally male dominated courses and see how well they are doing, the number of female financial institutions CEO in Nigeria and the world at large speaks volume of my submission

Attitude is everything

A bad attitude is like a flat tyre, you can't go anywhere with it

Fact don't give a Bleep about how you feel!

DedeNkem:


I hate both criminals. What am I suffering?

You are not suffering from any mental issue, you are rational..You are like the control test in these scenario

This goes to show the extent of criminality in humanity which is a common issue across all races...Don't let anyone tell you the "whites" do things better, they are equally as wicked as our leaders just that, there is a respected system of punishment when you derail from law in their part of the world

If you love trump but hate Buhari, I guess you need to be checked for bipolar disorder because I have not seen any difference between these two bunch of clown

As a cyber security expert, Anonymous is only creating a "copy of the websites" font for font, lay out for lay out.....I laugh when people think Government websites are easy to hack like my brother is claiming....


I am a cyber security expert in a first world country, I know what am saying

This is Federal Government way of stifling the protest

1. Initiate thugs to attack the protesters
2. Protesters retaliate or retreat..if they retreat they have won, but if they retaliate, a deadly conflict will start
3. Government gives the military the go ahead to curb the conflict
4. Heavy presence of the military and the return of youths to various universities and NYSC camps reduces the momentum of the protest

This is just the game plan that has been set in motion a few weeks back even before the #endsars movement started... The police bill 2020 is the main action plan and it's a legal law of the country which was passed by the senate many weeks back while the Big brother Naija was on

The powers for a policemen to do worse than SARS officials is already a legal law of the country and the IGP only has to redeploy them to where they will be supported by the Law of the land

.....It is true that if you want to hide something to a black man, put it in a book......

Hello guys

Trust we are all keeping well

I have a younger sister that wants to study Nursing in Lithuania university of health sciences. She studied Food science technology and unfortunately getting a stable good job has been hard to come by

She will be 31years old next year and I plan to sponsor her education and every other thing that is required but I have a concern which is " Do you guys think she will be granted a visa considering her age for a Bsc"

I need your advice as I want to make this work for her, and I will appreciate any info or idea to go about this

Thanks everyone

The way Nigerians can be so reactionary to news without getting the full gist and applying same condition to themselves can be quite shocking..

You are on holiday and someone stab( injected) your sister with an unknown substance( later found out to be a date rape drug) and you try to demand justice by accosting the perpetrators, the police ( without uniform) stepped in and after revealing their identity, you requested them to take you to the hospital to treat your sister only for them to take you to the police station.

What are you going to do at these point especially with a lot of "lost or killed on holiday" movie plots these days and with a profound knowledge of the
Greek police as a corrupt bunch of guys that are notorious for lots of illegal collusion with the Albanian criminal gangs

Most of us here won't take it easy if a policeman or a road safety officer decide to seize our driver license or impound our cars for unjust reasons not to talk of a life and death situation but we are quick to type gibberish online just because we are behind the veil of the internet

I don't want to base my response on this alone but should this be true and the said money was not disbursed or used for any capital expenditure then I am afraid that the future of this country is not so great.

This country will permanently go broke at some point

dignity33:
my friend keep quite if you have no meaningful contribution, Allen Onyema launder money who's money is that isn't his own money, how many of US citizen or company in Nigeria indicted for money laundering or anywhere in the world or do you think US will persecute their citizen if indicted outside the country. Biden son working in Ukraine Gas company recieve $50,000 every month where can he recieve that in US company, IF I can tell you how much of $ US citizen or white recieve in Nigeria as there Salary you will start crying. I know of South Africa white man who work in Shell Nigeria and he recieve $1000 every day I mean every day how much our citizen are paid. Nigeria should stop this mentality of seen white or US as God they corrupt our system and use it to repair there country because they know we hate ourselves.

You are committing a fallacy called "whataboutism"....This is not a case of US citizens being probed in other countries or going unpunished, why don't you leave that to the countries involved..
This is a case of money laundering that US is interested in pursuing, he only need to turn his books in and clear his name

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I won't advice you to rush her into school to study any of those courses because when she graduates in a few years time, she will patiently wait to get a befitting job

My advice is to put her in a standard tutorial centre, prepare for next year admission to study Nursing or better still go for A'levels route( much more expensive and needs a higher level of intelligence but viable in any country of the world) OR she attends any of the school of nursing( either private or public), study for 3years, practice for a year or two( while also doing his post-basic), fight the IELTS battle( hopefully one or two attempts) and leave Nigeria for good

She will liberate herself and if she is kind enough, liberate your family

***Don't forget, only HARDWORK will ensure this

Must we complain about being cheated when the law is plain and glaring even to the blind, thesame people will call it Grace, Favour, Blessing etc when the are rewarded by corruption or nepotism.

English is our official language, that doesn't mean we don't have tribal languages...The rule states that the "movie must be of indigenous language", so lionheart don't warrant to be nominated in the first place

Osinachi1:
Everybody js forming homeless and poor background making us that really slept in the street to look like It's Nothing...



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There is no success story that sweet pass "grass to grace", that's the reason everybody wants to tap from the positive emotion vibes that comes from it.
That's why you hear stories like this

Wuzyurdaddy:
Someone explain to me how these production companies make their cheese when their material is shown for free YouTube.

We've been arguing this matter for some minutes now

Everything is all about data, which is the new currency... The platforms buys the content( movies) from film makers, upload same on their YouTube page which attracts people( traffic) to watch...The higher the traffic, the more the Google ads that are directed to the page automatically

Overtime when the platform can prove a steady volume of traffic, they only need to inform YouTube e-commerce team( i.e monitize the videos) to attract juicy ads.

All these is done with a few clicks within the YouTube environment......

I don't know why people are upset about this when 95% of pencils in Nigeria are imported from China... A visit to stationary stores will show you packets of pencils are from china

I don't know if this is just a joke or a sincere act of low IQ......I don't know how the shirt you wear has any correlation with your performance...

No wonder, religious leaders sells gibberish to many because where you expect to find logical reasoning, emotional dogmatism takes the upper hand.

MaziOmenuko:


Flow of goods within member countries, how are you going to ensure that the goods flowing were actually manufactured in the originating country? We just shot ourselves in the foot! Goods will be moved from Europe and across the world into our neighboring countries and then by virtue of free trade agreement, gain passage into our country.

This is a calamity in the making. Ordinary smuggling and the likes of dangote are whining. Now we have legalized movement of goods into our country from supposedly African countries.

I agree with you on smuggling and its one of the major disadvantage of FTAs, but at the same time the exporting strength of indigenous companies will grow which will benefit individual countries.
There is no perfect system because there will be pros and cons

The agreement is a good initiative to ensure ease of flow of goods within the member countries and also provide them the ability to regulate withing the continent....I don't know the extremities of the trade deals that will be involved but it should be somewhat similar to the common FTAs in the world.
It should be a welcome development for Exporters and Importers alike as a whole lot of bureaucracy will be removed

The agreement is a good initiative to ensure ease of flow of goods within the member countries and also provide them the ability to make trade agreement with more economically progressed country..I don't know the extremities of the trade deals that will be involved but it should be somewhat similar to the EU countries trading together as a block

Who be this referee...he is too dramatic

OP, I don't mean to be rash but stop reading daily mail and The Sun websites, they are peddlers of lie...
Rashford's contract is an "incentivized" contract worth £125k which can rise to £200k. Details of the contract values every goal he scores at £10k.
The club is trying to encourage him to perform to his best in the next 4 years.