₦airaland Forum

Welcome, Guest: Register • Login • With Google • Trending • Recent • New

Stats: 3,344,993 members, 8,514,870 topics. Date: Saturday, 07 November 2026 at 02:50 PM

Toggle theme

Aremubabs's Posts

Nairaland Forum › Aremubabs's Profile › Aremubabs's Posts

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 (of 34 pages)

TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 2:09pm On Aug 11, 2023
Threebear:
Na from kissing I carry belle.

I'd avoid it too ... because na so e dey start.
Na so na. cheesy
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 2:06pm On Aug 11, 2023
QueenSindel:
I remember when Ceec had 2strikes she was still giving us Gbasgbos that even lolu her partner had to kneel to beg her cheesy cheesy
This ilebaye hoe na -0
Only a foolish person would risk disqualification by using someone else's behaviour as a template.



No one is sure of Cee-C's relationship with Ebuka or even Biggie.




What Cee-C got away with might destroy someone else if they tried to copy her.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 2:03pm On Aug 11, 2023
Nhazeru:
The man has halitosis reason he's running away from kissing
Not everyone likes kissing. Maybe he doesn't like it.
Music/Radio › Re: Nairalanders, Pls Rate My Music by aremubabs: 2:43pm On Aug 10, 2023
You need many things for a good start.


1. You need at least moderate vocal skill. You are struggling on the key, and despite the auto-tune help you got from the sound engineer, the deficiency in vocal power was still evident.


2. You need a songwriter. Your lyrics makes no sense whatsoever. Before you mention top musicians whose lyrics don't make sense, remember that you are upcoming. They can afford to sing rubbish, but you CAN'T. Your lyrics tells us a lot about the music. Now, because your lyrics lacks direction, it is hard to tell if it is a love song or bragging song. In one line, you mentioned Bolanle coming into your molue to talk about you getting a private jet. There is a disconnect between this line and what comes next.



3. A solid music production. Your song sounds unrefined. For as low as 10 dollars, you can get a good mixing engineer online.




Having said all this, I would rate your song a 3 out of 10. Truthfully, it is poor.



Work on your voice. Learn an instrument, if you can, as it helps with voice training. With 15-20k, you can learn the piano at many music schools. With the piano alone, you can train your voice yourself.



Now, when your voice is trained to an extent, save some money for a good studio. It is not enough to know how to use Fruity Loops or any other musical workstations. It pays to learn music production extensively. Find a nice studio and make your song.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 11:51pm On Aug 09, 2023
Geezeem:
Na until he appear for bottom? undecided
cheesy
Health › Re: Do I Have Herpes? by aremubabs: 3:31pm On Aug 09, 2023
What an irresponsible man.
Romance › Re: New Marriage About To Crash. by aremubabs: 2:08pm On Aug 09, 2023
Ehinjuola:
My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they ask him for

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.
I am sure you knew his financial strength and yet you couldn't intervene.




My younger sister really tried for her fiance (now husband).




Though my father is a simple man, I have some really extortionate uncles who always want to milk potential husbands.




My sister fought hard to reduce the list. For example, some uncles wanted a fat cow. In the end, the family settled for a small ram.




And even the final list, my sister still contributed financially to help her fiance gather everything.




It is a foolish thing to push a man to borrow money for wedding. Now, he would be using the early days of marriage to worry about the loans.




Never let anyone extort your husband. Work based on his and your own budget. Because at the end of the day, it is the two of you that will suffer it.




Now, you are already suffering it. Your husband is suffering sleepless nights and lack of peace. Those who pushed you people are probably living off the "loot" with no care in the world.
Education › Re: Indebted: Why Is My Brother's WAEC Result Showing This? by aremubabs: 10:45pm On Aug 07, 2023
kvngsax001:
I thought as much! Thank you.
You are most welcome.
Education › Re: Indebted: Why Is My Brother's WAEC Result Showing This? by aremubabs: 9:09pm On Aug 07, 2023
kvngsax001:
Good evening everyone.

I got a notice that WAEC has released the result for 2023 candidates and I decided to get my brother's details, logged in and was surprised to see this.

What could be the problem?
The state in which he wrote the exam is owing WAEC.


The true results would not reflect until the state pays off its debt to WAEC.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 3:24pm On Aug 07, 2023
Giel:
On my profile pic?
Yes na
See fine babe kiss

I was going to do a new collage with all of my female favs but I haven't gotten around to it.

I wanted to do one with Tacha, tboss, bella, Nina, Olivia. Nini
Removing one or 2
"Fine" must have another definition.
Sports › Re: England Women Were Outplayed, Outclassed But Managed To Qualify - Guardian UK by aremubabs: 3:22pm On Aug 07, 2023
Osariemen12:
Did Tinubu or Remi watch them. They won because the evil didn't cheer them. May God Tinubulate your life.
There is nothing like Tinubulate. Stop, jabbering.




The election has been won and lost. Move on.
Sports › Re: Women's World Cup: Real Definition Of Sportsmanship (photo) by aremubabs: 3:21pm On Aug 07, 2023
AsomughaChuks05:
The super falcons of those days that used to be a goal machine have now changed to a defence oriented team. If Alozie had scored that sitter in the closing stages it would have been a different story now. She even had to miss her penalty to make her matter worse.
And she always holds on the ball for too long.




We could have demolished England today. So painful, but at least, we left a mark.




When next England hears Super Falcons, fear go catch them.
Sports › Re: England Women Were Outplayed, Outclassed But Managed To Qualify - Guardian UK by aremubabs: 3:17pm On Aug 07, 2023
The English team was outclassed and outplayed, and left clutching for dear life. Penalties saved them.
Sports › Re: England Women Were Outplayed, Outclassed But Managed To Qualify - Guardian UK by aremubabs: 3:16pm On Aug 07, 2023
Osariemen12:
A nation led by a criminal drug lord will always have no luck on her side. I knew Falcons were homebound when a woman who had sex routinely with a drug lord openly supported them. Better days ahead, dearest Falcons. Not under this criminal though drug baron though.
The D'Tigress recently won the AfroBasket Championship under the same so-called drug lord.


So shut up, and stop politicizing everything.
Sports › Re: Nigeria Vs England: FIFA Women's World Cup 2023. (2 - 4)pens On 7th August 2023 by aremubabs: 11:55am On Aug 07, 2023
The reason why this defeat is hard to swallow is because the girls played so well. We knew they could have beaten those English girls. At a point, the match was theirs to lose.



But kudos to the girls. No true Nigerian can say he or she was not proud of today's display.




Our general performance in this World Cup is also encouraging. We bowed out without a loss. 3 clean sheets in 4 matches. 3 draws and 1 win. Beautiful overall performance.



We must not forget that we played 4 quality opponents and yet bowed out unbeaten.
Celebrities › Re: by aremubabs: 6:52am On Aug 07, 2023
Sounds like he said, "Family and God, I just burnt down my mansion. Can't wait to join you soon in the U.S.
Politics › Re: Niger Coup: Tinubu, ECOWAS In Dilemma On Deadline Day by aremubabs: 6:39am On Aug 07, 2023
tuoyoojo:
Chief, that's politics for you

It's all about interest

I feel for Tinubu because I don't see how he can escape this pickle without hurting himself

If he doesn't the bidding of the west, west Africa would burn, if he sits on the fence, no more medical trip for him and the west would see that they have no use for him and would ginger opposition to kick him out
This is the exact situation of things. More like a Tinubu dilemma.
Politics › Re: Niger Coup: Tinubu, ECOWAS In Dilemma On Deadline Day by aremubabs: 6:30am On Aug 07, 2023
tuoyoojo:
Chief, wars are all about interest. Mali, Chad, and the other countries that had coups did not have any true significance to the west.

Niger on the other hand is of great importance. Asides the uranium, the Gas pipeline that links Morocco from Nigeria runs thru it.

This Gas pipeline is the trump card the west wants to use to water down the influence of Russia. Russia would want to keep its monopoly so they would not want that pipeline to work. Niger calling on Russia is all the invitation they need

One coup to many is just a smoke screen bro. What was the smoke screen for US to invade Iraq.....weapon of mass destruction.....did they find anything.....ur answer is as good as mine
OK. I just had a rethink while reading your post.



It might be possible that France advised ECOWAS to make a military intervention.




France is never to be trusted, anyway.



I wonder what ECOWAS would do now. Their reputation is hanging by a thread.
Politics › Re: Niger Coup: Tinubu, ECOWAS In Dilemma On Deadline Day by aremubabs: 6:05am On Aug 07, 2023
tuoyoojo:
4 coups had happened and nobody said anything because the interest of the west was not massively threatened in those countries.

Niger is of strategic importance became of the uranium they have and the gas pipeline that passes through Niger from Nigeria to Morocco that would supply Europe, effectively cutting out Russia and ending their monopoly

The west nor send us, na der interest them dey protect.

We better be wise.

Any reason they are putting forward to meddle in another country's affairs is purely to look good for the cameras

Who is bearing the brunt of Russia Ukraine war, who bore the brunt of Libyan war, who is still reeling from the Iraq and Afghanistan wars

We better use out tongue to count our teeth
This has nothing to do with the West. The West became interested only after ECOWAS issued an invasion threat.



Also, one cannot blame ECOWAS for being particular about the Nigerien coup. That is one coup too many. Of course, it is enough to make governments of member states jittery. Is military rule becoming fashionable again?



The only mistake ECOWAS made was issuing an invasion threat so early. I suspect that threat came from a place of fear. But still, it was a most foolish thing to do. Now, they are in a dilemma.



If they back out, they would lose the little respect they had managed to garner over the years, especially from their many misconducts in Liberia, especially.




If they call for negotiations, they would inspire potential coupists to take action across the region.




I wonder what ECOWAS would do now.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 5:04am On Aug 07, 2023
safarigirl:
Anyway, not for the first time, we have once again seen that women DO NOT support women


It is just performative rubbish. It is women that are championing this slander of Doyin, it is women that championed the attack against Ilebaye. Women supporting women has been a huge joke on this show. They have slutshamed each other, maligned each other, used all manner of gutter language on each other.

Yet, the moment a man says that all of them are stupid and they should leave them to fight like the rabid animals they are, somebody will come and be shouting "misogyny!" Abi na "massoginy" like WhiteMoney says.

These women are disgusting, classist, pretentious condescending idiots and none of them deserve to win this show.


Of them all though, that fake, women's rights 419 feminist, Angel is the worst. She is the most fraudulent of them all, a true fake feminist.
Words of wisdom.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 7:49pm On Aug 06, 2023
Threebear:
Princess and Seyi I think.
Might be, truly.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 7:42pm On Aug 06, 2023
Frodd or Seyi probably were in the bottom.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 6:26pm On Aug 06, 2023
EmmyCC:
When one ingredient is missing, it's enough to acquit a defendant in a criminal charge.
In that case, the law might have to ask Laycon if he felt threatened.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 6:14pm On Aug 06, 2023
EmmyCC:
So in all honesty, did Laycon feel threatened?
I only mentioned one of the ingredients. It doesn't mean that that is all it takes to establish a criminal case.



My point is that no one should treat a threat with levity. You should never underrate a threat to life.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 6:04pm On Aug 06, 2023
Laycon never played any pity game.



You can just say grace found him.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 5:57pm On Aug 06, 2023
EmmyCC:
One of the ingredients would be if the person was in a position to carry out the threat. The law also understands that things are said in heat at times. Portable was never provoked by his co nominees so his is a different game.
That is not an ingredient.



In fact, a part of what the law needs to establish a crime is if the person who was so threatened feels threatened.



You are never to treat a threat to life with levity.




And even so, Erica was in a position to carry out her threat. There were many objects within her reach in the house which could easily serve as her weapon. There were knives in the kitchen, for example.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 4:03pm On Aug 06, 2023
safarigirl:
Okay, so, which section does it fall under in Biggie's rule book, which the housemates are subjected to?
Biggie's rulebook concerning violence.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 3:37pm On Aug 06, 2023
safarigirl:
Which section of the Constitution or Criminal code are you quoting, if I may ask?

For something to be Criminal, it has to be filed as a crime somewhere. So, back up your assertions with the law whenever you're ready
Threat to life is a criminal offence according to Section 56 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2015. According to Section 56, “Threatening Violence. By the provision of this section, a person who threatens to carry out the violence of attacking another person is guilty of a misdemeanor and can be jailed for one year”.



When Portable made a threat at fellow nominees for a Headies Award, he was asked by the organizers of the Headies to either retract the threat or be reported to the police.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 3:26pm On Aug 06, 2023
safarigirl:
Threatening to stab is still words. It does not carry the weight of actually physically approaching someone to touch them.

Maybe if she has carried a knife and approached Laycon, it would have been equal to what Ilebaye did.
It is a criminal threat.




Criminal threat has 3 key factors.



1. It must be communicated. Erica communicated it. It was not implied. She communicated it.


2. It must be specific: She was specific. She would stab him.



3. It must be unambiguous: The threat was clear. I will get you is ambiguous. I will stab you is a clear, unambiguous threat.
Politics › Re: Nigerian Skyscraper Built 400 Yrs Before Colonialism by aremubabs: 12:18pm On Aug 06, 2023
Nebes:
One of the reasons the colonizers had so much respect for the northern elites. They saw them as more civilized than the people of the south.
Big lie.



The colonialists liked the Northerners because they were easier to govern. All the colonialists did was govern the people through their emirs.




On the contrary, the South was far more advanced in politics and all.




The Yorubas were already practicing checks and balances before the colonialists came. They already had a parliamentary system of government with the Alaafin as Head of State and the Bashorun as Prime Minister.




The Igbos were already practicing direct democracy with an Okpara representing his family in the village square.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 11:41am On Aug 06, 2023
Onyi99:
Pulling of face, grabbing of neck, if this isn't grounds for disqualification I don't know what is, people have been disqualified for less eg Erica,Tacha and Beauty.

Biggie do the needful please 🚶
Those individuals had bagged some strikes.




Ilebaye would get a strike or two. Outright qualifications would be too harsh.
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Naija “All Stars“ 2023: Live Updates Thread by aremubabs: 11:38am On Aug 06, 2023
safarigirl:
Delusion, delusion, severe, delusion. Na wetin una dey tell una selves for group chat be this?

Erica wants to flirt, she no see Prince or Neo to flirt with, na that skrep boy she go use?

Anyway, once again, this is why women should not smile too much with men. Once you're nice to conventionally unattractive Men, they start assuming you actually like them or are interested in them. Nobody is as deluded as a man.
Imagine someone like you talking about another person being conventionally unattractive.




And to crown the idiocy, you had to include that unnecessary last sentence.




This proves me right that some ugly people have high self esteem.

1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 (of 34 pages)