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From that money, give your aunt 5k or 10k
10k for you and the rest 25 - 30 thousands you must put in an account. Then at the end of the 12 months you can start talking about leaving.

justmi1:
i appreciate your contribution, but only the person wearing the shoe knows where it hurts, yes free stuffs, only if you have an idea what i go through, i literally dont have time for my self, yet complains here and there, and if 27 is not old enough for me to leave, is it when i am 30?

No, sell everything and save the money for when you are ready to go back.
New wife to manage kini?
Better pitch your tent in entirety with your wife o Isreal.

When you are married for 20 years, you both owned whatever is acquired during the course of the marriage. I'm talking about civilized society which they both lived in.

refreshrate:
How do you know they both built the house?
Some women just begin to have sense of entitlement because they married the man.

Human beings are good at making simple things complicated. If you don't want to marry anymore, go through the legal process of divorce, share properties and move on. Why the secret wedding? Why should you give her the keys to the home/house you and your wife built? Some people don't know how to give common respect to others. They didn't learn anything from life overseas...just how to make money.
Giving second wife access to the home you built with your wife is bad. You can start her up in a simple rented apartment out of respect for your ex wife.
Enjoy the money you both worked hard for where you are based. Buy the best home and pay off your mortgage. When "it's time to go", build one.

ummm, dancing Mississippi Shuffle/scuffle

Problem with face me I face you housings. No toilet so people make the nearest bush their place to off load.

No, you shouldn't. this is a good time to move on. Rest assured that he is bad mouthing you too maybe with the third gal.
He is a player and best you find your way "now"

Na so o.
I take style click am and come dey read say brother get another wife and 3 children for home con dey use dem dey file tax. Madam come vex double vexation sef ( you no tell me say you marry before plus get children and you come cheat uncle Sam join). Madam call IRS tell them. IRS say Oya pay back. Ummmm simple thing as pay and move on...uwa di egwu.

KanwuliaExtra:
*whistles*


Phewwww phewwwwwwwww!!!!

Na de tory be dat?

Beautiful lady. ..RIP

Brothers, divorce is not the end...time heals so let it go when your wife wants out.

Yeah, from the name, i suspect Edo too Benin man to be precise. Just simple thing as paying back IRS. Which kin vexation be that now

baby124:
Sounds like a SS name. I suspect Edo. Eats ko to be precise

Cell phone is really cheap in naija.

Unfortunately, they have to accept it that way to thrive in the west or on planet earth

TheArchangel:
Not many can stand the switching of family roles especially our black African men with the traditional tags.

Modified

Ummmm, deceitfulness in the highest order. Married with 3 children in Nigeria without telling your new wifey . Using the naija based children for tax

Yes, it is enough justification. What is wrong with a lifetime of condoms ?
So having more child than you can care for is best ?
Smart woman, she should be commended.

pentag0nal:
While I understand your points, is this enough justification for a woman to sentence her husband to a lifetime of condoms?

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His cooking nakid of course. Best food ever

Both should be working at the time of marriage.
No marriage if both of them are not working.
No children if only one is working.
Housework and child raising should be for both.

Let's nominate her for the CNN Hero award.

CNNHeroes.com

lol

Abiagirl777:
my husband got cured of his addiction to suya the day he saw the malam slice his fingers mistakenly,blood trickled in with the onion he was slicing.he went on to package his bloodied suya for the person before my husband. naso my husband run.
that's one way HIV could be transmitted, the guy doesn't look at suya again

The fake patriotism is one reason why Nigeria is not moving forward. They want everything is be hush hushed. Keeping quiet and say nothing. They don't know how to maintain anything. Some schools here were built in the early18th century....still standing and looking fresh while my own UI is wearing a tired look.
OP, stay where you are o. This is no time to go or don't bother going at least not now. Go visit, bring back many food e.g okporoko, egusi enu ale, ogbono, dried fish, bonga, cray fish, suya spices, spices etc and live like a Nigerian wherever you are.
Even if it is cleaning job you are doing, you still see the worth of your labor/$/€/£ cleaning shitless and stainless toilet.

bebe2:
An the most annoying thing is dathat some people want to be uneccessarrily patriotic.

The bolded brought tears to my eyes. The primary schpol I attended is now unrecognisable. No more roof on half the class.

It's a hopelesss situation even wen they pretend to building a road, or school give it two years and the place is back to the condition it started

That country is not progressing. You wouldn't recognize a place after only mere two years of leaving that place. A small manageable good road you used to know would be all covered up in mud and pot holes large enough to swallow target trucks and caterpillars
Common Lagos Ibadan express way no one could work on to make it two well made lanes.
one step forward ten steps backward with Nigeria.
Ummmmm dreaming of the day when we will have Texas/CA style roads/freeways in Nigeria until then, not yet uhuru.
Stop by your elem/high sch, the city hosp....etc those places you used to know sigh sigh.

Abeg o wetin poor guy go use cheat ? Agege bread?
Biko, tails get lengths

cococandy:
Those saying it serves her right for marrying a man with money. Yeah right!
Like poor guys don't cheat if they want to.
Anyway the man is most likely an asshole.
So Good riddance.

In Nigerian, can students with financial difficulties leave school for a year and go back/continue the following year ?

Scan your $$ bank account let's see ngwa. Val dey come as KanwuliaExtra talk reach and send FYI so na come closer you go use toast? smh
All these aka gum wey dey toast and pinch sef.

Qualer:
ngwanu, come closer for detailed 'kpekusiary observation'

I don dey suspect this person wey like ikpu. Cococandy, you know am?

Synzu:
Thought you said I was missing out??
Otu ya gbakwa dia she wantu give me sumtin to hold for her

Pinching can be painful especially during period.
Romance me softly baby, everything on and in me is living

She is indirectly telling you two steps forward and one step backward. Meaning be ahead and get ready to vamoose

for her to dance.

Creamish:
...and he holds the bouquet of flowers..

You got it, we shall overcome this puffy one day

zaynie:

Try and gimme hope now.

thank you. You should see the assorted yeasts in my cabinet.
I used the fast action yeast last week. It came out okay but for the running dough jelly in the middle which was due to overly hot oil. I left the oil go take care of one small business

cococandy:
Hahaha
Really?

I wonder what could be the matter.
Maybe it's from the yeast.
You know you could use 'fast action yeast' instead of 'active dry yeast' if that one is proving difficult.
Some of those different types of yeasts can affect the end result.